Guest guest Posted June 16, 2005 Report Share Posted June 16, 2005 Jai Jinendra, You aer most welocme for that,in that view doubts of mine will also get clarify. 1)Marriage means bond and moe of physical nature,than comes mind and soul.It is a step procedure.If you had read a article on marriage that I had sent 3 months ago, that would have clarified a lot of things. 2)In different kind of Marriage there is low and high both. 3)Just to have a physical Marriage even as per doing all rituals as per Hindu or any caste is lowest of all marriage.So well know term Suhag Raat is totally disgusting and in appropriate.First step is to know each other and thn proceed. 4)In todays's world Physical relationship has become a fashion and those have absolutely no idea,that it is resulted into a lots and lots of giref in one's life at spiritual,sub-concious,physically ,mentally and all levels.It is a fall in todays world. 5)Love should grow and checked regularly,so you know mingd and soul ambitions is same,rather than being just physical.I am not dening it is one of need in todays Life, But that need has to be controlled ,rather than carried away.It is not a fun,believe me.Love has got a key to disclose the windows of unknown Knowledge,if channelised properly. Just busy rest next day I will continue this............ --- Goodman2004 <balaji_g_krishnan wrote: > > Dear Shripalji > > I read you reply and feel very much interested in > asking you few > quries to clarify my doubts.With your kind > permission,I am writing > these queries. > > 1.How in this case,first relationship can be treated > as marriage at > the age of 16.....Marriage is classified into > different types.Like > kandharva vivaham,etc.... > > But,a girl and boy without any indication of > marriage like legal > acceptance from the society,parents..relations..can > be a marriage.If > this is marriage then in today's world almost all > girls and boys > have first marriage before the legal marriage.Is it > so? > > Or you mean "first relationship" in the sense bed > relations..having > sex without or with acceptance.Am I right??. > > Please clarify me because,You have not seen the UL > for the current > relation(Husband) as the first relation is > disclosed.Ms.NSS has toldd > "serious relationship".??????. > > Kindly reply me without fail.I have lots of doubts > to clarify from > you. > > With thanks and regards > Balaji G > > > > > , Shripal > <d_shripal> wrote: > > Hi Nass, > > > > 1)Only Jupiter in 7th house,he will become more > and > > more away from such a act,Also debiliated Saturn > > aspecting it. > > > > But I think he is not at all a ascetic person,It > is > > just a synastry or relationship astrology b/w you > both > > is not working properly.Romance definig planets > are > > not relating b/w your horoscope,that is why you > are > > not having it. > > > > In fact he has not Venus in Aries in Navmasa,But > in > > 11th.Venus in Aries are most romantic than in any > > other place.So it is just a synastry that is not > > working. > > > > As I told too much arguments,fighting destroys > > Love,caring etc etc.Try doing not to fight and let > me > > know changes.Husband's chart doesn't show cold > person > > at all.Yes he is moderate in Sexual activity. > > > > Does he sees Discovery channel,sports,news channel > all > > the time or all the time out with friends. > > > > And it is not worth dugging graveyard.Love is a > beauty > > of soul. > > > > Looking to your chart,Mars in 8th and Rahu in > 7th.and > > in Navmasa Venus and Sun in 7th house.You have too > > much sexual intimacy than him and Synastry > tells,Match > > is not a perfect one.Are you having a Romance with > > some one. > > > > > > --- nass_ns <nass_ns> wrote: > > > > > > > > Thanks for your inputs. I am eagering waiting > for > > > your analysis of > > > my husband's horoscope. Pls let me know why he > does > > > not have any > > > sexual urges and why is he so inexpressive in > his > > > feeling? He is as > > > cold as ice. He does not know the meaning of > romance > > > or passion. > > > > > > vedic astrology, "Sarbani > > > Sarkar" > > > <sarbani@s...> wrote: > > > > Dear Nss (What is your name?), > > > > > > > > Here is my take based on your horoscope only > (I > > > haven't yet seen > > > your > > > > husband's chart): Kalatra Karaka Venus is in > > > Marana karaka Sthana, > > > combust > > > > and under a secondary curse because of the > > > affliction by Sun and > > > Saturn. > > > > Venus is also the lord of your 2nd and current > > > Upapada, Taurus. > > > Seventh lord > > > > and Därakäraka Saturn is debilitated and in > badhak > > > sthana. Your > > > primary > > > > curse is on Jupiter and the Moon, having the > graha > > > drstis of > > > Saturn, Mars > > > > and Rahu. Since Jupiter is the greatest > natural > > > benefic, the > > > affliction on > > > > Jupiter will be considered as the primary > curse. > > > As Jupiter is > > > also the 8th > > > > lord and the dispositor of AK Mercury, the > curse > > > is complete. > > > Jupiter is in > > > > the 1st UL in Marana karaka Sthana; you must > have > > > suffered a lot > > > during that > > > > first relationship. Correctly, this event > occurred > > > in Jupiter > > > Vimshottari > > > > and during Jupiter Mula Dasha. We are taking > Mula > > > Dasha as you > > > have so many > > > > curses. The first UL was a very nice person, > but > > > there was no > > > chance that > > > > the relationship could have survived. Your 2nd > UL > > > as I pointed out > > > earlier > > > > is Taurus, with its lord Venus afflicted. You > > > married during Venus > > > Mula > > > > Dasha and Saturn Vimshottari. The Venus Mula > Dasha > > > are followed by > > > Saturn > > > > and Sun Mula Dashas, both planets afflicting > > > Venus. The Saturn > > > Mula Dasha > > > > commenced in 1999, as it is the principle > malefic > > > involved in all > > > the curses > > > > in your chart and will last till 2009. Saturn > was > > > transiting over > > > your > > > > Arudha Lagna in Gemini from 2002 to 2004. > > > Incidentally, Gemini is > > > also the > > > > 2nd house from the current UL, which is seen > for > > > sustenance of > > > marriage. The > > > > house is afflicted by Saturn, Mars and Rahu. > Mars > > > has both graha > > > and rashi > > > > drsti on the 2nd from UL and is the badhakesh > as > > > well. The graha > > > drsti of > > > > the malefics show your intense desire to > dissolve > > > the marriage, > > > but for a > > > > permanent solution one requires rashi drsti, > which > > > is given only by > > > > badhakesh Mars. Keep in mind that Jupiter has > > > rashi drsti on the > > > 7th house > > > > and the UL. However, there is only graha drsti > on > > > the 2nd from UL. > > > What does > > > > your father feel about your husband? If your > > > navamsha is correct, > > > then there > > > > is an indication for 2nd marriage, with the > second > > > lord Saturn in > > > the > > > > seventh house. > > > > > > > > You have AK Mercury having rashi drsti on the > 11th > > > house. This is > > > one of the > > > > important combinations for learning jyotish. > > > Mercury in the fifth > > > adds to > > > > that. I will see your husband' chart and write > > > more later. > > > > > > > > Best regards, > > > > > > > > Sarbani > > > > > > > > > > > > _____ > > > > > > > > nass_ns [nass_ns] > > > > Wednesday, March 09, 2005 10:50 AM > > > > vedic astrology > > > > [vedic astrology] Re: Marriage > problems > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Actually I had a very strong affair ard the > age of > > > 16 yrs. It > > > almost > > > > lasted for 3 yrs but later we broke up as my > > > parents were against > > > > it. I went into so much depression that I even > > > tried to commit > > > > suicide. This suicide attempt was a failure > and I > > > had to undergo > > > > surgery and miss 1 yr in college due to it. > > > > > > > > I am not egoistic but very helping and > adjusting > > > person, I hate > > > > hyprocites. I am very pure by heart. But very > > > blunt in speaking, > > > > what is in my heart is on my lips and this > > > sometimes does cause > > > > problems, as people think I am very blunt and > > > outspoken. > > > > > > > > My father did not have any major problem > during my > > > Sat dasa. But > > > ard > > > > the age of 7 yrs (not very sure), our family > had > > > met with a car > > > > accident and in that my father hurt his back > and > > > since then he has > > > > slip disc problems. So health is not so good > > > overall. Morever he > > > > suffers from diabetes and is slightly over > weight. > > > Both my parents > > > > are very famous doctors and well placed and > well > > > known in society. > > > > > > > > I hope I have answered all your questions. I > am > > > also learning > > > > astrology. Pls let me know if I can pursue > this as > > > a career. > > > Explain > > > > all the things that you see in my horoscope, > so > > > that I can also > > > > learn these things from you. Why did u ask if > we > > > had a love > > > marriage > > > > and other details. > > > > > > > > But from the side of my husband, I was his > first > > > love and so he > > > was > > > > dead bent on marrying me. Before marrying him > I > > > had told him abt > > > my > > > > past relationship and he had accepted that > > > gracefully. > > > > > > > > Do you see a second marriage in my horoscope? > I > > > know for sure if I > > > > reconciale for now, I will take this step > again > > > aft few yrs > > > because > > > > he does not give me any feeling of security or > > > emotional bonding. > > > > >From my side this is a dead relationship > which we > > > are just > > > dragging. > > > > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology, > Praveen > > > Kumar > > > > <chunnu2001@v...> wrote: > > > > > Your horoscope is correct. Your 7th lord is > > > debilitated, hence > > > the > > > > problem. But aspected by Jup, hence saved the > > > marriage. From Dec > > > > 2002 you are under Sat-Rahu. One is 7th lord, > > > another in the 7th, > > > > hence bad for marriage. But see, after Oct > 2005 it > > > will be Jup > > > > antara. Thus, marriage won't break after that. > > > However, I feel, > > > > looking at other factors like Varshaphala, > that > > > separation is > > > > imminent with a fresh lease of life > thereafter. > > > Some affair > > > possible > > > > thereafter. Now answer following for my > research: > > > > > 1) Was your marriage some sort of love > marriage > > > or had you had > > > any > > > > pre-marital affair ? > > > > > 2) Are you an egoistic and dominant over > your > > > husband ? > > > > > 3) Relationship with husband deteriorated > during > > > Sat-Sun (May > > > 1999 > > > > to April 2000) ? > > > > > 4) How was Saturn dasa (from 1989 till date) > for > > > father ? > > > > > > > > > > You can write personally, but give correct > > > information. > > > > > > > > > > Praveen Kumar (Mumbai) > > > > > > > > > > - > > > > > nass_ns > > > > > vedic astrology > > > > > 08, 03, 2005 7:17 PM > > > > > [vedic astrology] Marriage > problems > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My TOB is 9:27pm, Bombay, 30-1-1970 > (wife) > > > > > 9:30am, Delhi, 25-2-1970 > (husband) > > > > > > > > > > My marriage was a complete failure from > day > > > one, but I carried > > > > on as > > > > > I did want my marriage to break. But now > aft > > > 11 yrs of our > > > > > marriage, my husband wants a divorce, we > did > > > file for it. But > > > > now he > > > > > wants to withdraw and reconcile. I am in a > > > fix, pls help. > > > > > > > > > > My husband has no sexual desires and is a > very > > > cold and > > > > unexpressive > > > > > person. Living with him is as though you > are > > > living with > > > stone. > > > > I > > > > > don't know what to do? Morever he does not > > > have any confidence > > > > on > > > > > his decisions and shuns responsibilities, > so > > > keeps changing > > > jobs > > > > > every year. > > > > > > > > > > We have a 8 yr old son > > > > > Date of marriage 30-5-1993 > > > > > Date of birth of son 29-9-1996 > > > > > Had started eczema problem in 1997 and it > > > finally got cured in > > > > Apr > > > > > 2002. > > > > > Got an abortion done in end of 2000 (as > did > > > not desire a 2nd > > > kid) > > > > > Currently my husband is working away from > home > > > and is > > > suffering > > > > from > > > > > gastric problems off and on. > > > > > > > > > > I would be grateful if the learned > jyotishs > > > out there help and > > > > throw > > > > > some light on my married life and my > future > > > with my husband. > > > OR > > > > > should I take the bold step of divorce? > > > > > > > > > > Thanks > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Archives: > > > vedic astrology > > > > > > > > > > Group info: > > > vedic- > > > > astrology/info.html > > > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to > vedic astrology- > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ....... 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