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Dear Parbhodji,

 

Good question ! When you do predictions free of cost and develop a

relationship with "visitors" , a sense of Gratitude, Trust , belief

gets developed in mind of visitors. This can take multiple forms -

Some want to keep communicating with you on regular basis , Some want

you to visit their place and country , some start worshiping you like

a God , Savior , baba etc , Some start considering you like a Hero

and want to talk to you , meet you - even want to know about your

personal life , have your photographs etc etc. The visitors kind

of "fall in love" with you. This spreads to their colleagues, family

members and sometimes can become unmanageable. And when they come to

know that only reason why you helped them was your passion for

astrology and there was no "hidden agenda" behind it, this trust

develops further.

 

Here an astrologer has to take a call to what extent he should allow

continuing this relationship. You should never be taken for granted

and people should not disturb you beyond a point. So astrologer has

to keep this relationship under control.

 

Lastly, there is also a chance factor of a emotional bonding getting

developed between you and your visitor which is also experience of

professional counselors and Psychiatrists. Astrologers must ensure

that visitors do not take the sweet, tender, loving and caring

relationship in wrong sense, unless of course he wants to get

involved in such relationship beyond astrology.

 

Regards,

 

 

Anil Gogate

 

vedic astrology, "Prabodh Vekhande"

<amolmandar> wrote:

>

> Dear Anil Namaste

>

> Excellent post. It is equally satisfying to read that you do Jyotish

> Free of cost and have formed with your visitors('clinet' may sound

> paid one!)a long term relationship as a friend , a counselor , guide

> or just a well wisher or may be combination of all these. Just one

> question, in your service of helping others through Jyotish, have

you

> ever experienced any visitor treating you as somebody with

> supernatural power? Kind of spiritual power and made you to feel

like

> a 'Baba' or a 'Maharaj'? People coming to you and touching your feet

> to get good ashirwad! If so how do you handle such sitiuations.

> Please dont misunderstand me. I feel that those who are helping

> others through Jyotish have this trap of 'feeling great'. It may be

> because others start treating them to be a person with a super

natural

> powers. As a senior and learned Jyotish your experiences about this

> may help many upworldy mobile jyotish!.

>

> Thanks a lot for your Time and Space.

>

> Prabodh Vekhande

> Jai Jai Shankar

> Har Har Shankar

>

>

>

> vedic astrology, Anil Gogate

<anil_gogate>

> wrote:

> >

> > Hello,

> >

> > Excellent Question , I normally expect the clients to give

> feedback , not only about accuracy of my predictions but whether the

> predictions made by me helped the client ? whether it made him

> comfortable ? Whether he still has any unanswered doubts ?

> >

> > And then with many of my clients I have formed a long term

> relationship as a friend , a counselor , guide or just a well wisher

> or may be combination of all these.

> >

> > Needless to say I do all this free of cost.

> >

> > Now for those who believe only in materialistic interests may

> wonder what I gain out of this ? In fact I spend 1-2 Hours everyday

> out of my heavy work schedule. I use my communications with my

client

> as relaxation mechanism. Reading my clients emails , reading their

> mind set , personality profiles , their view of looking towards life

> give me immense happiness. And then I am able to give them more

> customized , focused and may be therefore more accurate predictions

as

> we move along.

> >

> > This also helps me in finding out where I have gone wrong and I

> use learning from my mistakes to improve in case of other clients.

> >

> > Lastly I think that every astrologer may not be able to predict

> equally accurately in all the aspects. I have seen many using

Prashna

> Kundali very accurately for lost objects or missing persons. One

> astrologer I know can predict which profession would be most

suitable

> for a person and what kind of change he should make in the

profession

> or which stocks he should purchase etc.

> >

> > As far as I am concerned I have realized that understating

> someones psychological pattern or any problems the person is facing

> psychologically using astrological techniques is something which I

can

> do fairly accurately. Also I can tell with good accuracy details

> about someones matrimonial life. I think this has been possible

apart

> from may other techniques i use , due to the feedback which I am

> taking from clients and the relationships I establish with client.

> >

> > I hope I have made my viewpoint clear.

> >

> > Regards,

> >

> > Anil Gogate

> >

> > sr000g <sr000g> wrote:

> > Hello,

> >

> > How can astrologers claim that their predictions are accurate? Do

> their clients REALLY check

> > back with them to let them know that their predictions have in

fact

> come true? While I believe

> > that vedic astrology can be quite useful, I am little hesitant to

> believe astrologers who claim

> > that predictions are so accurate. Any thoughts from the group?

> >

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