Sanjays tone today

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Hello everyone,

 

Reading Sanjays reply to Shiva, I am a bit surprised. Sanjays tone seems to

me to be rather forceful.

 

Shiva was respectful to Sanjay in his various posts yesterday, defending

Sanjay, explaining things so nicely. His only comment in negative tone was

one many of us agreed with, that it's not a good idea to talk about other

peoples charts in a negative way, (curses are negative), on a list,

especially when those kind of unfriendly dealings were going on.

 

Dr SP Choudhary, Myself, and Shiva, all asked for this same restraint, all

of us are professionals, intelligent, and friendly in wordings.

 

Today Sanjay comes back with strong tones, feigned questions, obviously

showing strong bravado, defending his position, which puts him by his own

hand above Shiva, myself, and the Doctor, who spoke with age and eloquence,

many could see.

 

I personally very much appreciated every word of Shivas posts, and told him

so privately twice. Perhaps I don't understand Indian ways. I am not Indian.

I did however see that the Dr. explained that such things are not

particularly Indian.

 

For myself, I have before, and now again, defended Sanjay, cleared the way

for him to speak openly on this list, to find the next day, that he is

coming on very strongly. This happened before. I remember pain.

 

I recognize his immense training in these fields, but I wonder if he could

not perhaps excercise more restraint and kindness, especially towards those

who show him kindness, such as Shiva and myself.

 

Not only was that letter to Shiva quite strong, but I asked that DND's chart

be NOT further discussed on this list. Please do NOT mention it anymore. I

respect DND enough as a human to ask that. I ask that. Please stop. No need

to write to tell me the mails crossed. I know that.

 

I want to alert Sanjay and others that I am a bit taken aback by the fact

that after a day of such dealings, when inner reflection is in order for all

of us, that he is able to return so fast with so much bravado for his

positions, which obviously many are having at least a wee bit of a hard time

with.

 

Sanjay, you have some power here by birth and training. Some here are your

"disciples", but there are many on this list who do not like you at all, and

they let me know such. Please, as an authority, show restraint and

magnanimity, please. Be "above" that which you do not like. Show mercy and

kindness. Do not ask feigned questions. Do not sound forceful or defensive.

It does not support the position you have assumed. You should be graceful

and peaceful. Isn't it so?

 

I do know how peace is created and achieved, and it's not by the way you

spoke to Shiv.

 

I defended you and protected you openly, so now I do this part openly as

well. This could have been avoided. I now wonder if you know how dealings

are conducted, in MOST of the world, not just "the West".

 

My honesty is universal. If I need to show step by step how rude your letter

was Sanjay, I will.

 

This list, is "open". It is not a private list for one individual or

organization. It is open to the world. That means, on this list, you are

just another person. I have written extensively about your speciality, to

help you, but that doesn't mean you now dominate this list. There are many

people here who already do not like you. You would do well for the sake of

the list and your own career to act humbly, as we all should.

 

I was really trying to get back to work. I am very sensitve, very easily

upset. The list achieved a peace, and Sanjay and MD have today broken that,

bringing up both sides of the old debate. It was clear to many, and Sanjay,

it was cleared for you to be you. I felt this anyway. Now you are ruining

that, and my day. I am again now getting yesterdays anxiety going.

 

Can you not stop with this, and just either give openly, or be quiet? Does

it have to be that you are boss, on top, challenging everybody, and putting

down somebody's chart?

 

Also, you imply seeking power is wrong, that is questionable. You imply many

things. I sincerely ask you to go look in the mirror. You have now ruined

my day to some degree, which hurts my mission, at a time in my career when I

badly need to focus. I need yesterday to end. PLEASE !

 

 

 

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