Guest guest Posted April 30, 2003 Report Share Posted April 30, 2003 dear darshana, i am sorry to hear the problems you are facing. i am getting 0121 leo ascendant (lagna) for you. there is chance for you to have cancer lagna and i am not good in birth time rectification. but whatever lagna you might be - cancer or leo, saturn is a big deal about your marriage ruling your 7th house. in may 2001 you were running period of rahu-rahu-mercury. you are now in rahu-jupiter-saturn. mars is a benefic for you which is with saturn, your 7th lord. even though mars is benefic but it is deadly enemy of saturn and mars rules violence. in cases like these the fixed nature of planets must have to be remembered. mars' presence with 7th lord surely is an important cause of violence in married life. sat-mars conjunction gives violence, fear from weapons, bleeding, accidents, dangers etc. sani being 7th lord pulls these things in married life - no doubt about that! sat is in your 12th house (or asc) and both for the houses it is a bad placement of saturn. again, natural significator ve is very badly combust by sun, also weak being 2838 in taurus. first, i am afraid that mars is responsible for most of it, as sun is. 01. for taking care of mars, chant / listen to hanumana mantras / hanumana chalisha everyday. a simple but good hanumana mantra is "Aum Namo Hanumate Hung Aum" you can also recite hanumana chalisa. 02. donate a lot of jaggery / molasses on sunday and tuesday. this will be good for both sun and mars. 03. donate masoor daal on tuesday. this is also for mars. 04. for taking care of saturn, donate black pulse, mustard oil, salt, curd (dadhi) etc on saturday. hanumana chalisa is also good for saturn. 05. you can also perform surya namaskar. please do these things regularly with sincereness. most of the people dont do anything after getting remedy suggestions. that is no good because it is you who have to perform. the first four ways i mentioned are very important and should help you a lot. you can also chant mrityunjaya mantra or listen to it. that is no harm. correct pronunciation is needed, if you are not sure about the pronunciation, do not do it. my site has the audio of mrityunjaya mantra - http://www.geocities.com/planetaryastro/otherstuff/mr_jaya.wav please do these for at least one weak and i am sure there will be improvements. be kind to poor and distressed. and let me know what happens. if you have anymore questions, feel free to ask me. but one thing is sure that mars is a lot responsible here and it is always the person who has to perform remedy. so please be sincere performing them. all the best, tanvir "What can not happen, can never happen. Which is mine, is forever mine." Tanvir Chowdhury tanvir http://www.geocities.com/king_tanvir http://www.geocities.com/planetaryastro - Darshana Arora Wednesday, April 30, 2003 4:52 PM Tanvir - Please Help Me Hi, I came to know about this group from one friend of mine. She is interested in astrology. I am going through a very bad phase of my life.Can you help me.I got married last year in May 2001 in Near New Delhi in India.My birth details -> 14 June 1976 Morning 10:10 am Near New DelhiMy husband's details -> 24 Oct 1974 0:20 am (after 12:00 in night) New DelhiWe are having lots of troubles in married life.We feel like getting separated.When we got married we consulted a astrologer and he said that match is fine. Since we are having problems right from first day of marriage,my grand mother consulted another astrologer some time back and he says that this marriage should NoT have been done as required matching is not there. He says that chosen date and time of marriage was also wrong. He says that these troubles will be part of our life and only thing we can do is worshiping god shiva and parvati goddess.And nothing else.But the astrologer whom we consulted at the marriage time said that its perfect match.My husband is totally against me and is with his mother.She troubles me a lot.I do not know what to say/do . If I say something , physical abuse is done to me. I am very worried and troubled for my future. If some one is knowledgeable then please advise me something. My parents are also worried in this regard. Please help me if possible for someone.I will be highly obliged. Also my husband's work is also not going on that fine,professionally he is not doing very well.He depends on me financially right now. But he does not care for me at all. He is only interested in my money.what does determine the marriage compatibilty and what can be done in this kind of problems ? Waiting for some help. Regards Darshana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 30, 2003 Report Share Posted April 30, 2003 Dear Darshna, This is really misfortune for you. I know what pain is involved in such situation. Whatever Tanvir has explain is sufficient in terms of astrology. I have nothing to add in it. I just want to add some other advice that please take some legal opinion also. Involve your well-wishers and try to judge what your in-laws can do with you and plan defensive strategies agains possible attach. Don't take any emotional dicisions. Being a Leo person you must be very strong but it will be very difficult for you to accept damages to your self-esteem and dignity. So take care of your self. with best wishes for you, Tushar Tanvir <tanvir wrote:dear darshana, i am sorry to hear the problems you are facing. i am getting 0121 leo ascendant (lagna) for you. there is chance for you to have cancer lagna and i am not good in birth time rectification. but whatever lagna you might be - cancer or leo, saturn is a big deal about your marriage ruling your 7th house. in may 2001 you were running period of rahu-rahu-mercury. you are now in rahu-jupiter-saturn. mars is a benefic for you which is with saturn, your 7th lord. even though mars is benefic but it is deadly enemy of saturn and mars rules violence. in cases like these the fixed nature of planets must have to be remembered. mars' presence with 7th lord surely is an important cause of violence in married life. sat-mars conjunction gives violence, fear from weapons, bleeding, accidents, dangers etc. sani being 7th lord pulls these things in married life - no doubt about that! sat is in your 12th house (or asc) and both for the houses it is a bad placement of saturn. again, natural significator ve is very badly combust by sun, also weak being 2838 in taurus. first, i am afraid that mars is responsible for most of it, as sun is. 01. for taking care of mars, chant / listen to hanumana mantras / hanumana chalisha everyday. a simple but good hanumana mantra is "Aum Namo Hanumate Hung Aum" you can also recite hanumana chalisa. 02. donate a lot of jaggery / molasses on sunday and tuesday. this will be good for both sun and mars. 03. donate masoor daal on tuesday. this is also for mars. 04. for taking care of saturn, donate black pulse, mustard oil, salt, curd (dadhi) etc on saturday. hanumana chalisa is also good for saturn. 05. you can also perform surya namaskar. please do these things regularly with sincereness. most of the people dont do anything after getting remedy suggestions. that is no good because it is you who have to perform. the first four ways i mentioned are very important and should help you a lot. you can also chant mrityunjaya mantra or listen to it. that is no harm. correct pronunciation is needed, if you are not sure about the pronunciation, do not do it. my site has the audio of mrityunjaya mantra - http://www.geocities.com/planetaryastro/otherstuff/mr_jaya.wav please do these for at least one weak and i am sure there will be improvements. be kind to poor and distressed. and let me know what happens. if you have anymore questions, feel free to ask me. but one thing is sure that mars is a lot responsible here and it is always the person who has to perform remedy. so please be sincere performing them. all the best, tanvir "What can not happen, can never happen. Which is mine, is forever mine." Tanvir Chowdhury tanvir http://www.geocities.com/king_tanvir http://www.geocities.com/planetaryastro - Darshana Arora Wednesday, April 30, 2003 4:52 PM Tanvir - Please Help Me Hi, I came to know about this group from one friend of mine. She is interested in astrology. I am going through a very bad phase of my life.Can you help me.I got married last year in May 2001 in Near New Delhi in India.My birth details -> 14 June 1976 Morning 10:10 am Near New DelhiMy husband's details -> 24 Oct 1974 0:20 am (after 12:00 in night) New DelhiWe are having lots of troubles in married life.We feel like getting separated.When we got married we consulted a astrologer and he said that match is fine. Since we are having problems right from first day of marriage,my grand mother consulted another astrologer some time back and he says that this marriage should NoT have been done as required matching is not there. He says that chosen date and time of marriage was also wrong. He says that these troubles will be part of our life and only thing we can do is worshiping god shiva and parvati goddess.And nothing else.But the astrologer whom we consulted at the marriage time said that its perfect match.My husband is totally against me and is with his mother.She troubles me a lot.I do not know what to say/do . If I say something , physical abuse is done to me. I am very worried and troubled for my future. If some one is knowledgeable then please advise me something. My parents are also worried in this regard. Please help me if possible for someone.I will be highly obliged. Also my husband's work is also not going on that fine,professionally he is not doing very well.He depends on me financially right now. But he does not care for me at all. He is only interested in my money.what does determine the marriage compatibilty and what can be done in this kind of problems ? Waiting for some help. 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Guest guest Posted May 1, 2003 Report Share Posted May 1, 2003 Let's just hope the best for her. Notice that in her chart sun is very weak being very near to 30th degree. Sun = legal help from govt., support of bosses, superiors... :-( Any idea what other planets / houses can signify legal helps of law etc.? Regards, Tanvir "What can not happen, can never happen. Which is mine, is forever mine." Tanvir Chowdhury tanvir http://www.geocities.com/king_tanvir http://www.geocities.com/planetaryastro - tushar trivedi Thursday, May 01, 2003 9:55 AM Re: Tanvir - Please Help Me Dear Darshna, This is really misfortune for you. I know what pain is involved in such situation. Whatever Tanvir has explain is sufficient in terms of astrology. I have nothing to add in it. I just want to add some other advice that please take some legal opinion also. Involve your well-wishers and try to judge what your in-laws can do with you and plan defensive strategies agains possible attach. Don't take any emotional dicisions. Being a Leo person you must be very strong but it will be very difficult for you to accept damages to your self-esteem and dignity. So take care of your self. with best wishes for you, Tushar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 1, 2003 Report Share Posted May 1, 2003 Ops! Sorry everybody... one of my friends changed my mail account name as a joke :-( :@ the mail is from me (Tanvir) tanvir. Regards, Tanvir "What can not happen, can never happen. Which is mine, is forever mine." Tanvir Chowdhury tanvir http://www.geocities.com/king_tanvir http://www.geocities.com/planetaryastro - Sabrina Thursday, May 01, 2003 8:42 PM Re: Tanvir - Please Help Me Let's just hope the best for her. Notice that in her chart sun is very weak being very near to 30th degree. Sun = legal help from govt., support of bosses, superiors... :-( Any idea what other planets / houses can signify legal helps of law etc.? Regards, Tanvir "What can not happen, can never happen. Which is mine, is forever mine." Tanvir Chowdhury tanvir http://www.geocities.com/king_tanvir http://www.geocities.com/planetaryastro Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 2, 2003 Report Share Posted May 2, 2003 Hi Tanvir, Thanxs for your response and remedies.I will start performing these things from this week onwards and let u know the improvements. Is something there to be done for my husband also ? His financial conditions will improve with time.Can any such thing be seen/predicted. Will His nature/thinking change and will start caring for me also ? May be he has to perform some daans/donations etc. Hi Tushar, I love my husband a lot and really want to improve the things. Initial days We had a very good time with each other .Right now We are in down side but I want to go to up side of relation. I believe in maintaining the relations and do not want to go for legal steps so soon bec of many other reasons like sentiments of parents etc.And that will end this problem but will not be solution. But thanxs for your concern.I was touched by concern. -Darshana Catch all the cricket action. Download Score tracker Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2003 Report Share Posted May 4, 2003 Dear Darshana, That's really nice of you to love him after all these and want to improve things in a peaceful and positive way. I wish all people were like this, then this world would be a lot better! But it is still true that sometimes separation is the only solution. Because how much torture one can tolerate if it is so extreme? To me we all are nothing than dolls... Anyway I wish you all the best. I will try to help you what I can. Astrologically, in your case 2 things can happen - 1. Your problem is not "likely", ie it is happening only for time. If so, then when the bad dasha / transit overs, you the problem will be over... it may come again later but most of the time you will be happy. OR 2. Your problem is "likely" and permanent. If so, then your problem will never "totally finish". It might lessen sometimes but totally not over, and most of the time the problem will be there. Seeing your chart your problem seems to be category # 2 that most of the time you will have problems and difficulties in married life. For both of you and your husband, you both have Sat as 7th lord which in both charts is in 12th house of losses. In the time of your marriage you were running Rahu-Rahu-Mercury. Your husband were running Rahu-Venus-Rahu. To both of you Rahu and Sat are important planets in this matter. Your husband's Rahu is in Sun's star, Sat in Ju's star, Mars and Ve are in Mars' star. Your Rahu in own star, Sat in own star, Mars is in Merc's star. Rahu is the co-ruler of your 7th house, that is why it is positive about your marriage I think. Soon you will be in Merc PD which disposits Mars in his star. So I hope things will be easier as Merc has Mars in his star which is creating problem here. Your Merc PD will run May 2003 - Sep 2003. This time should be better. Can you tell me from past which times were better and good in this matter and which were worse and bad? With this I will be able to tell much quickly, otherwise I need to study your chart very deep with the matter of star disposition and aspects, for which I do not have concentration, mental state and time right now... So if you tell the past good+bad times, it will be easy for me to tell quickly. If you feel uncomfortable then you can mail me privately to tanvir. Your info will be kept confidential. Regarding your husband's finance, his finance is solely ruled by Ve, who is cancelling the debilitation of 2nd Lord Sun, and rules house 4th, 11th. Ve is in own house in 4th. He will have his own house / flat I guess. On the other hand Merc dispositting 7th Lord Sat joins Ve in 4th... This is clear that he will gain through marriage and spouse etc., since his 11th lord is Ve and much powerful. His yoga karaka is mars and Mars, Ve, Merc all combust by Sun. Sun rules money that is why he is keeping pressure on Wife (Ve). There is also chance that he will keep pressure to his relatives (esp female relatives as merc is there) and younger siblings since mars and merc are combust. That is why pacifying sun is mostly needed to get rid of this tendency he is in. Tell him to perform donation of molasses, copper made things, wheat etc. (Focus on sundays.) never let him consume these things for his own purpose. He can also worship to Vishnu. He can strengthen mars by mantra etc. Let him wear much red clothes and see if things improve. Gayatri Mantra will give give him better wisdom, also tell him to worship Brihaspati (Om brihaspataye namah) since it is retro and it might give him better purity in character. Regards, Tanvir "What can not happen, can never happen. Which is mine, is forever mine." Tanvir Chowdhury tanvir http://www.geocities.com/king_tanvir http://www.geocities.com/planetaryastro - Darshana Arora Friday, May 02, 2003 2:27 PM Re: Tanvir - Please Help Me Hi Tanvir, Thanxs for your response and remedies.I will start performing these things from this week onwards and let u know the improvements. Is something there to be done for my husband also ? His financial conditions will improve with time.Can any such thing be seen/predicted. Will His nature/thinking change and will start caring for me also ? May be he has to perform some daans/donations etc. Hi Tushar, I love my husband a lot and really want to improve the things. Initial days We had a very good time with each other .Right now We are in down side but I want to go to up side of relation. I believe in maintaining the relations and do not want to go for legal steps so soon bec of many other reasons like sentiments of parents etc.And that will end this problem but will not be solution. But thanxs for your concern.I was touched by concern. -Darshana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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