Varied opinions on marriage compatibility have confused me.

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This is the Compatibility Report generated by my software, Zodiac

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Zodiac Compatibility Report

 

 

Name of Boy BOY

 

Name of Girl GIRL

 

 

Stellar Compatibility

 

RASI PORUTHAM = GOOD

 

RASYADHIPA PORUTHAM = GOOD

 

VASYA PORUTHAM = NIL

 

MAHENDRA PORUTHAM = NIL

 

GANA PORUTHAM = GOOD

 

YONI PORUTHAM = GOOD

 

DINA PORUTHAM = GOOD

 

DEERGHA PORUTHAM = GOOD

-----------

RAJJU DOSHAM = NIL

 

VEDHA DOSHAM = NIL

 

SHASHTASHTAKA DOSHA = NIL

 

=================================================

 

 

STELLAR COMPATIBILITY IS EXCELLENT

===================================================

 

MALE HOROSCOPE PAPA = 10

 

FEMALE HOROSCOPE PAPA = 5

===================================================

 

PAPASAMYAM (Malefic Points Compatibility ) IS POOR

===================================================

IN GIRLS HOROSCOPE -MARS AFFLICTION (KUJA DOSHAM) = NIL

 

===================================================

 

IN BOYS HOROSCOPE - MARS AFFLICTION (KUJA DOSHAM) = NIL

 

===================================================

 

MALE HOROSCOPE Malefic Points ( PAPAPOINTS ) : 0

 

FEMALE HOROSCOPE Malefic PointS ( PAPAPOINTS ) : 1

========================================

 

MALE HOROSCOPE FEMALE HOROSCOPE

============= ================

DASA END DASA END

============= ================

KETU 31/10/1972 MARS 06/06/1987

VENUS 31/10/1992 RAHU 05/06/2005

SUN 01/11/1998 JUPITER 05/06/2021

MOON 31/10/2008 SATURN 05/06/2040

MARS 01/11/2015 MERCURY 05/06/2057

RAHU 31/10/2033 KETU 05/06/2064

JUPITER 31/10/2049 VENUS 05/06/2084

SATURN 31/10/2068 SUN 05/06/2090

MERCURY 31/10/2085 MOON 06/06/2100

=======================================

( Planetary Period Cusp ) DASA SANDHI = NIL

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RESULTANT CONCULSION : Total Matching is Good

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MG <manu

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Thursday, November 14, 2002 7:54 PM

[Vedic Astrology] Varied opinions on marriage

compatibility have confused me.

 

 

> Dear Gurus,

>

> Thanks to all gurus for their replies to my query about my

possible

> marriage compatibility with a person who is ten year elder to

me. I

> received five varied opinions, which I am attaching below for

the

> benefit of fellow junior learning people. It seems at times,

varied

> opinions rather confuse the person- decision rather become more

> difficult and complicated. Any comments by Gurus on this. See

the

> varied opinion after my query below.

>

> Thanks and Jai Sri Krishna,

>

> MG

>

> My query was:

>

> Dear sirs/madam,

>

> Please help me with the marriage compatibility of the following

two

> persons [(I am the girl partner in the alliance and as such

like the

> impressive persona of the boy)]

>

> Girl: Place of Birth: Amritsar, India (Lat. 31 N 35, Long. 74 E

53)

> Date of Birth:8th January 1982(02:27 am)

>

> Boy: Place of Birth: Jammu, India (Lat. 32 N 42, Long. 74 E 52)

> Date Of birth:14th April 1972 (20:23 pm).

>

> I am a little bit confused due to the age difference between

us.

> Thanks,

> MG

>

>

>

>

>

> Opinion 1:

>

> Dear MG,

> I quickly checked your (girl's) and boy's charts using junior

Jyotish

> free software. While SA does not believe in MANGALIK dosh, you

> need

> to know that you both have MANGALIKA dosh in your charts as

> explained

> below. While it may get cancelled being in both charts, I await

SA

> analysis by others. Both of you have similarities in your Birth

> Chart showing ASC as LIBRA Rasi (ruled by VENUS), and 7th

> House (of

> Spouse/Marriage) is ruled by ARIES Rasi (ruled by MARS).

>

> For you: MARS is in your 12th House w/SATURN in Virgo Rasi

> (sign of

> MERCURY) and your ASC is Libra--sign of VENUS with

> JUPITER in it; and

> your NAVAMSHA ASC has JUPITER in Aquarius--sign of

> SATURN; good thing

> is JUPITER is in ASC ib both your charts--JANMA and

> NAVAMSHA. This

> MANGALIK dosh, per classical texts, manifests itself if married

> before 28 years of age, which will be TRUE in your case, but

not the

> boy's.

>

> For Boy: MARS is in his 8th house w/SATURN and VENUS

> (significator

> of Wife) in Taurus Rasi (sign of VENUS) and his ASC is

Libra--sign

> of

> VENUS. Boy's NAVAMSHA chart shows ASC in Pisces with

> RAHU in it and

> KETU in 7th House (of Spouse,i.e., you and Marriage).

>

> NOTE: NAVAMSHA Chart is mainly seen for Marriage and

> Spouse.

>

> While I do not have time to do compatibility checks (eight

different

> ways), I recommend that you owe it to yourself to do it using

free

> software on many web sites and may even want to consult someone

> for

> doing a remedy known as "ARKH VIVAH" for MANGALIKA

> Dosh as you are

> under 28 years of age prior to getting married to any one.

> MAY GOD BLESS YOU!!!

> SAM

>

>

>

> Opinion 2:

>

> Dear MG,

>

> >From his chart we have:

>

> NEGATIVES:

>

> 5th lord Saturn, debilitated in Navamsha, is in the 8th and

afflicted

> by Rahu. This is not good for his digestive health or children

> ,especially with a weak Sun. He'll also be highly emotional.

>

> Lagna lord Venus and Mars, the significator for you the spouse,

both

> in

> the 8th renders them both weak. With the lagna lord in the 8th

and the

> Sun weak in infancy, the vitality and health aren't as good.

This is

> not good for the marriage.

>

> In Navamsha, the nodes are upon the 1/7 axis which is bad for

> self/spouse and the 12th lord of Rasi/7th lord of Navamsha is

in the

> 8th which also echoes problems on the conjugal front.

>

> In the Rasi, 12th lord Mercury is in the 6th afflicted by Ketu.

This

> is another indication of weak health, trouble to immune sytem,

and

> digestive problems. It also suggests losses in career and

insolvency

> from same due to litigations. Problems staying with the spouse,

loss of

> comforts etc..

>

> Looking for losses and litigation to the Shastamsha you find

that Mars

> the indicator for partners is debilitated. Mercury(losses) and

> Saturn(speculations) are the house of dispute/litigation.

> Interestingly, both nodes are in Saturn's 5th house of

speculation.

> Jupiter(entrepreneurial initiatives) and Moon(career) are in

the house

> of losses. So, there seem to be some recurrent themes of

problems

> with

> parnterships, disputes, and litigation with partners/spouse.

The impact

> of Mars, karaka for property, upon the 11th, 2nd, and 3rd could

> indicate real estate development.

>

> POSTIVES:

> The close association of Mars and Venus with the MEP provides

the

> status, charisma, and easy gains especially from partnerships &

> alliances with extra effort. The Moon's position, as 10th lord,

in the

> 7th suggests that these gains are career related rather than

from

> spouse (you).

>

> The strength and good placement of Jupiter shows strong morals,

> generosity, and benevolence. Jupiter's aspect to the Moon gives

> entrepreneurial initiatives with partners.

>

> The Sun's placement as karaka for income in the 7th of partners

is

> good

> and creates a connection between these two but the infancy of

the

> Sun

> keeps the results to a minimum.

>

> Overall, the chart is just OK. There are some serious problems

he will

> face in respect to business and litigation. The indications for

him for

> his spouse(potentially you) are poor also.

>

> >From YOUR chart:

>

> NEGATIVES:

>

> There are no close afflictions in the chart which is quite

excellent.

>

> Moon, Mars, and Saturn, howevcer, are weak by placement. 4th

lord

> Moon

> in the 8th isn't good for the career. The 7th lord in the 12th

isn't

> good for the spouse. Saturn, the 5th lord, in the 12th isn't

good for

> the children or digestive system.

>

> POSITIVES:

>

> The placement of Jupiter in the 1st house close to the MEPs of

the 1,

> 5th, 7th, and 9th as 3rd lord shows great ambition,

intelligence,

> seeking for a spouse, and good fortune from efforts and

> entrepreneurial

> initiatives. It also give great moral character. This is

especially so

> with the lagnesh Venus in close proximity to the 4th house MEP.

>

> The placement and strength of the Sun connects income with

> entrepreneurial initiatives.

>

> The good placement of Mercury, unafflicting in the chart,

insures good

> comforts, staying with the spouse, and a comfortable and

luxurious

> home.

>

> Overall, you have a very good chart. The close influence of

Mars,

> Jupiter, and Venus (all FBs) to the house MEPs is excellent.

The lack

> of any afflictions is excellent. By strengthening of Mars,

Saturn, and

> Moon (who are weak by placement) you would enjoy greater succes

> in

> matters related to spouse,children, and career, respectively.

>

> I would recommend you pass on this alliance. His chart shows

too

> many

> close afflictions for his life with you to be pleasant and

peaceful.

> The Mars/Venus combination in his chart gives the charisma you

are

> attracted to but you have to look at the whole package and

there is a

> lot of garbage there you'd do better to avoid.

>

> For you both as Librans, propitiations to Mercury, Rahu, and

Ketu

> are

> required.

>

> Peace and blessings,

>

> Matt

>

>

>

> Opinion 3:

>

> > MATCHING OF CHARTS for Marriage As per KP

> > Principles

> > Based on articles by Kuppu Ganapathi of

> > DELHI

> >

> >

> ------------------------------

-------

> >

> > BOY: BOY

> > GIRL GIRL

> > S/O D/O

> >

> > GOTHRAM:

> > Born on 14 - 4 - 1972 TIME 20 - 23 8

> > - 1 - 1982 TIME 2 - 27

> > PLACE JAMMU (TAWI) J& K

> > AMRITSAR PUNJAB

> > STAR Ashwini-PADA 4

> > Mrigshira-PADA 1

> >

> > CRITERION

> > MARKS

> > 1 CHARACTERISTICS COMPATIBILITY

> > 100

> > 2 HARMONY IN MARRIED LIFE

> > 0

> > 3 ATTITUDES AND URGES

> > 100

> > 4 GENERAL HAPPINESS

> > 100

> > 5 MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING BETWEEN COUPLES

> > AFTER MARRIAGE 75

> > 6 PLEASURE,HAPPINESS DUE TO CHILD BIRTH

> > AFTER MARRIAGE 100

> > 7 GENERAL SUITABILITY FOR MARRIAGE

> > 85

> > 8 LIKELY HOOD OF MARRAIAGE WITH THIS BOY

> > AND GIRL 100

> > 9 SMOOTHNESS OF MARRIED LIFE

> > 67

> > 10 WETHER THE PERIOD LORDS NOW OPERATING

> IN

> > BOTH CHARTS

> > NOW INDICATE DESIRABILITY OF MATCHING

> > FOR MARRIAGE 34

> >

> > TOTAL

> > 761

> > Matching Percentage is

> > 76%

> > BEST MATCHING A VERY HAPPY MARRIED LIFE

> > FORSEEN

> > BOYs Mangala : MANGALA DOSHA Seen

> > DOSHA is Mitigated as in VEN Sign

> > GIRLs Mangala : MANGALA DOSHA Seen

> > DOSHA is mitigated as SATurn aspects

> > Mars

> > JOINT M DOSHA :

> > BOYs Children: CHILDREN FORSEEN

> > GIRLs Children: CHILDREN FORSEEN

> > RAHU LAGNA FROM GIRL SATISFIED

> > GUNAS OF ALL PLANETS OF BOY AND GIRL

> > MOON TO MOON 23.5 VERY GOOD

> >

> > VERY GOOD PROSPECTS OF THE TWO GETTING

> > MARRIED

> >

> > GOOD LUCK

>

>

>

>

>

> Opinion 4:

>

> Here is the compatability done for the boy and the girl

>

> Groom:

> ------------------------------

-------

> Planet Longitude Rasi House D/R Nakshatra NakPad

> NakLord

> ------------------------------

-------

> Ascendant 199:32:9 7 1 D Swati 4 Rah

> Sun 1:16:43 1 7 D Ashwini 1 Ket

> Moon 12:13:23 1 7 D Ashwini 4 Ket

> Mars 48:31:32 2 8 D Rohini 3 Mon

> Mercury 340:12:34 12 6 D UttaraBhadra 3 Sat

> Jupiter 254:40:52 9 3 D Purvashada 1 Ven

> Venus 46:51:35 2 8 D Rohini 3 Mon

> Saturn 40:43:59 2 8 D Rohini 1 Mon

> Rahu 277:36:49 10 4 R Uttarashada 4 Sun

> Ketu 97:36:49 4 10 R Pushya 2 Sat

> ------------------------------

-------

>

> Bride:

> ------------------------------

-------

> Planet Longitude Rasi House D/R Nakshatra NakPad

> NakLord

> ------------------------------

-------

> Ascendant 195:47:36 7 1 D Swati 3 Rah

> Sun 263:39:5 9 3 D Purvashada 4 Ven

> Moon 56:21:22 2 8 D Mrigasira 1 Mar

> Mars 166:9:8 6 12 D Hasta 2 Mon

> Mercury 279:46:12 10 4 D Uttarashada 4 Sun

> Jupiter 193:26:0 7 1 D Swati 3 Rah

> Venus 284:15:47 10 4 R Shravana 2 Mon

> Saturn 178:9:55 6 12 D Chitra 2 Mar

> Rahu 89:13:18 3 9 R Punarvasu 3 Jup

> Ketu 269:13:18 9 3 R Uttarashada 1 Sun

> ------------------------------

-------

> ---------------------

> Planets Relationship

> ---------------------

> Ascendant 1-1

> Sun 5-9

> Mercury 3-11

> Venus 5-9

> Mars 3-11

> Jupiter 3-11

> Saturn 5-9

> Moon 2-12

> Rahu/Ketu 6-8

> ---------------------

> The planetary relationship looks good except that Moon has 2-12

> relation in both the horoscopes but then Mars and Venus are

neutral

> to each other who rules Aries and Taurus. So that factor can be

> ignored. Rahu/Ketu in 6/8 should be fine as all other planetary

> relations are good either 5-9 or 3-11.

>

> Compatibility

> ------------------------------

-------

> Parameters Results Groom Bride

> ------------------------------

-------

> Varna 1 Kshatriya Vaishyas

> Vashya 2 Chatuspad Chatuspad

> Tara 1.5 Ashwini(5) Mrigasira

> (24/9R6)

> Yoni 1 Horse Serpent

> Graha-Maitri 3 Aries (Mars) Taurus

(Venus)

> Gana 6 Deva Deva

> Bhakoota 0 Aries-Taurus (2) Taurus-Aries

> (12)

> Nadi 8 Adi Madhya

> ------------------------------

-------

> Total 22.5

> ------------------------------

-------

> *: Some Authorities say that if the brides nakshtra is 2nd from

> groom's nakshatra then it is not as malefic as vice-versa.

>

> Here they get 22.5 points, which I think are good besides the

fact

> that Bhakoota dosha can be deemed to be cancelled according to

> some

> if the bride is 2nd from the grooms rasi.

>

> Dosha:

>

> Acc. to Dr. B.V. Raman here it the Dosha table:

> ---------------------------

> State 8th and 7th 4th, 12th and 2nd

> ---------------------------

> Mars Saturn Sun Mars Saturn Sun

> Rahu Rahu

> Ketu Ketu

> ---------------------------

>

> Debility 100 75 50 50 37.5 25

> Inimical 90 67.5 45 45 33.75 22.5

> Neutral 80 60 40 40 30 20

> Friendly 70 52.5 35 35 26.25 17.5

> Own 60 45 30 30 22.5 15

> Exaltation 50 37.5 25 25 18.75 12.5

> ---------------------------

> Groom:

> Mars,Saturn in 8th house = 80 (Neutral) + 52.5 (Friendly)

> Sun in 7th house = 25 (Exaltation)

> Rahu in 4th house = 26.25 (Friendly)

> Total: 183.75

>

> Bride:

> Mars, Saturn in 12th house = 40 (Neutral) + 26.25 (Friendly)

> Total: 66.25

>

> If you look at the dosha table, it seems the groom has more

dosha

> than the bride. The important factor in the chart other than

that is

> Jupiter is aspecting the 7th house in both the cases and Mars

and

> Saturn are toghether. Also, the groom's age is more than 27, so

its

> good.

>

> Conclusion: Looking at the current Dasa and other factors

besides

> iterated above I would say that the Match is Fair. So Marriage

can be

> done between these two.

>

>

>

> Opinion 5:

>

> Both you and your fiance were born under the same

> nakshatra, but on different padas, which shows that

> both of you are fairly compatible. You should request

> someone to compute the kuta points for your marriage

> compatibility (there is a website that offers free

> compatibility analysis). If the points are 16 points

> and above, your success in the marriage will be

> increased.

>

> As noted by others, you and your fiance have kujadosha

> which is a good sign for compatibility. In my

> opinion, the presence of kujadosha in both your charts

> cancel out the negative effects of this yoga.

>

> Regards,

>

> John R.

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Dear Gurus,

 

Thanks to all gurus for their replies to my query about my possible

marriage compatibility with a person who is ten year elder to me. I

received five varied opinions, which I am attaching below for the

benefit of fellow junior learning people. It seems at times, varied

opinions rather confuse the person- decision rather become more

difficult and complicated. Any comments by Gurus on this. See the

varied opinion after my query below.

 

Thanks and Jai Sri Krishna,

 

MG

 

My query was:

 

Dear sirs/madam,

 

Please help me with the marriage compatibility of the following two

persons [(I am the girl partner in the alliance and as such like the

impressive persona of the boy)]

 

Girl: Place of Birth: Amritsar, India (Lat. 31 N 35, Long. 74 E 53)

Date of Birth:8th January 1982(02:27 am)

 

Boy: Place of Birth: Jammu, India (Lat. 32 N 42, Long. 74 E 52)

Date Of birth:14th April 1972 (20:23 pm).

 

I am a little bit confused due to the age difference between us.

Thanks,

MG

 

 

 

 

 

Opinion 1:

 

Dear MG,

I quickly checked your (girl's) and boy's charts using junior Jyotish

free software. While SA does not believe in MANGALIK dosh, you

need

to know that you both have MANGALIKA dosh in your charts as

explained

below. While it may get cancelled being in both charts, I await SA

analysis by others. Both of you have similarities in your Birth

Chart showing ASC as LIBRA Rasi (ruled by VENUS), and 7th

House (of

Spouse/Marriage) is ruled by ARIES Rasi (ruled by MARS).

 

For you: MARS is in your 12th House w/SATURN in Virgo Rasi

(sign of

MERCURY) and your ASC is Libra--sign of VENUS with

JUPITER in it; and

your NAVAMSHA ASC has JUPITER in Aquarius--sign of

SATURN; good thing

is JUPITER is in ASC ib both your charts--JANMA and

NAVAMSHA. This

MANGALIK dosh, per classical texts, manifests itself if married

before 28 years of age, which will be TRUE in your case, but not the

boy's.

 

For Boy: MARS is in his 8th house w/SATURN and VENUS

(significator

of Wife) in Taurus Rasi (sign of VENUS) and his ASC is Libra--sign

of

VENUS. Boy's NAVAMSHA chart shows ASC in Pisces with

RAHU in it and

KETU in 7th House (of Spouse,i.e., you and Marriage).

 

NOTE: NAVAMSHA Chart is mainly seen for Marriage and

Spouse.

 

While I do not have time to do compatibility checks (eight different

ways), I recommend that you owe it to yourself to do it using free

software on many web sites and may even want to consult someone

for

doing a remedy known as "ARKH VIVAH" for MANGALIKA

Dosh as you are

under 28 years of age prior to getting married to any one.

MAY GOD BLESS YOU!!!

SAM

 

 

 

Opinion 2:

 

Dear MG,

 

>From his chart we have:

 

NEGATIVES:

 

5th lord Saturn, debilitated in Navamsha, is in the 8th and afflicted

by Rahu. This is not good for his digestive health or children

,especially with a weak Sun. He'll also be highly emotional.

 

Lagna lord Venus and Mars, the significator for you the spouse, both

in

the 8th renders them both weak. With the lagna lord in the 8th and the

Sun weak in infancy, the vitality and health aren't as good. This is

not good for the marriage.

 

In Navamsha, the nodes are upon the 1/7 axis which is bad for

self/spouse and the 12th lord of Rasi/7th lord of Navamsha is in the

8th which also echoes problems on the conjugal front.

 

In the Rasi, 12th lord Mercury is in the 6th afflicted by Ketu. This

is another indication of weak health, trouble to immune sytem, and

digestive problems. It also suggests losses in career and insolvency

from same due to litigations. Problems staying with the spouse, loss of

comforts etc..

 

Looking for losses and litigation to the Shastamsha you find that Mars

the indicator for partners is debilitated. Mercury(losses) and

Saturn(speculations) are the house of dispute/litigation.

Interestingly, both nodes are in Saturn's 5th house of speculation.

Jupiter(entrepreneurial initiatives) and Moon(career) are in the house

of losses. So, there seem to be some recurrent themes of problems

with

parnterships, disputes, and litigation with partners/spouse. The impact

of Mars, karaka for property, upon the 11th, 2nd, and 3rd could

indicate real estate development.

 

POSTIVES:

The close association of Mars and Venus with the MEP provides the

status, charisma, and easy gains especially from partnerships &

alliances with extra effort. The Moon's position, as 10th lord, in the

7th suggests that these gains are career related rather than from

spouse (you).

 

The strength and good placement of Jupiter shows strong morals,

generosity, and benevolence. Jupiter's aspect to the Moon gives

entrepreneurial initiatives with partners.

 

The Sun's placement as karaka for income in the 7th of partners is

good

and creates a connection between these two but the infancy of the

Sun

keeps the results to a minimum.

 

Overall, the chart is just OK. There are some serious problems he will

face in respect to business and litigation. The indications for him for

his spouse(potentially you) are poor also.

 

>From YOUR chart:

 

NEGATIVES:

 

There are no close afflictions in the chart which is quite excellent.

 

Moon, Mars, and Saturn, howevcer, are weak by placement. 4th lord

Moon

in the 8th isn't good for the career. The 7th lord in the 12th isn't

good for the spouse. Saturn, the 5th lord, in the 12th isn't good for

the children or digestive system.

 

POSITIVES:

 

The placement of Jupiter in the 1st house close to the MEPs of the 1,

5th, 7th, and 9th as 3rd lord shows great ambition, intelligence,

seeking for a spouse, and good fortune from efforts and

entrepreneurial

initiatives. It also give great moral character. This is especially so

with the lagnesh Venus in close proximity to the 4th house MEP.

 

The placement and strength of the Sun connects income with

entrepreneurial initiatives.

 

The good placement of Mercury, unafflicting in the chart, insures good

comforts, staying with the spouse, and a comfortable and luxurious

home.

 

Overall, you have a very good chart. The close influence of Mars,

Jupiter, and Venus (all FBs) to the house MEPs is excellent. The lack

of any afflictions is excellent. By strengthening of Mars, Saturn, and

Moon (who are weak by placement) you would enjoy greater succes

in

matters related to spouse,children, and career, respectively.

 

I would recommend you pass on this alliance. His chart shows too

many

close afflictions for his life with you to be pleasant and peaceful.

The Mars/Venus combination in his chart gives the charisma you are

attracted to but you have to look at the whole package and there is a

lot of garbage there you'd do better to avoid.

 

For you both as Librans, propitiations to Mercury, Rahu, and Ketu

are

required.

 

Peace and blessings,

 

Matt

 

 

 

Opinion 3:

 

> MATCHING OF CHARTS for Marriage As per KP

> Principles

> Based on articles by Kuppu Ganapathi of

> DELHI

>

>

----

>

> BOY: BOY

> GIRL GIRL

> S/O D/O

>

> GOTHRAM:

> Born on 14 - 4 - 1972 TIME 20 - 23 8

> - 1 - 1982 TIME 2 - 27

> PLACE JAMMU (TAWI) J& K

> AMRITSAR PUNJAB

> STAR Ashwini-PADA 4

> Mrigshira-PADA 1

>

> CRITERION

> MARKS

> 1 CHARACTERISTICS COMPATIBILITY

> 100

> 2 HARMONY IN MARRIED LIFE

> 0

> 3 ATTITUDES AND URGES

> 100

> 4 GENERAL HAPPINESS

> 100

> 5 MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING BETWEEN COUPLES

> AFTER MARRIAGE 75

> 6 PLEASURE,HAPPINESS DUE TO CHILD BIRTH

> AFTER MARRIAGE 100

> 7 GENERAL SUITABILITY FOR MARRIAGE

> 85

> 8 LIKELY HOOD OF MARRAIAGE WITH THIS BOY

> AND GIRL 100

> 9 SMOOTHNESS OF MARRIED LIFE

> 67

> 10 WETHER THE PERIOD LORDS NOW OPERATING

IN

> BOTH CHARTS

> NOW INDICATE DESIRABILITY OF MATCHING

> FOR MARRIAGE 34

>

> TOTAL

> 761

> Matching Percentage is

> 76%

> BEST MATCHING A VERY HAPPY MARRIED LIFE

> FORSEEN

> BOYs Mangala : MANGALA DOSHA Seen

> DOSHA is Mitigated as in VEN Sign

> GIRLs Mangala : MANGALA DOSHA Seen

> DOSHA is mitigated as SATurn aspects

> Mars

> JOINT M DOSHA :

> BOYs Children: CHILDREN FORSEEN

> GIRLs Children: CHILDREN FORSEEN

> RAHU LAGNA FROM GIRL SATISFIED

> GUNAS OF ALL PLANETS OF BOY AND GIRL

> MOON TO MOON 23.5 VERY GOOD

>

> VERY GOOD PROSPECTS OF THE TWO GETTING

> MARRIED

>

> GOOD LUCK

 

 

 

 

 

Opinion 4:

 

Here is the compatability done for the boy and the girl

 

Groom:

----

Planet Longitude Rasi House D/R Nakshatra NakPad

NakLord

----

Ascendant 199:32:9 7 1 D Swati 4 Rah

Sun 1:16:43 1 7 D Ashwini 1 Ket

Moon 12:13:23 1 7 D Ashwini 4 Ket

Mars 48:31:32 2 8 D Rohini 3 Mon

Mercury 340:12:34 12 6 D UttaraBhadra 3 Sat

Jupiter 254:40:52 9 3 D Purvashada 1 Ven

Venus 46:51:35 2 8 D Rohini 3 Mon

Saturn 40:43:59 2 8 D Rohini 1 Mon

Rahu 277:36:49 10 4 R Uttarashada 4 Sun

Ketu 97:36:49 4 10 R Pushya 2 Sat

----

 

Bride:

----

Planet Longitude Rasi House D/R Nakshatra NakPad

NakLord

----

Ascendant 195:47:36 7 1 D Swati 3 Rah

Sun 263:39:5 9 3 D Purvashada 4 Ven

Moon 56:21:22 2 8 D Mrigasira 1 Mar

Mars 166:9:8 6 12 D Hasta 2 Mon

Mercury 279:46:12 10 4 D Uttarashada 4 Sun

Jupiter 193:26:0 7 1 D Swati 3 Rah

Venus 284:15:47 10 4 R Shravana 2 Mon

Saturn 178:9:55 6 12 D Chitra 2 Mar

Rahu 89:13:18 3 9 R Punarvasu 3 Jup

Ketu 269:13:18 9 3 R Uttarashada 1 Sun

----

---------------------

Planets Relationship

---------------------

Ascendant 1-1

Sun 5-9

Mercury 3-11

Venus 5-9

Mars 3-11

Jupiter 3-11

Saturn 5-9

Moon 2-12

Rahu/Ketu 6-8

---------------------

The planetary relationship looks good except that Moon has 2-12

relation in both the horoscopes but then Mars and Venus are neutral

to each other who rules Aries and Taurus. So that factor can be

ignored. Rahu/Ketu in 6/8 should be fine as all other planetary

relations are good either 5-9 or 3-11.

 

Compatibility

----

Parameters Results Groom Bride

----

Varna 1 Kshatriya Vaishyas

Vashya 2 Chatuspad Chatuspad

Tara 1.5 Ashwini(5) Mrigasira

(24/9R6)

Yoni 1 Horse Serpent

Graha-Maitri 3 Aries (Mars) Taurus (Venus)

Gana 6 Deva Deva

Bhakoota 0 Aries-Taurus (2) Taurus-Aries

(12)

Nadi 8 Adi Madhya

----

Total 22.5

----

*: Some Authorities say that if the brides nakshtra is 2nd from

groom's nakshatra then it is not as malefic as vice-versa.

 

Here they get 22.5 points, which I think are good besides the fact

that Bhakoota dosha can be deemed to be cancelled according to

some

if the bride is 2nd from the grooms rasi.

 

Dosha:

 

Acc. to Dr. B.V. Raman here it the Dosha table:

---------------------------

State 8th and 7th 4th, 12th and 2nd

---------------------------

Mars Saturn Sun Mars Saturn Sun

Rahu Rahu

Ketu Ketu

---------------------------

 

Debility 100 75 50 50 37.5 25

Inimical 90 67.5 45 45 33.75 22.5

Neutral 80 60 40 40 30 20

Friendly 70 52.5 35 35 26.25 17.5

Own 60 45 30 30 22.5 15

Exaltation 50 37.5 25 25 18.75 12.5

---------------------------

Groom:

Mars,Saturn in 8th house = 80 (Neutral) + 52.5 (Friendly)

Sun in 7th house = 25 (Exaltation)

Rahu in 4th house = 26.25 (Friendly)

Total: 183.75

 

Bride:

Mars, Saturn in 12th house = 40 (Neutral) + 26.25 (Friendly)

Total: 66.25

 

If you look at the dosha table, it seems the groom has more dosha

than the bride. The important factor in the chart other than that is

Jupiter is aspecting the 7th house in both the cases and Mars and

Saturn are toghether. Also, the groom's age is more than 27, so its

good.

 

Conclusion: Looking at the current Dasa and other factors besides

iterated above I would say that the Match is Fair. So Marriage can be

done between these two.

 

 

 

Opinion 5:

 

Both you and your fiance were born under the same

nakshatra, but on different padas, which shows that

both of you are fairly compatible. You should request

someone to compute the kuta points for your marriage

compatibility (there is a website that offers free

compatibility analysis). If the points are 16 points

and above, your success in the marriage will be

increased.

 

As noted by others, you and your fiance have kujadosha

which is a good sign for compatibility. In my

opinion, the presence of kujadosha in both your charts

cancel out the negative effects of this yoga.

 

Regards,

 

John R.

[Guest guest]

on 11/14/02 6:24 AM, MG at manu wrote:

 

 

Learned Gurus and all,

 

Pardon me but this example very much resembles what we find in western

astrology. Mixed possibilities and differences of opinion over the same

charts.

 

Sally H

> Dear Gurus,

>

> Thanks to all gurus for their replies to my query about my possible

> marriage compatibility with a person who is ten year elder to me. I

> received five varied opinions, which I am attaching below for the

> benefit of fellow junior learning people. It seems at times, varied

> opinions rather confuse the person- decision rather become more

> difficult and complicated. Any comments by Gurus on this. See the

> varied opinion after my query below.

>

> Thanks and Jai Sri Krishna,

>

> MG

>

> My query was:

>

> Dear sirs/madam,

>

> Please help me with the marriage compatibility of the following two

> persons [(I am the girl partner in the alliance and as such like the

> impressive persona of the boy)]

>

> Girl: Place of Birth: Amritsar, India (Lat. 31 N 35, Long. 74 E 53)

> Date of Birth:8th January 1982(02:27 am)

>

> Boy: Place of Birth: Jammu, India (Lat. 32 N 42, Long. 74 E 52)

> Date Of birth:14th April 1972 (20:23 pm).

>

> I am a little bit confused due to the age difference between us.

> Thanks,

> MG

>

>

>

>

>

> Opinion 1:

>

> Dear MG,

> I quickly checked your (girl's) and boy's charts using junior Jyotish

> free software. While SA does not believe in MANGALIK dosh, you

> need

> to know that you both have MANGALIKA dosh in your charts as

> explained

> below. While it may get cancelled being in both charts, I await SA

> analysis by others. Both of you have similarities in your Birth

> Chart showing ASC as LIBRA Rasi (ruled by VENUS), and 7th

> House (of

> Spouse/Marriage) is ruled by ARIES Rasi (ruled by MARS).

>

> For you: MARS is in your 12th House w/SATURN in Virgo Rasi

> (sign of

> MERCURY) and your ASC is Libra--sign of VENUS with

> JUPITER in it; and

> your NAVAMSHA ASC has JUPITER in Aquarius--sign of

> SATURN; good thing

> is JUPITER is in ASC ib both your charts--JANMA and

> NAVAMSHA. This

> MANGALIK dosh, per classical texts, manifests itself if married

> before 28 years of age, which will be TRUE in your case, but not the

> boy's.

>

> For Boy: MARS is in his 8th house w/SATURN and VENUS

> (significator

> of Wife) in Taurus Rasi (sign of VENUS) and his ASC is Libra--sign

> of

> VENUS. Boy's NAVAMSHA chart shows ASC in Pisces with

> RAHU in it and

> KETU in 7th House (of Spouse,i.e., you and Marriage).

>

> NOTE: NAVAMSHA Chart is mainly seen for Marriage and

> Spouse.

>

> While I do not have time to do compatibility checks (eight different

> ways), I recommend that you owe it to yourself to do it using free

> software on many web sites and may even want to consult someone

> for

> doing a remedy known as "ARKH VIVAH" for MANGALIKA

> Dosh as you are

> under 28 years of age prior to getting married to any one.

> MAY GOD BLESS YOU!!!

> SAM

>

>

>

> Opinion 2:

>

> Dear MG,

>

>> From his chart we have:

>

> NEGATIVES:

>

> 5th lord Saturn, debilitated in Navamsha, is in the 8th and afflicted

> by Rahu. This is not good for his digestive health or children

> ,especially with a weak Sun. He'll also be highly emotional.

>

> Lagna lord Venus and Mars, the significator for you the spouse, both

> in

> the 8th renders them both weak. With the lagna lord in the 8th and the

> Sun weak in infancy, the vitality and health aren't as good. This is

> not good for the marriage.

>

> In Navamsha, the nodes are upon the 1/7 axis which is bad for

> self/spouse and the 12th lord of Rasi/7th lord of Navamsha is in the

> 8th which also echoes problems on the conjugal front.

>

> In the Rasi, 12th lord Mercury is in the 6th afflicted by Ketu. This

> is another indication of weak health, trouble to immune sytem, and

> digestive problems. It also suggests losses in career and insolvency

> from same due to litigations. Problems staying with the spouse, loss of

> comforts etc..

>

> Looking for losses and litigation to the Shastamsha you find that Mars

> the indicator for partners is debilitated. Mercury(losses) and

> Saturn(speculations) are the house of dispute/litigation.

> Interestingly, both nodes are in Saturn's 5th house of speculation.

> Jupiter(entrepreneurial initiatives) and Moon(career) are in the house

> of losses. So, there seem to be some recurrent themes of problems

> with

> parnterships, disputes, and litigation with partners/spouse. The impact

> of Mars, karaka for property, upon the 11th, 2nd, and 3rd could

> indicate real estate development.

>

> POSTIVES:

> The close association of Mars and Venus with the MEP provides the

> status, charisma, and easy gains especially from partnerships &

> alliances with extra effort. The Moon's position, as 10th lord, in the

> 7th suggests that these gains are career related rather than from

> spouse (you).

>

> The strength and good placement of Jupiter shows strong morals,

> generosity, and benevolence. Jupiter's aspect to the Moon gives

> entrepreneurial initiatives with partners.

>

> The Sun's placement as karaka for income in the 7th of partners is

> good

> and creates a connection between these two but the infancy of the

> Sun

> keeps the results to a minimum.

>

> Overall, the chart is just OK. There are some serious problems he will

> face in respect to business and litigation. The indications for him for

> his spouse(potentially you) are poor also.

>

>> From YOUR chart:

>

> NEGATIVES:

>

> There are no close afflictions in the chart which is quite excellent.

>

> Moon, Mars, and Saturn, howevcer, are weak by placement. 4th lord

> Moon

> in the 8th isn't good for the career. The 7th lord in the 12th isn't

> good for the spouse. Saturn, the 5th lord, in the 12th isn't good for

> the children or digestive system.

>

> POSITIVES:

>

> The placement of Jupiter in the 1st house close to the MEPs of the 1,

> 5th, 7th, and 9th as 3rd lord shows great ambition, intelligence,

> seeking for a spouse, and good fortune from efforts and

> entrepreneurial

> initiatives. It also give great moral character. This is especially so

> with the lagnesh Venus in close proximity to the 4th house MEP.

>

> The placement and strength of the Sun connects income with

> entrepreneurial initiatives.

>

> The good placement of Mercury, unafflicting in the chart, insures good

> comforts, staying with the spouse, and a comfortable and luxurious

> home.

>

> Overall, you have a very good chart. The close influence of Mars,

> Jupiter, and Venus (all FBs) to the house MEPs is excellent. The lack

> of any afflictions is excellent. By strengthening of Mars, Saturn, and

> Moon (who are weak by placement) you would enjoy greater succes

> in

> matters related to spouse,children, and career, respectively.

>

> I would recommend you pass on this alliance. His chart shows too

> many

> close afflictions for his life with you to be pleasant and peaceful.

> The Mars/Venus combination in his chart gives the charisma you are

> attracted to but you have to look at the whole package and there is a

> lot of garbage there you'd do better to avoid.

>

> For you both as Librans, propitiations to Mercury, Rahu, and Ketu

> are

> required.

>

> Peace and blessings,

>

> Matt

>

>

>

> Opinion 3:

>

>> MATCHING OF CHARTS for Marriage As per KP

>> Principles

>> Based on articles by Kuppu Ganapathi of

>> DELHI

>>

>>

> ----

>>

>> BOY: BOY

>> GIRL GIRL

>> S/O D/O

>>

>> GOTHRAM:

>> Born on 14 - 4 - 1972 TIME 20 - 23 8

>> - 1 - 1982 TIME 2 - 27

>> PLACE JAMMU (TAWI) J& K

>> AMRITSAR PUNJAB

>> STAR Ashwini-PADA 4

>> Mrigshira-PADA 1

>>

>> CRITERION

>> MARKS

>> 1 CHARACTERISTICS COMPATIBILITY

>> 100

>> 2 HARMONY IN MARRIED LIFE

>> 0

>> 3 ATTITUDES AND URGES

>> 100

>> 4 GENERAL HAPPINESS

>> 100

>> 5 MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING BETWEEN COUPLES

>> AFTER MARRIAGE 75

>> 6 PLEASURE,HAPPINESS DUE TO CHILD BIRTH

>> AFTER MARRIAGE 100

>> 7 GENERAL SUITABILITY FOR MARRIAGE

>> 85

>> 8 LIKELY HOOD OF MARRAIAGE WITH THIS BOY

>> AND GIRL 100

>> 9 SMOOTHNESS OF MARRIED LIFE

>> 67

>> 10 WETHER THE PERIOD LORDS NOW OPERATING

> IN

>> BOTH CHARTS

>> NOW INDICATE DESIRABILITY OF MATCHING

>> FOR MARRIAGE 34

>>

>> TOTAL

>> 761

>> Matching Percentage is

>> 76%

>> BEST MATCHING A VERY HAPPY MARRIED LIFE

>> FORSEEN

>> BOYs Mangala : MANGALA DOSHA Seen

>> DOSHA is Mitigated as in VEN Sign

>> GIRLs Mangala : MANGALA DOSHA Seen

>> DOSHA is mitigated as SATurn aspects

>> Mars

>> JOINT M DOSHA :

>> BOYs Children: CHILDREN FORSEEN

>> GIRLs Children: CHILDREN FORSEEN

>> RAHU LAGNA FROM GIRL SATISFIED

>> GUNAS OF ALL PLANETS OF BOY AND GIRL

>> MOON TO MOON 23.5 VERY GOOD

>>

>> VERY GOOD PROSPECTS OF THE TWO GETTING

>> MARRIED

>>

>> GOOD LUCK

>

>

>

>

>

> Opinion 4:

>

> Here is the compatability done for the boy and the girl

>

> Groom:

> ----

> Planet Longitude Rasi House D/R Nakshatra NakPad

> NakLord

> ----

> Ascendant 199:32:9 7 1 D Swati 4 Rah

> Sun 1:16:43 1 7 D Ashwini 1 Ket

> Moon 12:13:23 1 7 D Ashwini 4 Ket

> Mars 48:31:32 2 8 D Rohini 3 Mon

> Mercury 340:12:34 12 6 D UttaraBhadra 3 Sat

> Jupiter 254:40:52 9 3 D Purvashada 1 Ven

> Venus 46:51:35 2 8 D Rohini 3 Mon

> Saturn 40:43:59 2 8 D Rohini 1 Mon

> Rahu 277:36:49 10 4 R Uttarashada 4 Sun

> Ketu 97:36:49 4 10 R Pushya 2 Sat

> ----

>

> Bride:

> ----

> Planet Longitude Rasi House D/R Nakshatra NakPad

> NakLord

> ----

> Ascendant 195:47:36 7 1 D Swati 3 Rah

> Sun 263:39:5 9 3 D Purvashada 4 Ven

> Moon 56:21:22 2 8 D Mrigasira 1 Mar

> Mars 166:9:8 6 12 D Hasta 2 Mon

> Mercury 279:46:12 10 4 D Uttarashada 4 Sun

> Jupiter 193:26:0 7 1 D Swati 3 Rah

> Venus 284:15:47 10 4 R Shravana 2 Mon

> Saturn 178:9:55 6 12 D Chitra 2 Mar

> Rahu 89:13:18 3 9 R Punarvasu 3 Jup

> Ketu 269:13:18 9 3 R Uttarashada 1 Sun

> ----

> ---------------------

> Planets Relationship

> ---------------------

> Ascendant 1-1

> Sun 5-9

> Mercury 3-11

> Venus 5-9

> Mars 3-11

> Jupiter 3-11

> Saturn 5-9

> Moon 2-12

> Rahu/Ketu 6-8

> ---------------------

> The planetary relationship looks good except that Moon has 2-12

> relation in both the horoscopes but then Mars and Venus are neutral

> to each other who rules Aries and Taurus. So that factor can be

> ignored. Rahu/Ketu in 6/8 should be fine as all other planetary

> relations are good either 5-9 or 3-11.

>

> Compatibility

> ----

> Parameters Results Groom Bride

> ----

> Varna 1 Kshatriya Vaishyas

> Vashya 2 Chatuspad Chatuspad

> Tara 1.5 Ashwini(5) Mrigasira

> (24/9R6)

> Yoni 1 Horse Serpent

> Graha-Maitri 3 Aries (Mars) Taurus (Venus)

> Gana 6 Deva Deva

> Bhakoota 0 Aries-Taurus (2) Taurus-Aries

> (12)

> Nadi 8 Adi Madhya

> ----

> Total 22.5

> ----

> *: Some Authorities say that if the brides nakshtra is 2nd from

> groom's nakshatra then it is not as malefic as vice-versa.

>

> Here they get 22.5 points, which I think are good besides the fact

> that Bhakoota dosha can be deemed to be cancelled according to

> some

> if the bride is 2nd from the grooms rasi.

>

> Dosha:

>

> Acc. to Dr. B.V. Raman here it the Dosha table:

> ---------------------------

> State 8th and 7th 4th, 12th and 2nd

> ---------------------------

> Mars Saturn Sun Mars Saturn Sun

> Rahu Rahu

> Ketu Ketu

> ---------------------------

>

> Debility 100 75 50 50 37.5 25

> Inimical 90 67.5 45 45 33.75 22.5

> Neutral 80 60 40 40 30 20

> Friendly 70 52.5 35 35 26.25 17.5

> Own 60 45 30 30 22.5 15

> Exaltation 50 37.5 25 25 18.75 12.5

> ---------------------------

> Groom:

> Mars,Saturn in 8th house = 80 (Neutral) + 52.5 (Friendly)

> Sun in 7th house = 25 (Exaltation)

> Rahu in 4th house = 26.25 (Friendly)

> Total: 183.75

>

> Bride:

> Mars, Saturn in 12th house = 40 (Neutral) + 26.25 (Friendly)

> Total: 66.25

>

> If you look at the dosha table, it seems the groom has more dosha

> than the bride. The important factor in the chart other than that is

> Jupiter is aspecting the 7th house in both the cases and Mars and

> Saturn are toghether. Also, the groom's age is more than 27, so its

> good.

>

> Conclusion: Looking at the current Dasa and other factors besides

> iterated above I would say that the Match is Fair. So Marriage can be

> done between these two.

>

>

>

> Opinion 5:

>

> Both you and your fiance were born under the same

> nakshatra, but on different padas, which shows that

> both of you are fairly compatible. You should request

> someone to compute the kuta points for your marriage

> compatibility (there is a website that offers free

> compatibility analysis). If the points are 16 points

> and above, your success in the marriage will be

> increased.

>

> As noted by others, you and your fiance have kujadosha

> which is a good sign for compatibility. In my

> opinion, the presence of kujadosha in both your charts

> cancel out the negative effects of this yoga.

>

> Regards,

>

> John R.

>

>

>

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>

[Guest guest]

Dear MG,

here is a computer report from Kala Vedic Astrology Software that is

pretty extensive, which will help you get an idea of matchting the

Moons.

 

Jai Ram,

Ernst Wilhelm

www.vedic astrology.net

 

The traditional method of relationship compatibility based upon

the Moons of the couple determines their fundamental compatibility. It

measures the flow of the life force, or energy, between the two people,

whether harmonious or inharmonious. This energy must flow from a

positive to a negative terminal, just like a battery, for best results.

Any obstructions to this flow may create a loss of power and therefore

inertia, or a short circuit that may quickly heat up and explode.

Several of the Kutas (matchings) measure to see if there is such an

obstruction to the flow of the couple's energies. These are the most

important Kutas and any one of these that is afflicted will cause

serious difficulties within the relationship. Vedha, Rajju,

Strii-Diirgha, Nadi and Rasi are these most important Kutas. If any of

these blemishes are present, serious difficulties will develop in the

relationship. In the event that Rajju, Nadi, or Rasi are not met, there

may be an exception present that wards off the great difficulties these

can create; the relationship will still have a failing, but one that is

workable. If Strii-Diirgha is not met, but the exception for Rasi Kuta

is met, then Strii-Diirgha will be OK as well.

In addition to the flow of energy, there must be high enough voltage.

The total points of eight of the Kutas determine this. The higher the

score the more similar the "taste buds." This gives a greater capacity

for a compromise that allows both individuals to feel fundamentally good

about what they're getting. Seventeen points is the average, twenty or

greater is ideal.

If the matching of the Moons is adequate the couple will have the

capacity to relate in a manner that allows the love to flow and for both

of them to grow in a positive way. Karmic and behavioral factors will

modify to which extent they will fulfill this capacity. If the matching

of the Moons is inadequate the couple will find it difficult to flow

together; their very life force will not harmonize well together. In

this case there is little that they can do, but to accept the fact that

their energies collide or miss each other at times. They can consciously

attempt to create a better flow, but at times they will fall back onto

their natural, disruptive flow, especially during times of stress or

fatigue.

 

Why the Moons? Because....

1. The Moon is the "Manas, Mind, in which lives the Jiva: the self,

with Ahamkara, the Ego, the idea of separate existence." -Sri Yukteswar.

The Moon, therefore, indicates the compatibility of the two selves.

2. The Moon is the social planet that lets people's energies flow

together. Whether the relationship flows in such a manner as to create

mutual respect and increase in love, or whether it flows in a manner

that causes disrespect and loss of love is largely dependent upon the

Moon.

3. The Moon is the conditioned consciousness; what is most comfortable,

familiar and innate to the individual. It is most important for those

living together and spending a great deal of time with each other to be

comfortable with each other and to offer support to one other.

 

Vedha- Obstruction

Fortunately you don't have the blemish of Vedha, which, had it been

present, would have brought many insurmountable obstacles to your

desires for each other. This means that you two will be better able to

make the relationship what you want it to be, without attracting

obstacles to your goals for each other.

 

Rajju- Rope

The second most terrible blemish of Rajju is not found in your

compatibility. This is great news and indicates that you both have the

potential for a great relationship with a healthy degree of mutual

dependence, if you both are relatively mature and free from unhealthy

codependent behavior. If one or both of you are still learning how to

have a healthy relationship then, since your compatibility is free from

the blemish of Rajju, you can learn together to have a relationship with

a healthy degree of mutual dependence.

 

Strii-Diirgha

You have Strii-Diirgha matching. This means that there is a proper

distance from the woman's Moon to the man's, which allows the creative

energy in the relationship to flow from the action and initiative

centered male to the receptively centered female. Masculine energy, and,

therefore, most men feel most loved when their thoughts and actions are

respected. Feminine energy and, therefore, most women feel most loved

when their feelings are respected and they are loved for themselves,

rather than for what they do. Since Strii-Diirgha is present the energy

tends to flow from the man to the woman, giving the man the opportunity

to give to and initiate towards the woman, for which she will then have

the opportunity to respect him for his actions and ideas, and which also

gives her the opportunity to feel that the man is thinking of her and

taking her into consideration in his life, thereby causing her to feel

secure in the relationship.

 

Since the communication between the two hemispheres of the brain in a

woman's brain is much faster than that in a man's, a woman has a higher

capacity to shift her attention fully onto something and see how she

feels about it, even when she is already preoccupied with something

else. When Strii-Diirgha is present the man is more inclined to initiate

towards the woman and, no matter what she is doing, she has the higher

capacity to see how she feels about his proposal. She can honestly see

if she would feel happier accepting his proposal or if she would feel

happier doing what she is already engaged in. If, on the other hand, the

woman were more inclined to initiate, which happens when Strii-Diirgha

is not present, the man would not be as able to take an honest look at

her proposal and see how he feels about it in the light of what he is

already engaged in. It can actually take him 20 minutes just to see how

he feels about her proposal, during which time he is generally feeling

irritated, pressured or nagged and she is feeling uncared for and

unimportant. Fortunately you have Strii-Diirgha so this relationship can

help you both to feel loved for what is most important to you, for the

man to be respected for his thoughts and appreciated for his actions,

and for the woman to be respected for her feelings and loved for

herself.

 

Since the communication between the two hemispheres of the brain in a

man's brain is much slower than that in a woman's, a man has a higher

capacity to do something he has planned, even when he no longer feels

like it than does the woman, since his emotions can not so suddenly

override the rational, determined side of his brain. Therefore, in times

of duress in the relationship, since Strii-Diirgha is present, the man

will better be able to hold onto any commitment made in the relationship

and do what it takes to keep the relationship focused and going in that

direction. He will better be able to do something that makes the woman

feel good, and then feel happy about being in the relationship. This

results in a more steady commitment and more security for the woman.

 

Mahendra

You don't have Mahendra, which is a special inner connection that helps

a couple find long-term soul purpose in their relationship and which can

help make your relationship more and more meaningful. This is not a

common connection and is not necessary; many very successful marriages

do not have Mahendra. Just be sure you are getting involved for good

reasons and that you have mutual long term interests, hopes and desires

to share so that you continue to find meaning and purpose in your

relationship. If your relationship is founded upon frivolous things you

will quite likely find out in the future that there is really not that

much purpose in being together.

 

Nadi

The Nadis of your Moons are different, which is very important and gains

8 points towards your total compatibility score. As a result of this you

will be able to sooth each other's excesses and bring each other to a

more harmonious balance, which will allow you to treat each other better

as well. If one of you is too emotional, the other will help you look at

things more logically. If one of you is prone to anger, the other sooths

your frustrations. If one of you is too flighty or fearful, the other

grounds you and helps you feel secure. This is not necessarily something

that is actively done, rather the mere presence of each other brings

about a subtle balance.

 

Rasi

You have Rasi Kuta matching, which gives the same effects as your having

Strii-Diirgha, as already mentioned. Rasi Kuta also earns seven points

towards your compatibility score.

 

Classical texts state, "If the woman's rasi is 2nd from the man's there

will be longevity." This position particularly supports family life and

long-term commitment.

 

Gana

Both of your Moons are in Deva (angelic) nakshatras, which is excellent

and earns 6 points towards your total compatibility score. There is a

strong affinity between your natures. Through your friendship, openness

and devotion you can create a good relationship and a good life with

each other.

 

Graha Maitram

The lords of your Moons' rasis are neutral towards each other, which

gains 3 of 5 points towards your total compatibility score. Your

affinity with each other will be good enough in most situations and you

will regularly feel comfortable in the same situations so as to do quite

well with each other. Occasionally there will be a need to compromise,

but this should offer no particularly difficulty as long as your Vedha,

Rajju, Strii-Diirgha and Total Points are okay.

 

Yoni

The Yonies of your Moon's are friendly, which is quite good and earns 3

out of 4 points towards your total compatibility score. Your deeper,

primal, instinctual natures are very compatible. You will ably share any

intense experiences, including sex, and be able to deal with intense

situations together.

 

The sexes of your Yonies are different, which helps your deeper, primal

and instinctual natures to connect. You will better be able to enjoy and

bond through intense experiences.

 

Dina

You have Dina, which earns 3 points towards your total compatibility

score. The Man's Moon falls in a favorable nakshatra from the woman's,

thereby increasing the possibility that she feels good around him and

what he proposes to her. Dina indicates that it is more likely for the

women to be cherished and the man to be appreciated for what he does,

resulting in both feeling more loved.

 

Vasya

The woman's Moon is magnetically attracted and amenable to the man's.

This will bond the woman even stronger to the man. This earns you 1

point towards your compatibility score and insures that the woman will

always feel drawn towards the man. Though this is a very nice extra in a

relationship, if other factors do not support compatibility and the

relationship fails, then the woman can have a very hard time getting

over the man.

 

Varna

The man's Moon is in a Kshatriya rasi and the woman's in a Sudra rasi,

earning 1 point towards your compatibility score. The man's desire to

pursue what he believes in can inspire the woman with hope and

excitement.

 

Total Points

Following Vedha, Rajju and Strii-Diirgha, the next most important factor

to consider in your compatibility is the total points gained through the

8 matchings: Nadi, Rasi, Gana, Graha Maitram, Yoni, Dina, Vasya and

Varna. The Moon represents nourishment and what you need to feel

nourished, not just in the sense of food, but anything that you take in,

through any of your senses, which all serve to stimulate your life force

one way or another, and which have a subtle influence on your mental and

physical well-being . The total points between your Moons indicate the

similarity of your needs and your ability to both be fulfilled and happy

with continued exposure to each other. The higher the points the more

you will feel like the same thing at the same time. You will be on a

more similar 'wavelength' and have more similar 'taste-buds.' This makes

it easy and natural for both of you to be fulfilled. If the points are

low, you will have different needs and require different things in order

to feel comfortable and 'right.'

 

The total points between your Moons is 32.

 

Congratulations, your Moons score 20 or more points, which is what is

desired for marriage. This means that you both have similar needs at

similar times and that you are on a similar 'wavelength.' This makes

communication easier and more natural, you will be able to adapt to each

others needs, and you may even find yourself often thinking of the same

things at the same time. Your mental rapport is good, the more over 20

points the better, which helps you not only enjoy the good times, but

also understand each other during the difficult times. Having 20 points

or more also insures that you can spend the lengthy period of time with

each other that a marriage or live-in relationship requires, while

continued to feel energized and healthy. So, if your Vedha, Rajju and

Strii-Diirgha are good, you will be able to have a great relationship.

If these are good, and you are still finding your relationship

difficult, it will be due to one or both of you having a poor capacity

to relate, which means you need to work on your relationship skills if

you ever want to have a good relationship. In that case, this one will

be worth working it out with because as you improve the relationship

will improve, and since the important fundamental compatibility is

there, this relationship can actually help you improve your capacity to

relate.

 

Prasna Marga states, "If the couple loves each other, they can enter

into wedlock, even if there is no agreement in other ways. This is very

important in the matter of marriage. One who loves a girl sincerely,

from his heart should marry her. Pure love is greater than any other

virtue."

 

This is to say that you should marry whom you want, but that does not

mean that your compatibility should be ignored. It does not mean that

love will remove the blemishes of poor compatibility. It only means that

if you think it is worth having the relationship, even in the face of

greater than average difficulties, you should. Poor compatibility

indicates that the price of the relationship will be higher. It will

take more time, energy, work, patience, and there will be more distress

and ups and downs if your compatibility is poor. If you find it worth

paying that price, then you should go ahead with the relationship. Look

at the compatibility in order to really see what the relationship is, to

really see if you want the relationship, and to see if you can

realistically do what is necessary. The average person finds a

relationship that fails Vedha, Rajju, Strii-Diirgha or Points eventually

becomes more than they can realistically handle, so if any of these are

missing, take a very good look at your relationship.

 

This is also to say that even if the compatibility is good, if one or

both of you cannot love and relate healthily then you will not be able

to take advantage of a good compatibility. If the compatibility is good

and you are still having problems you will have to take a good hard look

at yourselves. The good news is, that if the compatibility is good, any

work you do on yourself will support and benefit the relationship. The

relationship will also be a better arena for you to learn what you need

in as healthy a manner as possible. If on the other hand, the

compatibility is not good, then even if you work on yourself the

relationship will not benefit much, or even at all, and you will find

yourself in situations with your partner that really bring out the

worst.

 

The important point about this method of compatibility is that, it

indicates whether the relationship will flow in such a manner as to

create mutual respect. Out of respect grows love, out of disrespect grow

hurt feelings and frustration. When it comes to arranged marriages, this

compatibility is, therefore, obviously important. When it comes to

modern society that marries out of love, it is equally important,

because after years of mutual disrespect many, many couples that once

loved each other divorce. Mutual respect is the key to all human

relationships, because from that grows real love.

[Guest guest]

Dear Sir (Wilhelm),

 

Thanks for the detailed report which sounds pretty positive. I have

received varied inputs from different people to arrive at my final

decision. Perhaps I will be deciding by this month end. I am sure I

will

be taking a better decision with all these inputs. For astrological

interests, I will keep the board updated about my future years.

Thanks.

 

Jai Sri Krishna,

MG

Vedic Astrology, "Ernst Wilhelm" <ernst@v...> wrote:

> Dear MG,

> here is a computer report from Kala Vedic Astrology Software that is

> pretty extensive, which will help you get an idea of matchting the

> Moons.

>

> Jai Ram,

> Ernst Wilhelm

> www.vedic astrology.net

>

> The traditional method of relationship compatibility based upon

> the Moons of the couple determines their fundamental compatibility. It

> measures the flow of the life force, or energy, between the two people,

> whether harmonious or inharmonious. This energy must flow from a

> positive to a negative terminal, just like a battery, for best results.

> Any obstructions to this flow may create a loss of power and therefore

> inertia, or a short circuit that may quickly heat up and explode.

> Several of the Kutas (matchings) measure to see if there is such an

> obstruction to the flow of the couple's energies. These are the most

> important Kutas and any one of these that is afflicted will cause

> serious difficulties within the relationship. Vedha, Rajju,

> Strii-Diirgha, Nadi and Rasi are these most important Kutas. If any of

> these blemishes are present, serious difficulties will develop in the

> relationship. In the event that Rajju, Nadi, or Rasi are not met, there

> may be an exception present that wards off the great difficulties these

> can create; the relationship will still have a failing, but one that is

> workable. If Strii-Diirgha is not met, but the exception for Rasi Kuta

> is met, then Strii-Diirgha will be OK as well.

> In addition to the flow of energy, there must be high enough voltage.

> The total points of eight of the Kutas determine this. The higher the

> score the more similar the "taste buds." This gives a greater capacity

> for a compromise that allows both individuals to feel fundamentally good

> about what they're getting. Seventeen points is the average, twenty or

> greater is ideal.

> If the matching of the Moons is adequate the couple will have the

> capacity to relate in a manner that allows the love to flow and for both

> of them to grow in a positive way. Karmic and behavioral factors will

> modify to which extent they will fulfill this capacity. If the matching

> of the Moons is inadequate the couple will find it difficult to flow

> together; their very life force will not harmonize well together. In

> this case there is little that they can do, but to accept the fact that

> their energies collide or miss each other at times. They can consciously

> attempt to create a better flow, but at times they will fall back onto

> their natural, disruptive flow, especially during times of stress or

> fatigue.

>

> Why the Moons? Because....

> 1. The Moon is the "Manas, Mind, in which lives the Jiva: the self,

> with Ahamkara, the Ego, the idea of separate existence." -Sri Yukteswar.

> The Moon, therefore, indicates the compatibility of the two selves.

> 2. The Moon is the social planet that lets people's energies flow

> together. Whether the relationship flows in such a manner as to create

> mutual respect and increase in love, or whether it flows in a manner

> that causes disrespect and loss of love is largely dependent upon the

> Moon.

> 3. The Moon is the conditioned consciousness; what is most comfortable,

> familiar and innate to the individual. It is most important for those

> living together and spending a great deal of time with each other to be

> comfortable with each other and to offer support to one other.

>

> Vedha- Obstruction

> Fortunately you don't have the blemish of Vedha, which, had it been

> present, would have brought many insurmountable obstacles to your

> desires for each other. This means that you two will be better able to

> make the relationship what you want it to be, without attracting

> obstacles to your goals for each other.

>

> Rajju- Rope

> The second most terrible blemish of Rajju is not found in your

> compatibility. This is great news and indicates that you both have the

> potential for a great relationship with a healthy degree of mutual

> dependence, if you both are relatively mature and free from unhealthy

> codependent behavior. If one or both of you are still learning how to

> have a healthy relationship then, since your compatibility is free from

> the blemish of Rajju, you can learn together to have a relationship with

> a healthy degree of mutual dependence.

>

> Strii-Diirgha

> You have Strii-Diirgha matching. This means that there is a proper

> distance from the woman's Moon to the man's, which allows the creative

> energy in the relationship to flow from the action and initiative

> centered male to the receptively centered female. Masculine energy, and,

> therefore, most men feel most loved when their thoughts and actions are

> respected. Feminine energy and, therefore, most women feel most loved

> when their feelings are respected and they are loved for themselves,

> rather than for what they do. Since Strii-Diirgha is present the energy

> tends to flow from the man to the woman, giving the man the opportunity

> to give to and initiate towards the woman, for which she will then have

> the opportunity to respect him for his actions and ideas, and which also

> gives her the opportunity to feel that the man is thinking of her and

> taking her into consideration in his life, thereby causing her to feel

> secure in the relationship.

>

> Since the communication between the two hemispheres of the brain in a

> woman's brain is much faster than that in a man's, a woman has a higher

> capacity to shift her attention fully onto something and see how she

> feels about it, even when she is already preoccupied with something

> else. When Strii-Diirgha is present the man is more inclined to initiate

> towards the woman and, no matter what she is doing, she has the higher

> capacity to see how she feels about his proposal. She can honestly see

> if she would feel happier accepting his proposal or if she would feel

> happier doing what she is already engaged in. If, on the other hand, the

> woman were more inclined to initiate, which happens when Strii-Diirgha

> is not present, the man would not be as able to take an honest look at

> her proposal and see how he feels about it in the light of what he is

> already engaged in. It can actually take him 20 minutes just to see how

> he feels about her proposal, during which time he is generally feeling

> irritated, pressured or nagged and she is feeling uncared for and

> unimportant. Fortunately you have Strii-Diirgha so this relationship can

> help you both to feel loved for what is most important to you, for the

> man to be respected for his thoughts and appreciated for his actions,

> and for the woman to be respected for her feelings and loved for

> herself.

>

> Since the communication between the two hemispheres of the brain in a

> man's brain is much slower than that in a woman's, a man has a higher

> capacity to do something he has planned, even when he no longer feels

> like it than does the woman, since his emotions can not so suddenly

> override the rational, determined side of his brain. Therefore, in times

> of duress in the relationship, since Strii-Diirgha is present, the man

> will better be able to hold onto any commitment made in the relationship

> and do what it takes to keep the relationship focused and going in that

> direction. He will better be able to do something that makes the woman

> feel good, and then feel happy about being in the relationship. This

> results in a more steady commitment and more security for the woman.

>

> Mahendra

> You don't have Mahendra, which is a special inner connection that helps

> a couple find long-term soul purpose in their relationship and which can

> help make your relationship more and more meaningful. This is not a

> common connection and is not necessary; many very successful marriages

> do not have Mahendra. Just be sure you are getting involved for good

> reasons and that you have mutual long term interests, hopes and desires

> to share so that you continue to find meaning and purpose in your

> relationship. If your relationship is founded upon frivolous things you

> will quite likely find out in the future that there is really not that

> much purpose in being together.

>

> Nadi

> The Nadis of your Moons are different, which is very important and gains

> 8 points towards your total compatibility score. As a result of this you

> will be able to sooth each other's excesses and bring each other to a

> more harmonious balance, which will allow you to treat each other better

> as well. If one of you is too emotional, the other will help you look at

> things more logically. If one of you is prone to anger, the other sooths

> your frustrations. If one of you is too flighty or fearful, the other

> grounds you and helps you feel secure. This is not necessarily something

> that is actively done, rather the mere presence of each other brings

> about a subtle balance.

>

> Rasi

> You have Rasi Kuta matching, which gives the same effects as your having

> Strii-Diirgha, as already mentioned. Rasi Kuta also earns seven points

> towards your compatibility score.

>

> Classical texts state, "If the woman's rasi is 2nd from the man's there

> will be longevity." This position particularly supports family life and

> long-term commitment.

>

> Gana

> Both of your Moons are in Deva (angelic) nakshatras, which is excellent

> and earns 6 points towards your total compatibility score. There is a

> strong affinity between your natures. Through your friendship, openness

> and devotion you can create a good relationship and a good life with

> each other.

>

> Graha Maitram

> The lords of your Moons' rasis are neutral towards each other, which

> gains 3 of 5 points towards your total compatibility score. Your

> affinity with each other will be good enough in most situations and you

> will regularly feel comfortable in the same situations so as to do quite

> well with each other. Occasionally there will be a need to compromise,

> but this should offer no particularly difficulty as long as your Vedha,

> Rajju, Strii-Diirgha and Total Points are okay.

>

> Yoni

> The Yonies of your Moon's are friendly, which is quite good and earns 3

> out of 4 points towards your total compatibility score. Your deeper,

> primal, instinctual natures are very compatible. You will ably share any

> intense experiences, including sex, and be able to deal with intense

> situations together.

>

> The sexes of your Yonies are different, which helps your deeper, primal

> and instinctual natures to connect. You will better be able to enjoy and

> bond through intense experiences.

>

> Dina

> You have Dina, which earns 3 points towards your total compatibility

> score. The Man's Moon falls in a favorable nakshatra from the woman's,

> thereby increasing the possibility that she feels good around him and

> what he proposes to her. Dina indicates that it is more likely for the

> women to be cherished and the man to be appreciated for what he does,

> resulting in both feeling more loved.

>

> Vasya

> The woman's Moon is magnetically attracted and amenable to the man's.

> This will bond the woman even stronger to the man. This earns you 1

> point towards your compatibility score and insures that the woman will

> always feel drawn towards the man. Though this is a very nice extra in a

> relationship, if other factors do not support compatibility and the

> relationship fails, then the woman can have a very hard time getting

> over the man.

>

> Varna

> The man's Moon is in a Kshatriya rasi and the woman's in a Sudra rasi,

> earning 1 point towards your compatibility score. The man's desire to

> pursue what he believes in can inspire the woman with hope and

> excitement.

>

> Total Points

> Following Vedha, Rajju and Strii-Diirgha, the next most important factor

> to consider in your compatibility is the total points gained through the

> 8 matchings: Nadi, Rasi, Gana, Graha Maitram, Yoni, Dina, Vasya and

> Varna. The Moon represents nourishment and what you need to feel

> nourished, not just in the sense of food, but anything that you take in,

> through any of your senses, which all serve to stimulate your life force

> one way or another, and which have a subtle influence on your mental and

> physical well-being . The total points between your Moons indicate the

> similarity of your needs and your ability to both be fulfilled and happy

> with continued exposure to each other. The higher the points the more

> you will feel like the same thing at the same time. You will be on a

> more similar 'wavelength' and have more similar 'taste-buds.' This makes

> it easy and natural for both of you to be fulfilled. If the points are

> low, you will have different needs and require different things in order

> to feel comfortable and 'right.'

>

> The total points between your Moons is 32.

>

> Congratulations, your Moons score 20 or more points, which is what is

> desired for marriage. This means that you both have similar needs at

> similar times and that you are on a similar 'wavelength.' This makes

> communication easier and more natural, you will be able to adapt to each

> others needs, and you may even find yourself often thinking of the same

> things at the same time. Your mental rapport is good, the more over 20

> points the better, which helps you not only enjoy the good times, but

> also understand each other during the difficult times. Having 20 points

> or more also insures that you can spend the lengthy period of time with

> each other that a marriage or live-in relationship requires, while

> continued to feel energized and healthy. So, if your Vedha, Rajju and

> Strii-Diirgha are good, you will be able to have a great relationship.

> If these are good, and you are still finding your relationship

> difficult, it will be due to one or both of you having a poor capacity

> to relate, which means you need to work on your relationship skills if

> you ever want to have a good relationship. In that case, this one will

> be worth working it out with because as you improve the relationship

> will improve, and since the important fundamental compatibility is

> there, this relationship can actually help you improve your capacity to

> relate.

>

> Prasna Marga states, "If the couple loves each other, they can enter

> into wedlock, even if there is no agreement in other ways. This is very

> important in the matter of marriage. One who loves a girl sincerely,

> from his heart should marry her. Pure love is greater than any other

> virtue."

>

> This is to say that you should marry whom you want, but that does not

> mean that your compatibility should be ignored. It does not mean that

> love will remove the blemishes of poor compatibility. It only means that

> if you think it is worth having the relationship, even in the face of

> greater than average difficulties, you should. Poor compatibility

> indicates that the price of the relationship will be higher. It will

> take more time, energy, work, patience, and there will be more distress

> and ups and downs if your compatibility is poor. If you find it worth

> paying that price, then you should go ahead with the relationship. Look

> at the compatibility in order to really see what the relationship is, to

> really see if you want the relationship, and to see if you can

> realistically do what is necessary. The average person finds a

> relationship that fails Vedha, Rajju, Strii-Diirgha or Points eventually

> becomes more than they can realistically handle, so if any of these are

> missing, take a very good look at your relationship.

>

> This is also to say that even if the compatibility is good, if one or

> both of you cannot love and relate healthily then you will not be able

> to take advantage of a good compatibility. If the compatibility is good

> and you are still having problems you will have to take a good hard look

> at yourselves. The good news is, that if the compatibility is good, any

> work you do on yourself will support and benefit the relationship. The

> relationship will also be a better arena for you to learn what you need

> in as healthy a manner as possible. If on the other hand, the

> compatibility is not good, then even if you work on yourself the

> relationship will not benefit much, or even at all, and you will find

> yourself in situations with your partner that really bring out the

> worst.

>

> The important point about this method of compatibility is that, it

> indicates whether the relationship will flow in such a manner as to

> create mutual respect. Out of respect grows love, out of disrespect grow

> hurt feelings and frustration. When it comes to arranged marriages, this

> compatibility is, therefore, obviously important. When it comes to

> modern society that marries out of love, it is equally important,

> because after years of mutual disrespect many, many couples that once

> loved each other divorce. Mutual respect is the key to all human

> relationships, because from that grows real love.