Here's what Amma says : (hope it helps)

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"If you are good, if there is goodness in you, you should be able to

see goodness in everything. You see the bad in others because there

is bad in you. Children, try to realize this truth. Do not point at

the faults and errors of others. Realize your own mistakes and try to

correct them. Let your own errors, your own ego, become a burden to

yourself, not to other people." - Ammachi, Awaken Children, Vol.4

p264 (0245)

 

"A real Master teaches you to accept everything that happens in

life. He helps you to be thankful for both good and bad, right and

wrong, enemy and friend, those who harm you and those who help you,

those who cage you and those who release you from the cage. The

Master helps you forget about the dark past and the bright future full

of a thousand promises. He helps you live life in the present moment

with all its fullness. He lets you know that the whole of Nature -

everything, everybody, even your enemy - is helping you evolve and

attain Perfection." - Ammachi, Awaken Children, Vol.6, p21 (0412)

 

Jai Ma,

amarnath