Guest guest Posted May 21, 2003 Report Share Posted May 21, 2003 Dear Simji: Thanks so much for sharing this :-) Kanti Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 21, 2003 Report Share Posted May 21, 2003 Dear Kantiji Just to share with you – What my Meditation Guru said about Meditation and Mindfulness. [ Mindfulness - When you speak of meditation, you may think of the type of meditation that is popular these days, the sitting form of meditation. But that form is merely an aid, a support to develop a mental discipline of mindfulness and equanimity. The form should not be mistaken for the path. By just doing sitting meditation daily is not sufficient and will not get any further benefit. What is crucial is incorporating mindfulness as you function in everyday life. In actuality, if meditation is to help you acquire peace of mind as you function in your life, then it must be a dynamic activity, part and parcel of your daily experience. Meditation is here and now, moment-to-moment, amid the ups and downs of life, amid conflicts, disappointments and heartaches -- amid success and stress, in another word, is staying with the moment. You must also realize that staying with the moment is just a means to break the mind's old habits. Usually the mind flitters between thoughts and feelings about the past, present and future. The only reality we will ever have is in the present moment. Neither "past" nor "future" is concepts, which can be associated with any sense of reality. These concepts are thus illusions, which at best create attachments, fears as well as false sense of expectation and hope. Hence sentient beings live in suffering and misery, often unaware of their own condition. The origin of suffering lies in the mind, which has been conditioned by culture, education and experience, and thus is interpreted in light of that culture and education. Only if we move beyond mind can we discover the meaning of life, which is simply an awareness of the present, with fullness and contentment. Staying with the moment is just a way to train the mind to cease flitting. "Creatures from mind their character derive; mind-marshaled are they, mindmade. Mind is the source either of bliss or of corruption." - (the Dhammapada) It is not important that you be with the moment every single moment of the day. What is important is that you learn to get out of the constant mental run-around and to be more focused and grounded. Once you break the habit of the roaming mind, you will find you are more centered and more with the present moment. So, you see, meditation need not be separated from life and its daily ups and downs. If you are to experience peace in this everyday world, you need to watch, understand and deal with your anger, desire and ignorance as they occur. Only when you cease to be involved with your emotions can the peaceful nature of your mind emerge. This peace- nature enables you to live every moment of your life completely. With this newfound understanding and awareness, you can live as a complete individual with greater sensitivity. You will come to view life with new and fresh perceptions. Strangely enough, what you saw as problems before are problems no more.] With Best wishes Sim , thunderheals@a... wrote: > Thank you both Simji and Mr. Kirk: > > Was just talking to a friend about this last evening. > > Have found this technique very helpful during post meditation periods. > Pema Chodren's books have been particularily helpful. She advices simply > acknowledge thoughts as "thinking" and letting them go. > > Lately have been in experiences that had alot of emotional charge to them and > have found myself going into the emotions, but then able to stand back from > them and respond in a way that was centered and harmonious. > > Friend last nite mentioned that can be taken another step..to identify > feelings with the sufferings and identical feelings of others throughout the > world allowing the heart to expand as well as compacity for compassion. Is > one thing to know this in theory and quite another to have the mindfulness to > put into practice. > > By all means, the rudraksha have put me into a state of being in which this > is possible. > > Just a quirky synchronicity what you two are sharing and what was spoken last > nite. > Thanks. > Kanti > > In a message dated 5/21/2003 7:41:57 AM Central Daylight Time, > simbernard4@h... writes: > > > Dear Kirkji > > You are absolutely correct. Insight meditation on feelings is to > > acknowledge feelings whether pleasant or unpleasant, painful or not > > and then just let them fade away. By not holding onto any experience > > the mind does not become the centre of existence. Just like the > > clear blue sky, they acknowledge the passing of white clouds and > > will not changing its color to match the clouds. Thanks for your > > words of wisdom. > > Best regards. > > Sim > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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