Guest guest Posted May 3, 2004 Report Share Posted May 3, 2004 Venus is the Goddess of Love. Most of us are familiar with the significance of Venus in Mythology. Venus, the goddess of love, provides us with valuable insights into how we approach matters of the heart. Venus rules romantic love, but it also plays a role in our pleasurable attachments in a more general sense. Many of us have experienced attractions to people that we don't entirely understand. The art print at right is a sweet and humorous depiction of a girl who is trying to resist Cupid's arrow. Why do we fall for people? Sometimes, our attractions make sense. Other times, our attractions seem entirely irrational. Turning to Astrology, and more specifically, Synastry, will help us to find answers. Venus rules attraction. Although other factors are involved, Venus is the planet of pleasure, romance, and union. Venus is particularly important in Synastry, and Venus interaspects are common in people who have a long-lasting and significant union. Look to Venus in each person's chart to see how each approaches, views, and handles love and relationship. When Venus in one chart aspects planets and points in another, the Venus person tends to get idealized and romanticized. The person with the contacted planet tends to expect a lot from Venus. Venus in Synastry: Venus-Sun interaspects: These are helpful aspects in any relationship. They create a sense of harmony and offer some common interests to the partnership. The Venus person feels more loving and beautiful with the Sun person. The Sun finds Venus quite charming and intriguing. There is a mutual attraction here that, on its own, is not as insistent or sexual as other indicators (such as Venus-Mars or Venus-Pluto). The more difficult aspects (opposition, square, and quincunx) can point to some problems and discord. The value system of the Venus native in this case is at odds with the Sun native's general outlook and life path. Venus-Moon interaspects: smooth out many of the more difficult aspects in a relationship. Although these relationships are not immune to ups and downs and disagreements, the presence of this aspect in synastry creates an overall sense of harmony and compatibility. The attraction here has less to do with sexuality than it does with familiarity. These people have a strong need to set up house together and spend as much time with each other as possible. It is an aspect that almost demands physical presence -- these people feel the need to be around each other, even if they are not interacting. Venus-Mercury interaspects: are helpful for creating some common interests between the individuals. These people may enjoy happy exchanges and pleasurable, shared activities. Generally, there is a lot of "talk" in the relationship. Hard aspects (opposition, square, and quincunx) point to misunderstandings that disrupt the flow of the relationship. Venus-Venus interaspects: the conjunction, sextile, and trine point to compatibility in relationship values and styles. The quincunx creates a stimulating attraction. The opposition and square both point to attraction, but the attraction can be a frustrating one. Venus-Mars interaspects: these are classic aspects, although they can be rather troublesome. Any aspect between these planets in synastry points to sexual and romantic attraction. However, the square, opposition, and quincunx can cause friction at the same time. There is considerable attraction, but over time, this sexual energy can become disruptive when left unchecked. Remember that the more difficult aspects have great value in that they stimulate people. Arguments often augment the sexual act in some way. The square tends to be the most troublesome one -- sexual attraction exists and is powerful, but sex is often delayed as the couple tends to engage in arguments that take time to work out before they do what they really want to do. Here, sex is probably the root of the arguments, even if this is not immediately apparent. These couples may try to resolve this conflict by attempting to consciously let down their defenses, turn off their egos, and just have sex. This way, they may find that they have much less to argue about. The reason for this is that the square gives tremendous physical attraction and tension that is very often disguised and mischanneled. Venus-Jupiter interaspects: are generally quite helpful in any relationship. The presence of flowing aspects between these planets in synastry can help smooth out a relationship. See the discussion of Jupiter in Synastry below for more details. Venus-Saturn interaspects: can be difficult to deal with, but effort put forth to understand the interplays will result in enormous increases in understanding of the partners both individually and as a couple. There is often a strong need to be with each other. With the troublesome aspects (opposition and square), the sexual relationship may start out just fine, but later can become unpredictable, stunted, or sporadic. Spontaneity is lost, and this is generally due to power struggles in the day-to-day life of the couple. The Venus person often feels oppressed and restricted by the Saturn person. In fact, Venus may feel criticized and nagged, and Saturn may feel an unhealthy need to control and restrict the Venus native. This general conflict leads to problems in the bedroom. ______________________ India Matrimony: Find your partner online. http://.shaadi.com/india-matrimony/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 3, 2004 Report Share Posted May 3, 2004 Dear Shripal, What exactly do you mean by "interaspects" ? Regards. Deepak N. Shripal [askvbnet] Monday, May 03, 2004 3:36 PM Venus is the Goddess of Love,but it suggest more of attaraction. Venus is the Goddess of Love. Most of us are familiar with the significance of Venus in Mythology. Venus, the goddess of love, provides us with valuable insights into how we approach matters of the heart. Venus rules romantic love, but it also plays a role in our pleasurable attachments in a more general sense. Many of us have experienced attractions to people that we don't entirely understand. The art print at right is a sweet and humorous depiction of a girl who is trying to resist Cupid's arrow. Why do we fall for people? Sometimes, our attractions make sense. Other times, our attractions seem entirely irrational. Turning to Astrology, and more specifically, Synastry, will help us to find answers. Venus rules attraction. Although other factors are involved, Venus is the planet of pleasure, romance, and union. Venus is particularly important in Synastry, and Venus interaspects are common in people who have a long-lasting and significant union. Look to Venus in each person's chart to see how each approaches, views, and handles love and relationship. When Venus in one chart aspects planets and points in another, the Venus person tends to get idealized and romanticized. The person with the contacted planet tends to expect a lot from Venus. Venus in Synastry: Venus-Sun interaspects: These are helpful aspects in any relationship. They create a sense of harmony and offer some common interests to the partnership. The Venus person feels more loving and beautiful with the Sun person. The Sun finds Venus quite charming and intriguing. There is a mutual attraction here that, on its own, is not as insistent or sexual as other indicators (such as Venus-Mars or Venus-Pluto). The more difficult aspects (opposition, square, and quincunx) can point to some problems and discord. The value system of the Venus native in this case is at odds with the Sun native's general outlook and life path. Venus-Moon interaspects: smooth out many of the more difficult aspects in a relationship. Although these relationships are not immune to ups and downs and disagreements, the presence of this aspect in synastry creates an overall sense of harmony and compatibility. The attraction here has less to do with sexuality than it does with familiarity. These people have a strong need to set up house together and spend as much time with each other as possible. It is an aspect that almost demands physical presence -- these people feel the need to be around each other, even if they are not interacting. Venus-Mercury interaspects: are helpful for creating some common interests between the individuals. These people may enjoy happy exchanges and pleasurable, shared activities. Generally, there is a lot of "talk" in the relationship. Hard aspects (opposition, square, and quincunx) point to misunderstandings that disrupt the flow of the relationship. Venus-Venus interaspects: the conjunction, sextile, and trine point to compatibility in relationship values and styles. The quincunx creates a stimulating attraction. The opposition and square both point to attraction, but the attraction can be a frustrating one. Venus-Mars interaspects: these are classic aspects, although they can be rather troublesome. Any aspect between these planets in synastry points to sexual and romantic attraction. However, the square, opposition, and quincunx can cause friction at the same time. There is considerable attraction, but over time, this sexual energy can become disruptive when left unchecked. Remember that the more difficult aspects have great value in that they stimulate people. Arguments often augment the sexual act in some way. The square tends to be the most troublesome one -- sexual attraction exists and is powerful, but sex is often delayed as the couple tends to engage in arguments that take time to work out before they do what they really want to do. Here, sex is probably the root of the arguments, even if this is not immediately apparent. These couples may try to resolve this conflict by attempting to consciously let down their defenses, turn off their egos, and just have sex. This way, they may find that they have much less to argue about. The reason for this is that the square gives tremendous physical attraction and tension that is very often disguised and mischanneled. Venus-Jupiter interaspects: are generally quite helpful in any relationship. The presence of flowing aspects between these planets in synastry can help smooth out a relationship. See the discussion of Jupiter in Synastry below for more details. Venus-Saturn interaspects: can be difficult to deal with, but effort put forth to understand the interplays will result in enormous increases in understanding of the partners both individually and as a couple. There is often a strong need to be with each other. With the troublesome aspects (opposition and square), the sexual relationship may start out just fine, but later can become unpredictable, stunted, or sporadic. Spontaneity is lost, and this is generally due to power struggles in the day-to-day life of the couple. The Venus person often feels oppressed and restricted by the Saturn person. In fact, Venus may feel criticized and nagged, and Saturn may feel an unhealthy need to control and restrict the Venus native. This general conflict leads to problems in the bedroom. ______________________ India Matrimony: Find your partner online. http://.shaadi.com/india-matrimony/ ~! 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Guest guest Posted May 3, 2004 Report Share Posted May 3, 2004 Here you have to consider your chart and a chart whom you love or friends or any person.Than you calculate your sun interaspects with your love one's sun as trine,sextile ,square etc. --- Deepak Nair <deepaknair wrote: Dear Shripal, What exactly do you mean by "interaspects" ? Regards. Deepak N. --- ______________________ India Matrimony: Find your partner online. http://.shaadi.com/india-matrimony/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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