To Visti: Next step confused Should they marry?: Urgent

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Dear Visti

 

Hey, thanks a pile for your response. Also, HOW did u respond so quickly.

 

It is obvious from your posting that:

a) the danger is not in terms of the longevity of the Courter (thank God

for that, & knock knock to me, shdnt i hv checked that 1st, esp as the

Courter's birth time is NOT a round no) &

b) it is not the best of all matches, on many counts & indicators.

 

So, unfortunately, I WILL need to talk to her on the phone & say I cant

disagree with what the astrologers have said.

 

Only thing, she will hear, but not listen, if I just say that. I do want to

say something more & encouraging, about her marriage in general - if I do

have to ask her to give a hearing to her elders regarding the current

issue.

 

But as u may have guessed from my 2nd mail on the topic, I am not qualified

to do so. In case u have the time & cd give any pointers to the type of

person she should marry/ marriage in general (NOT the time, etc, i dont

think she is thinking about timing, at her age of 20), it wd help me to say

the first thing properly (ie to listen to her elders about this one).

 

Also, if u COULD go thru my 2nd posting, & actually see if the process I'm

following is along the right lines, irrespective of the answer, that'd also

help me educationally. U did say, Jupiterian, with a pinch of St. If

possible, is there anything one can really SAY, to someone who is just 20,

& who doesnt know any astrology. I know, this bit is not of utmost

importance to the List. OTOH, IF u cd deduce somethings from her chart on

this aspect, it may also serve educational purposes. Incidentally, ref my

detailed 2nd posting, why should the lumes not affect her marriage domain

far more than Jp/ St does? If u cd refer to my 2nd posting & see where am I

going wrong in the PROCESS also...

 

Many thanks

 

Nandan

[Guest guest]

Dear Nandan.

 

<<Hey, thanks a pile for your response. Also, HOW did u respond so quickly.>>

 

I had some time this morning, and caught your email.<<It is obvious from your

posting that:a) the danger is not in terms of the longevity of the Courter

(thank Godfor that, & knock knock to me, shdnt i hv checked that 1st, esp as

theCourter's birth time is NOT a round no) &>>

b) it is not the best of all matches, on many counts & indicators.>>

 

It may be a good match, but their karmas will ruin the marriage.

Looking at ur cousins chart, reckon the 7th house in Navamsa; Virgo and u'll see

that her spouse has; Merc+Moon in trines, along with Saturn and Ketu, indicating

an adulterer. This is if her Nav Lagna is infact Pisces. If not, then the

marriage will last.<<So, unfortunately, I WILL need to talk to her on the phone

& say I cantdisagree with what the astrologers have said.>>

 

Just say that the marriage won't last.<<Only thing, she will hear, but not

listen, if I just say that. I do want tosay something more & encouraging, about

her marriage in general - if I dohave to ask her to give a hearing to her elders

regarding the currentissue.>>>

 

Tell her that the marriage will go bad, and she should fast for 8 Fridays. She

should fast on Milk and fruits, if not completely.

By the time the 8 fridays are over she'll hopefully understand. Either way,

continious fasting on Fridays wil help the marriage. But i doubt she'll be able

to remove all the bad karma.<<But as u may have guessed from my 2nd mail on the

topic, I am not qualifiedto do so. >>

 

Have faith.

 

<<In case u have the time & cd give any pointers to the type ofperson she should

marry/ marriage in general (NOT the time, etc, i dontthink she is thinking about

timing, at her age of 20), it wd help me to saythe first thing properly (ie to

listen to her elders about this one).>>

 

She has Sreemantah Yoga in her Rasi(Lagnapada and Darapada in kendra to each

other), hence she generally does well with many people. I'm not sure how to

answer your question thou. The chart shows the fate, and how to appease it.

Worship of Lakshmi will give tremendous fruits.<<Also, if u COULD go thru my

2nd posting, & actually see if the process I'mfollowing is along the right

lines, irrespective of the answer, that'd alsohelp me educationally.>>

 

Kalatrakaraka shows how we seek the opposite sex. This is Venus for both sexes.

Jupiter is the spouse for women, and Venus is the spouse for men.

 

Study BPHS chapter on Arudhas, it gives some very important clues.

 

<<U did say, Jupiterian, with a pinch of St. Ifpossible, is there anything one

can really SAY, to someone who is just 20,& who doesnt know any astrology.>>

 

She allready know what type of man she desires, no need to remind her.

 

<<I know, this bit is not of utmostimportance to the List. OTOH, IF u cd deduce

somethings from her chart onthis aspect, it may also serve educational

purposes. Incidentally, ref mydetailed 2nd posting, why should the lumes not

affect her marriage domainfar more than Jp/ St does? If u cd refer to my 2nd

posting & see where am Igoing wrong in the PROCESS also...>>

 

They affect it indeed. U'll find Rahu in trines to her courters lagna, this is

important. Mercury also aspects, which could give the effect of a dual sign.

The trines to her Upapada are the earth signs, containing Ketu+merc & Sat+Jup.

The latter are stronger as Darakaraka is Jup.

 

Look into BPHS and find some clues to the nodal-influence on the Upapada.

 

Break it too her easy, and give her the remedial messures. With time she'll be

able to comprehend her own karmas, but don't make it more complicated.

 

Best wishes, Visti.