Guest guest Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 Respected Gurus My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and were great friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, 1989 in hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having increasing hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys and excellent careers. We fought about what each one said rather than material issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for divorce on Nov 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we are in this situation despite the best intentions of the two of us and all that is going well for us. Personally my life experience at the moment seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, finances and legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me when things may improve? Our details are as follows: Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala We have two sons: Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. The other questions I would have for your esteemed and learned souls are 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my free will? 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August when I had an intutive feel that my personal and professional life were starting to sour? 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays and pray to mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do what was right and brought this on the family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 4, 2005 Report Share Posted February 4, 2005 Namaste Surya, I looked at your horoscope and the situation looks quite challenging. You are karka lagna and kumbha rashi. The seventh lord shani is in 8th aspected by mangal. Also karaka venus is with exalted sun and is aspected by shani. People with exalted sun can have issues with ego as sun represents ego and he is exalted and also is in the 10th house so has dikbal. The lagna lord moon is in 8th with 8th lord. >From moon, you have shani and chandra in rashi and mangal in seventh, so you have strong maglik dosh. Mangal represents conflict in life and you may want to consider temepring your actions and behaviour. People with strong mars dosh always think that its the other party who is causing all the fights. Please do some introspection about this. One good thing I see in the chart is that Guru is aspecting seventh house of marriage from lagna. Currently you are in shani-ravi dasha and you will go into shani-chandra in november this year. Chandra is in 8th house of breaks ans is with seventh and 8th lord and aspected by mangal. He is 6th lord of disputes from moon with 12th lord shani from moon. So although he is lagna lord a benefic from lagna his hads are tied. Its up to you now to see whether you want this to work or not. As you say you miss your family, may be you may have to compromise to make it work. When guru moves into tula in sept and shani goes into karka in late may the transit from moon are favourable and may be that may ease the situation. The free will probably is to temper the martian qulities and ego which is sun. ... P.S. Not sure about your wife's data please spell the month out , don't know whether it is march 7, or 3rd july. On Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:37:39 -0000, Surya Pidaparti <suryagirija wrote: > > Respected Gurus > My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and were great > friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, 1989 in > hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having increasing > hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys and excellent > careers. We fought about what each one said rather than material > issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for divorce on Nov > 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we are in this > situation despite the best intentions of the two of us and all that > is going well for us. Personally my life experience at the moment > seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, finances and > legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me when things > may improve? > > Our details are as follows: > > Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad > Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala > > We have two sons: > Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) > Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) > > Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. > > The other questions I would have for your esteemed and learned souls > are > 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my free will? > 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August when I had > an intutive feel that my personal and professional life were starting > to sour? > 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? > 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays and pray to > mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. > > I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do what was > right and brought this on the family. > > > > > > > > > > > > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... > > > > > Sponsor > > Children International > Would you give Hope to a Child in need? > > ·Click Here to meet a Girl > And Give Her Hope > ·Click Here to meet a Boy > And Change His Life > Learn More > > ________________________________ > Links > > vedic astrology/ > > > vedic astrology > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 5, 2005 Report Share Posted February 5, 2005 Namaste Surya, Looked at your wife's chart. She has also karka lagna , however her chandra rashi is simha and your is kumbha. simha owned by ravi and kumbha owned by shani. shani and ravi are enimical toward each other. She does not have mangal doash. some in south consider mangal in second from moon as mangal dosh and she has it, however thats a soumya dosh. Her 7th lord is in 8th like yours and from moon sixed lord is in seventh. It was mangal mahadasha and shani anter dasha when the separation occured. The next anter dasha for her is mangal budh, budh is not a benefic for karka or simha rasi, but budh is in lagna and has dik bal and is with sukra. The next anterdasha will be ketu who is in 5th house and is aspeted by guru. So her dasha although not great are better. Mangal is also yogakaraka for karka and simha rashi. Did she migrate after marriage to us ? meaning, did you come overseas first and then went and married her ? ( This is just to check a few combinations). Were your kids born by c-section ? were there any miscarriges ?) Good luck and hope you find an amicable solution. .... On Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:37:39 -0000, Surya Pidaparti <suryagirija wrote: > > Respected Gurus > My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and were great > friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, 1989 in > hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having increasing > hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys and excellent > careers. We fought about what each one said rather than material > issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for divorce on Nov > 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we are in this > situation despite the best intentions of the two of us and all that > is going well for us. Personally my life experience at the moment > seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, finances and > legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me when things > may improve? > > Our details are as follows: > > Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad > Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala > > We have two sons: > Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) > Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) > > Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. > > The other questions I would have for your esteemed and learned souls > are > 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my free will? > 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August when I had > an intutive feel that my personal and professional life were starting > to sour? > 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? > 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays and pray to > mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. > > I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do what was > right and brought this on the family. > > > > > > > > > > > > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... > > > > > Sponsor > > Children International > Would you give Hope to a Child in need? > > ·Click Here to meet a Girl > And Give Her Hope > ·Click Here to meet a Boy > And Change His Life > Learn More > > ________________________________ > Links > > vedic astrology/ > > > vedic astrology > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 Namaste Panditji: I have a few more followup questions - is a reconciliation possible? You indicated that the ketu antardasha of my wife is favorable. When will this start? I do not know which dasha system you were referring to. I am really anxious to reunite with my family. The divorce process is moving along and a permanent separation seems to be inevitable. do you see that in the charts? I would be very grateful if you could answer these questions. Surya vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> wrote: > Namaste Surya, > > Looked at your wife's chart. She has also karka lagna , however her > chandra rashi is simha and your is kumbha. simha owned by ravi and > kumbha owned by shani. shani and ravi are enimical toward each other. > She does not have mangal doash. some in south consider mangal in > second from moon as mangal dosh and she has it, however thats a soumya > dosh. Her 7th lord is in 8th like yours and from moon sixed lord is in > seventh. It was mangal mahadasha and shani anter dasha when the > separation occured. The next anter dasha for her is mangal budh, budh > is not a benefic for karka or simha rasi, but budh is in lagna and has > dik bal and is with sukra. The next anterdasha will be ketu who is in > 5th house and is aspeted by guru. So her dasha although not great are > better. Mangal is also yogakaraka for karka and simha rashi. > > Did she migrate after marriage to us ? meaning, did you come overseas > first and then went and married her ? ( This is just to check a few > combinations). Were your kids born by c-section ? were there any > miscarriges ?) > > Good luck and hope you find an amicable solution. > > ... > > > On Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:37:39 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > Respected Gurus > > My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and were great > > friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, 1989 in > > hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having increasing > > hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys and excellent > > careers. We fought about what each one said rather than material > > issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for divorce on Nov > > 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we are in this > > situation despite the best intentions of the two of us and all that > > is going well for us. Personally my life experience at the moment > > seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, finances and > > legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me when things > > may improve? > > > > Our details are as follows: > > > > Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad > > Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala > > > > We have two sons: > > Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) > > Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) > > > > Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. > > > > The other questions I would have for your esteemed and learned souls > > are > > 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my free will? > > 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August when I had > > an intutive feel that my personal and professional life were starting > > to sour? > > 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? > > 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays and pray to > > mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. > > > > I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do what was > > right and brought this on the family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... > > > > > > > > > > Sponsor > > > > Children International > > Would you give Hope to a Child in need? > > > > ·Click Here to meet a Girl > > And Give Her Hope > > ·Click Here to meet a Boy > > And Change His Life > > Learn More > > > > ________________________________ > > Links > > > > vedic astrology/ > > > > > > vedic astrology > > > > Terms of Service. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 Hi Panditji, You mention in ur email that Surya's wife chart has Cancer as lagna. I am getting the lagna as Aries with her birthdate as 3rd of July 1965 at Shoranur,Kerala located at 76 17" E and 10 46" N (2.41 am) Who is making the mistake here...... Regards Suresh >"Surya Pidaparti" <suryagirija >vedic astrology >vedic astrology >[vedic astrology] Re: Need your Help!! >Thu, 03 Mar 2005 22:18:27 -0000 > > >Namaste Panditji: > >I have a few more followup questions - is a reconciliation possible? >You indicated that the ketu antardasha of my wife is favorable. When >will this start? I do not know which dasha system you were referring >to. I am really anxious to reunite with my family. The divorce >process is moving along and a permanent separation seems to be >inevitable. do you see that in the charts? I would be very grateful >if you could answer these questions. > >Surya > > >vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> >wrote: > > Namaste Surya, > > > > Looked at your wife's chart. She has also karka lagna , however her > > chandra rashi is simha and your is kumbha. simha owned by ravi and > > kumbha owned by shani. shani and ravi are enimical toward each >other. > > She does not have mangal doash. some in south consider mangal in > > second from moon as mangal dosh and she has it, however thats a >soumya > > dosh. Her 7th lord is in 8th like yours and from moon sixed lord is >in > > seventh. It was mangal mahadasha and shani anter dasha when the > > separation occured. The next anter dasha for her is mangal budh, >budh > > is not a benefic for karka or simha rasi, but budh is in lagna and >has > > dik bal and is with sukra. The next anterdasha will be ketu who is >in > > 5th house and is aspeted by guru. So her dasha although not great >are > > better. Mangal is also yogakaraka for karka and simha rashi. > > > > Did she migrate after marriage to us ? meaning, did you come >overseas > > first and then went and married her ? ( This is just to check a few > > combinations). Were your kids born by c-section ? were there any > > miscarriges ?) > > > > Good luck and hope you find an amicable solution. > > > > ... > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:37:39 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > Respected Gurus > > > My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and were >great > > > friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, 1989 in > > > hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having increasing > > > hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys and >excellent > > > careers. We fought about what each one said rather than material > > > issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for divorce on >Nov > > > 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we are in >this > > > situation despite the best intentions of the two of us and all >that > > > is going well for us. Personally my life experience at the moment > > > seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, finances >and > > > legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me when >things > > > may improve? > > > > > > Our details are as follows: > > > > > > Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad > > > Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala > > > > > > We have two sons: > > > Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) > > > Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) > > > > > > Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. > > > > > > The other questions I would have for your esteemed and learned >souls > > > are > > > 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my free >will? > > > 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August when I >had > > > an intutive feel that my personal and professional life were >starting > > > to sour? > > > 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? > > > 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays and >pray to > > > mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. > > > > > > I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do what was > > > right and brought this on the family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > > > > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sponsor > > > > > > Children International > > > Would you give Hope to a Child in need? > > > > > > ·Click Here to meet a Girl > > > And Give Her Hope > > > ·Click Here to meet a Boy > > > And Change His Life > > > Learn More > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > Links > > > > > > vedic astrology/ > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology > > > > > > Terms of >Service. > > > > > > _______________ FREE pop-up blocking with the new MSN Toolbar – get it now! http://toolbar.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200415ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 Namaste, I get mesh lagna as well, may be i used march instead of july that time, i am not sure. I did recast it and for her I get aries lagna. .... On Fri, 04 Mar 2005 01:14:11 +0000, Suresh Surendranathan <sherlockthegreat wrote: > > Hi Panditji, > > You mention in ur email that Surya's wife chart has Cancer as lagna. > I am getting the lagna as Aries with her birthdate as 3rd of July 1965 at > Shoranur,Kerala located at 76 17" E and 10 46" N (2.41 am) > Who is making the mistake here...... > > Regards > Suresh > > >"Surya Pidaparti" <suryagirija > >vedic astrology > >vedic astrology > >[vedic astrology] Re: Need your Help!! > >Thu, 03 Mar 2005 22:18:27 -0000 > > > > > >Namaste Panditji: > > > >I have a few more followup questions - is a reconciliation possible? > >You indicated that the ketu antardasha of my wife is favorable. When > >will this start? I do not know which dasha system you were referring > >to. I am really anxious to reunite with my family. The divorce > >process is moving along and a permanent separation seems to be > >inevitable. do you see that in the charts? I would be very grateful > >if you could answer these questions. > > > >Surya > > > > > >vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > >wrote: > > > Namaste Surya, > > > > > > Looked at your wife's chart. She has also karka lagna , however her > > > chandra rashi is simha and your is kumbha. simha owned by ravi and > > > kumbha owned by shani. shani and ravi are enimical toward each > >other. > > > She does not have mangal doash. some in south consider mangal in > > > second from moon as mangal dosh and she has it, however thats a > >soumya > > > dosh. Her 7th lord is in 8th like yours and from moon sixed lord is > >in > > > seventh. It was mangal mahadasha and shani anter dasha when the > > > separation occured. The next anter dasha for her is mangal budh, > >budh > > > is not a benefic for karka or simha rasi, but budh is in lagna and > >has > > > dik bal and is with sukra. The next anterdasha will be ketu who is > >in > > > 5th house and is aspeted by guru. So her dasha although not great > >are > > > better. Mangal is also yogakaraka for karka and simha rashi. > > > > > > Did she migrate after marriage to us ? meaning, did you come > >overseas > > > first and then went and married her ? ( This is just to check a few > > > combinations). Were your kids born by c-section ? were there any > > > miscarriges ?) > > > > > > Good luck and hope you find an amicable solution. > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:37:39 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > Respected Gurus > > > > My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and were > >great > > > > friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, 1989 in > > > > hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having increasing > > > > hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys and > >excellent > > > > careers. We fought about what each one said rather than material > > > > issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for divorce on > >Nov > > > > 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we are in > >this > > > > situation despite the best intentions of the two of us and all > >that > > > > is going well for us. Personally my life experience at the moment > > > > seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, finances > >and > > > > legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me when > >things > > > > may improve? > > > > > > > > Our details are as follows: > > > > > > > > Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad > > > > Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala > > > > > > > > We have two sons: > > > > Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) > > > > Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) > > > > > > > > Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. > > > > > > > > The other questions I would have for your esteemed and learned > >souls > > > > are > > > > 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my free > >will? > > > > 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August when I > >had > > > > an intutive feel that my personal and professional life were > >starting > > > > to sour? > > > > 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? > > > > 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays and > >pray to > > > > mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. > > > > > > > > I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do what was > > > > right and brought this on the family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > > > > > > > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sponsor > > > > > > > > Children International > > > > Would you give Hope to a Child in need? > > > > > > > > ·Click Here to meet a Girl > > > > And Give Her Hope > > > > ·Click Here to meet a Boy > > > > And Change His Life > > > > Learn More > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > Links > > > > > > > > vedic astrology/ > > > > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology > > > > > > > > Terms of > >Service. > > > > > > > > > > > > _______________ > FREE pop-up blocking with the new MSN Toolbar – get it now! > http://toolbar.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200415ave/direct/01/ > > > > > > > > > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... > > > Links > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 Namaste, I just recast your wife's kundali and the lagna is mesh not karka. Currently she is in mangal,guru dasha. Guru is a benefic for her lagna as well as moon rashi simha. The trouble must have started when she entered mangal mahadasha in march/april 2003. Mangal is in 6th house. Mangal -rahu must have excerbated it from august 2003. She will run into mangal-shani dasha in july 2005. shani is 6th and seventh lord from chandra and has malefic 11th lordship from lagna and is in the seventh from lagna. So her relationship house is getting activated by dasha as well as transit from july onwards. She will also enter sade sati period in may 2005. So it is not going to be a great period for her either. It may be good to get some counselling or talk with elders and assess the situation. I always beleive that if the will id strong and the hope is alive the stars will align. As you have indicated that you miss your family..may be its not a bad idea to set ego aside and have a long frank talk with your spouse. Good luck and God bless. Please keep up prayers as well. .... On Thu, 03 Mar 2005 22:18:27 -0000, Surya Pidaparti <suryagirija wrote: > > Namaste Panditji: > > I have a few more followup questions - is a reconciliation possible? > You indicated that the ketu antardasha of my wife is favorable. When > will this start? I do not know which dasha system you were referring > to. I am really anxious to reunite with my family. The divorce > process is moving along and a permanent separation seems to be > inevitable. do you see that in the charts? I would be very grateful > if you could answer these questions. > > Surya > > > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > > wrote: > > Namaste Surya, > > > > Looked at your wife's chart. She has also karka lagna , however her > > chandra rashi is simha and your is kumbha. simha owned by ravi and > > kumbha owned by shani. shani and ravi are enimical toward each > other. > > She does not have mangal doash. some in south consider mangal in > > second from moon as mangal dosh and she has it, however thats a > soumya > > dosh. Her 7th lord is in 8th like yours and from moon sixed lord is > in > > seventh. It was mangal mahadasha and shani anter dasha when the > > separation occured. The next anter dasha for her is mangal budh, > budh > > is not a benefic for karka or simha rasi, but budh is in lagna and > has > > dik bal and is with sukra. The next anterdasha will be ketu who is > in > > 5th house and is aspeted by guru. So her dasha although not great > are > > better. Mangal is also yogakaraka for karka and simha rashi. > > > > Did she migrate after marriage to us ? meaning, did you come > overseas > > first and then went and married her ? ( This is just to check a few > > combinations). Were your kids born by c-section ? were there any > > miscarriges ?) > > > > Good luck and hope you find an amicable solution. > > > > ... > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:37:39 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > Respected Gurus > > > My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and were > great > > > friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, 1989 in > > > hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having increasing > > > hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys and > excellent > > > careers. We fought about what each one said rather than material > > > issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for divorce on > Nov > > > 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we are in > this > > > situation despite the best intentions of the two of us and all > that > > > is going well for us. Personally my life experience at the moment > > > seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, finances > and > > > legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me when > things > > > may improve? > > > > > > Our details are as follows: > > > > > > Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad > > > Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala > > > > > > We have two sons: > > > Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) > > > Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) > > > > > > Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. > > > > > > The other questions I would have for your esteemed and learned > souls > > > are > > > 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my free > will? > > > 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August when I > had > > > an intutive feel that my personal and professional life were > starting > > > to sour? > > > 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? > > > 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays and > pray to > > > mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. > > > > > > I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do what was > > > right and brought this on the family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > > > > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sponsor > > > > > > Children International > > > Would you give Hope to a Child in need? > > > > > > ·Click Here to meet a Girl > > > And Give Her Hope > > > ·Click Here to meet a Boy > > > And Change His Life > > > Learn More > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > Links > > > > > > vedic astrology/ > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology > > > > > > Terms of > Service. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ....... 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Guest guest Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 Dear Panditji, You are brilliant ! Where do you live ? If you don't mind, please introduce yourself to me, privately. Praveen Kumar (Mumbai) - Panditji vedic astrology 04, 03, 2005 8:18 AM Re: [vedic astrology] Re: Need your Help!! Namaste,I just recast your wife's kundali and the lagna is mesh not karka.Currently she is in mangal,guru dasha. Guru is a benefic for her lagnaas well as moon rashi simha. The trouble must have started when sheentered mangal mahadasha in march/april 2003. Mangal is in 6th house.Mangal -rahu must have excerbated it from august 2003.She will run into mangal-shani dasha in july 2005. shani is 6th andseventh lord from chandra and has malefic 11th lordship from lagna andis in the seventh from lagna. So her relationship house is gettingactivated by dasha as well as transit from july onwards. She will alsoenter sade sati period in may 2005. So it is not going to be a greatperiod for her either.It may be good to get some counselling or talk with elders and assessthe situation. I always beleive that if the will id strong and thehope is alive the stars will align. As you have indicated that youmiss your family..may be its not a bad idea to set ego aside and havea long frank talk with your spouse.Good luck and God bless. Please keep up prayers as well.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 4, 2005 Report Share Posted March 4, 2005 This time you are absolutely right. trouble started in 8/04. I am not able to talk with her directly due to severe legal restrictions she has obtained from the courts. I an worried about the sadesati phase for her - what types of problems can this cause? vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> wrote: > Namaste, > > I just recast your wife's kundali and the lagna is mesh not karka. > Currently she is in mangal,guru dasha. Guru is a benefic for her lagna > as well as moon rashi simha. The trouble must have started when she > entered mangal mahadasha in march/april 2003. Mangal is in 6th house. > Mangal -rahu must have excerbated it from august 2003. > > She will run into mangal-shani dasha in july 2005. shani is 6th and > seventh lord from chandra and has malefic 11th lordship from lagna and > is in the seventh from lagna. So her relationship house is getting > activated by dasha as well as transit from july onwards. She will also > enter sade sati period in may 2005. So it is not going to be a great > period for her either. > > It may be good to get some counselling or talk with elders and assess > the situation. I always beleive that if the will id strong and the > hope is alive the stars will align. As you have indicated that you > miss your family..may be its not a bad idea to set ego aside and have > a long frank talk with your spouse. > > Good luck and God bless. Please keep up prayers as well. > > ... > > > On Thu, 03 Mar 2005 22:18:27 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > Namaste Panditji: > > > > I have a few more followup questions - is a reconciliation possible? > > You indicated that the ketu antardasha of my wife is favorable. When > > will this start? I do not know which dasha system you were referring > > to. I am really anxious to reunite with my family. The divorce > > process is moving along and a permanent separation seems to be > > inevitable. do you see that in the charts? I would be very grateful > > if you could answer these questions. > > > > Surya > > > > > > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > > > > wrote: > > > Namaste Surya, > > > > > > Looked at your wife's chart. She has also karka lagna , however her > > > chandra rashi is simha and your is kumbha. simha owned by ravi and > > > kumbha owned by shani. shani and ravi are enimical toward each > > other. > > > She does not have mangal doash. some in south consider mangal in > > > second from moon as mangal dosh and she has it, however thats a > > soumya > > > dosh. Her 7th lord is in 8th like yours and from moon sixed lord is > > in > > > seventh. It was mangal mahadasha and shani anter dasha when the > > > separation occured. The next anter dasha for her is mangal budh, > > budh > > > is not a benefic for karka or simha rasi, but budh is in lagna and > > has > > > dik bal and is with sukra. The next anterdasha will be ketu who is > > in > > > 5th house and is aspeted by guru. So her dasha although not great > > are > > > better. Mangal is also yogakaraka for karka and simha rashi. > > > > > > Did she migrate after marriage to us ? meaning, did you come > > overseas > > > first and then went and married her ? ( This is just to check a few > > > combinations). Were your kids born by c-section ? were there any > > > miscarriges ?) > > > > > > Good luck and hope you find an amicable solution. > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:37:39 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > Respected Gurus > > > > My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and were > > great > > > > friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, 1989 in > > > > hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having increasing > > > > hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys and > > excellent > > > > careers. We fought about what each one said rather than material > > > > issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for divorce on > > Nov > > > > 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we are in > > this > > > > situation despite the best intentions of the two of us and all > > that > > > > is going well for us. Personally my life experience at the moment > > > > seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, finances > > and > > > > legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me when > > things > > > > may improve? > > > > > > > > Our details are as follows: > > > > > > > > Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad > > > > Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala > > > > > > > > We have two sons: > > > > Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) > > > > Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) > > > > > > > > Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. > > > > > > > > The other questions I would have for your esteemed and learned > > souls > > > > are > > > > 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my free > > will? > > > > 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August when I > > had > > > > an intutive feel that my personal and professional life were > > starting > > > > to sour? > > > > 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? > > > > 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays and > > pray to > > > > mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. > > > > > > > > I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do what was > > > > right and brought this on the family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Group info: vedic- astrology/info.html > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > > > > > > > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sponsor > > > > > > > > Children International > > > > Would you give Hope to a Child in need? > > > > > > > > ·Click Here to meet a Girl > > > > And Give Her Hope > > > > ·Click Here to meet a Boy > > > > And Change His Life > > > > Learn More > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > Links > > > > > > > > vedic astrology/ > > > > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology > > > > > > > > Terms of > > Service. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... > > > > > > > > > > Sponsor > > > > > > ________________________________ > > Links > > > > vedic astrology/ > > > > > > vedic astrology > > > > Terms of Service. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 4, 2005 Report Share Posted March 4, 2005 Namaste, Sade sati is a time for displacements. Anyway from a non astrological perspective, can you talk to her through a common friend. Her parents,your parents. I am sure you socialized and know people who can talk to her on your behalf. If you miss your family I suggest you need to make the first move. .... On Fri, 04 Mar 2005 14:13:01 -0000, Surya Pidaparti <suryagirija wrote: > > This time you are absolutely right. trouble started in 8/04. I am not > able to talk with her directly due to severe legal restrictions she > has obtained from the courts. I an worried about the sadesati phase > for her - what types of problems can this cause? > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > wrote: > > Namaste, > > > > I just recast your wife's kundali and the lagna is mesh not karka. > > Currently she is in mangal,guru dasha. Guru is a benefic for her > lagna > > as well as moon rashi simha. The trouble must have started when she > > entered mangal mahadasha in march/april 2003. Mangal is in 6th > house. > > Mangal -rahu must have excerbated it from august 2003. > > > > She will run into mangal-shani dasha in july 2005. shani is 6th and > > seventh lord from chandra and has malefic 11th lordship from lagna > and > > is in the seventh from lagna. So her relationship house is getting > > activated by dasha as well as transit from july onwards. She will > also > > enter sade sati period in may 2005. So it is not going to be a great > > period for her either. > > > > It may be good to get some counselling or talk with elders and > assess > > the situation. I always beleive that if the will id strong and the > > hope is alive the stars will align. As you have indicated that you > > miss your family..may be its not a bad idea to set ego aside and > have > > a long frank talk with your spouse. > > > > Good luck and God bless. Please keep up prayers as well. > > > > ... > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Mar 2005 22:18:27 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > Namaste Panditji: > > > > > > I have a few more followup questions - is a reconciliation > possible? > > > You indicated that the ketu antardasha of my wife is favorable. > When > > > will this start? I do not know which dasha system you were > referring > > > to. I am really anxious to reunite with my family. The divorce > > > process is moving along and a permanent separation seems to be > > > inevitable. do you see that in the charts? I would be very > grateful > > > if you could answer these questions. > > > > > > Surya > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > > > > > > wrote: > > > > Namaste Surya, > > > > > > > > Looked at your wife's chart. She has also karka lagna , however > her > > > > chandra rashi is simha and your is kumbha. simha owned by ravi > and > > > > kumbha owned by shani. shani and ravi are enimical toward each > > > other. > > > > She does not have mangal doash. some in south consider mangal in > > > > second from moon as mangal dosh and she has it, however thats a > > > soumya > > > > dosh. Her 7th lord is in 8th like yours and from moon sixed > lord is > > > in > > > > seventh. It was mangal mahadasha and shani anter dasha when the > > > > separation occured. The next anter dasha for her is mangal > budh, > > > budh > > > > is not a benefic for karka or simha rasi, but budh is in lagna > and > > > has > > > > dik bal and is with sukra. The next anterdasha will be ketu who > is > > > in > > > > 5th house and is aspeted by guru. So her dasha although not > great > > > are > > > > better. Mangal is also yogakaraka for karka and simha rashi. > > > > > > > > Did she migrate after marriage to us ? meaning, did you come > > > overseas > > > > first and then went and married her ? ( This is just to check a > few > > > > combinations). Were your kids born by c-section ? were there any > > > > miscarriges ?) > > > > > > > > Good luck and hope you find an amicable solution. > > > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:37:39 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Respected Gurus > > > > > My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and were > > > great > > > > > friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, 1989 in > > > > > hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having > increasing > > > > > hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys and > > > excellent > > > > > careers. We fought about what each one said rather than > material > > > > > issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for divorce > on > > > Nov > > > > > 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we are > in > > > this > > > > > situation despite the best intentions of the two of us and > all > > > that > > > > > is going well for us. Personally my life experience at the > moment > > > > > seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, > finances > > > and > > > > > legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me when > > > things > > > > > may improve? > > > > > > > > > > Our details are as follows: > > > > > > > > > > Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad > > > > > Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala > > > > > > > > > > We have two sons: > > > > > Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) > > > > > Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) > > > > > > > > > > Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. > > > > > > > > > > The other questions I would have for your esteemed and > learned > > > souls > > > > > are > > > > > 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my > free > > > will? > > > > > 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August when > I > > > had > > > > > an intutive feel that my personal and professional life were > > > starting > > > > > to sour? > > > > > 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? > > > > > 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays and > > > pray to > > > > > mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. > > > > > > > > > > I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do what > was > > > > > right and brought this on the family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Group info: vedic- > astrology/info.html > > > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > > > > > > > > > > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sponsor > > > > > > > > > > Children International > > > > > Would you give Hope to a Child in need? > > > > > > > > > > ·Click Here to meet a Girl > > > > > And Give Her Hope > > > > > ·Click Here to meet a Boy > > > > > And Change His Life > > > > > Learn More > > > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > > Links > > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology/ > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology > > > > > > > > > > Terms of > > > Service. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > > > > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sponsor > > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > Links > > > > > > vedic astrology/ > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology > > > > > > Terms of > Service. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ....... 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Guest guest Posted March 5, 2005 Report Share Posted March 5, 2005 Panditji: I have tried through her cousin & parents but to no avail. Her parents who probably wield most influence don't fully support us reconciling -I feel. I am at the end of my wits. Surya vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> wrote: > Namaste, > > Sade sati is a time for displacements. Anyway from a non astrological > perspective, can you talk to her through a common friend. Her > parents,your parents. I am sure you socialized and know people who can > talk to her on your behalf. If you miss your family I suggest you need > to make the first move. > > ... > > > On Fri, 04 Mar 2005 14:13:01 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > This time you are absolutely right. trouble started in 8/04. I am not > > able to talk with her directly due to severe legal restrictions she > > has obtained from the courts. I an worried about the sadesati phase > > for her - what types of problems can this cause? > > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > > wrote: > > > Namaste, > > > > > > I just recast your wife's kundali and the lagna is mesh not karka. > > > Currently she is in mangal,guru dasha. Guru is a benefic for her > > lagna > > > as well as moon rashi simha. The trouble must have started when she > > > entered mangal mahadasha in march/april 2003. Mangal is in 6th > > house. > > > Mangal -rahu must have excerbated it from august 2003. > > > > > > She will run into mangal-shani dasha in july 2005. shani is 6th and > > > seventh lord from chandra and has malefic 11th lordship from lagna > > and > > > is in the seventh from lagna. So her relationship house is getting > > > activated by dasha as well as transit from july onwards. She will > > also > > > enter sade sati period in may 2005. So it is not going to be a great > > > period for her either. > > > > > > It may be good to get some counselling or talk with elders and > > assess > > > the situation. I always beleive that if the will id strong and the > > > hope is alive the stars will align. As you have indicated that you > > > miss your family..may be its not a bad idea to set ego aside and > > have > > > a long frank talk with your spouse. > > > > > > Good luck and God bless. Please keep up prayers as well. > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Mar 2005 22:18:27 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > Namaste Panditji: > > > > > > > > I have a few more followup questions - is a reconciliation > > possible? > > > > You indicated that the ketu antardasha of my wife is favorable. > > When > > > > will this start? I do not know which dasha system you were > > referring > > > > to. I am really anxious to reunite with my family. The divorce > > > > process is moving along and a permanent separation seems to be > > > > inevitable. do you see that in the charts? I would be very > > grateful > > > > if you could answer these questions. > > > > > > > > Surya > > > > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > > > > > > > > wrote: > > > > > Namaste Surya, > > > > > > > > > > Looked at your wife's chart. She has also karka lagna , however > > her > > > > > chandra rashi is simha and your is kumbha. simha owned by ravi > > and > > > > > kumbha owned by shani. shani and ravi are enimical toward each > > > > other. > > > > > She does not have mangal doash. some in south consider mangal in > > > > > second from moon as mangal dosh and she has it, however thats a > > > > soumya > > > > > dosh. Her 7th lord is in 8th like yours and from moon sixed > > lord is > > > > in > > > > > seventh. It was mangal mahadasha and shani anter dasha when the > > > > > separation occured. The next anter dasha for her is mangal > > budh, > > > > budh > > > > > is not a benefic for karka or simha rasi, but budh is in lagna > > and > > > > has > > > > > dik bal and is with sukra. The next anterdasha will be ketu who > > is > > > > in > > > > > 5th house and is aspeted by guru. So her dasha although not > > great > > > > are > > > > > better. Mangal is also yogakaraka for karka and simha rashi. > > > > > > > > > > Did she migrate after marriage to us ? meaning, did you come > > > > overseas > > > > > first and then went and married her ? ( This is just to check a > > few > > > > > combinations). Were your kids born by c-section ? were there any > > > > > miscarriges ?) > > > > > > > > > > Good luck and hope you find an amicable solution. > > > > > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:37:39 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Gurus > > > > > > My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and were > > > > great > > > > > > friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, 1989 in > > > > > > hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having > > increasing > > > > > > hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys and > > > > excellent > > > > > > careers. We fought about what each one said rather than > > material > > > > > > issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for divorce > > on > > > > Nov > > > > > > 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we are > > in > > > > this > > > > > > situation despite the best intentions of the two of us and > > all > > > > that > > > > > > is going well for us. Personally my life experience at the > > moment > > > > > > seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, > > finances > > > > and > > > > > > legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me when > > > > things > > > > > > may improve? > > > > > > > > > > > > Our details are as follows: > > > > > > > > > > > > Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad > > > > > > Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala > > > > > > > > > > > > We have two sons: > > > > > > Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) > > > > > > Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) > > > > > > > > > > > > Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. > > > > > > > > > > > > The other questions I would have for your esteemed and > > learned > > > > souls > > > > > > are > > > > > > 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my > > free > > > > will? > > > > > > 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August when > > I > > > > had > > > > > > an intutive feel that my personal and professional life were > > > > starting > > > > > > to sour? > > > > > > 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? > > > > > > 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays and > > > > pray to > > > > > > mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. > > > > > > > > > > > > I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do what > > was > > > > > > right and brought this on the family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Group info: vedic- > > astrology/info.html > > > > > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ....... 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Guest guest Posted March 5, 2005 Report Share Posted March 5, 2005 Namaste, I am sorry to hear that. In that case may be you may want to take legal counsel and in US if one party wants to reconcile the judge may give it a ear. Again in this case it is better to take legal counsel and tell the attorney of your wishes. The attorneys are notorious to start down the war path and you may want to be aware of these pitfalls. Please do not stop praying. Good luck .... On Sat, 05 Mar 2005 11:37:55 -0000, Surya Pidaparti <suryagirija wrote: > > Panditji: > > I have tried through her cousin & parents but to no avail. Her parents who > probably wield most influence don't fully support us reconciling -I feel. I > am at the end of my wits. > > Surya > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> wrote: > > Namaste, > > > > Sade sati is a time for displacements. Anyway from a non astrological > > perspective, can you talk to her through a common friend. Her > > parents,your parents. I am sure you socialized and know people who can > > talk to her on your behalf. If you miss your family I suggest you need > > to make the first move. > > > > ... > > > > > > On Fri, 04 Mar 2005 14:13:01 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > This time you are absolutely right. trouble started in 8/04. I am not > > > able to talk with her directly due to severe legal restrictions she > > > has obtained from the courts. I an worried about the sadesati phase > > > for her - what types of problems can this cause? > > > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > > > wrote: > > > > Namaste, > > > > > > > > I just recast your wife's kundali and the lagna is mesh not karka. > > > > Currently she is in mangal,guru dasha. Guru is a benefic for her > > > lagna > > > > as well as moon rashi simha. The trouble must have started when she > > > > entered mangal mahadasha in march/april 2003. Mangal is in 6th > > > house. > > > > Mangal -rahu must have excerbated it from august 2003. > > > > > > > > She will run into mangal-shani dasha in july 2005. shani is 6th and > > > > seventh lord from chandra and has malefic 11th lordship from lagna > > > and > > > > is in the seventh from lagna. So her relationship house is getting > > > > activated by dasha as well as transit from july onwards. She will > > > also > > > > enter sade sati period in may 2005. So it is not going to be a great > > > > period for her either. > > > > > > > > It may be good to get some counselling or talk with elders and > > > assess > > > > the situation. I always beleive that if the will id strong and the > > > > hope is alive the stars will align. As you have indicated that you > > > > miss your family..may be its not a bad idea to set ego aside and > > > have > > > > a long frank talk with your spouse. > > > > > > > > Good luck and God bless. Please keep up prayers as well. > > > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Mar 2005 22:18:27 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Namaste Panditji: > > > > > > > > > > I have a few more followup questions - is a reconciliation > > > possible? > > > > > You indicated that the ketu antardasha of my wife is favorable. > > > When > > > > > will this start? I do not know which dasha system you were > > > referring > > > > > to. I am really anxious to reunite with my family. The divorce > > > > > process is moving along and a permanent separation seems to be > > > > > inevitable. do you see that in the charts? I would be very > > > grateful > > > > > if you could answer these questions. > > > > > > > > > > Surya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > > > > > > > > > > wrote: > > > > > > Namaste Surya, > > > > > > > > > > > > Looked at your wife's chart. She has also karka lagna , however > > > her > > > > > > chandra rashi is simha and your is kumbha. simha owned by ravi > > > and > > > > > > kumbha owned by shani. shani and ravi are enimical toward each > > > > > other. > > > > > > She does not have mangal doash. some in south consider mangal in > > > > > > second from moon as mangal dosh and she has it, however thats a > > > > > soumya > > > > > > dosh. Her 7th lord is in 8th like yours and from moon sixed > > > lord is > > > > > in > > > > > > seventh. It was mangal mahadasha and shani anter dasha when the > > > > > > separation occured. The next anter dasha for her is mangal > > > budh, > > > > > budh > > > > > > is not a benefic for karka or simha rasi, but budh is in lagna > > > and > > > > > has > > > > > > dik bal and is with sukra. The next anterdasha will be ketu who > > > is > > > > > in > > > > > > 5th house and is aspeted by guru. So her dasha although not > > > great > > > > > are > > > > > > better. Mangal is also yogakaraka for karka and simha rashi. > > > > > > > > > > > > Did she migrate after marriage to us ? meaning, did you come > > > > > overseas > > > > > > first and then went and married her ? ( This is just to check a > > > few > > > > > > combinations). Were your kids born by c-section ? were there any > > > > > > miscarriges ?) > > > > > > > > > > > > Good luck and hope you find an amicable solution. > > > > > > > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:37:39 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Gurus > > > > > > > My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and were > > > > > great > > > > > > > friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, 1989 in > > > > > > > hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having > > > increasing > > > > > > > hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys and > > > > > excellent > > > > > > > careers. We fought about what each one said rather than > > > material > > > > > > > issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for divorce > > > on > > > > > Nov > > > > > > > 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we are > > > in > > > > > this > > > > > > > situation despite the best intentions of the two of us and > > > all > > > > > that > > > > > > > is going well for us. Personally my life experience at the > > > moment > > > > > > > seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, > > > finances > > > > > and > > > > > > > legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me when > > > > > things > > > > > > > may improve? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Our details are as follows: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad > > > > > > > Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala > > > > > > > > > > > > > > We have two sons: > > > > > > > Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) > > > > > > > Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > The other questions I would have for your esteemed and > > > learned > > > > > souls > > > > > > > are > > > > > > > 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my > > > free > > > > > will? > > > > > > > 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August when > > > I > > > > > had > > > > > > > an intutive feel that my personal and professional life were > > > > > starting > > > > > > > to sour? > > > > > > > 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? > > > > > > > 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays and > > > > > pray to > > > > > > > mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do what > > > was > > > > > > > right and brought this on the family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Group info: vedic- > > > astrology/info.html > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ....... 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Guest guest Posted March 5, 2005 Report Share Posted March 5, 2005 Namaste panditji: Thank you very much for your exhaustive evaluation. Reading through your analysis, I think you see little hope for the continuation of my relationship. Am I interpreting it right? Please confirm. Surya vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> wrote: > Namaste, > > I just recast your wife's kundali and the lagna is mesh not karka. > Currently she is in mangal,guru dasha. Guru is a benefic for her lagna > as well as moon rashi simha. The trouble must have started when she > entered mangal mahadasha in march/april 2003. Mangal is in 6th house. > Mangal -rahu must have excerbated it from august 2003. > > She will run into mangal-shani dasha in july 2005. shani is 6th and > seventh lord from chandra and has malefic 11th lordship from lagna and > is in the seventh from lagna. So her relationship house is getting > activated by dasha as well as transit from july onwards. She will also > enter sade sati period in may 2005. So it is not going to be a great > period for her either. > > It may be good to get some counselling or talk with elders and assess > the situation. I always beleive that if the will id strong and the > hope is alive the stars will align. As you have indicated that you > miss your family..may be its not a bad idea to set ego aside and have > a long frank talk with your spouse. > > Good luck and God bless. Please keep up prayers as well. > > ... > > > On Thu, 03 Mar 2005 22:18:27 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > Namaste Panditji: > > > > I have a few more followup questions - is a reconciliation possible? > > You indicated that the ketu antardasha of my wife is favorable. When > > will this start? I do not know which dasha system you were referring > > to. I am really anxious to reunite with my family. The divorce > > process is moving along and a permanent separation seems to be > > inevitable. do you see that in the charts? I would be very grateful > > if you could answer these questions. > > > > Surya > > > > > > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > > > > wrote: > > > Namaste Surya, > > > > > > Looked at your wife's chart. She has also karka lagna , however her > > > chandra rashi is simha and your is kumbha. simha owned by ravi and > > > kumbha owned by shani. shani and ravi are enimical toward each > > other. > > > She does not have mangal doash. some in south consider mangal in > > > second from moon as mangal dosh and she has it, however thats a > > soumya > > > dosh. Her 7th lord is in 8th like yours and from moon sixed lord is > > in > > > seventh. It was mangal mahadasha and shani anter dasha when the > > > separation occured. The next anter dasha for her is mangal budh, > > budh > > > is not a benefic for karka or simha rasi, but budh is in lagna and > > has > > > dik bal and is with sukra. The next anterdasha will be ketu who is > > in > > > 5th house and is aspeted by guru. So her dasha although not great > > are > > > better. Mangal is also yogakaraka for karka and simha rashi. > > > > > > Did she migrate after marriage to us ? meaning, did you come > > overseas > > > first and then went and married her ? ( This is just to check a few > > > combinations). Were your kids born by c-section ? were there any > > > miscarriges ?) > > > > > > Good luck and hope you find an amicable solution. > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:37:39 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > Respected Gurus > > > > My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and were > > great > > > > friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, 1989 in > > > > hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having increasing > > > > hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys and > > excellent > > > > careers. We fought about what each one said rather than material > > > > issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for divorce on > > Nov > > > > 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we are in > > this > > > > situation despite the best intentions of the two of us and all > > that > > > > is going well for us. Personally my life experience at the moment > > > > seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, finances > > and > > > > legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me when > > things > > > > may improve? > > > > > > > > Our details are as follows: > > > > > > > > Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad > > > > Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala > > > > > > > > We have two sons: > > > > Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) > > > > Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) > > > > > > > > Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. > > > > > > > > The other questions I would have for your esteemed and learned > > souls > > > > are > > > > 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my free > > will? > > > > 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August when I > > had > > > > an intutive feel that my personal and professional life were > > starting > > > > to sour? > > > > 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? > > > > 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays and > > pray to > > > > mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. > > > > > > > > I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do what was > > > > right and brought this on the family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Group info: vedic- astrology/info.html > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > > > > > > > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sponsor > > > > > > > > Children International > > > > Would you give Hope to a Child in need? > > > > > > > > ·Click Here to meet a Girl > > > > And Give Her Hope > > > > ·Click Here to meet a Boy > > > > And Change His Life > > > > Learn More > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > Links > > > > > > > > vedic astrology/ > > > > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology > > > > > > > > Terms of > > Service. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... > > > > > > > > > > Sponsor > > > > > > ________________________________ > > Links > > > > vedic astrology/ > > > > > > vedic astrology > > > > Terms of Service. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2005 Report Share Posted March 25, 2005 Panditji: Are you sure that my wife is going to run into Mangal Sani in July 2005? Based on my reading and perusal through other websites, Mangal- Rahu ended and Mangal-Guru started around 15-3-05. Mangal-Shani does not start until Feb 2006. Could you verify if this is correct? Does this change the possible outcome? I would be grateful if you could respond. Surya vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> wrote: > Namaste, > > I just recast your wife's kundali and the lagna is mesh not karka. > Currently she is in mangal,guru dasha. Guru is a benefic for her lagna > as well as moon rashi simha. The trouble must have started when she > entered mangal mahadasha in march/april 2003. Mangal is in 6th house. > Mangal -rahu must have excerbated it from august 2003. > > She will run into mangal-shani dasha in july 2005. shani is 6th and > seventh lord from chandra and has malefic 11th lordship from lagna and > is in the seventh from lagna. So her relationship house is getting > activated by dasha as well as transit from july onwards. She will also > enter sade sati period in may 2005. So it is not going to be a great > period for her either. > > It may be good to get some counselling or talk with elders and assess > the situation. I always beleive that if the will id strong and the > hope is alive the stars will align. As you have indicated that you > miss your family..may be its not a bad idea to set ego aside and have > a long frank talk with your spouse. > > Good luck and God bless. Please keep up prayers as well. > > ... > > > On Thu, 03 Mar 2005 22:18:27 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > Namaste Panditji: > > > > I have a few more followup questions - is a reconciliation possible? > > You indicated that the ketu antardasha of my wife is favorable. When > > will this start? I do not know which dasha system you were referring > > to. I am really anxious to reunite with my family. The divorce > > process is moving along and a permanent separation seems to be > > inevitable. do you see that in the charts? I would be very grateful > > if you could answer these questions. > > > > Surya > > > > > > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > > > > wrote: > > > Namaste Surya, > > > > > > Looked at your wife's chart. She has also karka lagna , however her > > > chandra rashi is simha and your is kumbha. simha owned by ravi and > > > kumbha owned by shani. shani and ravi are enimical toward each > > other. > > > She does not have mangal doash. some in south consider mangal in > > > second from moon as mangal dosh and she has it, however thats a > > soumya > > > dosh. Her 7th lord is in 8th like yours and from moon sixed lord is > > in > > > seventh. It was mangal mahadasha and shani anter dasha when the > > > separation occured. The next anter dasha for her is mangal budh, > > budh > > > is not a benefic for karka or simha rasi, but budh is in lagna and > > has > > > dik bal and is with sukra. The next anterdasha will be ketu who is > > in > > > 5th house and is aspeted by guru. So her dasha although not great > > are > > > better. Mangal is also yogakaraka for karka and simha rashi. > > > > > > Did she migrate after marriage to us ? meaning, did you come > > overseas > > > first and then went and married her ? ( This is just to check a few > > > combinations). Were your kids born by c-section ? were there any > > > miscarriges ?) > > > > > > Good luck and hope you find an amicable solution. > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:37:39 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > Respected Gurus > > > > My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and were > > great > > > > friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, 1989 in > > > > hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having increasing > > > > hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys and > > excellent > > > > careers. We fought about what each one said rather than material > > > > issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for divorce on > > Nov > > > > 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we are in > > this > > > > situation despite the best intentions of the two of us and all > > that > > > > is going well for us. Personally my life experience at the moment > > > > seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, finances > > and > > > > legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me when > > things > > > > may improve? > > > > > > > > Our details are as follows: > > > > > > > > Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad > > > > Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala > > > > > > > > We have two sons: > > > > Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) > > > > Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) > > > > > > > > Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. > > > > > > > > The other questions I would have for your esteemed and learned > > souls > > > > are > > > > 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my free > > will? > > > > 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August when I > > had > > > > an intutive feel that my personal and professional life were > > starting > > > > to sour? > > > > 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? > > > > 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays and > > pray to > > > > mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. > > > > > > > > I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do what was > > > > right and brought this on the family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Group info: vedic- astrology/info.html > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > > > > > > > ....... 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Guest guest Posted March 25, 2005 Report Share Posted March 25, 2005 Namaste Surya, Yes, I use Savana year ( 360 days/year) with that mangal-shani will start in July. For her mesh lagna ans simha rashi shani is malefic. He is sitting in sventh house as sixth and seventh lord from chandra and fomlagna he is 10th and eleveth lord so malefic. It is going to be anter dasha with challenges. .... On Fri, 25 Mar 2005 16:21:59 -0000, Surya Pidaparti <suryagirija wrote: > > Panditji: > > Are you sure that my wife is going to run into Mangal Sani in July > 2005? Based on my reading and perusal through other websites, Mangal- > Rahu ended and Mangal-Guru started around 15-3-05. Mangal-Shani does > not start until Feb 2006. Could you verify if this is correct? Does > this change the possible outcome? I would be grateful if you could > respond. > > Surya > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > wrote: > > Namaste, > > > > I just recast your wife's kundali and the lagna is mesh not karka. > > Currently she is in mangal,guru dasha. Guru is a benefic for her > lagna > > as well as moon rashi simha. The trouble must have started when she > > entered mangal mahadasha in march/april 2003. Mangal is in 6th > house. > > Mangal -rahu must have excerbated it from august 2003. > > > > She will run into mangal-shani dasha in july 2005. shani is 6th and > > seventh lord from chandra and has malefic 11th lordship from lagna > and > > is in the seventh from lagna. So her relationship house is getting > > activated by dasha as well as transit from july onwards. She will > also > > enter sade sati period in may 2005. So it is not going to be a great > > period for her either. > > > > It may be good to get some counselling or talk with elders and > assess > > the situation. I always beleive that if the will id strong and the > > hope is alive the stars will align. As you have indicated that you > > miss your family..may be its not a bad idea to set ego aside and > have > > a long frank talk with your spouse. > > > > Good luck and God bless. Please keep up prayers as well. > > > > ... > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Mar 2005 22:18:27 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > Namaste Panditji: > > > > > > I have a few more followup questions - is a reconciliation > possible? > > > You indicated that the ketu antardasha of my wife is favorable. > When > > > will this start? I do not know which dasha system you were > referring > > > to. I am really anxious to reunite with my family. The divorce > > > process is moving along and a permanent separation seems to be > > > inevitable. do you see that in the charts? I would be very > grateful > > > if you could answer these questions. > > > > > > Surya > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > > > > > > wrote: > > > > Namaste Surya, > > > > > > > > Looked at your wife's chart. She has also karka lagna , however > her > > > > chandra rashi is simha and your is kumbha. simha owned by ravi > and > > > > kumbha owned by shani. shani and ravi are enimical toward each > > > other. > > > > She does not have mangal doash. some in south consider mangal in > > > > second from moon as mangal dosh and she has it, however thats a > > > soumya > > > > dosh. Her 7th lord is in 8th like yours and from moon sixed > lord is > > > in > > > > seventh. It was mangal mahadasha and shani anter dasha when the > > > > separation occured. The next anter dasha for her is mangal > budh, > > > budh > > > > is not a benefic for karka or simha rasi, but budh is in lagna > and > > > has > > > > dik bal and is with sukra. The next anterdasha will be ketu who > is > > > in > > > > 5th house and is aspeted by guru. So her dasha although not > great > > > are > > > > better. Mangal is also yogakaraka for karka and simha rashi. > > > > > > > > Did she migrate after marriage to us ? meaning, did you come > > > overseas > > > > first and then went and married her ? ( This is just to check a > few > > > > combinations). Were your kids born by c-section ? were there any > > > > miscarriges ?) > > > > > > > > Good luck and hope you find an amicable solution. > > > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:37:39 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Respected Gurus > > > > > My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and were > > > great > > > > > friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, 1989 in > > > > > hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having > increasing > > > > > hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys and > > > excellent > > > > > careers. We fought about what each one said rather than > material > > > > > issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for divorce > on > > > Nov > > > > > 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we are > in > > > this > > > > > situation despite the best intentions of the two of us and > all > > > that > > > > > is going well for us. Personally my life experience at the > moment > > > > > seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, > finances > > > and > > > > > legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me when > > > things > > > > > may improve? > > > > > > > > > > Our details are as follows: > > > > > > > > > > Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad > > > > > Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala > > > > > > > > > > We have two sons: > > > > > Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) > > > > > Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) > > > > > > > > > > Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. > > > > > > > > > > The other questions I would have for your esteemed and > learned > > > souls > > > > > are > > > > > 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my > free > > > will? > > > > > 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August when > I > > > had > > > > > an intutive feel that my personal and professional life were > > > starting > > > > > to sour? > > > > > 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? > > > > > 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays and > > > pray to > > > > > mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. > > > > > > > > > > I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do what > was > > > > > right and brought this on the family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Group info: vedic- > astrology/info.html > > > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > > > > > > > > > > ....... 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Guest guest Posted March 25, 2005 Report Share Posted March 25, 2005 Namaste Panditji: In my life, dasha system based on 365 years seems to correlate better. I say this based on the following events: 1. On April 17, 2001 when Saturn- Ketu bhukti started for me, I had a major accident. 2. Happiness in my life started to decline in 1995 at the start of sat mahadasa. It progressively got worse as it progressed with father passing away in Oct 1998. 3. Trouble with my wife really started in 1996 and intensified in the latter half of 2001. We separated on Jan 17, 2002. 4. Actually things improved in March 2003 and we reconciled in April 2003 per her request although the problems resurfaced in August 2003. Would you agree? I do not mean to second guess you but I thought my life seems to be better correlated to the traditional year. Please let me know of your thoughts. I see you have sent emails at 3:00 clock are you in the US? Thanks Surya vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> wrote: > Namaste Surya, > > Yes, I use Savana year ( 360 days/year) with that mangal-shani will > start in July. For her mesh lagna ans simha rashi shani is malefic. He > is sitting in sventh house as sixth and seventh lord from chandra and > fomlagna he is 10th and eleveth lord so malefic. It is going to be > anter dasha with challenges. > > ... > > > On Fri, 25 Mar 2005 16:21:59 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > Panditji: > > > > Are you sure that my wife is going to run into Mangal Sani in July > > 2005? Based on my reading and perusal through other websites, Mangal- > > Rahu ended and Mangal-Guru started around 15-3-05. Mangal-Shani does > > not start until Feb 2006. Could you verify if this is correct? Does > > this change the possible outcome? I would be grateful if you could > > respond. > > > > Surya > > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > > wrote: > > > Namaste, > > > > > > I just recast your wife's kundali and the lagna is mesh not karka. > > > Currently she is in mangal,guru dasha. Guru is a benefic for her > > lagna > > > as well as moon rashi simha. The trouble must have started when she > > > entered mangal mahadasha in march/april 2003. Mangal is in 6th > > house. > > > Mangal -rahu must have excerbated it from august 2003. > > > > > > She will run into mangal-shani dasha in july 2005. shani is 6th and > > > seventh lord from chandra and has malefic 11th lordship from lagna > > and > > > is in the seventh from lagna. So her relationship house is getting > > > activated by dasha as well as transit from july onwards. She will > > also > > > enter sade sati period in may 2005. So it is not going to be a great > > > period for her either. > > > > > > It may be good to get some counselling or talk with elders and > > assess > > > the situation. I always beleive that if the will id strong and the > > > hope is alive the stars will align. As you have indicated that you > > > miss your family..may be its not a bad idea to set ego aside and > > have > > > a long frank talk with your spouse. > > > > > > Good luck and God bless. Please keep up prayers as well. > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Mar 2005 22:18:27 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > Namaste Panditji: > > > > > > > > I have a few more followup questions - is a reconciliation > > possible? > > > > You indicated that the ketu antardasha of my wife is favorable. > > When > > > > will this start? I do not know which dasha system you were > > referring > > > > to. I am really anxious to reunite with my family. The divorce > > > > process is moving along and a permanent separation seems to be > > > > inevitable. do you see that in the charts? I would be very > > grateful > > > > if you could answer these questions. > > > > > > > > Surya > > > > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > > > > > > > > wrote: > > > > > Namaste Surya, > > > > > > > > > > Looked at your wife's chart. She has also karka lagna , however > > her > > > > > chandra rashi is simha and your is kumbha. simha owned by ravi > > and > > > > > kumbha owned by shani. shani and ravi are enimical toward each > > > > other. > > > > > She does not have mangal doash. some in south consider mangal in > > > > > second from moon as mangal dosh and she has it, however thats a > > > > soumya > > > > > dosh. Her 7th lord is in 8th like yours and from moon sixed > > lord is > > > > in > > > > > seventh. It was mangal mahadasha and shani anter dasha when the > > > > > separation occured. The next anter dasha for her is mangal > > budh, > > > > budh > > > > > is not a benefic for karka or simha rasi, but budh is in lagna > > and > > > > has > > > > > dik bal and is with sukra. The next anterdasha will be ketu who > > is > > > > in > > > > > 5th house and is aspeted by guru. So her dasha although not > > great > > > > are > > > > > better. Mangal is also yogakaraka for karka and simha rashi. > > > > > > > > > > Did she migrate after marriage to us ? meaning, did you come > > > > overseas > > > > > first and then went and married her ? ( This is just to check a > > few > > > > > combinations). Were your kids born by c-section ? were there any > > > > > miscarriges ?) > > > > > > > > > > Good luck and hope you find an amicable solution. > > > > > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:37:39 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Gurus > > > > > > My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and were > > > > great > > > > > > friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, 1989 in > > > > > > hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having > > increasing > > > > > > hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys and > > > > excellent > > > > > > careers. We fought about what each one said rather than > > material > > > > > > issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for divorce > > on > > > > Nov > > > > > > 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we are > > in > > > > this > > > > > > situation despite the best intentions of the two of us and > > all > > > > that > > > > > > is going well for us. Personally my life experience at the > > moment > > > > > > seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, > > finances > > > > and > > > > > > legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me when > > > > things > > > > > > may improve? > > > > > > > > > > > > Our details are as follows: > > > > > > > > > > > > Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad > > > > > > Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala > > > > > > > > > > > > We have two sons: > > > > > > Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) > > > > > > Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) > > > > > > > > > > > > Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. > > > > > > > > > > > > The other questions I would have for your esteemed and > > learned > > > > souls > > > > > > are > > > > > > 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my > > free > > > > will? > > > > > > 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August when > > I > > > > had > > > > > > an intutive feel that my personal and professional life were > > > > starting > > > > > > to sour? > > > > > > 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? > > > > > > 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays and > > > > pray to > > > > > > mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. > > > > > > > > > > > > I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do what > > was > > > > > > right and brought this on the family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Group info: vedic- > > astrology/info.html > > > > > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ....... 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Guest guest Posted March 25, 2005 Report Share Posted March 25, 2005 Namaste Surya, You get similar results with 360 days. April 2001 with 360 you were still in shani-ketu You started shani-shani Jan 28-1995 using 360 days Father passed away in shani-budh-shukra ( with 360, with 365 you were still in shani-budh. In 1996 you were in shani-shani 7th lord in 8th so trouble is indicated 360 or 365 Troubles intessified in later half of 2001 shani-ketu..ketu in 5th in scorpio will act like mangal who is in 7th from chandra. and you separated in shani-shuka. Why shukra as shukra is shanis greatest buddy and shani will give his results through shukra and vice versa. Shukra acted like shani the 7th lord in 8th ( did you change jobs during that period as well ? reconciled in April 2003 ( with 360 days ..I get shani-shukra-guru guru is 9th lord so some releif ..with 365 it would be rahu and I can not see rahu reconciling anything. Problems resurfaced in august..Now that I do not get as with 360 I get shani sub dasha in october 2003 when shani-shani-shani ran none are good lords so problem can be seen. ( I don't think that would work with 365 either) Now with shani-shukra or shani-ravi dasha both shukra and raviin 10th house both can give 10th house results. Ravi as it exchanges signs with mangal is afflicted with mangal and shani. shukra with shani and ravi. So both dasha can give job problems. Ravi being exalted may be better. This one is not so clear for 360 V 365 .... On Fri, 25 Mar 2005 22:20:53 -0000, Surya Pidaparti <suryagirija wrote: > > Namaste Panditji: > > In my life, dasha system based on 365 years seems to correlate > better. I say this based on the following events: > > 1. On April 17, 2001 when Saturn- Ketu bhukti started for me, I had a > major accident. > 2. Happiness in my life started to decline in 1995 at the start of > sat mahadasa. It progressively got worse as it progressed with father > passing away in Oct 1998. > 3. Trouble with my wife really started in 1996 and intensified in the > latter half of 2001. We separated on Jan 17, 2002. > > 4. Actually things improved in March 2003 and we reconciled in April > 2003 per her request although the problems resurfaced in August 2003. > > Would you agree? I do not mean to second guess you but I thought my > life seems to be better correlated to the traditional year. Please > let me know of your thoughts. I see you have sent emails at 3:00 > clock are you in the US? > > Thanks > > Surya > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > wrote: > > Namaste Surya, > > > > Yes, I use Savana year ( 360 days/year) with that mangal-shani will > > start in July. For her mesh lagna ans simha rashi shani is malefic. > He > > is sitting in sventh house as sixth and seventh lord from chandra > and > > fomlagna he is 10th and eleveth lord so malefic. It is going to be > > anter dasha with challenges. > > > > ... > > > > > > On Fri, 25 Mar 2005 16:21:59 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > Panditji: > > > > > > Are you sure that my wife is going to run into Mangal Sani in > July > > > 2005? Based on my reading and perusal through other websites, > Mangal- > > > Rahu ended and Mangal-Guru started around 15-3-05. Mangal-Shani > does > > > not start until Feb 2006. Could you verify if this is correct? > Does > > > this change the possible outcome? I would be grateful if you > could > > > respond. > > > > > > Surya > > > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > > > wrote: > > > > Namaste, > > > > > > > > I just recast your wife's kundali and the lagna is mesh not > karka. > > > > Currently she is in mangal,guru dasha. Guru is a benefic for > her > > > lagna > > > > as well as moon rashi simha. The trouble must have started when > she > > > > entered mangal mahadasha in march/april 2003. Mangal is in 6th > > > house. > > > > Mangal -rahu must have excerbated it from august 2003. > > > > > > > > She will run into mangal-shani dasha in july 2005. shani is 6th > and > > > > seventh lord from chandra and has malefic 11th lordship from > lagna > > > and > > > > is in the seventh from lagna. So her relationship house is > getting > > > > activated by dasha as well as transit from july onwards. She > will > > > also > > > > enter sade sati period in may 2005. So it is not going to be a > great > > > > period for her either. > > > > > > > > It may be good to get some counselling or talk with elders and > > > assess > > > > the situation. I always beleive that if the will id strong and > the > > > > hope is alive the stars will align. As you have indicated that > you > > > > miss your family..may be its not a bad idea to set ego aside > and > > > have > > > > a long frank talk with your spouse. > > > > > > > > Good luck and God bless. Please keep up prayers as well. > > > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Mar 2005 22:18:27 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Namaste Panditji: > > > > > > > > > > I have a few more followup questions - is a reconciliation > > > possible? > > > > > You indicated that the ketu antardasha of my wife is > favorable. > > > When > > > > > will this start? I do not know which dasha system you were > > > referring > > > > > to. I am really anxious to reunite with my family. The > divorce > > > > > process is moving along and a permanent separation seems to > be > > > > > inevitable. do you see that in the charts? I would be very > > > grateful > > > > > if you could answer these questions. > > > > > > > > > > Surya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology, Panditji > <navagraha@g...> > > > > > > > > > > wrote: > > > > > > Namaste Surya, > > > > > > > > > > > > Looked at your wife's chart. She has also karka lagna , > however > > > her > > > > > > chandra rashi is simha and your is kumbha. simha owned by > ravi > > > and > > > > > > kumbha owned by shani. shani and ravi are enimical toward > each > > > > > other. > > > > > > She does not have mangal doash. some in south consider > mangal in > > > > > > second from moon as mangal dosh and she has it, however > thats a > > > > > soumya > > > > > > dosh. Her 7th lord is in 8th like yours and from moon sixed > > > lord is > > > > > in > > > > > > seventh. It was mangal mahadasha and shani anter dasha when > the > > > > > > separation occured. The next anter dasha for her is mangal > > > budh, > > > > > budh > > > > > > is not a benefic for karka or simha rasi, but budh is in > lagna > > > and > > > > > has > > > > > > dik bal and is with sukra. The next anterdasha will be ketu > who > > > is > > > > > in > > > > > > 5th house and is aspeted by guru. So her dasha although not > > > great > > > > > are > > > > > > better. Mangal is also yogakaraka for karka and simha rashi. > > > > > > > > > > > > Did she migrate after marriage to us ? meaning, did you > come > > > > > overseas > > > > > > first and then went and married her ? ( This is just to > check a > > > few > > > > > > combinations). Were your kids born by c-section ? were > there any > > > > > > miscarriges ?) > > > > > > > > > > > > Good luck and hope you find an amicable solution. > > > > > > > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:37:39 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Gurus > > > > > > > My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and > were > > > > > great > > > > > > > friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, > 1989 in > > > > > > > hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having > > > increasing > > > > > > > hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys > and > > > > > excellent > > > > > > > careers. We fought about what each one said rather than > > > material > > > > > > > issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for > divorce > > > on > > > > > Nov > > > > > > > 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we > are > > > in > > > > > this > > > > > > > situation despite the best intentions of the two of us > and > > > all > > > > > that > > > > > > > is going well for us. Personally my life experience at > the > > > moment > > > > > > > seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, > > > finances > > > > > and > > > > > > > legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me > when > > > > > things > > > > > > > may improve? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Our details are as follows: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad > > > > > > > Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala > > > > > > > > > > > > > > We have two sons: > > > > > > > Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) > > > > > > > Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > The other questions I would have for your esteemed and > > > learned > > > > > souls > > > > > > > are > > > > > > > 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my > > > free > > > > > will? > > > > > > > 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August > when > > > I > > > > > had > > > > > > > an intutive feel that my personal and professional life > were > > > > > starting > > > > > > > to sour? > > > > > > > 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? > > > > > > > 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays > and > > > > > pray to > > > > > > > mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do > what > > > was > > > > > > > right and brought this on the family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Group info: vedic- > > > astrology/info.html > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ....... 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Guest guest Posted March 26, 2005 Report Share Posted March 26, 2005 Panditji: Thank you for your kind explanation. I did not understand your last paragraph. Could you explain please? Surya vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> wrote: > Namaste Surya, > > You get similar results with 360 days. > > April 2001 with 360 you were still in shani-ketu > > You started shani-shani Jan 28-1995 using 360 days > > Father passed away in shani-budh-shukra ( with 360, with 365 you were > still in shani-budh. > > In 1996 you were in shani-shani 7th lord in 8th so trouble is > indicated 360 or 365 > > Troubles intessified in later half of 2001 shani-ketu..ketu in 5th in > scorpio will act like mangal who is in 7th from chandra. and you > separated in shani-shuka. Why shukra as shukra is shanis greatest > buddy and shani will give his results through shukra and vice versa. > Shukra acted like shani the 7th lord in 8th ( did you change jobs > during that period as well ? > > reconciled in April 2003 ( with 360 days ..I get shani-shukra-guru > guru is 9th lord so some releif ..with 365 it would be rahu and I can > not see rahu reconciling anything. > > Problems resurfaced in august..Now that I do not get as with 360 I get > shani sub dasha in october 2003 when shani-shani-shani ran none are > good lords so problem can be seen. ( I don't think that would work > with 365 either) > > Now with shani-shukra or shani-ravi dasha both shukra and raviin 10th > house both can give 10th house results. Ravi as it exchanges signs > with mangal is afflicted with mangal and shani. shukra with shani and > ravi. So both dasha can give job problems. Ravi being exalted may be > better. This one is not so clear for 360 V 365 > > ... > > > > > On Fri, 25 Mar 2005 22:20:53 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > Namaste Panditji: > > > > In my life, dasha system based on 365 years seems to correlate > > better. I say this based on the following events: > > > > 1. On April 17, 2001 when Saturn- Ketu bhukti started for me, I had a > > major accident. > > 2. Happiness in my life started to decline in 1995 at the start of > > sat mahadasa. It progressively got worse as it progressed with father > > passing away in Oct 1998. > > 3. Trouble with my wife really started in 1996 and intensified in the > > latter half of 2001. We separated on Jan 17, 2002. > > > > 4. Actually things improved in March 2003 and we reconciled in April > > 2003 per her request although the problems resurfaced in August 2003. > > > > Would you agree? I do not mean to second guess you but I thought my > > life seems to be better correlated to the traditional year. Please > > let me know of your thoughts. I see you have sent emails at 3:00 > > clock are you in the US? > > > > Thanks > > > > Surya > > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > > wrote: > > > Namaste Surya, > > > > > > Yes, I use Savana year ( 360 days/year) with that mangal-shani will > > > start in July. For her mesh lagna ans simha rashi shani is malefic. > > He > > > is sitting in sventh house as sixth and seventh lord from chandra > > and > > > fomlagna he is 10th and eleveth lord so malefic. It is going to be > > > anter dasha with challenges. > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > On Fri, 25 Mar 2005 16:21:59 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > Panditji: > > > > > > > > Are you sure that my wife is going to run into Mangal Sani in > > July > > > > 2005? Based on my reading and perusal through other websites, > > Mangal- > > > > Rahu ended and Mangal-Guru started around 15-3-05. Mangal- Shani > > does > > > > not start until Feb 2006. Could you verify if this is correct? > > Does > > > > this change the possible outcome? I would be grateful if you > > could > > > > respond. > > > > > > > > Surya > > > > vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> > > > > wrote: > > > > > Namaste, > > > > > > > > > > I just recast your wife's kundali and the lagna is mesh not > > karka. > > > > > Currently she is in mangal,guru dasha. Guru is a benefic for > > her > > > > lagna > > > > > as well as moon rashi simha. The trouble must have started when > > she > > > > > entered mangal mahadasha in march/april 2003. Mangal is in 6th > > > > house. > > > > > Mangal -rahu must have excerbated it from august 2003. > > > > > > > > > > She will run into mangal-shani dasha in july 2005. shani is 6th > > and > > > > > seventh lord from chandra and has malefic 11th lordship from > > lagna > > > > and > > > > > is in the seventh from lagna. So her relationship house is > > getting > > > > > activated by dasha as well as transit from july onwards. She > > will > > > > also > > > > > enter sade sati period in may 2005. So it is not going to be a > > great > > > > > period for her either. > > > > > > > > > > It may be good to get some counselling or talk with elders and > > > > assess > > > > > the situation. I always beleive that if the will id strong and > > the > > > > > hope is alive the stars will align. As you have indicated that > > you > > > > > miss your family..may be its not a bad idea to set ego aside > > and > > > > have > > > > > a long frank talk with your spouse. > > > > > > > > > > Good luck and God bless. Please keep up prayers as well. > > > > > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Mar 2005 22:18:27 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Namaste Panditji: > > > > > > > > > > > > I have a few more followup questions - is a reconciliation > > > > possible? > > > > > > You indicated that the ketu antardasha of my wife is > > favorable. > > > > When > > > > > > will this start? I do not know which dasha system you were > > > > referring > > > > > > to. I am really anxious to reunite with my family. The > > divorce > > > > > > process is moving along and a permanent separation seems to > > be > > > > > > inevitable. do you see that in the charts? I would be very > > > > grateful > > > > > > if you could answer these questions. > > > > > > > > > > > > Surya > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > vedic astrology, Panditji > > <navagraha@g...> > > > > > > > > > > > > wrote: > > > > > > > Namaste Surya, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Looked at your wife's chart. She has also karka lagna , > > however > > > > her > > > > > > > chandra rashi is simha and your is kumbha. simha owned by > > ravi > > > > and > > > > > > > kumbha owned by shani. shani and ravi are enimical toward > > each > > > > > > other. > > > > > > > She does not have mangal doash. some in south consider > > mangal in > > > > > > > second from moon as mangal dosh and she has it, however > > thats a > > > > > > soumya > > > > > > > dosh. Her 7th lord is in 8th like yours and from moon sixed > > > > lord is > > > > > > in > > > > > > > seventh. It was mangal mahadasha and shani anter dasha when > > the > > > > > > > separation occured. The next anter dasha for her is mangal > > > > budh, > > > > > > budh > > > > > > > is not a benefic for karka or simha rasi, but budh is in > > lagna > > > > and > > > > > > has > > > > > > > dik bal and is with sukra. The next anterdasha will be ketu > > who > > > > is > > > > > > in > > > > > > > 5th house and is aspeted by guru. So her dasha although not > > > > great > > > > > > are > > > > > > > better. Mangal is also yogakaraka for karka and simha rashi. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Did she migrate after marriage to us ? meaning, did you > > come > > > > > > overseas > > > > > > > first and then went and married her ? ( This is just to > > check a > > > > few > > > > > > > combinations). Were your kids born by c-section ? were > > there any > > > > > > > miscarriges ?) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Good luck and hope you find an amicable solution. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > On Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:37:39 -0000, Surya Pidaparti > > > > > > > <suryagirija> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Respected Gurus > > > > > > > > My wife & I have known each other since July 1, 1987 and > > were > > > > > > great > > > > > > > > friends for 2 years before getting married on Feb 10, > > 1989 in > > > > > > > > hyderabad. For the past 9 years we have been having > > > > increasing > > > > > > > > hostility and fights despite having two beautiful boys > > and > > > > > > excellent > > > > > > > > careers. We fought about what each one said rather than > > > > material > > > > > > > > issues. We separated on Nov 17 and she has filed for > > divorce > > > > on > > > > > > Nov > > > > > > > > 24. I miss my family very much and can not fathom why we > > are > > > > in > > > > > > this > > > > > > > > situation despite the best intentions of the two of us > > and > > > > all > > > > > > that > > > > > > > > is going well for us. Personally my life experience at > > the > > > > moment > > > > > > > > seems to be difficult from several aspects - profession, > > > > finances > > > > > > and > > > > > > > > legal. Could you take a look at my chart and advise me > > when > > > > > > things > > > > > > > > may improve? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Our details are as follows: > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Surya: 26/4/65, tob: 13:00 hours, Hyderabad > > > > > > > > Girija(my wife): 3/7/1965, tob 0241AM, Shoranur, Kerala > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > We have two sons: > > > > > > > > Aditya (11/11/96, tob 15:19 Minneapolis, MN , USA) > > > > > > > > Ashvin (12/30/99, tob 11:15, Minneapolis, MN, USA) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Any help you could provide is very much appreciated. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > The other questions I would have for your esteemed and > > > > learned > > > > > > souls > > > > > > > > are > > > > > > > > 1. could I have prevented this situation by exercising my > > > > free > > > > > > will? > > > > > > > > 2. Whether this breakup could be foreseen back in August > > when > > > > I > > > > > > had > > > > > > > > an intutive feel that my personal and professional life > > were > > > > > > starting > > > > > > > > to sour? > > > > > > > > 3. Was I naive not to heed my own intution and foresight? > > > > > > > > 4. Are there any remedies? Currently I fast on Wednesdays > > and > > > > > > pray to > > > > > > > > mother lakshmi per the advice of Mr. Raghunatha Rao. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am really upset and quite distraught that I did not do > > what > > > > was > > > > > > > > right and brought this on the family. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Group info: vedic- > > > > astrology/info.html > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology- > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ....... 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