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Wow, that's great but any ideas how one can be a Brahmacharini and have

children also, as in references below to husband/family/children? Is this a

part time Brahmacharya or is it figurative and not literal? I'm confused.

 

Also, restraining myself from essaying on feminine archtypes here.. and

other touchy feelies. LOL

 

Jaya Mata!

 

> Message: 9

> Mon, 26 Jan 2004 20:49:52 +0530

> Bhattathiri <mpmahesh

> Amma The power of Brahmacharya

>

> Amma is a sourrce of divine energy because of Her Brahmacharya.

> Many women of yore had done miraculous deeds and shown to the world the

> power of chastity. Nalayini, by the power of chastity, stopped the rising

of

> the sun to save her husbands's life. Anasuya turned the Trimurtis-Brahma,

> Vishnu and Mahesvara-into babies when they wanted Nirvana Bhiksha. It is

> through the power of chastity only that she was able to turn the great

> deities into babies. Savitri brought back the life of Satyavan, her

husband,

> from the noose of Yama, by her chastity. Such is the power of chastity or

> Brahmacharya. Women who lead an ideal householder's life with chastity can

> also become like Anasuya, Nalayini or Savitri.

>

> Brahmacharinis-ancient and modern

> In olden days, there were Brahmacharinis in India. They were

Brahmavadinis;

> they discoursed on Brahman. They did not wish to lead the life of

> Grihastha-Dharminis devoted to a householder's duties. They served the

> Rishis and sages in their hermitages and did Brahma-Vichara or enquiry of

> Brahman. King Janasruti placed his daughter at the service of Rishi

Raikva.

> You will find this in the Chhandogya Upanishad.

>

> Gargi was also a Brahmacharini. She also was a highly cultured lady. She

> also had a lengthy discussion with Yajnavalkya on Brahma-Vidya. The

dialogue

> between them comes in the Brihadaranyaka Upanishad.

>

> In Europe also there were many women who were celibate and who dedicated

> their lives entirely to severe austerity, prayer and meditation. They had

> their own hermitages. In India, even at the present moment, there are

> educated women who lead the life of Brahmacharinis. They do not wish to

> marry. This is due to the force of good Samskaras of previous births. They

> give education to the girls in schools. They give free tuition privately

to

> poor girls and train them in sewing and other household works. They study

> religious books and practice meditation in the morning and in the evening.

> They do Kirtan. They keep a daily spiritual diary. They conduct Satsanga

> classes and Kirtan among women. They train girls in the practice of Asanas

> and Pranayama. They give discourses on the Gita and the Upanishads. They

> deliver lectures on the religious subjects in English, Sanskrit and Hindi.

> During holidays and on important occasions, they hold religious

conferences

> for ladies on a grand scale for mass spiritual awakening.

>

> Sometimes they visit nearby villages and distribute medicines freely to

the

> poor. They are equipped with the knowledge of first-aid, homoeopathy,

> allopathy and the bio-chemical system of medicine. They are trained in

> nursing the sick. There is a highly educated Brahmacharini, who is

> well-versed in Sanskrit, English and Hindi, who is the head of an

> institution for girls. She maintains a free private school also for poor

> girls at her own expense. This is a very noble service indeed.

>

> Such girls and women are really a blessing to India. They lead a life of

> purity and self-sacrifice. They enjoy bliss, prosperity and renown here

and

> will also attain the immortal abode of supreme peace hereafter. India is

in

> need of more Brahmacharinis of this description who can dedicate their

lives

> to service, meditation and prayer.

>

>

> The world is in dire need of such ideal women. I wish that the world may

> abound with such glorious women.

> Loose life is not perfect freedom. Some women of India have ruined

> themselves by taking advantage of this false freedom. There is no limit to

> the freedom, which the so-called educated woman enjoys now. This freedom

has

> caused many homes to be wrecked. It has created disorders in society. It

has

> brought shame on many respectable families. The girls, in their insatiable

> craving for freedom, have overstepped the limit and lost that priceless

> possession which the women of the past could keep untarnished.

>

> A call to spiritual life

> Ammaa advises women to walk in the path of righteousness. Preserve your

> Pativrata Dharma. See Divinity in your husband. Study the Gita, the

> Upanishads, Bhagavata and Ramayana. Become good Grihastha-Dharminis and

> Brahma-Vicharinis. Bring forth many Gourangas. The destiny of the world is

> entirely in your hands. You are holding the master-key of the world. Open

> the door of Elysian bliss. Bring Vaikuntha in your home. Train your

children

> in the spiritual path. Sow the spiritual seed when they are young.

>

> Be you all real Sannyasinis and bring real glory, real greatness, for that

> is real boldness and courage, that is real wisdom and understanding. A

woman

> is not a woman if she is devoid of spiritual fire in her, if she is

ignorant

> of a higher life in the Soul. A woman's duty is not merely family; her

duty

> is also to transcend the family. Her duty does not lie in sans, bangles,

> jackets, powders and scents. Her duty does not lie in getting employment

for

> her children. Her duty is also concerned with the Self, the Atman, the

> Brahman. Such a woman is a real symbol of God. She is to be adored, she is

> to be worshipped

>

>

>

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Mata Amritanadamayi says Bhakti is Love

 

Children, husband and wife should love and serve by seeing God in

each other. They should thus be ideal couples, models for their

children and for others. Good words and good deeds are the real

jewelsGod is love and love is God," But what is love? Love is

a word that is hopelessly misused and misunderstood. Does not love

basically signify a need of some kind, your love of this person of

that thing to satisfy your need? The love between a man and woman

satisfies the need, each for the other, whether it be physical, or

companionship, or comfort, or another need. If there is no longer

any need, love can turn to indifference, perhaps even hatred. Why do

people, married or otherwise, change partners so often, particularly

in the West? For the simple reason, I think, that they no longer

seem to satisfy each other's particular needs.

 

Karma [Work], Bhakti [Worship] and Jnana [Knowledge] are all equally

important in spiritual evolution.

 

Karma is necessary till one is able to get over his obsession with body. One

will have to weaken down the sway of his ego, make his heart more expansive

with concern for others. One should get over the feeling "I am just this

body' (Karma will also purify us of the "mala", the impurities of the mind).

 

In Bhakti, one's ego gets sublimated, he feels he is but a servant of God.

His emotions, thoughts, love-all get focused on God [alone]. He feels that

he is nobody and that God is all. [bhakti also helps us to quell the

Vikshepa", the agitation and turbulence in our mind].

 

In Jnana, one will have transcended all sense of separateness. He will

experience the essential oneness and unity of all existence. He sees God in

all and all in God, and his love encompasses all beings. He clearly

experiences the divine principle linking together all the creation. He feels

he is part and parcel of the divine whole. [Jnana will also dispel "Avarana"

and removes all the veils of ignorance, which have been depriving us of our

Atmic Vision and Awareness]. Thus Karma, Bhakti and Jnana are all necessary

to bring in total purification and regeneration of our mind and in our

attaining Self Realization.

Among all these Bhakti is the most essential for a devotee. Bhakti is the

utmost love.

Amma

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WOMEN AND CELIBACY (BRAHMACHARYA)

 

WOMEN AND BRAHMACHARYA

Is celibacy important to women also ?An aspirant writes: "I would like to

know whether the same theory regarding the formation of Veerya and loss of

the same holds good in the case of women also. Are they actually affected to

the same extent as men?" The question is an important and pertinent one.

Yes, indulgence in the sexual act is exhausting to the female system and a

drain upon the vitality as in man. The nervous strain it imposes on the

system is very great indeed.

The female gonads, the ovaries corresponding to the testes in the males,

produce, develop and mature precious, vital force like semen. This is the

ovum. Though the woman does not actually lose this out of her body, as in

the case of semen in man, yet, due to the sexual act, it leaves the ovaries

and is taken up in the process of conception to form the embryo. And one

knows only too well what a strain and drain on strength child-bearing is to

a woman. Repeated depletion of this force and the strain of childbirth makes

wrecks of healthy ladies, and works havoc with their strength, beauty and

grace as well as their youth and mental power. Eyes lose the lustre and

sparkle that are indicative of the inner forces.

 

The intense sensuous excitement of the act shatters the nervous system and

causes debility too. Their system being more delicate and high-strung,

females are often more affected than men.

 

Women should preserve their precious vital force. The ovum and the hormones

secreted by the ovaries are very essential for the maximum physical and

mental well-being of women.

 

Women also should observe the vow of celibacy. They also can remain as

Naishthic Brahmacharinis like Mirabai and devote themselves to the service

and devotion of God. Or they can do Brahma-Vichara like Gargi and Sulabha.

They will be styled as Brahma-Vicharinis, enquirers of Brahman, if they

adopt this path.

 

Grihastha-Dharminis or householders among women should observe

Pativrata-Dharma or the vow of chastity and should keep Savitri, Anasuya, as

their ideal. They should see Lord Krishna in their husbands and realize God,

like Laila in Majnu. They also can practice all the Kriyas such as Asanas

and Pranayamas. They should do vigorous Sankirtan, Japa and prayer daily in

their houses. Through Bhakti, they can easily destroy passion, because by

nature they are devotional.

 

Many women of yore had done miraculous deeds and shown to the world the

power of chastity. Nalayini, by the power of chastity, stopped the rising of

the sun to save her husbands's life. Anasuya turned the Trimurtis-Brahma,

Vishnu and Mahesvara-into babies when they wanted Nirvana Bhiksha. It is

through the power of chastity only that she was able to turn the great

deities into babies. Savitri brought back the life of Satyavan, her husband,

from the noose of Yama, by her chastity. Such is the power of chastity or

Brahmacharya. Women who lead an ideal householder's life with chastity can

also become like Anasuya, Nalayini or Savitri.

 

Brahmacharinis-ancient and modern

In olden days, there were Brahmacharinis in India. They were Brahmavadinis;

they discoursed on Brahman. They did not wish to lead the life of

Grihastha-Dharminis devoted to a householder's duties. They served the

Rishis and sages in their hermitages and did Brahma-Vichara or enquiry of

Brahman. King Janasruti placed his daughter at the service of Rishi Raikva.

You will find this in the Chhandogya Upanishad.

 

Sulabha was a very learned lady. She was born in a royal family. She was a

Brahmacharini. She was instructed in the religion of emancipation. She

observed the practice of asceticism. She was firm in the practices that

belonged to the mode of life she led. She was steady in her vows. She never

uttered a word without reflecting on its propriety. She was a Yogini. She

led the life of a Sannyasini. She appeared before Janaka in his court and

had a great discussion with him on Brahma-Vidya or the Science of the Self.

 

Gargi was also a Brahmacharini. She also was a highly cultured lady. She

also had a lengthy discussion with Yajnavalkya on Brahma-Vidya. The dialogue

between them comes in the Brihadaranyaka Upanishad.

 

In Europe also there were many women who were celibate and who dedicated

their lives entirely to severe austerity, prayer and meditation. They had

their own hermitages. In India, even at the present moment, there are

educated women who lead the life of Brahmacharinis. They do not wish to

marry. This is due to the force of good Samskaras of previous births. They

give education to the girls in schools. They give free tuition privately to

poor girls and train them in sewing and other household works. They study

religious books and practice meditation in the morning and in the evening.

They do Kirtan. They keep a daily spiritual diary. They conduct Satsanga

classes and Kirtan among women. They train girls in the practice of Asanas

and Pranayama. They give discourses on the Gita and the Upanishads. They

deliver lectures on the religious subjects in English, Sanskrit and Hindi.

During holidays and on important occasions, they hold religious conferences

for ladies on a grand scale for mass spiritual awakening.

 

Sometimes they visit nearby villages and distribute medicines freely to the

poor. They are equipped with the knowledge of first-aid, homoeopathy,

allopathy and the bio-chemical system of medicine. They are trained in

nursing the sick. There is a highly educated Brahmacharini, who is

well-versed in Sanskrit, English and Hindi, who is the head of an

institution for girls. She maintains a free private school also for poor

girls at her own expense. This is a very noble service indeed.

 

Such girls and women are really a blessing to India. They lead a life of

purity and self-sacrifice. They enjoy bliss, prosperity and renown here and

will also attain the immortal abode of supreme peace hereafter. India is in

need of more Brahmacharinis of this description who can dedicate their lives

to service, meditation and prayer.

 

There was a Maharani in the erstwhile United Provinces who wore simple

dress, ate simple food, served Sadhus and poor people and always lived

amongst Sannyasins. She had a sound knowledge of the scriptures and she did

regular meditation and prayer. She observed Mouna or the vow of silence for

months together and spent some time in seclusion and ruled her state also.

 

There is an educated woman who is an M.B.B.S. Her husband is holding a good

position. She treats the patients freely. She does not charge any fees for

visiting. She does very good service to the society. She is not a job

hunter. She is free from greed. She does medical service for the

purification of her heart. She regards medical service of the poor people as

worship of God. She looks after the house and serves her husband. She

studies religious books and spends sometime in meditation, worship and

prayer. She is an ideal woman who leads a glorious and pious life.

 

Loose life is not freedom

The world is in dire need of such ideal women. I wish that the world may

abound with such glorious women. I do not condemn women. I do not oppose

giving them education and freedom. I have the highest veneration for women.

I adore them as Devis or goddesses. But, I am not in favour of such freedom

for women as will ruin them. I am in favour of such education and culture as

will make them - immortal and glorious, as will make them ideal women like

Sulabha, Mira and Maitreyi, like Savitri and Damayanti. This is what I want.

This is what everybody would like.

 

Loose life is not perfect freedom. Some women of India have ruined

themselves by taking advantage of this false freedom. There is no limit to

the freedom, which the so-called educated woman enjoys now. This freedom has

caused many homes to be wrecked. It has created disorders in society. It has

brought shame on many respectable families. The girls, in their insatiable

craving for freedom, have overstepped the limit and lost that priceless

possession which the women of the past could keep untarnished.

 

By mixing with men freely, woman loses her dignity, modesty, feminine grace,

and the sanctity of her person and character. A woman who mixes freely with

men cannot preserve her chastity for long. There can be, and there have

been, exceptions. A woman who mixes with men freely in public life and yet

remains pure must be certainly superhuman. An ordinary woman with her

natural passion will soon succumb. Human nature will fulfil itself.

 

What is there in a woman's life if her purity is lost? She is only a living

corpse if there is no purity, although she may be rolling in wealth and

moving in high circles in society. Promiscuous mixing will lead to

disastrous results. Even Rishis and Yogins who are clad in rags, who live on

roots in seclusion, will be pulled down by the dark forces of nature if they

are careless. Then what to speak of women who eat daily dainties and

sweetmeats, who are clad in perfumed velvet and silk with lace borders, who

are given to too much mixing, who do not lead a life of self-control, who

have no religious training and discipline, who have no idea of the inner

life and the religion of emancipation? O wise reader! I leave this for your

own consideration, reflection, cogitation and deliberation.

 

Women should not do anything that can bring dishonour or infamy on them and

their family, and a blot on their character. Without character, a man or a

woman is considered as dead while living. Women should be very careful and

cautious when they move in society. They should avoid too much talking, too

much mixing, guffaw and giggling. They should always walk in a dignified

manner and not with the swinging of the hips. They should never look at men

with a flitting gesture. Clothes should not be too tight or revealing.

Abandon make-up.

 

A call to spiritual life

O Devis! Do not waste your lives in fashion and passion. Open your eyes.

Walk in the path of righteousness. Preserve your Pativrata Dharma. See

Divinity in your husband. Study the Gita, the Upanishads, Bhagavata and

Ramayana. Become good Grihastha-Dharminis and Brahma-Vicharinis. Bring forth

many Gourangas. The destiny of the world is entirely in your hands. You are

holding the master-key of the world. Open the door of Elysian bliss. Bring

Vaikuntha in your home. Train your children in the spiritual path. Sow the

spiritual seed when they are young.

 

O Devis of the world! Should you not strive for the higher life, the grand,

the sublime, the only real life in the Soul? Is it sufficient if you are

satisfied with the petty material necessities of life on earth? Do you

remember what Maitreyi said to Yajnavalkya? "What shall I do with the wealth

of this whole world if thereby I would not become immortal?" said she to her

husband. How many ladies of this world will be bold enough to assert this

wise saying of the Upanishadic ideal of a woman?

 

To chain themselves with the bondage of Samsara is not the birthright of the

mothers and sisters of the world. To get stuck up in family, children and

relatives is not the ideal of courageous and discriminative women. Every

mother of the world should realize her responsibility to awaken herself, her

children, her family and her husband, to the true light, and splendour of

spiritual life. What a glorious mother was Madalasa! Did she ask her

children to study up to the post-graduate examination, and then seek for

some employment? "Suddhosi, Buddhosi, Niranjanosi, Samsara Maya

Parivarjitosi-You are pure, you are consciousness, you are taintless, you

are devoid of the Maya of Samsara"-such was the Advaitic instruction which

Madalasa gave to her children when she rocked them in the cradle. How many

mothers of the present-day world have got the fortune to teach their

children such profound knowledge? On the other hand, the present-day mothers

would try to crush the spiritual tendency of their children even if it is

found in them in a microscopic state! What a sad and pitiable condition!

Wake up, O mothers, sisters! Wake up from your deep sleep. Recognise your

responsibility. Spiritualise yourselves. Spiritualise your children.

Spiritualise even your husbands, for you are the makers of the family!

Remember how Chudala illumined her husband. You are the makers of the

nations! You are the builders of the world! Therefore, spiritualise

yourselves. Assert in yourselves the spirit of Sulabha, Maitreyi, Gargi. Do

not be cowardly. Come out of your fleshy homes-the homes of delusion, the

homes of vanity!

 

Be you all real Sannyasinis and bring real glory, real greatness, for that

is real boldness and courage, that is real wisdom and understanding. A woman

is not a woman if she is devoid of spiritual fire in her, if she is ignorant

of a higher life in the Soul. A woman's duty is not merely family; her duty

is also to transcend the family. Her duty does not lie in sans, bangles,

jackets, powders and scents. Her duty does not lie in getting employment for

her children. Her duty is also concerned with the Self, the Atman, the

Brahman. Such a woman is a real symbol of God. She is to be adored, she is

to be worshipped!

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In the Mahabharata, when the Pandavas were exiled to the forest,

there is a celebrated chapter where a Yaksha questions Yudhisthira

(all the other brothers had died because they did not answer the

Yaksha properly).

 

Yaksha asks" How can kama not be an obstacle to mukti(for a man)"

 

Yudhistira answers" By marrying a chaste woman" (the reverse too

holds for a woman).

 

Subramuniya Swami used to say that sex within a loving relationship

sanctified by marriage, where the partners are loyal to each other in

body and mind is a highest kind of human fulfillment.

 

Swami Sivananda also says the same.

 

Chastity for a householder is to mean all sexual thoughts and deeds

are confined to one's spouse alone. When this comes naturally(without

any repression/suppression), that couple will stand out in any group

of people; sometimes they will start resembling each other(there is a

term in psychology for this..)

 

-yogaman

 

 

 

Ammachi, "diana" <dianadevi@c...> wrote:

> Wow, that's great but any ideas how one can be a Brahmacharini and

have

> children also, as in references below to husband/family/children?

Is this a

> part time Brahmacharya or is it figurative and not literal? I'm

confused.

>

> Also, restraining myself from essaying on feminine archtypes here..

and

> other touchy feelies. LOL

>

> Jaya Mata!

>

> > Message: 9

> > Mon, 26 Jan 2004 20:49:52 +0530

> > Bhattathiri <mpmahesh@a...>

> > Amma The power of Brahmacharya

> >

> > Amma is a sourrce of divine energy because of Her Brahmacharya.

> > Many women of yore had done miraculous deeds and shown to the

world the

> > power of chastity. Nalayini, by the power of chastity, stopped

the rising

> of

> > the sun to save her husbands's life. Anasuya turned the Trimurtis-

Brahma,

> > Vishnu and Mahesvara-into babies when they wanted Nirvana

Bhiksha. It is

> > through the power of chastity only that she was able to turn the

great

> > deities into babies. Savitri brought back the life of Satyavan,

her

> husband,

> > from the noose of Yama, by her chastity. Such is the power of

chastity or

> > Brahmacharya. Women who lead an ideal householder's life with

chastity can

> > also become like Anasuya, Nalayini or Savitri.

> >

> > Brahmacharinis-ancient and modern

> > In olden days, there were Brahmacharinis in India. They were

> Brahmavadinis;

> > they discoursed on Brahman. They did not wish to lead the life of

> > Grihastha-Dharminis devoted to a householder's duties. They

served the

> > Rishis and sages in their hermitages and did Brahma-Vichara or

enquiry of

> > Brahman. King Janasruti placed his daughter at the service of

Rishi

> Raikva.

> > You will find this in the Chhandogya Upanishad.

> >

> > Gargi was also a Brahmacharini. She also was a highly cultured

lady. She

> > also had a lengthy discussion with Yajnavalkya on Brahma-Vidya.

The

> dialogue

> > between them comes in the Brihadaranyaka Upanishad.

> >

> > In Europe also there were many women who were celibate and who

dedicated

> > their lives entirely to severe austerity, prayer and meditation.

They had

> > their own hermitages. In India, even at the present moment, there

are

> > educated women who lead the life of Brahmacharinis. They do not

wish to

> > marry. This is due to the force of good Samskaras of previous

births. They

> > give education to the girls in schools. They give free tuition

privately

> to

> > poor girls and train them in sewing and other household works.

They study

> > religious books and practice meditation in the morning and in the

evening.

> > They do Kirtan. They keep a daily spiritual diary. They conduct

Satsanga

> > classes and Kirtan among women. They train girls in the practice

of Asanas

> > and Pranayama. They give discourses on the Gita and the

Upanishads. They

> > deliver lectures on the religious subjects in English, Sanskrit

and Hindi.

> > During holidays and on important occasions, they hold religious

> conferences

> > for ladies on a grand scale for mass spiritual awakening.

> >

> > Sometimes they visit nearby villages and distribute medicines

freely to

> the

> > poor. They are equipped with the knowledge of first-aid,

homoeopathy,

> > allopathy and the bio-chemical system of medicine. They are

trained in

> > nursing the sick. There is a highly educated Brahmacharini, who is

> > well-versed in Sanskrit, English and Hindi, who is the head of an

> > institution for girls. She maintains a free private school also

for poor

> > girls at her own expense. This is a very noble service indeed.

> >

> > Such girls and women are really a blessing to India. They lead a

life of

> > purity and self-sacrifice. They enjoy bliss, prosperity and

renown here

> and

> > will also attain the immortal abode of supreme peace hereafter.

India is

> in

> > need of more Brahmacharinis of this description who can dedicate

their

> lives

> > to service, meditation and prayer.

> >

> >

> > The world is in dire need of such ideal women. I wish that the

world may

> > abound with such glorious women.

> > Loose life is not perfect freedom. Some women of India have ruined

> > themselves by taking advantage of this false freedom. There is no

limit to

> > the freedom, which the so-called educated woman enjoys now. This

freedom

> has

> > caused many homes to be wrecked. It has created disorders in

society. It

> has

> > brought shame on many respectable families. The girls, in their

insatiable

> > craving for freedom, have overstepped the limit and lost that

priceless

> > possession which the women of the past could keep untarnished.

> >

> > A call to spiritual life

> > Ammaa advises women to walk in the path of righteousness.

Preserve your

> > Pativrata Dharma. See Divinity in your husband. Study the Gita,

the

> > Upanishads, Bhagavata and Ramayana. Become good Grihastha-

Dharminis and

> > Brahma-Vicharinis. Bring forth many Gourangas. The destiny of the

world is

> > entirely in your hands. You are holding the master-key of the

world. Open

> > the door of Elysian bliss. Bring Vaikuntha in your home. Train

your

> children

> > in the spiritual path. Sow the spiritual seed when they are young.

> >

> > Be you all real Sannyasinis and bring real glory, real greatness,

for that

> > is real boldness and courage, that is real wisdom and

understanding. A

> woman

> > is not a woman if she is devoid of spiritual fire in her, if she

is

> ignorant

> > of a higher life in the Soul. A woman's duty is not merely

family; her

> duty

> > is also to transcend the family. Her duty does not lie in sans,

bangles,

> > jackets, powders and scents. Her duty does not lie in getting

employment

> for

> > her children. Her duty is also concerned with the Self, the

Atman, the

> > Brahman. Such a woman is a real symbol of God. She is to be

adored, she is

> > to be worshipped

> >

> >

> >

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I thought that Brahmacharya was exclusively celibacy. I'm just now

growing out from a negative "sex is dirty/bad" mindset and find

myself seeking equalibrium on the matter.

 

Check out the Shakers; western yogis and yoginis who practiced

brahmacharya:

 

http://religiousmovements.lib.virginia.edu/nrms/Shakers.html

 

Ammachi, "childofdevi" <childofdevi>

wrote:

>

> In the Mahabharata, when the Pandavas were exiled to the forest,

> there is a celebrated chapter where a Yaksha questions Yudhisthira

> (all the other brothers had died because they did not answer the

> Yaksha properly).

>

> Yaksha asks" How can kama not be an obstacle to mukti(for a man)"

>

> Yudhistira answers" By marrying a chaste woman" (the reverse too

> holds for a woman).

>

> Subramuniya Swami used to say that sex within a loving relationship

> sanctified by marriage, where the partners are loyal to each other

in

> body and mind is a highest kind of human fulfillment.

>

> Swami Sivananda also says the same.

>

> Chastity for a householder is to mean all sexual thoughts and deeds

> are confined to one's spouse alone. When this comes naturally

(without

> any repression/suppression), that couple will stand out in any

group

> of people; sometimes they will start resembling each other(there is

a

> term in psychology for this..)

>

> -yogaman

>

>

>

> Ammachi, "diana" <dianadevi@c...> wrote:

> > Wow, that's great but any ideas how one can be a Brahmacharini

and

> have

> > children also, as in references below to husband/family/children?

> Is this a

> > part time Brahmacharya or is it figurative and not literal? I'm

> confused.

> >

> > Also, restraining myself from essaying on feminine archtypes

here..

> and

> > other touchy feelies. LOL

> >

> > Jaya Mata!

> >

> > > Message: 9

> > > Mon, 26 Jan 2004 20:49:52 +0530

> > > Bhattathiri <mpmahesh@a...>

> > > Amma The power of Brahmacharya

> > >

> > > Amma is a sourrce of divine energy because of Her Brahmacharya.

> > > Many women of yore had done miraculous deeds and shown to the

> world the

> > > power of chastity. Nalayini, by the power of chastity, stopped

> the rising

> > of

> > > the sun to save her husbands's life. Anasuya turned the

Trimurtis-

> Brahma,

> > > Vishnu and Mahesvara-into babies when they wanted Nirvana

> Bhiksha. It is

> > > through the power of chastity only that she was able to turn

the

> great

> > > deities into babies. Savitri brought back the life of Satyavan,

> her

> > husband,

> > > from the noose of Yama, by her chastity. Such is the power of

> chastity or

> > > Brahmacharya. Women who lead an ideal householder's life with

> chastity can

> > > also become like Anasuya, Nalayini or Savitri.

> > >

> > > Brahmacharinis-ancient and modern

> > > In olden days, there were Brahmacharinis in India. They were

> > Brahmavadinis;

> > > they discoursed on Brahman. They did not wish to lead the life

of

> > > Grihastha-Dharminis devoted to a householder's duties. They

> served the

> > > Rishis and sages in their hermitages and did Brahma-Vichara or

> enquiry of

> > > Brahman. King Janasruti placed his daughter at the service of

> Rishi

> > Raikva.

> > > You will find this in the Chhandogya Upanishad.

> > >

> > > Gargi was also a Brahmacharini. She also was a highly cultured

> lady. She

> > > also had a lengthy discussion with Yajnavalkya on Brahma-Vidya.

> The

> > dialogue

> > > between them comes in the Brihadaranyaka Upanishad.

> > >

> > > In Europe also there were many women who were celibate and who

> dedicated

> > > their lives entirely to severe austerity, prayer and

meditation.

> They had

> > > their own hermitages. In India, even at the present moment,

there

> are

> > > educated women who lead the life of Brahmacharinis. They do not

> wish to

> > > marry. This is due to the force of good Samskaras of previous

> births. They

> > > give education to the girls in schools. They give free tuition

> privately

> > to

> > > poor girls and train them in sewing and other household works.

> They study

> > > religious books and practice meditation in the morning and in

the

> evening.

> > > They do Kirtan. They keep a daily spiritual diary. They conduct

> Satsanga

> > > classes and Kirtan among women. They train girls in the

practice

> of Asanas

> > > and Pranayama. They give discourses on the Gita and the

> Upanishads. They

> > > deliver lectures on the religious subjects in English, Sanskrit

> and Hindi.

> > > During holidays and on important occasions, they hold religious

> > conferences

> > > for ladies on a grand scale for mass spiritual awakening.

> > >

> > > Sometimes they visit nearby villages and distribute medicines

> freely to

> > the

> > > poor. They are equipped with the knowledge of first-aid,

> homoeopathy,

> > > allopathy and the bio-chemical system of medicine. They are

> trained in

> > > nursing the sick. There is a highly educated Brahmacharini, who

is

> > > well-versed in Sanskrit, English and Hindi, who is the head of

an

> > > institution for girls. She maintains a free private school also

> for poor

> > > girls at her own expense. This is a very noble service indeed.

> > >

> > > Such girls and women are really a blessing to India. They lead

a

> life of

> > > purity and self-sacrifice. They enjoy bliss, prosperity and

> renown here

> > and

> > > will also attain the immortal abode of supreme peace hereafter.

> India is

> > in

> > > need of more Brahmacharinis of this description who can

dedicate

> their

> > lives

> > > to service, meditation and prayer.

> > >

> > >

> > > The world is in dire need of such ideal women. I wish that the

> world may

> > > abound with such glorious women.

> > > Loose life is not perfect freedom. Some women of India have

ruined

> > > themselves by taking advantage of this false freedom. There is

no

> limit to

> > > the freedom, which the so-called educated woman enjoys now.

This

> freedom

> > has

> > > caused many homes to be wrecked. It has created disorders in

> society. It

> > has

> > > brought shame on many respectable families. The girls, in their

> insatiable

> > > craving for freedom, have overstepped the limit and lost that

> priceless

> > > possession which the women of the past could keep untarnished.

> > >

> > > A call to spiritual life

> > > Ammaa advises women to walk in the path of righteousness.

> Preserve your

> > > Pativrata Dharma. See Divinity in your husband. Study the Gita,

> the

> > > Upanishads, Bhagavata and Ramayana. Become good Grihastha-

> Dharminis and

> > > Brahma-Vicharinis. Bring forth many Gourangas. The destiny of

the

> world is

> > > entirely in your hands. You are holding the master-key of the

> world. Open

> > > the door of Elysian bliss. Bring Vaikuntha in your home. Train

> your

> > children

> > > in the spiritual path. Sow the spiritual seed when they are

young.

> > >

> > > Be you all real Sannyasinis and bring real glory, real

greatness,

> for that

> > > is real boldness and courage, that is real wisdom and

> understanding. A

> > woman

> > > is not a woman if she is devoid of spiritual fire in her, if

she

> is

> > ignorant

> > > of a higher life in the Soul. A woman's duty is not merely

> family; her

> > duty

> > > is also to transcend the family. Her duty does not lie in sans,

> bangles,

> > > jackets, powders and scents. Her duty does not lie in getting

> employment

> > for

> > > her children. Her duty is also concerned with the Self, the

> Atman, the

> > > Brahman. Such a woman is a real symbol of God. She is to be

> adored, she is

> > > to be worshipped

> > >

> > >

> > >

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