( Am i destined to live alone?) i m sorry plz guide me (Ashutosh ji)

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Sri Ashutoshji,

Very sound and logical advice. I could not have said

it any better.

Tatvam-Asi

 

 

--- astrologerashutosh <astrologerashutosh

wrote:

 

> Dear Meeta,

>

> You can control your karma, but

> you cannot control your Bagya. Bhagya is dependent

> upon karma to some extent, but not totally. Simply

> by being stubborn upon any subject will not

> necessirily pave the way for success in that matter.

>

> Firstly, let me give one example of how

> Bhagya and Karma affect each other.

>

> Suppose, you have to reach at a particular

> place at 10am sharp. You get ready in time, get out

> of your home and wait for a Taxi. Now, getting ready

> in time was your Karma, but getting a taxi is in

> time is your Bhagya. There, the karma of the

> taxi-driver becomes involved aongwith his bhagya

> with your bhagya.

>

> Whenever, some other person besides yourself

> is involved in any activity with you, your bhagya

> becomes more important than your Karma. Even if you

> behave very nicely with that person, trying to make

> things very smooth, you cannot guarrantee his

> equally nice and cooperative behaviour.

>

> Your Karma lies in your efforts, while your

> Bhagya is about when and whom you meet in life.

> Meeting others in life is by coincidence and not by

> planning or your efforts.

>

> So, limit your karma to your efforts and

> depend on Bhagya for efforts of others. This has

> been summarised beautifully in the verse from Gita:

> "Karmanyevadhikaraste ma phaleshu kadachana."

>

> Concentrate on getting a peacefull divorce

> and after that you can focus on second marriage.

> Anything before that will be on shaky grounds. I can

> tell you exactly when your divorce will be

> finalised, but that will make you overly

> enthusiastic about second marriage, which can

> intefere with your bhagya in getting divorce in

> time. Astrologer's should not reveal something if

> its revealation itself is going to interfere with

> the native's future. Here, the astrologer too

> becomes a part of the bhagya.

>

> You have not got a formal divorce and untill

> you get one, the foundations for second marriage

> will not be laid. Your present affair with you

> boyfriend is not a marriage but an incomplete

> relationship. It is very easy for him to stay in

> this relationship with you because he knows that you

> both cannot get married till you have got a divorce.

> But, his real feelings and committment will come

> forth only when your divorce has been finalised.

>

> Then, he will have to face the challenge of

> getting married to you and the reality of the

> situation will hit him hard in the face. Till then

> he is also enjoying this affair where he has to take

> up no responsibilities and he does not have to go

> against his family and society too.

>

> He has a greater physical drive and desires

> than you. Considering the age difference between

> you, sooner or later, this will become a major

> problem. Why should you go for a relationship which

> s destined to end in a break-up. Second divorce is

> more emotionally devastating than the first one.

>

> The astrologers in this group do not know

> you personally and have no reasons to give you any

> wrong advice. The purpose of astrology is to look in

> the future and t give advices accordingly. That is

> exactly what we are doing here.

>

>

> Regards,

>

> Ashutosh

>

>

> [The services of this astrologer are free on the

> astrology group, but consultations on personal

> e-mail are chargeable]

>

-

> meeta m

>

> Saturday, 28 January, 2006 11:41

> Re: All guru's plz help me ( Am i

> destined to live alone?) i m sorry plz guide me

> (Ashutosh ji)

>

>

> Plz let me tell

> i m meeta more.

>

>

> Thanks for all who responded me.

>

>

> dear Ashutosh Ji, I am sorry.

> Actually i don't want only positive answer.

> Actually I am not yet settled in my job, ie

> business that i am doing and also in my family life.

>

> Thats why such reaction.

> i want to know the fact either positive or

> negative. As i never went thro

> a good life. In my life i always fought for good

> things. I always worked hard but due to some reasons

> i failed some unavoudable obstruction always drived

> me away from the success.

> I am actually tired of all the problems. Every

> time when i think that some ting good is coming

> to me something takes it away.

> The measure things in anyones life - Education,

> Job/business, Family, personal, financial

> Finacially i have no p[roblem as i am supproted

> by my own parentel family members like my

> mother,fater brother and sister.

> Regarding healthy family life it is not fair. As i

> was always unknowing mentally tortured by my mother

> and my first husband. I was always in heavy mental

> pressure. From my childhood and also after my

> marriage. After discord from my husban only

> physically legally it is pending.

> This is also an great hurdle in my career

> activities as i cannot go out for better prospects

> due to

> regular dates in court. I also want to know how

> long it will continue. And whether the

> result of the court will be favourable ie divorce.

> if yes when it is going to take place. so that i can

> decide.

>

> regarding personal life also both of us are living

> in nasik manmad. a small city.

> we my friend and myself are working togather.

> now after working togather for a long time we

> both want to unite.

> But again there are several problems facing toward

> us. His parents are not willing.

> They don't want him to marry witha divorcee.

> Plz tell us

> from heart we both had considered each other as

> husband and wife.

> plz tell us whether this will be considered as

> marriage or not.

> Or for a marriage consideration traditionl ritual

> had to be carried out.

>

> According to vedic tradition is this marriage to

> be considered as first marriage for him

> Some one told us about the wife of my friend.

> whatever he was told matches with the my feature.

>

> Any way will you please guide me tell me about how

> my life is going to be in future. my business,

> family. You told me that there is yoga for second

> marriage. in 2007. Is it with same person.

> Plz tell me about the future of my business /

> job. What kind of life i am goig to lead.

> Achievments etc. And of course about my marriage

> what kind of second partner i m going to have.

> If it will be my friend or not. CAn u give us

> any vedic remedies so that we both my friend and

> myself can live togather.

> Some one also told us that if we both marry this

> will cause death to his parent due to our marriage

>

>

>

> "So all Guruji i request U all to plz guide me

> in shaping my own life as i am going thro a very

> critical and confused time duration"

>

> Any remedies and sugesstion from U will really

> going to help me.

>

> Thanking u

>

>

>

>

> Send instant messages to your online friends

> http://uk.messenger.

>

> [Non-text portions of this message have been

> removed]

>

>

>

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ashutosh ji wonderfull and lucid great job godbless u raj k.

 

Tatvamasi <om_tatsat_om wrote:

Sri Ashutoshji,

Very sound and logical advice. I could not have said

it any better.

Tatvam-Asi

 

 

--- astrologerashutosh <astrologerashutosh

wrote:

 

> Dear Meeta,

>

> You can control your karma, but

> you cannot control your Bagya. Bhagya is dependent

> upon karma to some extent, but not totally. Simply

> by being stubborn upon any subject will not

> necessirily pave the way for success in that matter.

>

> Firstly, let me give one example of how

> Bhagya and Karma affect each other.

>

> Suppose, you have to reach at a particular

> place at 10am sharp. You get ready in time, get out

> of your home and wait for a Taxi. Now, getting ready

> in time was your Karma, but getting a taxi is in

> time is your Bhagya. There, the karma of the

> taxi-driver becomes involved aongwith his bhagya

> with your bhagya.

>

> Whenever, some other person besides yourself

> is involved in any activity with you, your bhagya

> becomes more important than your Karma. Even if you

> behave very nicely with that person, trying to make

> things very smooth, you cannot guarrantee his

> equally nice and cooperative behaviour.

>

> Your Karma lies in your efforts, while your

> Bhagya is about when and whom you meet in life.

> Meeting others in life is by coincidence and not by

> planning or your efforts.

>

> So, limit your karma to your efforts and

> depend on Bhagya for efforts of others. This has

> been summarised beautifully in the verse from Gita:

> "Karmanyevadhikaraste ma phaleshu kadachana."

>

> Concentrate on getting a peacefull divorce

> and after that you can focus on second marriage.

> Anything before that will be on shaky grounds. I can

> tell you exactly when your divorce will be

> finalised, but that will make you overly

> enthusiastic about second marriage, which can

> intefere with your bhagya in getting divorce in

> time. Astrologer's should not reveal something if

> its revealation itself is going to interfere with

> the native's future. Here, the astrologer too

> becomes a part of the bhagya.

>

> You have not got a formal divorce and untill

> you get one, the foundations for second marriage

> will not be laid. Your present affair with you

> boyfriend is not a marriage but an incomplete

> relationship. It is very easy for him to stay in

> this relationship with you because he knows that you

> both cannot get married till you have got a divorce.

> But, his real feelings and committment will come

> forth only when your divorce has been finalised.

>

> Then, he will have to face the challenge of

> getting married to you and the reality of the

> situation will hit him hard in the face. Till then

> he is also enjoying this affair where he has to take

> up no responsibilities and he does not have to go

> against his family and society too.

>

> He has a greater physical drive and desires

> than you. Considering the age difference between

> you, sooner or later, this will become a major

> problem. Why should you go for a relationship which

> s destined to end in a break-up. Second divorce is

> more emotionally devastating than the first one.

>

> The astrologers in this group do not know

> you personally and have no reasons to give you any

> wrong advice. The purpose of astrology is to look in

> the future and t give advices accordingly. That is

> exactly what we are doing here.

>

>

> Regards,

>

> Ashutosh

>

>

> [The services of this astrologer are free on the

> astrology group, but consultations on personal

> e-mail are chargeable]

>

-

> meeta m

>

> Saturday, 28 January, 2006 11:41

> Re: All guru's plz help me ( Am i

> destined to live alone?) i m sorry plz guide me

> (Ashutosh ji)

>

>

> Plz let me tell

> i m meeta more.

>

>

> Thanks for all who responded me.

>

>

> dear Ashutosh Ji, I am sorry.

> Actually i don't want only positive answer.

> Actually I am not yet settled in my job, ie

> business that i am doing and also in my family life.

>

> Thats why such reaction.

> i want to know the fact either positive or

> negative. As i never went thro

> a good life. In my life i always fought for good

> things. I always worked hard but due to some reasons

> i failed some unavoudable obstruction always drived

> me away from the success.

> I am actually tired of all the problems. Every

> time when i think that some ting good is coming

> to me something takes it away.

> The measure things in anyones life - Education,

> Job/business, Family, personal, financial

> Finacially i have no p[roblem as i am supproted

> by my own parentel family members like my

> mother,fater brother and sister.

> Regarding healthy family life it is not fair. As i

> was always unknowing mentally tortured by my mother

> and my first husband. I was always in heavy mental

> pressure. From my childhood and also after my

> marriage. After discord from my husban only

> physically legally it is pending.

> This is also an great hurdle in my career

> activities as i cannot go out for better prospects

> due to

> regular dates in court. I also want to know how

> long it will continue. And whether the

> result of the court will be favourable ie divorce.

> if yes when it is going to take place. so that i can

> decide.

>

> regarding personal life also both of us are living

> in nasik manmad. a small city.

> we my friend and myself are working togather.

> now after working togather for a long time we

> both want to unite.

> But again there are several problems facing toward

> us. His parents are not willing.

> They don't want him to marry witha divorcee.

> Plz tell us

> from heart we both had considered each other as

> husband and wife.

> plz tell us whether this will be considered as

> marriage or not.

> Or for a marriage consideration traditionl ritual

> had to be carried out.

>

> According to vedic tradition is this marriage to

> be considered as first marriage for him

> Some one told us about the wife of my friend.

> whatever he was told matches with the my feature.

>

> Any way will you please guide me tell me about how

> my life is going to be in future. my business,

> family. You told me that there is yoga for second

> marriage. in 2007. Is it with same person.

> Plz tell me about the future of my business /

> job. What kind of life i am goig to lead.

> Achievments etc. And of course about my marriage

> what kind of second partner i m going to have.

> If it will be my friend or not. CAn u give us

> any vedic remedies so that we both my friend and

> myself can live togather.

> Some one also told us that if we both marry this

> will cause death to his parent due to our marriage

>

>

>

> "So all Guruji i request U all to plz guide me

> in shaping my own life as i am going thro a very

> critical and confused time duration"

>

> Any remedies and sugesstion from U will really

> going to help me.

>

> Thanking u

>

>

>

>

> Send instant messages to your online friends

> http://uk.messenger.

>

> [Non-text portions of this message have been

> removed]

>

>

>

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Dear Ashutosh ji,

 

it was a good post, a very practical advice.

 

--Manoshi

 

, Tatvamasi

<om_tatsat_om> wrote:

>

>

> Sri Ashutoshji,

> Very sound and logical advice. I could not have said

> it any better.

> Tatvam-Asi

>

>

> --- astrologerashutosh <astrologerashutosh>

> wrote:

>

> > Dear Meeta,

> >

> > You can control your karma, but

> > you cannot control your Bagya. Bhagya is dependent

> > upon karma to some extent, but not totally. Simply

> > by being stubborn upon any subject will not

> > necessirily pave the way for success in that matter.

> >

> > Firstly, let me give one example of how

> > Bhagya and Karma affect each other.

> >

> > Suppose, you have to reach at a particular

> > place at 10am sharp. You get ready in time, get out

> > of your home and wait for a Taxi. Now, getting ready

> > in time was your Karma, but getting a taxi is in

> > time is your Bhagya. There, the karma of the

> > taxi-driver becomes involved aongwith his bhagya

> > with your bhagya.

> >

> > Whenever, some other person besides yourself

> > is involved in any activity with you, your bhagya

> > becomes more important than your Karma. Even if you

> > behave very nicely with that person, trying to make

> > things very smooth, you cannot guarrantee his

> > equally nice and cooperative behaviour.

> >

> > Your Karma lies in your efforts, while your

> > Bhagya is about when and whom you meet in life.

> > Meeting others in life is by coincidence and not by

> > planning or your efforts.

> >

> > So, limit your karma to your efforts and

> > depend on Bhagya for efforts of others. This has

> > been summarised beautifully in the verse from Gita:

> > "Karmanyevadhikaraste ma phaleshu kadachana."

> >

> > Concentrate on getting a peacefull divorce

> > and after that you can focus on second marriage.

> > Anything before that will be on shaky grounds. I can

> > tell you exactly when your divorce will be

> > finalised, but that will make you overly

> > enthusiastic about second marriage, which can

> > intefere with your bhagya in getting divorce in

> > time. Astrologer's should not reveal something if

> > its revealation itself is going to interfere with

> > the native's future. Here, the astrologer too

> > becomes a part of the bhagya.

> >

> > You have not got a formal divorce and untill

> > you get one, the foundations for second marriage

> > will not be laid. Your present affair with you

> > boyfriend is not a marriage but an incomplete

> > relationship. It is very easy for him to stay in

> > this relationship with you because he knows that you

> > both cannot get married till you have got a divorce.

> > But, his real feelings and committment will come

> > forth only when your divorce has been finalised.

> >

> > Then, he will have to face the challenge of

> > getting married to you and the reality of the

> > situation will hit him hard in the face. Till then

> > he is also enjoying this affair where he has to take

> > up no responsibilities and he does not have to go

> > against his family and society too.

> >

> > He has a greater physical drive and desires

> > than you. Considering the age difference between

> > you, sooner or later, this will become a major

> > problem. Why should you go for a relationship which

> > s destined to end in a break-up. Second divorce is

> > more emotionally devastating than the first one.

> >

> > The astrologers in this group do not know

> > you personally and have no reasons to give you any

> > wrong advice. The purpose of astrology is to look in

> > the future and t give advices accordingly. That is

> > exactly what we are doing here.

> >

> >

> > Regards,

> >

> > Ashutosh

> >

> >

> > [The services of this astrologer are free on the

> > astrology group, but consultations on personal

> > e-mail are chargeable]

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > -

> > meeta m

> >

> > Saturday, 28 January, 2006 11:41

> > Re: All guru's plz help me ( Am i

> > destined to live alone?) i m sorry plz guide me

> > (Ashutosh ji)

> >

> >

> > Plz let me tell

> > i m meeta more.

> >

> >

> > Thanks for all who responded me.

> >

> >

> > dear Ashutosh Ji, I am sorry.

> > Actually i don't want only positive answer.

> > Actually I am not yet settled in my job, ie

> > business that i am doing and also in my family life.

> >

> > Thats why such reaction.

> > i want to know the fact either positive or

> > negative. As i never went thro

> > a good life. In my life i always fought for good

> > things. I always worked hard but due to some reasons

> > i failed some unavoudable obstruction always drived

> > me away from the success.

> > I am actually tired of all the problems. Every

> > time when i think that some ting good is coming

> > to me something takes it away.

> > The measure things in anyones life - Education,

> > Job/business, Family, personal, financial

> > Finacially i have no p[roblem as i am supproted

> > by my own parentel family members like my

> > mother,fater brother and sister.

> > Regarding healthy family life it is not fair. As i

> > was always unknowing mentally tortured by my mother

> > and my first husband. I was always in heavy mental

> > pressure. From my childhood and also after my

> > marriage. After discord from my husban only

> > physically legally it is pending.

> > This is also an great hurdle in my career

> > activities as i cannot go out for better prospects

> > due to

> > regular dates in court. I also want to know how

> > long it will continue. And whether the

> > result of the court will be favourable ie divorce.

> > if yes when it is going to take place. so that i can

> > decide.

> >

> > regarding personal life also both of us are living

> > in nasik manmad. a small city.

> > we my friend and myself are working togather.

> > now after working togather for a long time we

> > both want to unite.

> > But again there are several problems facing toward

> > us. His parents are not willing.

> > They don't want him to marry witha divorcee.

> > Plz tell us

> > from heart we both had considered each other as

> > husband and wife.

> > plz tell us whether this will be considered as

> > marriage or not.

> > Or for a marriage consideration traditionl ritual

> > had to be carried out.

> >

> > According to vedic tradition is this marriage to

> > be considered as first marriage for him

> > Some one told us about the wife of my friend.

> > whatever he was told matches with the my feature.

> >

> > Any way will you please guide me tell me about how

> > my life is going to be in future. my business,

> > family. You told me that there is yoga for second

> > marriage. in 2007. Is it with same person.

> > Plz tell me about the future of my business /

> > job. What kind of life i am goig to lead.

> > Achievments etc. And of course about my marriage

> > what kind of second partner i m going to have.

> > If it will be my friend or not. CAn u give us

> > any vedic remedies so that we both my friend and

> > myself can live togather.

> > Some one also told us that if we both marry this

> > will cause death to his parent due to our marriage

> >

> >

> >

> > "So all Guruji i request U all to plz guide me

> > in shaping my own life as i am going thro a very

> > critical and confused time duration"

> >

> > Any remedies and sugesstion from U will really

> > going to help me.

> >

> > Thanking u

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > Send instant messages to your online friends

> > http://uk.messenger.

> >

> > [Non-text portions of this message have been

> > removed]

> >

> >

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