Guest guest Posted November 10, 2000 Report Share Posted November 10, 2000 Dear Skinbags, et.al, At the risk of appearing pedantic or confrontational, I would like to share my limited experience and thoughts on Power...its use, balance and misuse. We all have power in varying degrees of expression, and an obligation to use it responsibily. The old adage 'And it Harm None' is applicable. The moral outrage that followed Clintons' 'indiscretion', was purely his misuse of power. Would Monica be on her knees if Bubba were the garbage collector?. I think not!. When we work with and for others we are bound by a Professional Code of Conduct. Andrew, you have recently announced your intention to become a Professional Astrologer and I wish you well. You now have a moral and ethical responsibility to lead by example and serve all to the best of your ability. Your mischievous sense of humour is often a breath of fresh air, but there is a fine line between 'taking the mickey' and plain offence. To suggest the services of a prostitute to a lonely man is not only tactless and indicative of poor judgement( orgasm is not a panacea!) but offensive to women. Women are also informed consumers. Given the choice for a reading, does she PAY a sexist or a holy man?. Please be true to your nature, but also recognise you have the power to heal or harm. Sincerely, Ann. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 11, 2000 Report Share Posted November 11, 2000 In a message dated 11/11/2000 11:14:20 AM Eastern Standard Time, skinbags writes: << The moral outrage that followed Clintons' 'indiscretion', was purely his misuse of power. Would Monica be on her knees if Bubba were the garbage collector?. I think not!.>> (Anne's point) << Is Monica a "victim"? I wonder if she herself feels she was the victim of the "misuse of power"? Or, is it just a case of a young and impressionable woman being infatuated with a powerful >>....<< man. >> (Andrew's comment) To me, Andrew has just obfuscated a bit by asking the irrelevant question about victim versus the point being made, however in the last part of his statement quoted above, he has underlined Anne's point precisely; power of the elected, as something to worship, power of the elected as something to abuse--is repugnant to many of us. Anne further goes on to ask for a bit of circumspection when writing to a mixed audience. I recall Das has asked you for the same thing. I find it not an abridgement of your personal self expression, but an enhancement of your own creativity, for ideas to be expressed creatively in terms chosen to minimize offense. As for your suggestions regarding prostitues, these do not need to be broadcast to a mixed audience, but can be expressed privately if you would have your freedom of expression. The mixed audience on this list, not seeing such attitudes, will be grateful for your posts not needing a control-alt-deleting, as well as for those astrological themes and ideas you express to all which are quite welcome on this list. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 11, 2000 Report Share Posted November 11, 2000 Dear Anne do not take the following comments personally or feel as if I'm attacking you. The moral outrage that followed Clintons' 'indiscretion', was purely his misuse of power. Would Monica be on her knees if Bubba were the garbage collector?. I think not!. Is Monica a "victim"? I wonder if she herself feels she was the victim of the "misuse of power"? Or, is it just a case of a young and impressionable woman being infatuated with a powerful and highly sexed man. As I understand the story it was another sticky beak (a woman) who leaked the story to the media and we probably would never have heard anything about it otherwise. What exactly is "moral outrage"? Most of this "outrage"seemed to come from sour and bitter feminists or other assorted wowsers with some axe to grind. Most men I know in private say good luck to Clinton, his only crime was getting caught out. Clinton has Mars and Venus in conjunction, I would be more shocked if he wasn't playing around with women! My old Pundit always refers to Clinton as the "Stud Bull." He was calling him this long before the Monica story broke. It wasn't that long ago a mans fitness as leader was judged on his sexual strength. In some African countries now, the King is expected to have a couple of hundred wives, if he doesn't, he is seen as a dud. The fertility of the whole country is governed by the fertility of the ruler. It is really a matter of perspectives. One countries sexual misfit is another countries sexual legend. When we work with and for others we are bound by a Professional Code of Conduct. Now this is an interesting idea! What is the code? Who wrote it? Who has the "moral" right to enforce it? Andrew, you have recently announced your intention to become a Professional Astrologer and I wish you well. You now have a moral and ethical responsibility to lead by example and serve all to the best of your ability. Your mischievous sense of humour is often a breath of fresh air, but there is a fine line between 'taking the mickey' and plain offence. To suggest the services of a prostitute to a lonely man is not only tactless and indicative of poor judgement( orgasm is not a panacea!) but offensive to women. There is no difference between the man who goes to church seeking gratification and the man who goes to a brothel seeking gratification. However, the man who goes to the brothel is much more likely to get what he wants than the man attending church. Being raised a catholic I saw nothing but lies and hypocrisy in the church. Having been in a lot of brothels I have met some of the most honest people you could hope to meet anywhere.. Women are also informed consumers. Given the choice for a reading, does she PAY a sexist or a holy man?. The term "sexist" is another term I need explained to me. It seems to be a term used exclusively by women in the modern world when complaining about men. If I am not supposed to see a woman as a sexual object, then what I am supposed to see as an object for sexual gratification? What is a "holy man"? Recent history shows a woman or child for that matter, is at far more risk of being sexually abused by a "holy man" than a man like myself. Please be true to your nature, but also recognise you have the power to heal or harm. Sincerely, Ann. Below is part of a dialogue sent to me just today from Gurudeva. He is saying very clearly what I believe, that is, women and men are unable to understand how each other feel inside and should seek advice from others of the same sex and not sticky beak into the other sex's problems. I for one, get sick of women telling me how I feel, or how I "should" feel and act. To me this is like the blind man trying to describe an elephant. For harmony to exist between a man and a woman, he has to live fully > within his own nature, and she has to live fully within her own > nature. Each is king and queen of their respective realms. If each > respects the uniqueness of the other, then a harmonious condition in > the home exists. > A good rule to remember: the man does not discuss his intellectual > business problems with the woman, and she does not work outside the > home. He solves his problems within himself or discusses them with > other men. When he has a problem, he should go to an expert to solve > it, not bring it home to talk over. If he does, the forces in the home > become congested. The children yell and scream and cry. A contemplative > home where people can meditate has to have that beautiful, temple-like > vibration. In just approaching it, the sushumna current of the man should > withdraw awareness from the pingala current deep within. That is what > the man can do when he is the spiritual head of the home. > > Most of the "moral outrage" we see in the newspapers about mens behaviour like Mick Jagger comes exclusively from women and other self appointed social saviours. In general there is a deafening silence from men. Below is a letter I sent to the local newspaper about a story previously published by a Dr of sociology who was pontificating about the appalling behaviour of Australian men according to her own personal biases. This letter sums up my cynicism of academics and social engineers so common in modern society. > Dear Readers > In the article "Death of the Ocker" Dr Darian-Smith claims amongst another things that attitudes such as racist comments, overt masculinity, anti intellectualism and hanging out with the men more than women are no longer tolerated socially. Just who is she talking on behalf of? The majority of Australians, or a select group of over-educated, self-appointed social messiahs like herself, who having spent a few years studying, feel it is their God given right to pontificate to us poor unsophisticated souls who are so socially backward, so socially undesirable, we would dare enjoy socializing with our male friends or share a crude joke. These comments could only be made by somebody who has spent far too much time at a university. What our society desperately needs, is to be rescued from the politically correct saviours like Dr Darian-Smith who are constantly telling us the way we should live as aposed to the way we actually do live. The multi-cultural, egalitarian, non-sexist utopia they enthuse about, only exists inside their pointy heads. With record youth suicide, record crime rates, record drug use and record homelessness we indeed have become a sophisticated society Doctor. I know I am in for a terrible kicking from women for my comments, but I live in Australia not communist China and we should respect each others rights to express ourselves. If people find my comments offensive, first push Ctrl. A keys and then the delete key. I am not a "hope salesman" there is enough of them around already. Lets just stick to astrology Skinbags Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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