more about compulsion/addiction (a P.S. or two)

[Guest guest]

So much good input on this topic/concern. I'll just add to it.

 

1- Guru Gobind Singh said that Celibacy was having only one wife (or

husband).

This may seem sort of funny at first glance but it does speak to the

importance being a householder in the Sikh/Yogic approach to LIFE.

Sikhs are not re-nunciates (Nuns).

 

2- It's been mentioned that Yogiji said that men should not ejaculate

more than once a month. The way I heard it is if a man cannot

"transmute" his sexual energy than he should not have sex (w/

ejaculation) more than once a month.

The Taoists speak also of the seasons as having a bearing on how often a

man can ejaculate without draining and becoming a "nuisance" to himself .

(Mantak Chia -

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0943358191/qid=1124627598/sr=1-2/r\

ef=sr_1_2/002-7830677-0831249?v=glance&s=books

or

Jolan Chang

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0140193383/qid=1124627908/sr=2-1/r\

ef=pd_bbs_b_2_1/002-7830677-0831249?v=glance&s=books)

Age will have a tremendous bearing on all of this.

 

3- Some Links

http://www.sahej.com/Sexual_Liberation_is_No_Liberation.html

http://www.sahej.com/Sexual-energy.html

 

4- It's from a place of Gratitude that one will attract the right

partner. That person will appear when you least [expect] it. Expectation

is the Mother of frustration.

When your cup is so full that all you think about is emptying it, then

you can rest assured that you are dwelling in a state of Gratitude.

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

sat nam all!

i am travelling and just today had a chance to look quickly through all the

replies to my post. i didn't want you all to think i am ignoring the question!

thank you for all the thoughtful information. i'm looking forward to giving it

the attention it deserves when i get back home on sunday night.

it's very hot in the desert!! why do people live here?? there's no WATER!!

haha!!

xxxoo,

sue in tucson!