Guest guest Posted November 3, 2000 Report Share Posted November 3, 2000 Hi all! This discussion is like a world chess competition! Whether any decision is arrived or not, it has brought up a lot of info. as to how to read a chart. There are 2 ways to see the situation: 1. Once one has taken a position one can always find reasons to support! 2. TOB being uncertain, (as well as ayanamsa), a decision is impossible. A third way is to say that the Ascendant was 0° Capricorn, so that both sides win! What intrigues me is the tea connection. With all due respect to the Saint, was it fair to give such an ultimatum to his wife after 30 years of wedded bliss (or miss)? Tea is soothing, a husband with strong religious feelings is rather unpredictable. Gandhi´s wife had to go through this sort of thing, but she too liked goat´s milk, I guess, and kept the husband, giving up sex. One can sympathize with the lady for saying in her dilemma, "I´m for tea, but not for thee!" Incidentally the Gandhi parallel seems to fit the attitude of the children as well! The lady gave out the story of Sri Krishna plus much spiritual inspiration and asked only for biscuits, not gold. Food for the soul in exchange for food for the body. Is this to be condemned or commended? Munching on her buiscuits, did she never say, "This too, I owe to thee, Krishna!"? Her going off to her father´s home reminds me of another instance, when Surya´s wife did the same. But she left "Chaya" behind as her substitute and unsuspecting Surya was saTEAsfied with her. Chay (from kshaya = brew) is also Hindi for tea! The parallel ends as a contrast. I once discovered that the rise and fall of the British Empire was intimately connected with the rise and fall of tea-trade and the quality of tea in Britain. With the invention of horrible tea-bags the quality of the tea there was totally destroyed - and so was the empire! That tea would have such drastic effects on the married life, and that of a saint, is remarkable indeed..... "gunpowder? .... But my sympathies are still with Srila P. Life with an incompatible mate is togh...... Naturally this applies to the wife too. Hope I have not offended anyone with these remarks! regards Mani Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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