To stop our fighting

[Guest guest]

Hello

 

Lately there's been fighting on the list. Please stop this.

 

>From experience, let me assure you that the source starts in assuming

things. Assuming that someone has a sense of Vedic etiquette is wrong.

Some folks on the list think of Vedic astrology and etiquette around

that very differently than others, who are perhaps more trained in

Indian or Vedic ways of communicating and dealing. Western views of

dealing are very different.

 

So some people are going to respond in ways which sound very different

from what others might be expecting.

 

Just let that which bothers you blow by. Don't even respond. That's the

best way to deal with that which bothers.

 

I cannot control initial responses. This is an open list. So, there may

suddenly be responses which are full of anger or insinuations. Just let

it blow by. I cannot stop this. If you respond, taking up challenges,

then it will deteriorate into fighting. So just don't respond.

 

The tension of the day is obviously getting everyone riled up, so try to

stay calm.

 

Thanks,

 

Das Goravani

[Guest guest]

Beloved Raghu: You always come with the right reading, I'm proud of

you.

 

Send me an smile

 

with gratitude

 

C.S.das

 

 

 

gjlist, Das Goravani <das@g...> wrote:

>

> Hello

>

> Lately there's been fighting on the list. Please stop this.

>

> From experience, let me assure you that the source starts in

assuming

> things. Assuming that someone has a sense of Vedic etiquette is

wrong.

> Some folks on the list think of Vedic astrology and etiquette around

> that very differently than others, who are perhaps more trained in

> Indian or Vedic ways of communicating and dealing. Western views of

> dealing are very different.

>

> So some people are going to respond in ways which sound very

different

> from what others might be expecting.

>

> Just let that which bothers you blow by. Don't even respond. That's

the

> best way to deal with that which bothers.

>

> I cannot control initial responses. This is an open list. So, there

may

> suddenly be responses which are full of anger or insinuations. Just

let

> it blow by. I cannot stop this. If you respond, taking up

challenges,

> then it will deteriorate into fighting. So just don't respond.

>

> The tension of the day is obviously getting everyone riled up, so

try to

> stay calm.

>

> Thanks,

>

> Das Goravani