Can one truly take control and decide the time of their own death?

[Guest guest]

Thank you for all of the helpful posts concerning my daughter.

My daughter has now been in the hospital for 15 days. By law since she is a

danger to herself she must stay in the hospital and take the medication that is

prescribed to her till the psychiatrist, etc. decide she will most likely not

attempt suicide.

 

I had a meeting with her today and the dr.'s and she admitted she would not tell

me if she wanted to commit suicide because then she will be unable to do so.

 

My yoga question is this. My understanding is that no death, etc. is by accident

and that the timing is what was agreed about prior to this lifetime.

Can a person by will really have control over that? Their time of death? Does

not a guardian angel prevent such a thing?

 

The hospital did have yoga for those suffering from depression, etc. but due to

construction this is temporarily stopped.

Blessings,

Sangeet

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

My dear Sat Sangeet,

 

I agree with you, however, God gave us free-will to CHANGE our karma,

less we repeat karma over and over, accumalating debt and sufferring,

OR move UP to higher levels of consciousness by the choices we make in

EVERY NOW of our lives.

 

In Love, Light, and Many Blessings,

Nirmal Kaur

> My yoga question is this. My understanding is that no death, etc. is

by accident and that the timing is what was agreed about prior to this

lifetime.

> Can a person by will really have control over that? Their time of

death? Does not a guardian angel prevent such a thing?

[Guest guest]

Sat Nam Sangeet,

As always this is only my experience based on my similar experiences. Disregard

them if

you wish.

It is my understanding that Guardian Angels will never impose their will on

anyone. they

will lovingly, gently coax, but the individual must be willing to listen.

 

I am pleased to hear that your daughter is still being monitored. It sounds as

though the

doctors understand her condition and that she is in the best place right now. I

hope that

they allow her to practice yoga in there, if that is what she wants. Yoga is

fabulous

however, the first requirement for Kundalini yoga is the desire for awareness.

If someone

does not have that desire, yoga will not give it to them. Your desire to save

your daughter

is admirable and understandable. But haven't you done all you can? As I read

your posts

concerning this, I must honestly say that I am as concerned for your mental and

spiritual

well being as hers. Are you seeking counseling for yourself? Focusing on your

recovery

through this is the most helpful and healing thing you can do for your daughter.

By

focusing on her and what she is or isn't going to do may be actually making it

more

difficult for your daughter's spirit to heal. You might want to ask her or the

doctors if she

feels pressured. Feeling pressured might make it harder for her to heal.

Another approach might be that when you next see or talk to your daughter, don't

ask her

if she's going to kill herself. Don't try and fix her. Just talk to her in the

moment and love

her. take her mind off her suicidal desires, (I'm sure the doctors are talking

about it plenty

with her) Give her the feeling that she is a free soul and that you have no

expectations on

her. Give her some breathing room to grasp and face her feelings and heal on her

own. It's

ultimately out of your control anyway. If she's determined to commit suicide, no

power in

the Universe can stop her, so give her to God and let him help her. I hope this

didn't sound

too harsh. It comes from a place of love.

 

Just my thoughts based on my similar experiences. Do with them as you wish.

Blessings. light and love,

Shabad Singh

(Idaho)

 

Kundaliniyoga, Sangeet <sangeet@h...> wrote:

>

> Thank you for all of the helpful posts concerning my daughter.

> My daughter has now been in the hospital for 15 days. By law since she is a

danger to

herself she must stay in the hospital and take the medication that is prescribed

to her till

the psychiatrist, etc. decide she will most likely not attempt suicide.

>

> I had a meeting with her today and the dr.'s and she admitted she would not

tell me if

she wanted to commit suicide because then she will be unable to do so.

>

> My yoga question is this. My understanding is that no death, etc. is by

accident and that

the timing is what was agreed about prior to this lifetime.

> Can a person by will really have control over that? Their time of death? Does

not a

guardian angel prevent such a thing?

>

> The hospital did have yoga for those suffering from depression, etc. but due

to

construction this is temporarily stopped.

> Blessings,

> Sangeet

>

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