Honouring the feminine aspect / Self-love

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Dear Dharam & Gururattan,

 

Thanks for your inputs on honouring the feminine aspect. I have one

confusion. As a working woman one has to "talk, analyse and think". Should I

keep making a shift between "feel and be in the body" and "think". In a

working environment how does one balance between the two.

 

Another issue I wanted your advise on -- I always feel unwanted wherever I

go. I am an unmarried Indian woman living alone and working in East Africa.

Does this have anything to do with my aura. Or is it a lack of "self-love"

that Gururattan spoke of in her latest issue of NM Being. Gururattan, I

would like you to dwell on this a little more. What kind of actions would

constitute acts of self-love. For example, I find it easier to spend on

others than splurge on myself. Is this non-self love?

 

Sat Nam

Theresa

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Dear Theresa,

 

> Thanks for your inputs on honouring the feminine aspect. I have one>

confusion. As a working woman one has to "talk, analyse and think". Should I

> keep making a shift between "feel and be in the body" and "think". In a

working environment how does one balance between the two.

 

* It takes time to get to the consciousness where you are thinking from

your heart, but it is very effective in the working environment. With your

intuition turned on, you can read situations and know exactly what to do.

Feeling your feelings helps activate the intuition. Then the instincts and

the intuition work as one. This doesn't mean that you will not think. Just

that you will think better.

 

>

> Another issue I wanted your advise on -- I always feel unwanted wherever I

go. I am an unmarried Indian woman living alone and working in East Africa.

> Does this have anything to do with my aura.

 

* The more radiant your aura the more you can feel self love because you

fall in love with the feeling.

 

Or is it a lack of "self-love" that Gururattan spoke of in her latest issue

of NM Being. Gururattan, I

> would like you to dwell on this a little more. What kind of actions would

constitute acts of self-love.

 

* It is less the actions than the feelings. You need to cultivate a strong

aura and radiant body and then it will be easier to feel something to love.

Also any other positive sensations in your body. Keep doing KY. You will

build this feeling inside yourself.

 

For example, I find it easier to spend on

> others than splurge on myself. Is this non-self love?

 

* No. Maybe you like to give gifts and enjoy giving. Maybe you don't want

to clutter you life with more things. That does not indicate a lack of self

love. Maybe that is smart. :+) But do watch and see why you buy things for

others. If it is to try to get approval, attention or love, then you need

your neutral mind to let you know and change your strategy. Give only from

the heart, just to give.

 

Sat Nam,

 

Gururattan Kaur