Twinsisters/codes of behaviour

[Guest guest]

Ann Murphy wrote:

>

> Namaste Listmembers,

>

> Dear Ilona,

> The family

> boundaries are clearly fragmented with a child sharing the marital bed for

> 12yrs. He obviously had open access to commit his deviant acts. As with

> 'Lolita', the twins attributes of youth and defencelessness are the

> principle 'turn on'. It is not an act of affection. It is a blatant act of

> self-gratification. Justification of the act are usually couched in terms of

> endearment.

 

Right! But the desire for gratification can these days arise from "endearment".

It is unfortunate that sex is deified today. No product is sold without a sex

motif, young women, hardly out of puberty, are shown perpetually in provocative

poses, pulling off their panties, hands on bare breasts etc. One does not have

to be obsessed with sex at all - it is thrown at you at every step. TV ads are

even worse. No matter what you want to watch, every few minutes the sex junk

appears, even worse than the still photographs. Eating a chocolate or drinking

cola ends up in sex!

 

Children see these scenes and automatically copy the "alluring gestures" shown

by the models on the screen.

 

One of the chief functions of the body is to reproduce and it is almost always

ready for sex, if stimulated. Certain practices stimulate the body, no matter

what age or relationship is involved. Some of these are:

- kissing children on the mouth

- excessive fondling

- sleepin in the same bed with them

- seeing them naked

- showing oneself to children in a naked state

 

This applies not only to adults and children, but also to children of different

ages, say after 10. Earlier on these practices were less common perhaps, and in

certain communities taboo. But today even seminars are held to encourage the

naked body contact as a of way "getting to know each otherin friendship".

 

These may start off with true endearment, but can easily turn into lust and

libido! Say a father is in bed with his little daughter and she starts playing

with his penis, or even just keeps rubbing on it in sleep, the results are very

uncertain! Especially parents with charts showing such tendencies should avoid

intimate contact with children, even in affection. Even changing the nappies of

the child can provoke misuse if the parent is over-sexed!

 

Besides that, misuse is not necessarily only hetero-sexual.

 

I think every parent should consult an astrologer to get this aspect cleared and

behave accordingly. The tendency cannot be cured, but disaster could perhaps be

prevented.

 

regards

Mani