Anger -- A real enemy..the inner attitude

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Very nice.

 

The truth is that the worst sin, the root of all sins, is to insult

ot belittle yourself, while the greatest of all virtues is to

resepct the SELF. It does not matter if the world insults you, but

you should not insult your own SELF. To look upon yourself as low,

as petty, as small, to keep yourself as sinful or bad is to deny the

great divinity in you. When you look upon yourself, with low

attitude, you will also see the world with that attitude. You will

project your own feelings onto others, and then you will see them in

the same wretchedness as you see in yourself. Then you will begin to

find faults in other people, to look at them with the eye of sin,

and to discover impurities in everything around you. Therefore,

first of all you should understand your own greatness and and your

divinity. Then you will understand the divinity in others. Once you

begin to realize that GOD himself dwells within your human heart,

once you begin to respect yourself, youb will automatically respect

others. Then you will begin to see that the world is very beautiful,

and you will behave very beautifully others.

 

The greatest virtue I think, the highest action, and the best from

of worship is to look upon other people with the awareness that the

SELF is in all.

 

It is only because people lack this feeling of the SELF in others

that so many bad things are happening in this world. Because people

do not see the SELF in others, there are FIGHTS between Husband and

Wife, between Parents and Children, between parties in society. The

reason for this is lack of respect for the SELF. A person who sees

TRULY sees that no person, creature or object is apart from him. For

such a person there is no difference between sentient and insentient

objects. There is no such thing as beautiful and ugly. There is no

feeling of high and low. For such a person there is only one

equality in this universe, and all the virtuous qualities come to

him. Only a person who sees this attitude can be called a virtuous

person or a great person.

 

Let us all mortals make an attempt to follow at least a fraction of

this. Let us try and ignore others weaknesses and appreciate their

strengths. let us encourage anyone who takes his or her time to help

out others. let us not bring people down or belittle them in front

of everyone for you are belittling your own SELF.

 

Let us try and uplift ourselves by spending more time with our own

SELF. Things we like to do, things we enjoy. Let us not try and

impose our SELVES on others.

 

The Upanishads say that a person is what he thinks. Whatever he

thinks is what he becomes. So why have painful and wretched thoughts

about your SELF? Why not have sublime and great thoughts?

 

Aum Shanti Shanti Shanti.

 

--Sanjay Aggarwal

 

, Manoshi Chatterjee

<khallopapa> wrote:

> Whatever be it, I feel we should never lose our self-pride. No

body is more important than yr self-pride.You dont have to show yr

anger or be angry to someone who has hurt u tremendously as he/she

never cared for you ,so just be indifferent...and try to forget.

> thats what i think....

> Manoshi

>

>

> Sanjay Chadha <chadhatony> wrote:

> Sanjayji,

>

> Thank You, this was enlightening.

>

> Regards

>

> Sanjay

>

> sanjaytechnology <sanjaytechnology> wrote:

> All:

>

> Here are some of my views on Anger. Does Anger come out of Fear?

> Again this is a humble attempt of a mortal to explain this things

> simply. And there are no GURUS around here (I hope). The real Guru

> is the "Creator" :-).

>

> I am very glad that these topics are being discussed on this

forum.

> I would love to learn from all of you. Control of Anger is again a

> very POWERFUL JYOTISH REMEDY :-). A Neecha Mangal or a hevy

> afflicted Mangal can bring about sudden outbursts/hatred/revenge.

I

> have tried to compose some of my experiences and views in my life

> down below.

>

> An evolved person has very little anger left. His anger is like a

> child's. Mark it. Like a CHILD's. Anyone who had children will

> understand what I mean. It stays with him only for a short time.

It

> does not stay with him until he dies, like the anger of a snake or

a

> camel.

>

> The scriptures say that the best kind of person holds on to his

> anger only for a second, that an average person holds onto his

anger

> for half an hour, and that an inferior person holds onto his anger

> for a day and night. BUT a soul who is full of sins remembers his

> anger until he dies. When a person gets angry, he should forget

his

> anger quickly, because the longer he remembers it the more he will

> burn his heart. Anger, jealousy, and other emotions cause great

> restlessness inside.

>

> Suppose that you decide to use a term of ABUSE against someone or

> speak ILL of someone, that person may or may not be affected, BUT

> you will imediatelty be affected, because the vibrations of your

> abusive WORDS will be recorded on your INTERNAL tape. It is NOT

GOOD

> to become ANGRY or emotionally upset. You should be aware that

such

> emotions are your enemies. Lord Krishna says in the Bhagwad Gita

> that desire and anger arise from "rajoguna", the force of passion

> and you should consider them your worst enemies. They work against

> your inner peace, bliss, and fulfillment.Krishna says "O Arjuna,

> give up thinking of your external enemies. Instead conquer you

> internal enemies". Very simple but very powerful. Isnt it ? :-).

>

> Anger completely changes your heart. Therefore please discard your

> tendency to become ANGRY. If you control your anger, it turns into

> opposire, LOVE.

>

> Once a great saint was asked "Do you ever feel anger". "Yes" he

> replied, "but only when I forget God". If you fill your heart with

> devotion and love for GOD, there will be no room for ANGER. This

is

> a very powerful REMEDY and is soul cleansing.

>

> So please do not feed that heavily afflicted or debilitated Mangal

> in your charts. Appease it by controlling your anger and letting

go.

> Let go please, Let go...Let go...Let go... and you will find peace

> somewhere with your own soul.

>

> Aum Shanti Shanti Shanti.

>

> --Sanjay Aggarwal

>

>

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Dear Sanjayji,

There are times when an indication or even a slight

display of anger or resentment on our part is perhaps

necessary to survive or retain our worth.

 

Letting go of the anger in entirely could result in

simply being run over or what is worse, just being

taken for granted.

 

This cannot be basis for harboring malicious thoughts

or doing any intentional harm of course. But maybe,

only so much as to maintain our standing in the world?

 

Regards,

Saket

PS: In one of your earlier posts on love, you'd

mentioned that if one loves truly, one must let go. In

my experience, whenever I have loved something, I've

just wanted to hold on to it against all odds.

Seeming paradox, a big learning lesson!

 

 

 

 

 

--- sanjaytechnology <sanjaytechnology

wrote:

> Very nice.

>

> The truth is that the worst sin, the root of all

> sins, is to insult

> ot belittle yourself, while the greatest of all

> virtues is to

> resepct the SELF. It does not matter if the world

> insults you, but

> you should not insult your own SELF. To look upon

> yourself as low,

> as petty, as small, to keep yourself as sinful or

> bad is to deny the

> great divinity in you. When you look upon yourself,

> with low

> attitude, you will also see the world with that

> attitude. You will

> project your own feelings onto others, and then you

> will see them in

> the same wretchedness as you see in yourself. Then

> you will begin to

> find faults in other people, to look at them with

> the eye of sin,

> and to discover impurities in everything around you.

> Therefore,

> first of all you should understand your own

> greatness and and your

> divinity. Then you will understand the divinity in

> others. Once you

> begin to realize that GOD himself dwells within your

> human heart,

> once you begin to respect yourself, youb will

> automatically respect

> others. Then you will begin to see that the world is

> very beautiful,

> and you will behave very beautifully others.

>

> The greatest virtue I think, the highest action, and

> the best from

> of worship is to look upon other people with the

> awareness that the

> SELF is in all.

>

> It is only because people lack this feeling of the

> SELF in others

> that so many bad things are happening in this world.

> Because people

> do not see the SELF in others, there are FIGHTS

> between Husband and

> Wife, between Parents and Children, between parties

> in society. The

> reason for this is lack of respect for the SELF. A

> person who sees

> TRULY sees that no person, creature or object is

> apart from him. For

> such a person there is no difference between

> sentient and insentient

> objects. There is no such thing as beautiful and

> ugly. There is no

> feeling of high and low. For such a person there is

> only one

> equality in this universe, and all the virtuous

> qualities come to

> him. Only a person who sees this attitude can be

> called a virtuous

> person or a great person.

>

> Let us all mortals make an attempt to follow at

> least a fraction of

> this. Let us try and ignore others weaknesses and

> appreciate their

> strengths. let us encourage anyone who takes his or

> her time to help

> out others. let us not bring people down or belittle

> them in front

> of everyone for you are belittling your own SELF.

>

> Let us try and uplift ourselves by spending more

> time with our own

> SELF. Things we like to do, things we enjoy. Let us

> not try and

> impose our SELVES on others.

>

> The Upanishads say that a person is what he thinks.

> Whatever he

> thinks is what he becomes. So why have painful and

> wretched thoughts

> about your SELF? Why not have sublime and great

> thoughts?

>

> Aum Shanti Shanti Shanti.

>

> --Sanjay Aggarwal

>

> , Manoshi

> Chatterjee

> <khallopapa> wrote:

> > Whatever be it, I feel we should never lose our

> self-pride. No

> body is more important than yr self-pride.You dont

> have to show yr

> anger or be angry to someone who has hurt u

> tremendously as he/she

> never cared for you ,so just be indifferent...and

> try to forget.

> > thats what i think....

> > Manoshi

> >

> >

> > Sanjay Chadha <chadhatony> wrote:

> > Sanjayji,

> >

> > Thank You, this was enlightening.

> >

> > Regards

> >

> > Sanjay

> >

> > sanjaytechnology <sanjaytechnology> wrote:

> > All:

> >

> > Here are some of my views on Anger. Does Anger

> come out of Fear?

> > Again this is a humble attempt of a mortal to

> explain this things

> > simply. And there are no GURUS around here (I

> hope). The real Guru

> > is the "Creator" :-).

> >

> > I am very glad that these topics are being

> discussed on this

> forum.

> > I would love to learn from all of you. Control of

> Anger is again a

> > very POWERFUL JYOTISH REMEDY :-). A Neecha Mangal

> or a hevy

> > afflicted Mangal can bring about sudden

> outbursts/hatred/revenge.

> I

> > have tried to compose some of my experiences and

> views in my life

> > down below.

> >

> > An evolved person has very little anger left. His

> anger is like a

> > child's. Mark it. Like a CHILD's. Anyone who had

> children will

> > understand what I mean. It stays with him only for

> a short time.

> It

> > does not stay with him until he dies, like the

> anger of a snake or

> a

> > camel.

> >

> > The scriptures say that the best kind of person

> holds on to his

> > anger only for a second, that an average person

> holds onto his

> anger

> > for half an hour, and that an inferior person

> holds onto his anger

> > for a day and night. BUT a soul who is full of

> sins remembers his

> > anger until he dies. When a person gets angry, he

> should forget

> his

> > anger quickly, because the longer he remembers it

> the more he will

> > burn his heart. Anger, jealousy, and other

> emotions cause great

> > restlessness inside.

> >

> > Suppose that you decide to use a term of ABUSE

> against someone or

> > speak ILL of someone, that person may or may not

> be affected, BUT

> > you will imediatelty be affected, because the

> vibrations of your

> > abusive WORDS will be recorded on your INTERNAL

> tape. It is NOT

> GOOD

> > to become ANGRY or emotionally upset. You should

> be aware that

> such

> > emotions are your enemies. Lord Krishna says in

> the Bhagwad Gita

> > that desire and anger arise from "rajoguna", the

> force of passion

> > and you should consider them your worst enemies.

> They work against

> > your inner peace, bliss, and fulfillment.Krishna

> says "O Arjuna,

> > give up thinking of your external enemies. Instead

> conquer you

> > internal enemies". Very simple but very powerful.

> Isnt it ? :-).

> >

> > Anger completely changes your heart. Therefore

> please discard your

> > tendency to become ANGRY. If you control your

> anger, it turns into

>

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