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Hi,

I got married on 6th December 2004. Birth details are:

 

The birth details are:

Mine:

DOB: May 6th, 1977.

Place : Kaithal (Haryana)

Time : 12:15 PM

 

His:

DOB : March 30th, 1975.

Place : Jagadhri (Haryana)

Time : 16:59

 

>From the day 1, there were problems in our married life. We have been

continuously fighting with each other on every small issue.

As a result of which my husband has left the house on 2nd January and

in a very irritated

mode. He is not ready to comeback . Whenever I talk to him about

coming back, he doesnt talk anymore. I am feeling very depressed on

this. Can anyone please tell what the future has in store for us.

 

Thanks in Advance,

Regards,

-Archna

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Hi,

I got married on 6th December 2004. Birth details are:

The birth details are:

Mine:

DOB: May 6th, 1977.

Place : Kaithal (Haryana)

Time : 12:15 PM

His:

DOB : March 30th, 1975.

Place : Jagadhri (Haryana)

Time : 16:59

>From the day 1, there were problems in our married life. We have been

continuously fighting with each other on every small issue.

As a result of which my husband has left the house on 2nd January and

in a very irritated

mode. He is not ready to comeback . Whenever I talk to him about

coming back, he doesnt talk anymore. I am feeling very depressed on

this. Can anyone please tell what the future has in store for us.

Thanks in Advance,

Regards,

-Archna

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Dear friend,

 

I hope the following could save your marriage. So please read on. It

is story related by Ven. Ajahn Brahm.

 

""A newly married couple went for a walk together in a wood, one fine

summer's evening after dinner. They were having such a wonderful time

being together until they heard a sound in the distance: "Quack!

Quack!"

"Listen," said the wife, "That must be a chicken"

"No,no. That was a duck," said the husband.

"No< I'm sure that was a chicken," she said.

"impossible. Dchickens go 'Cock-a-doodle-doo', ducks go 'Quack,

quack' That's a duck my dear," he said, with the first sign of

irrtation.

"Quack! Quack!" it went again.

"See, It's a duck," he said.

"No dear. That's achicken. I"m positive," she asserte, digging in her

heels.

"Listen wife! That...is...a...duck. D-U-C-K, duck! Got it?" he said

angrily.

"But it's a chicken," she protested.

"It's blooming duck, you, you..."

And it went "Quack! Quack!" again before he said something he oughtn't

The wife was almost in tears. "But it's a chicken."

The husband saw the tears welling up in his wife's eyes and, at last,

rememberd why he married her. His face softened and he said

gently,"Sorry, darling. I think you must be right. That is a chicken."

"Thank you,darling," she said wiping off her tears.

"Quack! Quack!" came the sound through the woods as they continued

their walk together in love.

The point of the story that the husband finally awakened to was, who

cares whether it is a chicken or a duck? What was much more important

was their harmonoy together, that they could enjoy their walk on such

a fine summer's evening. How many marriages are broken over

unimportant matters" How manly divorces cite "chicken or duck' stuff?

When we understand the story, we will remember our priorities. The

marriage is more important than being right about whether it is a

chicken or a duck. Anyway, how many times have been absolutely,

certainly and positively convinced we are right, only to find out we

were wrong later? Who knows? That could have been a geneticaly

modified chicken to sound like a duck!""

 

Blessings

 

Renu

 

-- In vedic astrology, Arch <arch.mt@g...> wrote:

>

> Please help!!!

>

> On 1/11/06, taurus_20012000 <arch.mt@g...> wrote:

> >

> > Hi,

> > I got married on 6th December 2004. Birth details are:

> >

> > The birth details are:

> > Mine:

> > DOB: May 6th, 1977.

> > Place : Kaithal (Haryana)

> > Time : 12:15 PM

> >

> > His:

> > DOB : March 30th, 1975.

> > Place : Jagadhri (Haryana)

> > Time : 16:59

> >

> > From the day 1, there were problems in our married life. We have

been

> > continuously fighting with each other on every small issue.

> > As a result of which my husband has left the house on 2nd January

and

> > in a very irritated

> > mode. He is not ready to comeback . Whenever I talk to him about

> > coming back, he doesnt talk anymore. I am feeling very depressed

on

> > this. Can anyone please tell what the future has in store for us.

> >

> > Thanks in Advance,

> > Regards,

> > -Archna

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology-

 

> >

> > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us .......

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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Thanks a lot for your advice. your advice indeed is very

important, have changed my view. But currently situation is very bad ,

I am really stressed whether this marriage is going to survive or not.

As we were having problems from the day 1 of our married life.

Could anybody on this panel analyse my and my husband chart and

give me some insight about the survival of the relationship.The birth details

are: Mine: DOB: May 6th, 1977.

Place : Kaithal (Haryana) Time : 12:15 PM His: DOB : March 30th, 1975.

Place : Jagadhri (Haryana) Time : 16:59

Right now, we are staying

seprately and he just doesnt understand what I am trying to say. He

left the house on 2nd January 2006 and hasnt come back. He went to US

on 13th and his scheduled arrival to come back to india is Feb 10th

2006. Will it be better after he comes back. One more thing, I am a

short tempered person, get irritated very easily and wants everything

my own way which has a lots of contribution in today's situation. Could

you please suggest me some remeady for this

Thanks in Advance,

Regards,

-Archna

On 1/14/06, renunw <renunw (AT) (DOT) co.uk> wrote:

-

Dear friend,

I hope the following could save your marriage. So please read on. It

is story related by Ven. Ajahn Brahm.

""A newly married couple went for a walk together in a wood, one fine

summer's evening after dinner. They were having such a wonderful time

being together until they heard a sound in the distance: "Quack!

Quack!"

"Listen," said the wife, "That must be a chicken"

"No,no. That was a duck," said the husband.

"No< I'm sure that was a chicken," she said.

"impossible. Dchickens go 'Cock-a-doodle-doo', ducks go 'Quack,

quack' That's a duck my dear," he said, with the first sign of

irrtation.

"Quack! Quack!" it went again.

"See, It's a duck," he said.

"No dear. That's achicken. I"m positive," she asserte, digging in her

heels.

"Listen wife! That...is...a...duck. D-U-C-K, duck! Got it?" he said

angrily.

"But it's a chicken," she protested.

"It's blooming duck, you, you..."

And it went "Quack! Quack!" again before he said something he oughtn't

The wife was almost in tears. "But it's a chicken."

The husband saw the tears welling up in his wife's eyes and, at last,

rememberd why he married her. His face softened and he said

gently,"Sorry, darling. I think you must be right. That is a chicken."

"Thank you,darling," she said wiping off her tears.

"Quack! Quack!" came the sound through the woods as they continued

their walk together in love.

The point of the story that the husband finally awakened to was, who

cares whether it is a chicken or a duck? What was much more important

was their harmonoy together, that they could enjoy their walk on such

a fine summer's evening. How many marriages are broken over

unimportant matters" How manly divorces cite "chicken or duck' stuff?

When we understand the story, we will remember our priorities. The

marriage is more important than being right about whether it is a

chicken or a duck. Anyway, how many times have been absolutely,

certainly and positively convinced we are right, only to find out we

were wrong later? Who knows? That could have been a geneticaly

modified chicken to sound like a duck!""

Blessings

Renu

-- In vedic astrology, Arch <arch.mt@g...> wrote:

>

> Please help!!!

>

> On 1/11/06, taurus_20012000 <arch.mt@g...> wrote:

> >

> > Hi,

> > I got married on 6th December 2004. Birth details are:

> >

> > The birth details are:

> > Mine:

> > DOB: May 6th, 1977.

> > Place : Kaithal (Haryana)

> > Time : 12:15 PM

> >

> > His:

> > DOB : March 30th, 1975.

> > Place : Jagadhri (Haryana)

> > Time : 16:59

> >

> > From the day 1, there were problems in our married life. We have

been

> > continuously fighting with each other on every small issue.

> > As a result of which my husband has left the house on 2nd January

and

> > in a very irritated

> > mode. He is not ready to comeback . Whenever I talk to him about

> > coming back, he doesnt talk anymore. I am feeling very depressed

on

> > this. Can anyone please tell what the future has in store for us.

> >

> > Thanks in Advance,

> > Regards,

> > -Archna

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to vedic astrology-

 

> >

> > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us .......

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > Astrology chart</gads?

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Astrology

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> > ------------------------------

> >

> >

> >

> > - Visit your group "vedic-

astrology<vedic astrology>"

> > on the web.

> >

> > -

> > vedic astrology<vedic astrology-

?subject=Un>

> >

> > - Terms of

> > Service <>.

> >

> >

> > ------------------------------

> >

>

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Dear friend,

 

I don't see anything wrong in your charts except that this period may

be until 2nd of November is a bit stressful for you. You say that you

are short tempered and that this could be the cause to your failing

marriage. So dear, if you know the cause why don't you try to rectify

it and be happy with your husband? I am positive if you change and if

you become more patient everything will be back to normal. Your

concern over your marriage is proof enough to show that you are keen

in saving it. So pray to god in whom you have faith to bring

happiness to your marriage and meanwhile a little bit of sacrifice

from your part will bring you loads of happiness. When he arrives

from the US this time show him that you have changed. Try to look at

the situation from his point of view. You are fighting a case in your

mind and the defendant is your husband. You are the plaintiff and you

are the judge. But even in a court of law the defendant has a right

to express his case as well. But in your mind does he have that

right? Relax, meditate and think carefully and silently listen to his

case, and give a judgement.

 

I wish you all the luck in your marriage

 

Blessings

 

Renu

 

vedic astrology, Arch <arch.mt@g...> wrote:

>

> Dear Renu,

> Thanks a lot for your advice. your advice indeed is very

important, have

> changed my view. But currently situation is very bad , I am really

stressed

> whether this marriage is going to survive or not. As we were having

problems

> from the day 1 of our married life.

> Could anybody on this panel analyse my and my husband chart and

give me

> some insight about the survival of the relationship.

> The birth details are:

> Mine:

> DOB: May 6th, 1977.

> Place : Kaithal (Haryana)

> Time : 12:15 PM

>

> His:

> DOB : March 30th, 1975.

> Place : Jagadhri (Haryana)

> Time : 16:59

>

> Right now, we are staying seprately and he just doesnt understand

what I am

> trying to say. He left the house on 2nd January 2006 and hasnt come

back. He

> went to US on 13th and his scheduled arrival to come back to india

is Feb

> 10th 2006. Will it be better after he comes back. One more thing, I

am a

> short tempered person, get irritated very easily and wants

everything my own

> way which has a lots of contribution in today's situation. Could

you please

> suggest me some remeady for this

>

> Thanks in Advance,

> Regards,

> -Archna

> On 1/14/06, renunw <renunw> wrote:

> >

> > -

> > Dear friend,

> >

> > I hope the following could save your marriage. So please read on.

It

> > is story related by Ven. Ajahn Brahm.

> >

> > ""A newly married couple went for a walk together in a wood, one

fine

> > summer's evening after dinner. They were having such a wonderful

time

> > being together until they heard a sound in the distance: "Quack!

> > Quack!"

> > "Listen," said the wife, "That must be a chicken"

> > "No,no. That was a duck," said the husband.

> > "No< I'm sure that was a chicken," she said.

> > "impossible. Dchickens go 'Cock-a-doodle-doo', ducks go 'Quack,

> > quack' That's a duck my dear," he said, with the first sign of

> > irrtation.

> > "Quack! Quack!" it went again.

> > "See, It's a duck," he said.

> > "No dear. That's achicken. I"m positive," she asserte, digging in

her

> > heels.

> > "Listen wife! That...is...a...duck. D-U-C-K, duck! Got it?" he

said

> > angrily.

> > "But it's a chicken," she protested.

> > "It's blooming duck, you, you..."

> > And it went "Quack! Quack!" again before he said something he

oughtn't

> > The wife was almost in tears. "But it's a chicken."

> > The husband saw the tears welling up in his wife's eyes and, at

last,

> > rememberd why he married her. His face softened and he said

> > gently,"Sorry, darling. I think you must be right. That is a

chicken."

> > "Thank you,darling," she said wiping off her tears.

> > "Quack! Quack!" came the sound through the woods as they

continued

> > their walk together in love.

> > The point of the story that the husband finally awakened to was,

who

> > cares whether it is a chicken or a duck? What was much more

important

> > was their harmonoy together, that they could enjoy their walk on

such

> > a fine summer's evening. How many marriages are broken over

> > unimportant matters" How manly divorces cite "chicken or duck'

stuff?

> > When we understand the story, we will remember our priorities. The

> > marriage is more important than being right about whether it is a

> > chicken or a duck. Anyway, how many times have been absolutely,

> > certainly and positively convinced we are right, only to find out

we

> > were wrong later? Who knows? That could have been a geneticaly

> > modified chicken to sound like a duck!""

> >

> > Blessings

> >

> > Renu

> >

> > -- In vedic astrology, Arch <arch.mt@g...> wrote:

> > >

> > > Please help!!!

> > >

> > > On 1/11/06, taurus_20012000 <arch.mt@g...> wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Hi,

> > > > I got married on 6th December 2004. Birth details are:

> > > >

> > > > The birth details are:

> > > > Mine:

> > > > DOB: May 6th, 1977.

> > > > Place : Kaithal (Haryana)

> > > > Time : 12:15 PM

> > > >

> > > > His:

> > > > DOB : March 30th, 1975.

> > > > Place : Jagadhri (Haryana)

> > > > Time : 16:59

> > > >

> > > > From the day 1, there were problems in our married life. We

have

> > been

> > > > continuously fighting with each other on every small issue.

> > > > As a result of which my husband has left the house on 2nd

January

> > and

> > > > in a very irritated

> > > > mode. He is not ready to comeback . Whenever I talk to him

about

> > > > coming back, he doesnt talk anymore. I am feeling very

depressed

> > on

> > > > this. Can anyone please tell what the future has in store for

us.

> > > >

> > > > Thanks in Advance,

> > > > Regards,

> > > > -Archna

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

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> > > >

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