How does KY recommed us to teach/handle kids mis-behaviour

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SAT NAM

 

I would like to understand some of the better ways at

handling kids when they mis-behave.

 

Recently, I noticed my 5yr old daughter repeat a

mistake which enraged me a lot.

Later, I realized that she takes time to understand

things and wasnt doing it intentionally. I felt very

sorry for that.

I never experienced this before and noticed a lot of

anger, resentment arising in me.

Mostly, I try not be angry at her and try my best to

make her understand but sometimes it hurts when they

dont really understand even after so much trial.

 

 

So , I would like to know how we can bring a change

lovingly in their consciouness so that they really

understand and do not repeat the same things again and

again.

 

Thanks for your advice.

AKkama

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> SAT NAM Akkama,

 

Recently, I noticed my 5yr old daughter repeat a

mistake which enraged me a lot.

Later, I realized that she takes time to understand

things and wasnt doing it intentionally. I felt very

sorry for that.

 

"The first thing our kids teach us is that there is life outside ourselves.

Besides 5 yr old kids don´t make mistakes. Mistakes are judgments created by

our patterns of behaviour. Kids at this age dont really fully understand

subjective reality. She could only understand reality through the feelings

you have the ability to transmit such as love, rage or else. "

 

> I never experienced this before and noticed a lot of

> anger, resentment arising in me.

> Mostly, I try not be angry at her and try my best to

> make her understand but sometimes it hurts when they

> dont really understand even after so much trial.

 

" Also through our kids our own childhood feelings come out. Feelings of

frustration, anger or anything hidden inside us. Pay special attention to

the fact that you have a daughter, a woman, a young and lovely flower that

naturally loves you. Instead of being hurt because she does not understand

you try to find your childish side or try to communicate on her level.

Nowadays children are treated almost as adults but they are not. They

understand things through jokes, games or a playfull way. "

 

> So , I would like to know how we can bring a change

> lovingly in their consciouness so that they really

> understand and do not repeat the same things again and

> again.

 

"Your truthful desire to understand the little members of your family is

what counts. Children sometimes repeat one thing over and over and again

because they want to show us something. She may be trying to tell you

something. So, reverse your position. When we are parents we sometimes think

we know all but THEY are the new life at home and sometimes teasing,

intriguing but never boring. Her consciousness will come after your examples

of love, patience and lots of humour."

 

I truthfully hope to have helped your young father´s destiny.

SOTANTER KAUR

Rio de Janeiro, Brazil

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dear fellow brother / sister

 

Anger not ypur child,the main universe negative is marking you angry with

your child infact alWAYS spread your love "no matter " how they preformed

with your deep understanding,Anger is ONE enemy which will get us to even

our nearest love one when One practise Mantra chanting / meditiatioons,If we

can see this and treat it very likely and deep understanding with smile al

will be GOne.There are many practisioner whom practises med.but ending up

with internal anger with close ones or associate/good friends.Don't like

this over come you.Showner them with more inner loves and compassion of

explainations will dissolve all things.If you want to scould them .do it

with immediate explaination "BUT" WITHOUT ANGER!!!!!?????

REGARDS

LIM

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Re: Kundalini Yoga How does KY recommed us to teach/handle kids

mis-behaviour

IF ANYONE WOULD POST MORE ON PARENTING THAT WOULD BE MUCH APPRECITED. I HAVE

THE BOOK 'THE SEVEN SPIRITUAL LAWS OF PARENTING' BY DEPAK CHOPRA AND IT IS

AMAZING.

SAT NAM,

ANG

ALBERTA,CANADA

[Guest guest]

Thank you very much for your responses on how to teach

kids.

Great. I will try to incorporate my best and watch

myself.

Akkama

 

 

 

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