To Mr. Inder Vohra - requesting advice

[Guest guest]

Dear Mr. Inder,

 

I am writing in the hope of receiving some words of enlightment and

inspiration. I am now at the verge of martial collapse. Our marriage has

corroded to a point where mutual respect is practically inexistent.

 

I strongly feel forces that impel us to behave in ways that provoke more

discussion and discord. Since I am convicted to jyotish principles, I

conclude that we must be going through this situation as a result of our

past activities. But when I reveal my minds to friends, they tell me that I

am a fatalist, and tell me that I am escaping through the convenient way.

The last word for them is "we can change destiny" and "the hope is the last

to die". I don't deny their words, but I feel caught in a dead end road.

 

If you may, I prefer to talk more about myself because, when sincerely

analysing the situation, I feel that big part of the responsibility falls on

my shoulders. I am accused of being negligent and egoistic, yet I dedicate

most of my free time to my two daughters. But, the truth is that I am become

less committed to my role as husband, and my concept of happiness has

changed. Materialistic pursuits are meaningless to me now, and I tend to

devaluate frugal conversation and efforts.

 

My wife has Mars in her 8th house (Kuja dosha), but she's 35 and I'm 41

years old. I guess we past that critical age, and this influence shouldn't

be the major issue. I kindly ask you to help me unveil this aspect of

destiny. Does the problem lie in my attitude? Can I rectify myself?

Please find below my birth data:

 

Name: Roy Kamiki

DOB: 28-10-1962

TOB: 14:50

POB: Rio de Janeiro - Brazil

Time Zone 3.00, Lat. 22 S 54, Long. 43 W 14

 

Saturn is lord of the 1st house and is in the 12th.

Jupiter is lord of the 2nd house and is in the 1st.

Mars is lord of the 3rd house and is in the 6th.

Venus is lord of the 4th house and is in the 10th.

Mercury is lord of the 5th house and is in the 8th.

Moon is lord of the 6th house and is in the 9th.

Sun is lord of the 7th house and is in the 9th.

Mercury is lord of the 8th house and is in the 8th.

Venus is lord of the 9th house and is in the 10th.

Mars is lord of the 10th house and is in the 6th.

Jupiter is lord of the 11th house and is in the 1st.

Saturn is lord of the 12th house and is in the 12th.

 

I hope you can find some of your precious time to help me.

Thank you,

Roy

[Guest guest]

Dear Roy,

I was occupied with my job so could not reply. I saw your chart.

Seeing from cusp to cusp you have Jupiter in 12th house, Sat in 11th

house with Ketu.

As I see from your chart Ven in scorpio and Sat in Capricorn are

governing you.

This makes you a passioate,emotional,but lazy ,sluggish,and a bit

selfish person. Jupiter in 12 th makes you a bit philosiphical in

approach to life.

You have good judgement of life,fair assessment in sweet nature

outwardly.

As seen from your chart, your wife is represented by Moon+Sun in

Libra 9th sign but in 8th house. Also she picks up nature of Mars in

cancer.

This makes her a good personality who is always for amusement and

activity. But she is unpredictable,will speak untruth, not reliable

in serious matters, and unsteady.

Mind you this reading is from your chart, not hers.

These planets in 8th house cause querrals, disharmony and misries.

I have only one clue she may always like for a lot of

appreciation .Every body and each female likes appreciation but in

her case this appetite for appreciation is quite big.You can utilise

that.

As you have good judgement of the things you should work hard for

harmony.

You will have better times to come as Sat will give you a lot late

in life,so try to harmonise the life. Shed selfishness and lethargy.

But dont overstrain yourself too much to keep good health. Try try

to be cheerful.

Good luck.

Inder

 

 

- In , "Roy Kamiki"

<nutrideias@n...> wrote:

> Dear Mr. Inder,

>

> I am writing in the hope of receiving some words of enlightment and

> inspiration. I am now at the verge of martial collapse. Our

marriage has

> corroded to a point where mutual respect is practically inexistent.

>

> I strongly feel forces that impel us to behave in ways that

provoke more

> discussion and discord. Since I am convicted to jyotish

principles, I

> conclude that we must be going through this situation as a result

of our

> past activities. But when I reveal my minds to friends, they tell

me that I

> am a fatalist, and tell me that I am escaping through the

convenient way.

> The last word for them is "we can change destiny" and "the hope is

the last

> to die". I don't deny their words, but I feel caught in a dead end

road.

>

> If you may, I prefer to talk more about myself because, when

sincerely

> analysing the situation, I feel that big part of the

responsibility falls on

> my shoulders. I am accused of being negligent and egoistic, yet I

dedicate

> most of my free time to my two daughters. But, the truth is that I

am become

> less committed to my role as husband, and my concept of happiness

has

> changed. Materialistic pursuits are meaningless to me now, and I

tend to

> devaluate frugal conversation and efforts.

>

> My wife has Mars in her 8th house (Kuja dosha), but she's 35 and

I'm 41

> years old. I guess we past that critical age, and this influence

shouldn't

> be the major issue. I kindly ask you to help me unveil this aspect

of

> destiny. Does the problem lie in my attitude? Can I rectify myself?

> Please find below my birth data:

>

> Name: Roy Kamiki

> DOB: 28-10-1962

> TOB: 14:50

> POB: Rio de Janeiro - Brazil

> Time Zone 3.00, Lat. 22 S 54, Long. 43 W 14

>

> Saturn is lord of the 1st house and is in the 12th.

> Jupiter is lord of the 2nd house and is in the 1st.

> Mars is lord of the 3rd house and is in the 6th.

> Venus is lord of the 4th house and is in the 10th.

> Mercury is lord of the 5th house and is in the 8th.

> Moon is lord of the 6th house and is in the 9th.

> Sun is lord of the 7th house and is in the 9th.

> Mercury is lord of the 8th house and is in the 8th.

> Venus is lord of the 9th house and is in the 10th.

> Mars is lord of the 10th house and is in the 6th.

> Jupiter is lord of the 11th house and is in the 1st.

> Saturn is lord of the 12th house and is in the 12th.

>

> I hope you can find some of your precious time to help me.

> Thank you,

> Roy