How to manage relationships astrologically - Surendra:From Souvik

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"Relationship"...is it between like minded people or complimentary

individuals....A great and thoughtful topic.

 

My views(on the Adibhautika plane, as very aptly put by Rajeev):

 

1. In a symbiotic society (mutually beneficial) we are

in "relationship" with "like-minded" people. e.g. Mercurial ppl

working in an IT firm. There "relationship" would be the one shared

between like-minded peers.

 

2. Given to the emotional side and to our choice, we often

get "attracted" to ppl with characteristics that compliment ours.

The Venus and sturn example given by Rajeev is apt here...

 

This is my contribution towards "realtionships"...

 

Regards,

 

Souvik

 

 

, Rajeev Tadepalli

<Rajeev.Tadepalli@S...> wrote:

> This was my first love to take up to Astrology.

> To understand the mutual compatibility of people

>

> Personally, I feel this cannot be addressed in a single page or a

mail.

> However am penning down my initial thoughts. If my thoughts find

acceptance

> with the group, we can proceed further on this subject with the

valuable

> contribution from other members.

>

> Scope of study

>

> Between any two individual's there can exist only 3 types of

interactions at

> a mundane level.

>

> Dimension of Psychology

>

> * Relationship (Very Subtle)

> * Communication (Subtle)

> * Behavior (Gross)

>

> Now interestingly there are 3 planes of relating, behaving or

communicating

> :-) :-)

>

> Dimension of Philosophy

>

> * AdiBhautika (Gross)

> * AdiDaivaka (Subtler)

> * Adhyatimika (Most Subtle)

>

> To add one more dimension to this there are only 3 ways in which

any human

> being can perform action.

>

> Dimension of Action (So to say)

>

> * Thought (The most subtle)

> * Word (Subtler)

> * Deed (Very Gross)

>

> Now we have 3 dimensions.

>

> Let us keep the situation simple by eliminating one dimension, the

dimension

> of Action by mapping it to the dimension of Psychology.

>

> From now on for all practical purposes

>

> Relationship (Very Subtle) == Thought (The most

subtle)

> Communication (Subtle) == Word (Subtler)

> Behavior (Gross) == Deed (Very

Gross)

> Before we delve into solving this problem, intriguing Surendra

Lalwani,

> Astrologically, we need to clearly define the scope of the problem

> definition.

>

> The entities involved and the spectrum of their variation.

>

> Finally we can identify all the possible solutions to extend our

> understanding.

>

> Wait a minute, but what is the benefit of doing this exercise?

>

> Benefit of this study

>

> "Every individual is very uniquely molded from the cast of the

divine

> thought. Due to this uniqueness we are all different. At times these

> differences seem to be difficult to us"

>

> More precisely, PEOPLE ARE NOT DIFFICULT BUT ARE ONLY DIFFERENT.

>

> Due to these differences people may behave consciously or

unconsciously in a

> COMPLEMENTARY or a SUPPLEMTARY fashion.

>

> This supplementary way of BEHAVIOUR, THOUGHT & DEED are counter

productive.

>

> SO UNDERSTANDING THESE DIFFERENCE AMONG OURSELVES MAKES US

SYMPATHETIC TO

> OUR FELLOW BEINGS AND HELPS US TO BE CONSIDERATE TO THEM.

>

> An Observation for case study

>

> All the Librans and Tauresan's are lazy. This is a very plain

statement. I

> have obtained this wisdom over a period of two years study and

observation.

>

> For both these sign people being the astrological children of

Venus, which

> is by nature a lazy planet, inherit their parent's quality :-) :-)

>

> In spite of themselves, they cannot help it. (This is true 80% of

the times)

>

> (Well, if some one find this contradictory there may be some

nullifying

> factors in the charts of people)

>

> Aquarians and Capricorns (Myself) are very diligent. This is one

more plain

> statement.

>

> For both these two sign's people being the astrological children of

Saturn,

> which is by nature a very vigilant and diligent planet, inherit

their

> parent's quality :-) :-)

>

> Now, Irrespective of the relationship between individuals, Due

diligence is

> contradictory/different from laziness.

>

> How do we handle the situation of conflict without this wisdom from

> Astrology?

> Contrarily, with this wisdom I, as an astrological child of Saturn,

feel

> compassionate to the children of Venus.

>

> Before I conclude I want to share one personal observation.

>

> I found some response to Surendra Lalwani's postings.

> These were trying to address this problem on a Adhyatmik plane.

(or may be

> at an intersection area of Adibhautika and Adhyatmika plane)

> My approach is purely on a Adibhautika plane.

>

> For on an Adhyatmik plane, I bow down to Supreme Lord and Adi Guru

Sri

> Dakshinamurti.

> I have nothing to speak. We only have to adorn Mounam. (Silence of

Thought,

> Speech & Action)

>

> Well, on this note I conclude.

>

> I request people to respond by contributing/sharing their pearls of

wisdom.

>

>

> OM TAT SAT.