Guest guest Posted March 11, 2005 Report Share Posted March 11, 2005 Hi All I am new to this board.I have certain questions to be answered and I would like to know if anybody can help ? I had 2 elder brothers and I was the third in my family. My elder brother died at the age of 23 in Feb 20th,1984 .He was a very intelligent kid and was doing very well in studies ,veena and dance.He started having epilepsy and his health gradually detiorated. And then we got on with our life .My second brother was a very kind,gentle and intelligent person.He got married in 1996 and did not have any issues after a miscarriage in 2001.He was diagnosed with Lymphoma last January 2004 and he died in September 21st 2004 because of the after effects of Chemo and caused Liver failure.He was 39. Now I am the only girl left in the family .I am married and mother of two girls and 35 years of age.My parents cannot be consoled and they are pulling along somehow. I would like to know 1) Was there any reason behind both my brothers death 2) I was very attached to my brothers.Will they be reborn again.With my second brother's death ,In my family we all felt his presence even after 2/3 days.He saw Lord subrahmanya when he was in ICU. He also said that he could see a chakra behind my parents and he asked them to forgive all his mistakes if he had done some. He died on a auspicious day and the days following were also good days.That is what the priests told us and they said he was a very punya athma.My Mami ,saw him in her dream after his death and her son had a baby boby on March 8th ,Shivrathri day.The due date was only 20th March and we were all thinking that it would be exactly after 6 months of my brother's death. I read somewhere from the date/time of a person's death also you can chart out some details.Is that true ? 3)Is there anyway to know whether it was all due to Kalasarpa dosham. Also my mother have in the 5th place for Lagnam sani and kethu together and the astrologers say because of that she lost her sons. I thought ,they will ot be blessed with kids ,but is that so that if they have kids they will loose them. Please advise me .I cannot bear my brothers death.I feel very depressed and feel very sad about the whole issue. I understand that there can be no reason other than destiny But I still have in my mind ,could this have been averted.Did we not do something to avert all this mishappenings. Thanks Sowmya Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2005 Report Share Posted March 11, 2005 Soumya, My heart felt condolences to you and your family. Is there any way you could, may be get your mothers birth details. Her Date, Time and Place of birth and is essential, to check if there were any curses. Rema --- sowmyalak <sowmyalak wrote: > > > Hi All > I am new to this board.I have certain questions > to be answered > and I would like to know if anybody can help ? > > I had 2 elder brothers and I was the third in my > family. > My elder brother died at the age of 23 in Feb > 20th,1984 .He was a > very intelligent kid and was doing very well in > studies ,veena and > dance.He started having epilepsy and his health > gradually > detiorated. > And then we got on with our life .My second brother > was a very > kind,gentle and intelligent person.He got married in > 1996 and did > not have any issues after a miscarriage in 2001.He > was diagnosed > with Lymphoma last January 2004 and he died in > September 21st 2004 > because of the after effects of Chemo and caused > Liver failure.He > was 39. > Now I am the only girl left in the family .I am > married and mother > of two girls and 35 years of age.My parents cannot > be consoled and > they are pulling along somehow. > I would like to know > 1) Was there any reason behind both my brothers > death > 2) I was very attached to my brothers.Will they be > reborn again.With > my second brother's death ,In my family we all felt > his presence > even after 2/3 days.He saw Lord subrahmanya when he > was in ICU. > He also said that he could see a chakra behind my > parents and he > asked them to forgive all his mistakes if he had > done some. > He died on a auspicious day and the days following > were also good > days.That is what the priests told us and they said > he was a very > punya athma.My Mami ,saw him in her dream after his > death and her > son had a baby boby on March 8th ,Shivrathri day.The > due date was > only 20th March and we were all thinking that it > would be exactly > after 6 months of my brother's death. I read > somewhere from the > date/time of a person's death also you can chart out > some details.Is > that true ? > 3)Is there anyway to know whether it was all due to > Kalasarpa dosham. > Also my mother have in the 5th place for Lagnam sani > and kethu > together and the astrologers say because of that she > lost her sons. > I thought ,they will ot be blessed with kids ,but is > that so that if > they have kids they will loose them. > Please advise me .I cannot bear my brothers death.I > feel very > depressed and feel very sad about the whole issue. > > I understand that there can be no reason other than > destiny But I > still have in my mind ,could this have been > averted.Did we not do > something to avert all this mishappenings. > > Thanks > Sowmya > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 15, 2005 Report Share Posted March 15, 2005 Rema Yes. I will get those details .I will reply to you as soon as I get them.Thanks for replying back. Regards Sowmya --- Rema Menon <remamenon wrote: > Soumya, > > My heart felt condolences to you and your family. > > Is there any way you could, may be get your mothers > birth details. > Her Date, Time and Place of birth and is essential, > to check if there were any curses. > > Rema > > > --- sowmyalak <sowmyalak wrote: > > > > > > Hi All > > I am new to this board.I have certain questions > > to be answered > > and I would like to know if anybody can help ? > > > > I had 2 elder brothers and I was the third in my > > family. > > My elder brother died at the age of 23 in Feb > > 20th,1984 .He was a > > very intelligent kid and was doing very well in > > studies ,veena and > > dance.He started having epilepsy and his health > > gradually > > detiorated. > > And then we got on with our life .My second > brother > > was a very > > kind,gentle and intelligent person.He got married > in > > 1996 and did > > not have any issues after a miscarriage in 2001.He > > was diagnosed > > with Lymphoma last January 2004 and he died in > > September 21st 2004 > > because of the after effects of Chemo and caused > > Liver failure.He > > was 39. > > Now I am the only girl left in the family .I am > > married and mother > > of two girls and 35 years of age.My parents > cannot > > be consoled and > > they are pulling along somehow. > > I would like to know > > 1) Was there any reason behind both my brothers > > death > > 2) I was very attached to my brothers.Will they be > > reborn again.With > > my second brother's death ,In my family we all > felt > > his presence > > even after 2/3 days.He saw Lord subrahmanya when > he > > was in ICU. > > He also said that he could see a chakra behind my > > parents and he > > asked them to forgive all his mistakes if he had > > done some. > > He died on a auspicious day and the days following > > were also good > > days.That is what the priests told us and they > said > > he was a very > > punya athma.My Mami ,saw him in her dream after > his > > death and her > > son had a baby boby on March 8th ,Shivrathri > day.The > > due date was > > only 20th March and we were all thinking that it > > would be exactly > > after 6 months of my brother's death. I read > > somewhere from the > > date/time of a person's death also you can chart > out > > some details.Is > > that true ? > > 3)Is there anyway to know whether it was all due > to > > Kalasarpa dosham. > > Also my mother have in the 5th place for Lagnam > sani > > and kethu > > together and the astrologers say because of that > she > > lost her sons. > > I thought ,they will ot be blessed with kids ,but > is > > that so that if > > they have kids they will loose them. > > Please advise me .I cannot bear my brothers > death.I > > feel very > > depressed and feel very sad about the whole issue. > > > > I understand that there can be no reason other > than > > destiny But I > > still have in my mind ,could this have been > > averted.Did we not do > > something to avert all this mishappenings. > > > > Thanks > > Sowmya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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