FW: RE: matching - visti ji your comments needed

[Guest guest]

Please look into this proposal and advise if I should

go ahead.

 

15th May 1981

4.55 am ( morning)

Bareily

 

Boy

 

10th July 1978

18.40

Maunath Bhanjan ( 25.57N, 83.33E)

 

 

Thanks,

 

Viv

 

 

 

--- Visti Larsen <visti wrote:

 

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>

> Dear List members, Namaskar

>

> This is what i answered in a mail to Vijay Kumar,

> about matching recently.

> This was on the '' list.

>

> See my comments to Vijays questions in [visti].

>

> Best wishes,

>

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> Vijay Kumar [v_kumar]

> 08 December 2005 13:03

> Visti Larsen

> Upapada

>

>

>

> Dear Sh. Visti,

>

>

>

> I am trying to send this mail since 2 days to the

> list but in vain as it is

> bouncing, hence am sending on your

>

> personal mail id.

>

>

>

> [Visti] I checked your status, but don't see why you

> are bouncing, though it

> does indicate that you are. I have given you

> 'unmoderated' status on the

> list now, so there should be no problem.

>

>

>

> Thanks for a lot of wisdom shared to the group. I

> have the request to guide

> me for the following matters and oblige.

>

>

>

> [Visti] Your welcome.

>

>

>

> 01. For a person to finalise the match for marriage

> out of many proposals

> in hand, what considerations should be

>

> observed in terms of the mutual placement of

> Upapada of the proposed

> match ?

>

>

>

> [Visti] Upapada matching is a different scenario.

> This shows WHO you

> consider as your spouse. If you do not consider your

> partner as a spouse,

> then you will not marry.

>

> Here it is important to differentiate between two

> types of marriage first:

> Arranged marriages and Love marriages. The

> difference here is in 'who is

> choosing the spouse'. If you let someone else choose

> for you, then it is

> considered an arranged marriage. If the decision is

> not out of love, we

> consider this an arranged marriage. In such cases

> the Upapadas of the couple

> will match each other, i.e. both upapadas could be

> in Taurus. These do not

> have to match each others lagna.

>

> In love marriages, or those of self-choice, the

> upapada of the spouse should

> match your lagna, and vice versa. Then one will

> consider that person as a

> spouse and the marriage can happen, otherwise not

> and the match should not

> be advised.

>

> A big dilemma among those who have practiced this

> is, that it can be

> difficult to know whether the native is in their

> first, second, third, etc

> relationship and what is the scenario? This takes

> some practice. Upapada

> matching is a must.

>

>

>

> 02. To what extent, do you find kuta matching

> pertinent in your experience?

> Should that be the main criterion for

>

> marriage alliance decision Vs Upapada

> placement ?

>

>

>

> [Visti] The point system of matching does not give a

> clear idea of the

> matching, as some of the matching techniques need

> not be applied initially

> like Yoni or Vaishya matching, which only have a

> very temporary function or

> are limited to the conjugal life. Married life

> doesn't limit itself to the

> bedroom alone! The Matching techniques applied from

> the Moon and its

> nakshatra are more indicative of the

> families/communities of the bride and

> groom, as well as the health and karmic indications.

> Here it should be

> mentioned, that matching of characters (especially

> Gana matching) should be

> done from lagna instead of Moon. This is also useful

> in predictions from the

> natal chart alone, i.e. if a native has a Sattvic

> planet in lagna, then they

> are deva gana by nature, but if their Janmanakshatra

> is in a Rakshasa Gana

> nakshatra, then the native will be shunned by their

> family, and also very

> different from it by nature. Your family and your

> personality may not be the

> same.

>

> Rajiu and Vedha matching should always be applied

> without fail as it not

> only shows the ability of one partner to protect the

> other, but remedies

> based on the relationship as well. Gotra and Varna

> matching need not be

> applied unless the couple will be working together.

> In this way each of the

> techniques should be understood first, and not just

> used as a point system.

>

>

>

> 03. I have yet not understood how to observe Rasi

> (Bha) Kuta in matching

> scnerio. There are many conflicting rules

>

> in various texts. Kindly guide me to the

> underlying principle in it.

>

>

>

> [Visti] This type of Kuta matching is interesting.

> Stri-Dirgha and Rashi

> kuta are similar, where the Rashi kuta has some

> pecularity. The stri-dirgha

> technique is to see whether the brides Moon is in

> the bright half or dark

> half from the grooms moon. I.e. if the grooms moon

> is in Taurus, then the

> brides Moon is well placed, if in the signs between

> Taurus and Scorpio

> (Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra and

> Scorpio). This is based on

> the principle of the bright and dark fortnights of

> the Moon.

>

> This technique shows how much support is available

> from the grooms

> family/community, to support the bride. Since the

> bride used to leave her

> family to join the husbands, the support available

> for her is seen using

> this technique. Lack of support can give family

> disputes, monetary problems

> and etc. In todays world the husband may not be the

> sole benefactor in the

> family, hence this technique should be understood

> like this also. In many

> cases the brides family is a greater support to the

> relationship than the

> grooms. More below.

>

>

>

>

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