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During a group chant/meditation my arms and legs went completely

numb. I found it horribly difficult to concentrate and found myself

becoming more and more angry. I changed positions and found that the

chant was causing the anger to build even more. Sitting there in

the middle of class I suddenly felt alienated and like I didn't

belong there...my hands started to shake and I was trembling from my

core. I quietly rolled up my mat and left feeling like a failure

but felt that to stay would have been disrepectful to my teacher.

 

Does anyone relate to this happening? Anything similar happen to

you? Any thoughts would be appreciated.

 

Sat Nam,

Mary Kathryn

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Hi Mary Kathryn,

 

It sounds like you were experiencing an emotional release. I have had

similar experiences and know how confusing and even scary they can

be. However they are wonderful opportunities for releasing emotions.

Chanting is known to cause these cathartic releases and many teachers

are aware of this and would encourage you to stay with the emotion

and be aware of it. I would encourage you to speak with your teacher

about this incident and see what she says.

 

The most important thing for you to know is that this is a completely

natural response. You may wish to try and tap into that same feeling

of numbness/anger in a theraputic environment where you can examine

it further.

 

Much love to you,

Kassandra

 

 

Kundaliniyoga, "yogaonthego"

<yogaonthego> wrote:

> During a group chant/meditation my arms and legs went completely

> numb. I found it horribly difficult to concentrate and found

myself

> becoming more and more angry. I changed positions and found that

the

> chant was causing the anger to build even more. Sitting there in

> the middle of class I suddenly felt alienated and like I didn't

> belong there...my hands started to shake and I was trembling from

my

> core. I quietly rolled up my mat and left feeling like a failure

> but felt that to stay would have been disrepectful to my teacher.

>

> Does anyone relate to this happening? Anything similar happen to

> you? Any thoughts would be appreciated.

>

> Sat Nam,

> Mary Kathryn

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Sat Nam Mary Kathryn,

 

I would just add to what Kassandra so

aptly expressed...that you don't ever have

to "worry" about how a "teacher" will feel based

on how you are feeling in a class.....a students

behavior is never "personal" to the "teacher"

(meaning, they don't take your feelings

personally) the student experiences it

personally, but the teacher doesn't ....(that doesn't

mean there isn't an effect for every cause, you put

into effect, whether it be in action or thought...we

still are responsible for our behavior....but...teacher's

expect students to be stirred up inside and to

act crazy sometimes...if you are truly a "teacher"

you understand this process...because at some

point you had to have experienced it as well, to

have experienced any evolution in your life.

 

When a person sits down and chants Ong namo

Guru Dev Namo as a teacher...they embody the

essence of the teacher in that moment...they are

there to foster an experience of growth through

presence and the teachings they share with the

class.....a natural outcome of this would be that

the students limitations gets stirred up so they can

become aware of them and heal them, as Kassandra

has said.

 

If a teacher becomes stirred by a students reaction

within a class...it should become grist for that teacher's

mill...because they too have experienced where there

own limitation lies...in being impersonally, personal.

 

I share this experience with you as well...as I am

sure everyone has at some point....you're not alone!

 

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Mary Kathryn,

When we don't feel good about our anger and don't feel empowered

about expressing our fire. When on some deep level our expressions

(sometimes aggressive, which is not bad) are thwarted by thoughts of

guilt and too much "consideration" (anger directed at the self), our

arms and legs, and more, will show numbness and other symptoms of

"dis-integration" and alienation. You gained some good awareness from

this experience. A few things came to the surface. Persistent anger,

more often than not, is something that keeps us from having a

relationship with "the self". Check it out, next time you're feeling

great (after a good Sadhana, maybe) watch what happens when your

thoughts turn to those of annoyance or irritation at another driver or

some other mammal. It's subtle, sometimes. It can be so habitual. What

how quickly your energy gets dispersed and "how" that sense of

"connectedness" just vaporizes.

What does good anger look like? For me, anger that comes from

supporting my heart felt feelings feels pretty integrated. It comes as a

part of an expression of the healthy emotions of love and affection and

is not sticky.

Within Yoga practice, the tuning-in process

(kundalini yogakyt03.html ) will create that space of

love and affection and within that space, balance can take place as we

have linked beyond our subjective self.

Meditation is not for the faint at heart. I could not ever do a

meditation without having done my yoga....This is true for many people.

Without an integrated navel sense I would be headin' for the hills in a

New York minute.

You might want to try the Kriya for Inner Anger. I will send at your

request.

Until then, there is much you can do. Gurpranam. Triangle pose. Navel

work. Warriors Tension release and other Kriyas where you get to pound

the floor (ask Ranjit about these) Running in place with a punching motion.

Basically, find that place where anger feels integrated. That should

keep you busy for a weekend.

Hope this helps,

Sat Nam

Dharam Singh

 

yogaonthego wrote:

 

> During a group chant/meditation my arms and legs went completely

> numb. I found it horribly difficult to concentrate and found myself

> becoming more and more angry. I changed positions and found that the

> chant was causing the anger to build even more. Sitting there in

> the middle of class I suddenly felt alienated and like I didn't

> belong there...my hands started to shake and I was trembling from my

> core. I quietly rolled up my mat and left feeling like a failure

> but felt that to stay would have been disrepectful to my teacher.

>

> Does anyone relate to this happening? Anything similar happen to

> you? Any thoughts would be appreciated.

>

> Sat Nam,

> Mary Kathryn

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