To Mr.Anil VSNL

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Dear Mr.Anil

 

I gone through your mail. You had written that

you are collecting or going through combinations

like this. I would like to give my example

if you are interested.

 

I would only say that, i have Venus and Mars

in 7th house. Other things i would get back

to you if you are interested.

 

Regards

Chandra Prakash

 

--- Anil VSNL <gogatea wrote:

> Friends,

>

> This may sound like a non astrological topic but

> could be of relevance to

> astrologers. Parents of a female native ( born 3 rd

> Sept 1974 - they do not

> want to post more details on any forum ) were in

> consultation with me last

> few months as her marriage was getting delayed , she

> was totally focused in

> her career , traveled abroad number of times and

> overall doing outstandingly

> well in career. But she rejected many good proposals

> for last 3 years , She

> had mentioned to me that marriage is not at all her

> priority and not only

> that she has not liked any proposal but she never

> felt like getting married

> , never had that natural inner feeling of getting

> settled in matrimonial

> relationship , eventually go family way etc.

>

> All that changed last few months. She one day met

> with a boy nowhere

> comparable to her. He has a ordinary career , was

> junior to her by 4 years

> , not of her caste etc . But suddenly she felt that

> her mind set , outlook

> for getting involved in

> relationship changed. She though that this "prince

> charming" is the life

> partner for her. All her focuses changed. Marriage

> became top priority for

> her. She just could not think of career or anything

> else but this boy. Same

> was the situation from boy's side. There was stiff

> resistance from both

> parent's side. Yesterday evening I got a news that

> they have ran away from

> home and got secretly married.

>

> Coupled with this, I have tackled few situations in

> last many years where

> natives have confessed to me that they suddenly got

> that "aha" feeling after

> meeting someone - irrespective of age , married

> status , caste , position in

> society etc. Like a "lightening" they felt that

> they have found a life

> partner and such was the impetus of this divine

> attraction that they went

> ahead with the relationship causing huge

> embarrassments to everyone

> concerned and had to do many compromises in personal

> life. Even it has

> happened when people have never met physically but

> have communicated over

> internet but got same feeling . And these were not

> situations where one

> developed a relationship out of steady association

> which got converted

> eventually into more emotional and tender

> involvement.

>

> What I am trying to say is that in such situations,

> the involvement happened

> more like a sudden "event" than a steady "process".

>

> I think there must be truth in what is called as

> "made for each other" or

> "love at first sight" concept where a person

> suddenly feels that he has met

> his/her life partner and as Steven covey has said

> there is a sudden

> "paradigm shift".

>

> I have read article where neuroscientists /

> psychologist had tried to

> analyses the brain chemistry in such situations of

> love at first light.

>

> Can we predict such behaviors astrologically ? It

> is different than just a

> love marriage which I know can be predicted. I have

> been doing research on

> these cases but not found conclusive proof yet

> except that Venus had unique

> aspects with Mars and / or Neptune apart from other

> peculiarities of Seventh

> lord and stars in seventh house- but no concussion I

> have reached yet.

>

> I know I have made a mention of this issue in

> general without taking

> reference of any specific case study. But many such

> relationships are

> happening causing huge embarrassment to all

> concerned - hence this posting.

>

> I apologize for the cross posting in two forums.

>

> Regards,

>

> Anil

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