Guest guest Posted August 5, 2004 Report Share Posted August 5, 2004 Well, as per my experience, I have noticed that there is definitely a difference between the thinking of boys and girls. I was first teaching the high school girls and then later taught junior-high and highschool boys and I had to really adapt myself to the change. It was a big change. The girls(95% of them) are more disciplined, more organized and more focussed(at that age ) than the boys. A survey was done on a certain age group of boys and girls and it was observed that the success ratio (academically) of girls was always higher than the boys.Boys have so many other things to do, they may not show the proper respect sometimes or may not be disciplined but there is no doubt that they are much more simple at heart than the girls...they may not give you gifts or cards but what they are they are.(sorry if I am hurting someone...but this is solely my personal opinion and from my experience). I had to be really careful in saying anything to the girls but boys would let go the things very easily:-) May be thats why girls are said to be more mature than the boys. I have worked with very little kids too(3-4 years old ones) and I have noticed that the games which boys are interested in are of no interest to girls and even the coloring sheets that boys and girls pick up are different. I dont think that can be totally social conditioning at that age. The x and y chromosome has definitely a role to play in the mental make up of the boys and the girls. Manoshi , "rohiniranjan" <rrgb@s...> wrote: > This is a serious query, Manoshi! > Do you find that the thinking in boys vs thinking in men sees > relatively the same degree of maturing/evolution as happens in that > in girls/women? There are significant biological differences between > genders (corpus callosum is wider in women, hence better bilateral > contribution, parallel processing, etc. -- although this should not > give anyone the impression that it is easy to tease out the influence > of social conditioning, learning, etc.). > > RR > > , "Manoshi Chatterjee" > <khallopapa> wrote: > > Dear Inder, > > > > May be you are right, may be not but one thing I can tell you for > > sure that there is a big difference in the thinking of men and women > > and its not social conditioning, its natural. This is not a place to > > discuss this topic, but as I work in a school and I have been > > dealing with boys and girls both , I can see the difference in their > > thinking, their choices etc. Men are from Mars and women from Venus > > holds true somewhere. > > > > --Manoshi > > > > > > , "Inder" > > <indervohra2001> wrote: > > > Dear Manoshi, > > > Seriously speaking "Let It GO" is a male thinking. > > > "Hold on--not to let it go" is female thinking-- and very > > practical. > > > Inder > > > > > > - In , "Manoshi Chatterjee" > > > <khallopapa> wrote: > > > > Men think alike...LOL > > > > > > > > Manoshi > > > > > > > > , "Gaurav Sharma" > > > > <gauravkom> wrote: > > > > > Dear Inder, > > > > > > > > > > LOL!!! Good Point.... > > > > > > > > > > Gaurav > > > > > > > > > > , "Inder" > > > > > <indervohra2001> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Manoshi, > > > > > > In the present times when jobs market is shrinking and > > > > properties > > > > > > are difficult to aquire, I think correct policy would be to > - > > - > > > > Hold > > > > > > On, not to --Let it go !!! > > > > > > Inder > > > > > > > > > > > > , "Manoshi > > Chatterjee" > > > > > > <khallopapa> wrote: > > > > > > > Dear Friends, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > This isn't jyotish but a very powerful remedy and not very > > > > easy. > > > > > I > > > > > > > read it somewhere, liked it and am posting it here. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > LET IT GO!!! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to > > > you > > > > and > > > > > > > was never intended for your life, then you need to...Let > > it > > > go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are holding on to past hurts and pains...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see > > your > > > > > > > worth...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If someone has angered you...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and > > > > revenge...Let > > > > > > > it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are involved in a wrong relationship or > > > addiction...Let > > > > it > > > > > > > go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your > > > needs > > > > or > > > > > > > talents...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you have a bad attitude...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you keep judging others to make yourself feel > > > better...Let > > > > it > > > > > > > go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you > > to > > > a > > > > > > > new level in Him...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are struggling with the healing of a broken > > > > > > > relationship... Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to > > help > > > > > > > themselves...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you're feeling depressed and stressed...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If there is a particular situation that you are so used > to > > > > > > > handling yourself and God is saying "Take you hands off of > > > it," > > > > > > > then you need to...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. God is > > > > doing > > > > > > > a new thing for you! LET IT GO!!! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get right or get left...think about it, then...LET IT > GO!!! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Let God's love, peace, and blessings be with you always... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > The past cannot be changed...the future is still in your > > > power! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ~~Author Unknown, but appreciated! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --Manoshi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2004 Report Share Posted August 5, 2004 I agree with your observations. Additionally, girls generally speak earlier, are about 1-1.5 years ahead in their motor development in the early years. They certainly come to this world from God's home with a lot of advantages. RR , "Manoshi Chatterjee" <khallopapa> wrote: > Well, as per my experience, I have noticed that there is definitely > a difference between the thinking of boys and girls. I was first > teaching the high school girls and then later taught junior-high and > highschool boys and I had to really adapt myself to the change. It > was a big change. The girls(95% of them) are more disciplined, more > organized and more focussed(at that age ) than the boys. A survey > was done on a certain age group of boys and girls and it was > observed that the success ratio (academically) of girls was always > higher than the boys.Boys have so many other things to do, they may > not show the proper respect sometimes or may not be disciplined but > there is no doubt that they are much more simple at heart than the > girls...they may not give you gifts or cards but what they are they > are.(sorry if I am hurting someone...but this is solely my personal > opinion and from my experience). I had to be really careful in > saying anything to the girls but boys would let go the things very > easily:-) May be thats why girls are said to be more mature than the > boys. > I have worked with very little kids too(3-4 years old ones) and I > have noticed that the games which boys are interested in are of no > interest to girls and even the coloring sheets that boys and girls > pick up are different. I dont think that can be totally social > conditioning at that age. The x and y chromosome has definitely a > role to play in the mental make up of the boys and the girls. > > Manoshi > , "rohiniranjan" <rrgb@s...> > wrote: > > This is a serious query, Manoshi! > > Do you find that the thinking in boys vs thinking in men sees > > relatively the same degree of maturing/evolution as happens in > that > > in girls/women? There are significant biological differences > between > > genders (corpus callosum is wider in women, hence better bilateral > > contribution, parallel processing, etc. -- although this should > not > > give anyone the impression that it is easy to tease out the > influence > > of social conditioning, learning, etc.). > > > > RR > > > > , "Manoshi Chatterjee" > > <khallopapa> wrote: > > > Dear Inder, > > > > > > May be you are right, may be not but one thing I can tell you > for > > > sure that there is a big difference in the thinking of men and > women > > > and its not social conditioning, its natural. This is not a > place to > > > discuss this topic, but as I work in a school and I have been > > > dealing with boys and girls both , I can see the difference in > their > > > thinking, their choices etc. Men are from Mars and women from > Venus > > > holds true somewhere. > > > > > > --Manoshi > > > > > > > > > , "Inder" > > > <indervohra2001> wrote: > > > > Dear Manoshi, > > > > Seriously speaking "Let It GO" is a male thinking. > > > > "Hold on--not to let it go" is female thinking-- and very > > > practical. > > > > Inder > > > > > > > > - In , "Manoshi Chatterjee" > > > > <khallopapa> wrote: > > > > > Men think alike...LOL > > > > > > > > > > Manoshi > > > > > > > > > > , "Gaurav Sharma" > > > > > <gauravkom> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Inder, > > > > > > > > > > > > LOL!!! Good Point.... > > > > > > > > > > > > Gaurav > > > > > > > > > > > > , "Inder" > > > > > > <indervohra2001> wrote: > > > > > > > Dear Manoshi, > > > > > > > In the present times when jobs market is shrinking and > > > > > properties > > > > > > > are difficult to aquire, I think correct policy would be > to > > - > > > - > > > > > Hold > > > > > > > On, not to --Let it go !!! > > > > > > > Inder > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , "Manoshi > > > Chatterjee" > > > > > > > <khallopapa> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Friends, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > This isn't jyotish but a very powerful remedy and not > very > > > > > easy. > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > read it somewhere, liked it and am posting it here. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > LET IT GO!!! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong > to > > > > you > > > > > and > > > > > > > > was never intended for your life, then you need > to...Let > > > it > > > > go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are holding on to past hurts and pains...Let it > go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and > see > > > your > > > > > > > > worth...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If someone has angered you...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and > > > > > revenge...Let > > > > > > > > it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are involved in a wrong relationship or > > > > addiction...Let > > > > > it > > > > > > > > go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets > your > > > > needs > > > > > or > > > > > > > > talents...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you have a bad attitude...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you keep judging others to make yourself feel > > > > better...Let > > > > > it > > > > > > > > go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take > you > > > to > > > > a > > > > > > > > new level in Him...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are struggling with the healing of a broken > > > > > > > > relationship... Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try > to > > > help > > > > > > > > themselves...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you're feeling depressed and stressed...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If there is a particular situation that you are so > used > > to > > > > > > > > handling yourself and God is saying "Take you hands > off of > > > > it," > > > > > > > > then you need to...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. > God is > > > > > doing > > > > > > > > a new thing for you! LET IT GO!!! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get right or get left...think about it, then...LET IT > > GO!!! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Let God's love, peace, and blessings be with you > always... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > The past cannot be changed...the future is still in > your > > > > power! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ~~Author Unknown, but appreciated! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --Manoshi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 7, 2004 Report Share Posted August 7, 2004 It is said that one major difference that God kept between Males and Females is that ---- in Men He kept REASON uppermost and in WOMAN He kept FEELING uppermost Rajat , "rohiniranjan" <rrgb@s...> wrote: > I agree with your observations. Additionally, girls generally speak > earlier, are about 1-1.5 years ahead in their motor development in > the early years. They certainly come to this world from God's home > with a lot of advantages. > > RR > > , "Manoshi Chatterjee" > <khallopapa> wrote: > > Well, as per my experience, I have noticed that there is definitely > > a difference between the thinking of boys and girls. I was first > > teaching the high school girls and then later taught junior-high > and > > highschool boys and I had to really adapt myself to the change. It > > was a big change. The girls(95% of them) are more disciplined, more > > organized and more focussed(at that age ) than the boys. A survey > > was done on a certain age group of boys and girls and it was > > observed that the success ratio (academically) of girls was always > > higher than the boys.Boys have so many other things to do, they may > > not show the proper respect sometimes or may not be disciplined but > > there is no doubt that they are much more simple at heart than the > > girls...they may not give you gifts or cards but what they are they > > are.(sorry if I am hurting someone...but this is solely my personal > > opinion and from my experience). I had to be really careful in > > saying anything to the girls but boys would let go the things very > > easily:-) May be thats why girls are said to be more mature than > the > > boys. > > I have worked with very little kids too(3-4 years old ones) and I > > have noticed that the games which boys are interested in are of no > > interest to girls and even the coloring sheets that boys and girls > > pick up are different. I dont think that can be totally social > > conditioning at that age. The x and y chromosome has definitely a > > role to play in the mental make up of the boys and the girls. > > > > Manoshi > > , "rohiniranjan" > <rrgb@s...> > > wrote: > > > This is a serious query, Manoshi! > > > Do you find that the thinking in boys vs thinking in men sees > > > relatively the same degree of maturing/evolution as happens in > > that > > > in girls/women? There are significant biological differences > > between > > > genders (corpus callosum is wider in women, hence better > bilateral > > > contribution, parallel processing, etc. -- although this should > > not > > > give anyone the impression that it is easy to tease out the > > influence > > > of social conditioning, learning, etc.). > > > > > > RR > > > > > > , "Manoshi Chatterjee" > > > <khallopapa> wrote: > > > > Dear Inder, > > > > > > > > May be you are right, may be not but one thing I can tell you > > for > > > > sure that there is a big difference in the thinking of men and > > women > > > > and its not social conditioning, its natural. This is not a > > place to > > > > discuss this topic, but as I work in a school and I have been > > > > dealing with boys and girls both , I can see the difference in > > their > > > > thinking, their choices etc. Men are from Mars and women from > > Venus > > > > holds true somewhere. > > > > > > > > --Manoshi > > > > > > > > > > > > , "Inder" > > > > <indervohra2001> wrote: > > > > > Dear Manoshi, > > > > > Seriously speaking "Let It GO" is a male thinking. > > > > > "Hold on--not to let it go" is female thinking-- and very > > > > practical. > > > > > Inder > > > > > > > > > > - In , "Manoshi Chatterjee" > > > > > <khallopapa> wrote: > > > > > > Men think alike...LOL > > > > > > > > > > > > Manoshi > > > > > > > > > > > > , "Gaurav Sharma" > > > > > > <gauravkom> wrote: > > > > > > > Dear Inder, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > LOL!!! Good Point.... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Gaurav > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , "Inder" > > > > > > > <indervohra2001> wrote: > > > > > > > > Dear Manoshi, > > > > > > > > In the present times when jobs market is shrinking and > > > > > > properties > > > > > > > > are difficult to aquire, I think correct policy would > be > > to > > > - > > > > - > > > > > > Hold > > > > > > > > On, not to --Let it go !!! > > > > > > > > Inder > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > , "Manoshi > > > > Chatterjee" > > > > > > > > <khallopapa> wrote: > > > > > > > > > Dear Friends, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > This isn't jyotish but a very powerful remedy and > not > > very > > > > > > easy. > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > > read it somewhere, liked it and am posting it here. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > LET IT GO!!! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are holding on to something that doesn't > belong > > to > > > > > you > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > > was never intended for your life, then you need > > to...Let > > > > it > > > > > go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are holding on to past hurts and pains...Let > it > > go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and > > see > > > > your > > > > > > > > > worth...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If someone has angered you...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and > > > > > > revenge...Let > > > > > > > > > it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are involved in a wrong relationship or > > > > > addiction...Let > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets > > your > > > > > needs > > > > > > or > > > > > > > > > talents...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you have a bad attitude...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you keep judging others to make yourself feel > > > > > better...Let > > > > > > it > > > > > > > > > go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to > take > > you > > > > to > > > > > a > > > > > > > > > new level in Him...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you are struggling with the healing of a broken > > > > > > > > > relationship... Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you keep trying to help someone who won't even > try > > to > > > > help > > > > > > > > > themselves...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you're feeling depressed and stressed...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If there is a particular situation that you are so > > used > > > to > > > > > > > > > handling yourself and God is saying "Take you hands > > off of > > > > > it," > > > > > > > > > then you need to...Let it go! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. > > God is > > > > > > doing > > > > > > > > > a new thing for you! LET IT GO!!! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Get right or get left...think about it, then...LET > IT > > > GO!!! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Let God's love, peace, and blessings be with you > > always... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > The past cannot be changed...the future is still in > > your > > > > > power! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ~~Author Unknown, but appreciated! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --Manoshi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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