shutup

[Guest guest]

Tom if you don't have something nice to say , just shutup - I don't get what you

are saying or why you say it. why not take your negativity somewhere else. I

know it feeds your spirit to get negative feedback, but there are those of us

out here who feed on positive energy and encouragement, not your criticism and

judgement.

 

Om Namashivaya - In Amma's service,

 

Supriti Omenka Nnadi

 

 

[Guest guest]

Someone once told me at the DC satsang re-org meeting that "If

someone tells me I'm wrong, they're judging me!". And I asked them

(several times over their protesting) "What if you're ACTUALLY WRONG,

wouldn't you want to know? Isn't that how you're able to grow and

learn from mistakes? What if you're ACTUALLY WRONG?"

 

You see, devotees ignorantly like to proclaim that our experiences

and others are in our lives to help us grow, but then tell them to

shut up when they give feedback. Sounds like learning by magic, NOT!

 

No wonder why people go in circles. "Only positives" is good for

mental peace, but not for real sadhana seeking to goal, or for true

discussion. Only positives builds up your ego.

 

I take the positive with the negative.

 

tom

 

 

 

Ammachi, Omenka Supriti Nnadi <oomenka

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> Tom if you don't have something nice to say , just shutup - I don't

get what you are saying or why you say it. why not take your

negativity somewhere else. I know it feeds your spirit to get

negative feedback, but there are those of us out here who feed on

positive energy and encouragement, not your criticism and judgement.

>

> Om Namashivaya - In Amma's service,

>

> Supriti Omenka Nnadi

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