Tanvir - Please Help Me

April 30, 2003

dear darshana,

i am sorry to hear the problems you are facing.

i am getting 0121 leo ascendant (lagna) for you.

there is chance for you to have cancer lagna and i am not good in birth time

rectification. but whatever lagna you might be - cancer or leo, saturn is a big

deal about your marriage ruling your 7th house.

in may 2001 you were running period of rahu-rahu-mercury. you are now in

rahu-jupiter-saturn.

mars is a benefic for you which is with saturn, your 7th lord. even though mars

is benefic but it is deadly enemy of saturn and mars rules violence. in cases

like these the fixed nature of planets must have to be remembered. mars'

presence with 7th lord surely is an important cause of violence in married life.

sat-mars conjunction gives violence, fear from weapons, bleeding, accidents,

dangers etc. sani being 7th lord pulls these things in married life - no doubt

about that!

sat is in your 12th house (or asc) and both for the houses it is a bad placement

of saturn.

again, natural significator ve is very badly combust by sun, also weak being

2838 in taurus.

first, i am afraid that mars is responsible for most of it, as sun is.

01. for taking care of mars, chant / listen to hanumana mantras / hanumana

chalisha everyday.

a simple but good hanumana mantra is

"Aum Namo Hanumate Hung Aum"

you can also recite hanumana chalisa.

02. donate a lot of jaggery / molasses on sunday and tuesday. this will be good

for both sun and mars.

03. donate masoor daal on tuesday. this is also for mars.

04. for taking care of saturn, donate black pulse, mustard oil, salt, curd

(dadhi) etc on saturday. hanumana chalisa is also good for saturn.

05. you can also perform surya namaskar.

please do these things regularly with sincereness. most of the people dont do

anything after getting remedy suggestions. that is no good because it is you who

have to perform. the first four ways i mentioned are very important and should

help you a lot.

you can also chant mrityunjaya mantra or listen to it. that is no harm. correct

pronunciation is needed, if you are not sure about the pronunciation, do not do

it. my site has the audio of mrityunjaya mantra -

http://www.geocities.com/planetaryastro/otherstuff/mr_jaya.wav

please do these for at least one weak and i am sure there will be improvements.

be kind to poor and distressed. and let me know what happens. if you have

anymore questions, feel free to ask me. but one thing is sure that mars is a lot

responsible here and it is always the person who has to perform remedy. so

please be sincere performing them.

all the best,

tanvir

"What can not happen, can never happen.

Which is mine, is forever mine."

Tanvir Chowdhury

tanvir

http://www.geocities.com/king_tanvir

http://www.geocities.com/planetaryastro

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Darshana Arora

Wednesday, April 30, 2003 4:52 PM

Tanvir - Please Help Me

Hi,

I came to know about this group from one friend of mine. She is

interested in astrology. I am going through a very bad phase of my life.Can

you help me.I got married last year in May 2001 in Near New Delhi in India.My

birth details ->

14 June 1976

Morning 10:10 am

Near New DelhiMy husband's details ->

24 Oct 1974

0:20 am (after 12:00 in night)

New DelhiWe are having lots of troubles in married life.We feel like getting

separated.When we got married we consulted a astrologer and he said

that match is fine. Since we are having problems right from first day

of marriage,my grand mother consulted another astrologer some time

back and he says that this marriage should NoT have been done as

required matching is not there. He says that chosen date and time of

marriage was also wrong. He says that these troubles will be part of

our life and only thing we can do is worshiping god shiva and parvati

goddess.And nothing else.But the astrologer whom we consulted at the

marriage time said that its perfect match.My husband is totally against me and

is with his mother.She troubles

me a lot.I do not know what to say/do . If I say something , physical

abuse is done to me. I am very worried and troubled for my future.

If some one is knowledgeable then please advise me something.

My parents are also worried in this regard.

Please help me if possible for someone.I will be highly obliged.

Also my husband's work is also not going on that fine,professionally

he is not doing very well.He depends on me financially right now.

But he does not care for me at all. He is only interested in my money.what

does determine the marriage compatibilty and what can be done in

this kind of problems ? Waiting for some help. Regards

Darshana

April 30, 2003

Dear Darshna, This is really misfortune for you. I know what pain is involved in

such situation. Whatever Tanvir has explain is sufficient in terms of astrology.

I have nothing to add in it. I just want to add some other advice that please

take some legal opinion also. Involve your well-wishers and try to judge what

your in-laws can do with you and plan defensive strategies agains possible

attach. Don't take any emotional dicisions. Being a Leo person you must be very

strong but it will be very difficult for you to accept damages to your

self-esteem and dignity. So take care of your self. with best wishes for you,

Tushar Tanvir <tanvir wrote:dear darshana,