Ganesh Chaturthi Discourse - Obtain Divine Grace by obeying your Parents

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Obtain Divine Grace by obeying your Parents Bhagavan Sri Sathya Sai Baba giving

His Divine Discourse on18th September 2004 (Ganesh Chaturthi) at Prashanti

Nilayam

Text of the Divine Discourse delivered by Bhagawan Sri Sathya Sai Baba on 18th

September 2004 (Ganesh Chaturthi) at Prashanti Nilayam, Sai Kulwanth Hall

The moon illumines the world at night and the sun during the day.Righteousness

illumines the three worlds, and a virtuous son illumines his entire lineage.

(Telugu Poem) Embodiments of Love!A virtuous son is greater than even those who

have acquired Jnana (knowledge), Vijnana (wisdom), Sujnana and Prajnana

(constant integrated awareness). Lord Vinayaka is such a virtuous son. Every

individual has a Guru. But, Vinayaka has no Guru at all. He is the Guru of

Gurus and the leader of leaders. He is called by the name "Vinayaka" since He

has no leader above Him and He is the leader for all. Embodiments of

Love!Whenever a new task is undertaken, it is customary to perform Puja to Lord

Vinayaka to invoke His blessings for the successful completion of the task. Even

while starting a musical concert, the singers pray to Lord Vinayaka with the

kirtan, "Vinayaka Nannu

Brovara" (Oh! Lord Vinayaka! Please come to my help). It is only when you thus

pray to Lord Vinayaka and seek His blessings, will all your task meet with

success.Lord Vinayaka has an elephant's head and trunk. It denotes that

Vinayaka can be compared to an elephant in intelligence, which always thinks

twice before setting its foot forward. Similarly, it is only after intelligent

discrimination that Vinayaka moves forward. The four letters in the word

Ganapathi (ga, na, pa and ti) denote that Lord Vinayaka is full of Vijnana,

Sujnana and Prajnana. People today forget the underlying meaning in the name

'Ganapati' and engage themselves in mere rituals. You may not perform any

rituals, but, never give up worshipping Lord Vinayaka. Especially, it is the

foremost duty of the students to come under the leadership of Vinayaka, who is

a leader unto Himself. You would not find a parallel to Lord Vinayaka. When you

take such a Lord

as your ideal and pursue your studies, you will be able to master all branches

of education. Vinayaka has a big tummy, which is full of Jnana (wisdom). That

wisdom is His power. We should worship such a powerful Lord. No one can

comprehend the true nature of Lord Vinayaka, fully.Lord Vinayaka is the leader

for one and all. He is the divine father and mother to everybody. In accordance

with the prayer Twameva Matha cha Pitha Twameva, Twameva Bandhuscha Sakha

Twameva, Twameva Vidya Dravinam Twameva (He alone is the father and mother,

friend and relation, wisdom and wealth to every individual). No one else can be

compared to Lord Vinayaka in terms of power and prowess in this world. The world

is unable to recognise the true nature of such a divine leader. We are, today,

prepared to accept the leadership of ordinary mortals. This is an unfortunate

situation. Today is the holy day commemorating the birth of Lord Vinayaka. In

fact, He has no birth at all. He

created the entire universe. All the Vedas are the result of the divine sankalpa

of Lord Vinayaka. All forms of knowledge have originated from

Vinayaka.Embodiments of Love!Lord Vinayaka does not know what anger is. He is

the embodiment of love. Where there is love, bad qualities like anger, passion,

conceit etc., cannot gain entry. You might have witnessed the facial features of

Vinayaka. Did His face ever reflect anger? No. He will always be smiling.

Vinayaka is omnipresent. People attribute a particular place as the birthplace

of God and consider it as a Kshetra (a sacred place of pilgrimage). But, no

single place can be ascribed as the birthplace of God. He is Swayambhu

(Self-emergent). There is no specific place which can be ascribed as place of

birth, place of upbringing, etc., for God. He is omnipresent. God will manifest

in such a place where people get rid of their bad qualities and sincerely pray

to Him with devotion. He is

Gunatheetha (beyond attributes). He is Nirgunam, Niranjanam, Sanathanam,

Niketanam, Nitya, Shuddha, Buddha, Mukta, Nirmala Swarupinam (God is

attributeless, pure, final abode, eternal, unsullied, enlightened, free and

embodiment of sacredness).God appears to be angry at times. But, that is not

real anger. In order to put the devotees on the right path, He pretends to be

angry. If He does not pretend so, there is no chance for the devotees to change

their behaviour. His pretending to be angry is just a drama. God has no trace of

anger in Him. When we commit mistakes or tread the wrong path, we are afraid

that God will be angry with us. But, God only pretends to be angry on such

occasions so that you become aware of your own faults and deficiencies. For

example, when Swami keeps Himself away from you, you feel very sad and think

that Swami is not talking to you because He is angry with you. In fact, Swami

does not know what anger is. He is the embodiment of love. He is full of love.

However, on some rare occasions when He speaks harshly, it might be

misconstrued that He is angry. This is quite natural even in our day-to-day

life. When you call somebody, "Son! Please come here," it sounds that you are

calling him with love. But, if the same words are uttered with a raised voice

(in an angry mood), it looks as though you are angry. Therefore, all these are

variations in expression and nothing else. The same was the case with Sage

Durvasa, whose expressions revealed anger and thus became synonymous for anger.

But in fact, Sage Durvasa had no anger at all!During the Mahabharata war,

Aswatthama, the son of Dronacharya, took a terrible vow to annihilate all the

Pandavas. Having come to know of this, Droupadi prayed to Krishna to save the

Pandavas. The leelas of the Lord are not only wonderful but also mysterious.

God enacts dramas and even changes the scenes in His play for

the welfare and safety of His devotees. In this instance, the Lord saved the

Pandavas with a delicate touch that He alone is capable of.He went to Sage

Durvasa. He was immensely delighted to receive Krishna. The sage asked, "Lord,

what brought You to my humble ashram?" Krishna smiled and said, "I have a small

job for you." The sage was happy and said, "I am at Your service. You just have

to command." Krishna then said, "Good! Tonight, you have to save the Pandavas."

Durvasa was puzzled and asked, "Lord, it is You who protect everything in

creation. Who am I to do that job?" Krishna replied, "That is a different

matter. But for this job, you will be My instrument. I extend protection in

many different ways. On this occasion, you have to do something specific as per

My instructions." Durvasa wanted to know what it was and Krishna continued, "Dig

a pit, ask the Pandavas to hide themselves in it, cover it with planks, grass

and mud, and then take your seat on the shelter so

prepared. The enemies of the Pandavas may come and ask you about the whereabouts

of the Pandavas. They may say, "You know the past, present and future. Please

tell us where the Pandavas are hiding." Durvasa intervened and said, "Lord, I

cannot tell a lie." Krishna countered, "Did I ask you to utter falsehood? I am

Myself the Embodiment of Truth, and I will always ask you to speak only the

truth. However, you are at liberty to change your voice suitably to achieve the

desired result. I am sure you understand." The sage nodded and smiled.Some time

later, after the Pandavas were hidden, Aswatthama came there, exactly as

Krishna had foretold. Durvasa was sitting with his eyes closed. Bowing to the

sage, Aswatthama enquired, in a most humble manner, about the whereabouts of

the Pandavas. Durvasa slowly opened his eyes; which were like flame. Angrily he

roared, "Yes, the Pandavas are here, right below me." Aswatthama was frightened

because the sage was well known for his bad

temper and his propensity to curse those whom he is angry with. Promptly, he

fled from the scene, and the Pandavas were duly saved. All Avatars employ such

techniques, and Swami too does the same when required.The sages and saints,

yogis and jnanis for ages have been providing rakshana (protection) and

sikshana (correction) and make people tread the right path. Sage Durvasa did

the same thing. Ignorant people accuse him of being one of anger in spite of

being a great tapasvin. But, those people who are able to understand the real

intention behind his apparent anger realise the truth. God has no anger. In

fact, one who has anger is not fit to be called God at all!Once Mother Parvati

and Easwara called Vinayaka and His younger brother Subrahmanya, and advised

them to go round the world. They also told them that whoever came first would

be given a phala (fruit) as reward. This competition was intended to

demonstrate the greatness of Vinayaka

to the world. The younger brother Subrahmanya immediately plunged into action.

He mounted His vehicle, the peacock, to fly round the world. But, Vinayaka did

not move and sat in His own place. Easwara then enquired, "My dear son! Why did

You not start on Your journey round the world?" Vinayaka laughed at this

question and replied "Oh! Father! I need not go anywhere. The fruit of all My

journey round the world is right in front of me." So saying, Vinayaka made a

Pradakshina (circumambulation) round His father and mother (Lord Easwara and

Mother Parvati) and sat down calmly. He claimed victory in the race. In the

meanwhile, Subrahmanya came there, after completing His journey round the

world. He was very much tired and reported to His father about His successful

completion of the task. Lord Easwara then declared Vinayaka as the winner in

the race and handed over the fruit to Him. The place where this episode took

place is called Palani, in the State of Tamil Nadu.The

underlying meaning in this story is that the parents are the very embodiment of

divinity and it is enough if one does pradakshina to them in reverence. That

would be tantamount to the punya (merit) acquired by visiting all the holy

shrines in the world. Without the parents, there can be no son at all! If

children are to be virtuous, it is the parents who have to take care of them.

The parents are responsible for the success of their children in all the

endeavours.It is common practice for students to visit temples during

examination time and pray for success in the examinations. They offer coconuts

in the temples with the pocket money given by their parents. These are all

external practices, which have little to do with sincere devotion. If they

really wish to achieve success in their endeavour, it is enough if they please

their parents and obtain their blessings. If they are satisfied, you are sure

to succeed. In order to drive home the point that children

should strive to please and satisfy their parents first, Lord Easwara and Mother

Parvati arranged this competition of going round the world for Lord Vinayaka and

Lord Subrahmanya. If you want to obtain the grace of God, it is enough if you

obey the command of your parents lovingly. There is no greater divinity than

the parents who are present right in front of your eyes. They have struggled

hard in several ways to bring you up to the present state. They made a lot of

sacrifice, so that you may come up in life. No parent would ever like to

displease his children. They appear to be angry sometimes and may even give

some punishment, but that is only outward. In their heart of hearts, they have

abundant love for you. Even if they pretend to be angry, it is for your own

good. The stream of infinite love ever flows in their hearts. Here is a small

example: When the child does some mischief, the mother gives a beating. But,

how? The beating merely produces sound but does not cause any pain

to the child. Her anger is borne out of love only. On certain occasions, they

may show anger, but it is only temporary. It is never permanent. You may think

that your parents are angry with you. But, that is your own misunderstanding;

you may not be able to understand their love, which is lying dormant. Even if

they show anger and say "chee" (an expression in Telugu to indicate one's

disapproval), it is only out of love. Students shall, therefore, try to

understand the real nature of their parents.In fact, one's anger is his own

enemy, and happiness, his heaven. One should always be happy. A person with

anger and irritable temperament can never achieve anything. Vinayaka is one who

always obeyed his parents' command. That is why it is said that there is no

leader above Him. Students sometimes ask for money from their parents to go to

a cinema. When parents refuse, they think that the parents are angry. These are

trivial issues. The parents, especially the mother, will be

even ready to sacrifice her life, in order to save her children in times of

danger. Unfortunately, today there are sons who even go to a court of law

against their mothers. It is, therefore, essential that they change their

attitude towards their parents and realise that they are verily embodiments of

love.Any number of diversions or silly thoughts may arise in children, but the

parents' love towards their children remains unwavering. There are several sons

in the world who are angry with their parents, but relationship of the parents

and their children is one of love only. Whatever differences that may arise

between them are only temporary. The relationship between parents and their

children is one of love, nothing else. Lord Vinayaka is the embodiment of love.

He always showers love only. When He was acting as a scribe to write the

Mahabharata to the dictation of Sage Vyasa, he displayed the same attitude of

love. Since He was the embodiment of Love, Vyasa selected

Him particularly to undertake the duty of a scribe. Throughout the period of

writing the Mahabharata, Vinayaka displayed this quality of pure love. That is

why you do not find even a single mistake in the Mahabharata. Since He was

flawless, His word was also flawless. You do not find the bad qualities of

anger, jealousy, envy or pride in Vinayaka. They are the qualities of a human

being devoid of noble qualities. Dear students! From today onwards, you give up

whatever little anger you have towards your parents and cultivate pure love

towards them. Love begets love. Receive love from your parents in abundance and

prosper in life.Today is the festival of Vinayaka Chaturthi. It is a very

important festival. There is a custom in some families to invite the newly

married son-in-law for the festival. Therefore, do not hesitate to go to your

in-law's house to spend some time happily with them.Oh newly married

bridegroom, visit your in-laws'

house,Come, spend your time in fun and frolic with your brothers-in-law and

sisters-in-law,The entire household and the neighbourhood will honour you with

love and affection. (Telugu song)When a son-in-law visits his spouses parents'

house, the entire household gets into a festive mood. One is sure to feel happy

and mentally relaxed. There are, however, some stone-hearted sons-in-law, who

cultivate ill-feelings towards their in-laws and do not visit their house. Such

ill-feelings are the result of food. As is the food, so is the head. The

feelings of the heart reflect the thought in the head (mind). Therefore, we

must take the right food. You should never take such food as would kindle the

flames of anger and envy in you. Since ancient times, sages in India have

observed strict diet regulations. They always made it a point to consume

sattwic food, not rajasic food. By consuming rajasic food, anger is generated.

On the other hand, if you

consume thamasic food, you will feel sleepy even while you eat. Therefore, both

rajasic and thamasic types of food must be avoided. Only sattwic food must be

taken. Excess of chillies, salt and sour items must be avoided in food. Before

you take food, never forget to offer your prayers:Brahmarpanam Brahma

HavirBrahmagnou BrahmanahutamBrahmaiva Thena GanthavyamBrahma Karma

Samadhina.(Brahman is the ladle as well as the oblation. He is the sacrificial

fire as also the sacrificer. And finally, Brahman is the goal of one who is

engaged in the act of sacrifice.)When you pray in this manner before you

partake of your food, God immediately responds thus:Aham Vaishvanaro

BhutvaPraninam DehamasritahPranapana SamayuktaPachamyannam Chaturvidham.

(I am present in all beings in the form of digestive fire. United with the Prana

(exhalation) and Apana (inhalation), it is I who consume the four kinds of

food.)While taking food, you must always ensure that you take only such items

which you can easily digest. Never consume food which you cannot digest. Just

as you sit down happily for taking food, so also when you get up after taking

your food, you must feel happy and light. Some people sit for food with a light

stomach and get up with a heavy stomach after eating bellyful. This is not the

proper method of taking food.Always take light food. These are the habits you

must cultivate at least from this auspicious day of Vinayaka Chaturthi. If you

cultivate these good habits and qualities you can become as great as Lord

Vinayaka.(Bhagawan concluded His discourse with the Bhajan, "Prema Muditha

Manase Kaho…")

Source: http://www.sssbpt.org/Pages/Prasanthi_Nilayam/Ganesh_Chaturthi_Discourse.htm

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