Guest guest Posted February 8, 2004 Report Share Posted February 8, 2004 Something hit me and my family a few days ago, and it really affected me and my mind. I felt why did this happen to me?. I had mixed feelings , emotion and revenge. I however kept self control and did not show these emotions to anybody, because I feared if I did not keep myself strong, this may have a further negative impact on me. I am out of emotion but revenge is something that I still feel. What is the most appropriate way to get over such situation? What does Vedic Astrology prescribe here.? I am praying, but the hatred feeling does not leave me, its still bothering me because I feel that someone was very very unfair to me. Can gurus guide how to handle such situations? Regards Sanjay Chadha Finance: Get your refund fast by filing online Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2004 Report Share Posted February 9, 2004 I agree about trying to control one’s anger etc. but I also believe in removing one’s self from situations (especially with a weak Mars) that provoke one into explosions, revenge etc. As one enlightened one said “do not cast pearls before swine” and if a house is not at peace, shake the dust off your feet and leave (in a nutshell). I realize that for some, they choose not to remove themselves from certain situations as it is difficult to do so such as in family or business however working towards a reduced exposure or a way of diplomatic negotiation with the people that anger us would certainly reduce the possibility of losing it. Why go through that over and over again? It’s pointless IMHO. Renee Sanjay Chadha [chadhatony ] Sunday, February 08, 2004 7:02 PM To: How to Control Anger ? Most of us have faced situations in our life where we have been ill-treated and subjected to unfair behaviour. Sometimes the unfair behaviour is related to accomplishment of material pursuits and sometimes it is about you and your heart and your mind. Something hit me and my family a few days ago, and it really affected me and my mind. I felt why did this happen to me?. I had mixed feelings , emotion and revenge. I however kept self control and did not show these emotions to anybody, because I feared if I did not keep myself strong, this may have a further negative impact on me. I am out of emotion but revenge is something that I still feel. What is the most appropriate way to get over such situation? What does Vedic Astrology prescribe here.? I am praying, but the hatred feeling does not leave me, its still bothering me because I feel that someone was very very unfair to me. Can gurus guide how to handle such situations? Regards Sanjay Chadha Finance: Get your refund fast by filing online ~! LIFE MEANS STRUGGLE, THE FITTEST WINS SURVIVAL !~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2004 Report Share Posted February 9, 2004 Well, Anger is emotion. And best way is to control is to be responsible. Take responsiblility of your actions. Always remind your self that you are patient person. Use affirmations all the time. Feed your mind affirmations.. I am responsible person. I am patient person And try to visualize the situation far ahead and plan your response. But never supress your anger - -let it come out but I a responsible way ------ otherwise it will destroy you sooner or later..... We always have a choice and we chose our response.... Finance: Get your refund fast by filing online. http://taxes./filing.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2004 Report Share Posted February 9, 2004 You are right Gautam, We could always find the culprit Mangal or the unbalance in the pitta dosha but the worst thing behind it, is that we don't have any reason to be angry on someone because we have been hurt. Jyotish tells us that whatever happen is always our own doing... we just reap what we sow and this is a good thing because this is in the name of the greatest sens of justice. We do not suffer out of the doings of anyone else. One's own postcard, one's own letter, is delivered. Why should we jump on the mailman? In modern psychology they often say that naughty children are often children who do not have enough attention from their parents... In our case we get plenty attention and the slaps of Mother Nature are there to put us back on the path so that life's purpose may be accomplished. See? We really get a lot of attention! ) And Sanjay is right in saying that when you forgive, all nature enjoys and returns joy to you... > And try to visualize the situation far ahead and plan > your response. But never supress your anger - -let it > come out but I a responsible way ------ otherwise it > will destroy you sooner or later..... > > We always have a choice and we chose our response.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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