How does KY recommed us to teach/handle kids mis-behaviour

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I cannot reply from a KY point of view, but as a mother of two little

boys I know how hard it is sometimes to not feel anger. It wasnt

untill I became a mother that I felt how much anger there was in

me; anger I had to learn to deal with. One great, great help has

been, and still is, the email list of positive parenting- discipline.

>From all the great mothers on this list I learn to teach my children

all about life in a kind, respectful and firm way. To respected and

teach my children tools for managing their behavior. to teach

them life skills and habits of self control.

.. Firm does not mean to be harsh but to be consistant, and to

take action according to your words. For more information on

positive parenting I would advise you to check out the site of one

of the members http://joanneaz_2.tripod.com/

it is a great site with a lot of information.

 

Then I want to wish you all the very best for 2004. I am only a

member since a couple of months and with my two little

monkies progress in KY goes sooooo slow, but I am making

progress, and I am learning a lot from you all on this list. Thank

you very much

Sija Zobi

Istanbul

 

n 19/12/2003 22:44, akkamahadevi avanti at

akku96 wrote:

 

> SAT NAM

>

> I would like to understand some of the better ways at

> handling kids when they mis-behave.

>

> Recently, I noticed my 5yr old daughter repeat a

> mistake which enraged me a lot.

> Later, I realized that she takes time to understand

> things and wasnt doing it intentionally. I felt very

> sorry for that.

> I never experienced this before and noticed a lot of

> anger, resentment arising in me.

> Mostly, I try not be angry at her and try my best to

> make her understand but sometimes it hurts when they

> dont really understand even after so much trial.

>

>

> So , I would like to know how we can bring a change

> lovingly in their consciouness so that they really

> understand and do not repeat the same things again and

> again.

>

> Thanks for your advice.

> AKkama