Experiencing Lots of Conflict with People

[Guest guest]

Sat Nam Pete,

 

Learning how to remain calm can be difficult when it comes to

confrontations and arguments especially within the corporate arena,

friendships, crowded transportation, traffic, etc., and remaining

calm can be difficult, but it's definitely an opportunity to work on

our compassion towards those whom we do not agree with and visa

versa.

 

Yes, spiritually, one can and eventually will learn how to handle

life's daily challenges that spontaneously confront us, in a neutral

and positive way; Kundalini Yoga does just that. It help us to

develop that quality within us, and gives us the knowledge to

realize and understand a negative scenario, as well as how to handle

it in the most positive light for all concerned. However, depending

on the level of conflict/abuse and discomfort/safety one is

subjected to, whether it's at the office, marriage, or home

life, "hanging in there" may not be the most healthy solution for

those involved; especially if the abuse continues to escalate and

all positive measures taken were unable to provide relief.

 

Blessings,

mvghm

 

 

Hi

Is the big life lesson (or part of it) that Dharam referred to, to

teach

those people who used to try to dominate one with their negative

emotions,

that they can't do it anymore? One can't always avoid their presence.

Perhaps by "hanging in there" calmly one is actually holding a

mirror out

for them to see themselves, making it uncomfortable for them.

Perhaps they

too can learn from the experience.

Chela Shanti

Pretoria

[Guest guest]

Hi M

Thank you for making me see a bigger picture: I must admit

that I didn't have extreme situations in mind when I replied to Stephene's

email, only to the latter, specific situation and my own experience.

Chela Shanti