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Sat Nam Kris!

 

When anger is released through energy centers often a rash will appear. Anger

in Ayurveda is a Pitta emotion, we are still in Pitta season, and you are

purposely trying to rid yourself of inner anger. Gururattan Kaur has let us know

of the big emotions coming forth due to the full moon. Remember under the

safer emotion of anger lies FEAR! You are progressing! As for the rash, try

cilantro in a blender with a little spring water. Apply it to the rash/hives

topically, you may also drink the rest. The rash will also just disappear on

it's own

as emotions continue to be released. Peppermint tea is cooling as is lunar

breath. Swimming in a lake or moon bathing is also helpful. I have more dosha

balancing tips for the season on www.skyoftheheartyoga.com.

Many blessings to you, keep up!

Guru Ravi Kaur

 

 

 

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Gururattan Kaur,

I have been practicing what you described, moving into the energy and

feeling it. Today I had deep sadness and grief come up after seeing a

man in class with whom I feel unrequited love. I sat on the bed and

sobbed a little bit, and felt the churning in my solar plexus, and

the rejection in my heart. My dog came up and layed next to me,

looking concerned. I thanked her for her uncoditional love and

compassion, just let the tears flow, and then got up. It's made me

see the pattern of emotional distance from men that I've experienced.

I'm hoping to clear it. The daily sadhana pushes me to feel what I've

repressed.

Stephenie

 

> Dear Kris,

>

> I just wanted to add to what I wrote and the suggestions of Chris.

>

> If you are thinking about fearful situations then you are in your

head. But

> if you simply experience the energy of fear without a story then

you are

> closer to the primal energy that you must deal with. Anger is also

a primal

> energy that one can experience and not even have a reason why.

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Dear Gururattan

 

I found this email that you sent to Kris most interesting as I am at

present trying to deal with and rid my body of fear. Earlier in the

year I was diagnosed with IBS and it has effected my mind so much

that I am now scared everytime I must go to dinner with friends for

the fear of becoming ill in front of them at their place or at a

restaurant. This feeling of fear never happens if I have people to my

house because I am in my own place I suppose and I feel safe and in

control. When I begin to feel sacred I feel nausea and I just want to

get out of wherever I am. I am never physically sick, but my mnd

keeps telling me I might be. I am going to try to "befriend" this

primal energy using the advice you gave kris - but is there anything

other advice you can offer someone in my position. A specific KY

technique I can practice every day perhaps?

 

sat nam

 

Julie

 

 

 

Kundaliniyoga, "Gururattan Kaur Khalsa"

<gururattan> wrote:

> Dear Kris,

>

> I just wanted to add to what I wrote and the suggestions of Chris.

>

> If you are thinking about fearful situations then you are in your

head. But

> if you simply experience the energy of fear without a story then

you are

> closer to the primal energy that you must deal with. Anger is also

a primal

> energy that one can experience and not even have a reason why.

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Dear Stephenie,

 

> I have been practicing what you described, moving into the energy and

feeling it.

 

* This is great!

 

Today I had deep sadness and grief come up

 

* Excellent that you got into the feelings and were with them.

 

after seeing a man in class with whom I feel unrequited love. I sat on the

bed and sobbed a little bit

 

* Good to be this honest with yourself.

 

and felt the churning in my solar plexus, and the rejection in my heart.

 

* Yes, you felt it in your body and stuck with it. Great progress.

 

My dog came up and layed next to me, looking concerned. I thanked her for

her uncoditional love and

> compassion

 

* Thank God for dogs and their big hearts. One of my goals in life is to be

as compassionate as my dog.

 

just let the tears flow, and then got up. It's made me

> see the pattern of emotional distance from men that I've experienced.

 

* Now this is the best part! You let yourself be so present to your

feelings that you got a deep connection with a pattern that you have

perpetuated for many years. You got in touch with inner wisdom about how

have created a reality that does not serve you.

 

*Our habit is to get into some mental trip about our emotional experiences.

But we never get to the wisdom that you experienced.

 

> I'm hoping to clear it. The daily sadhana pushes me to feel what I've

repressed.

 

* You will clear it. But not so much by getting rid of something but by

replacing this old fear with a deep love of the Divine energy that you feel

inside yourself. Actually loving the energy transmutes it. There are so

many nuances to reach the same goal of feeling comfortable with a deep

energy inside yourself.

 

Good job. Keep going.

 

Sat nam,

 

Gururattan Kaur

San Diego, CA

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Dear All,

 

Please add where you are from after your name. Thanks.

 

Dear Julie,

 

> I found this email that you sent to Kris most interesting as I am at >

present trying to deal with and rid my body of fear.

 

* Perhaps it would serve you better to have your goal be to feel so safe

and strong inside yourself that you can go places and feel comfortable,

contained and relaxed.

 

Earlier in the > year I was diagnosed with IBS and it has effected my mind

so much

 

* The the problem now is your mind more than the IBS.

 

that I am now scared everytime I must go to dinner with friends for > the

fear of becoming ill in front of them at their place or at a restaurant.

This feeling of fear never happens if I have people to my house because I

am in my own place I suppose and I feel safe and in control.

 

* So this is the key point. You need to feel safe and in control in your

own body with your own emotions. This takes time but it is very possible to

cultivate a feeling of inner safety.

 

When I begin to feel sacred I feel nausea and I just want to get out of

wherever I am. I am never physically sick, but my mnd keeps telling me I

might be.

 

* There is the mind part and the emotion part. For the mind part you need

to cultivate the neutral mind. It is your negative mind linked up with the

postive mind that is sabotaging you. (I highly recommend THE MIND book by

Yogi Bhajan that you can get on www.yogatech.com It is very insightful and

very healing just to read these words. See chapter 2) The neutral mind

evaluates without getting into the drama.

 

I am going to try to "befriend" this primal energy using the advice you

gave kris

 

* Great!

 

- but is there anything other advice you can offer someone in my position.

A specific KY

> technique I can practice every day perhaps?

 

* ONe great meditation is Kirtan Kriya or SA TA NA MA meditation. As you do

this be very present to the emotions in your solar plexus or wherever you

feel them. This meditation clears the subconscious and if you feel the

emotions that are part of the program at the same time, it is even more

effective.

 

Get us posted.

 

Sat nam,

 

Gururattan Kaur

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