Guest guest Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 Dear Shri. Maruthi: If remedies are performed before marriage, that is the best course to avoid later marital discord.....That is why I gave many remedies for unmarried individuals. After marriage, it is mainly a matter of adjustment between the partners..... Shaastraas have opined that husband and wife are united in sharing the karmic results though they have different physical bodies! If both the partners behave responsibly realizing the sanctity of the institution of marriage, there will be effective resolution of marital discords. Absolute honesty (there should be absolutely no secrecy in ANY matter between the spouses; even embarassing truths should be divulged without hesitation to a spouse in a diplomatic manner if necessary; spouses should remain faithful to each other after marriage) and empathy and a forgiving attitude (spouses should be willing to forgive ANYTHING between them; occasional slip-ups in life should not be treated seriously; matters prior to matrimony should not be taken seriously after marriage) will definitely make any marriage successful. But, the catch is, that both the partners should possess these attitudes for a happy marriage. I have come across many instances where inspite of the best efforts to adjust on the part of one spouse, the irresponsible and irreconciliatory approach of the other partner has wrecked the marriage. No remedy can give a permanent solution to such problems. Probably it is the karma of the good person who is suffering in such marriages to have married such an unworthy spouse in the first place, and when the karma of the good person gets extinguished, probably the unworthy spouse is tempted to walk out of the marriage......I have seen many such natives getting happily married to a second spouse who is suitable to them in all respects after a disastrous first marriage. I know there may be different opinions in this regard...Even I am against couples divorcing and getting separated and have effected reunion of many a couple. But there are some cases which are just impossible where counselling the good person to continue in the marriage is against humane considerations. There are instances when due to our counselling the already good person is still willing to adjust, but the unwilling spouse does not cooperate and go ahead with plans of divorce. In these cases, it is possible to get the errant spouse to come back by mantrik remedies, but again the story repeats causing agony to the family concerned. So, in these cases, it is better to let sleeping ghosts lie as they are instead of trying mantrik remedies to get back the Devil (so to say)! However, there are instances where due to minor differences between the partners that have been blown out of proportion due to unwarranted involvement of the respective families, like-minded and loving couples sometimes get seperated.....In these cases, remedies can definitely bring back the happiness to the couple by effecting their reunion. The following are some very powerful remedies which have worked for many natives: 1) Chanting of the 6th slokha of "Soundarya Lahiri" composed by Aadi Shankaraachaarya for 21 days facing East (500 repititions) is a very powerful remedy. Sugarcane should be offered as Naivedyam. 2) Recital of 36th sarga of Sundara Kaandam of Srimad Vaalmiiki Raamaayanam for 42 days continuously will be of help to remove difference of opinion between relatives (especially between spouses). Jack fruit and Mango should be offered to the Lord as Naivedyam. 3) Reciting the Chapter depicting the story of princess Sukanya in Devi Bhagavatam will ensure removal of marital discord. 4) Meditating on Lord Ardha Naareeshwaraa (Lord Shiva's form in which he has given away half of his body to Goddess Uma representing equal rights given to the spouse!) and performing Pradosha worship is good for family unity. Generally it is said " A family that prays together stays together". So, couple should cultivate the habit of praying together for at least 5 minutes to ensure that they remain united physically, mentally, and spiritually united forever. In fact, this is the way in which ancient sages lead their marital lives..... Blessed be. Pandit. R.DAKSHINAMOORTHI. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 22, 2006 Report Share Posted March 22, 2006 Respected Sir, Thanks for the remedies you have given. I have one doubt, can you please confirm if following is the 6th sloka from Soundarya Lahiri. Dhanun paushpam maurvi madhu-kara-mayi pancha visikha Vasantaha samanto Malaya-marud ayodhana-rathah; Tatha'py ekah sarvam Himagiri-suthe kam api kripaam Apangat te labdhva jagadidam Anango vijayate Regards, Asavari vedic astrology, "dakshinastrologer" <dakshinastrologer wrote: > > Dear Shri. Maruthi: > > If remedies are performed before marriage, that is the best course to > avoid later marital discord.....That is why I gave many remedies for > unmarried individuals. After marriage, it is mainly a matter of > adjustment between the partners..... Shaastraas have opined that > husband and wife are united in sharing the karmic results though they > have different physical bodies! If both the partners behave > responsibly realizing the sanctity of the institution of marriage, > there will be effective resolution of marital discords. Absolute > honesty (there should be absolutely no secrecy in ANY matter between > the spouses; even embarassing truths should be divulged without > hesitation to a spouse in a diplomatic manner if necessary; spouses > should remain faithful to each other after marriage) and empathy and a > forgiving attitude (spouses should be willing to forgive ANYTHING > between them; occasional slip-ups in life should not be treated > seriously; matters prior to matrimony should not be taken seriously > after marriage) will definitely make any marriage successful. But, > the catch is, that both the partners should possess these attitudes > for a happy marriage. I have come across many instances where inspite > of the best efforts to adjust on the part of one spouse, the > irresponsible and irreconciliatory approach of the other partner has > wrecked the marriage. No remedy can give a permanent solution to such > problems. Probably it is the karma of the good person who is > suffering in such marriages to have married such an unworthy spouse in > the first place, and when the karma of the good person gets > extinguished, probably the unworthy spouse is tempted to walk out of > the marriage......I have seen many such natives getting happily > married to a second spouse who is suitable to them in all respects > after a disastrous first marriage. I know there may be different > opinions in this regard...Even I am against couples divorcing and > getting separated and have effected reunion of many a couple. But > there are some cases which are just impossible where counselling the > good person to continue in the marriage is against humane > considerations. There are instances when due to our counselling the > already good person is still willing to adjust, but the unwilling > spouse does not cooperate and go ahead with plans of divorce. In > these cases, it is possible to get the errant spouse to come back by > mantrik remedies, but again the story repeats causing agony to the > family concerned. So, in these cases, it is better to let sleeping > ghosts lie as they are instead of trying mantrik remedies to get back > the Devil (so to say)! > > However, there are instances where due to minor differences between > the partners that have been blown out of proportion due to unwarranted > involvement of the respective families, like-minded and loving couples > sometimes get seperated.....In these cases, remedies can definitely > bring back the happiness to the couple by effecting their reunion. > > The following are some very powerful remedies which have worked for > many natives: > > 1) Chanting of the 6th slokha of "Soundarya Lahiri" composed by Aadi > Shankaraachaarya for 21 days facing East (500 repititions) is a very > powerful remedy. Sugarcane should be offered as Naivedyam. > > 2) Recital of 36th sarga of Sundara Kaandam of Srimad Vaalmiiki > Raamaayanam for 42 days continuously will be of help to remove > difference of opinion between relatives (especially between spouses). > Jack fruit and Mango should be offered to the Lord as Naivedyam. > > 3) Reciting the Chapter depicting the story of princess Sukanya in > Devi Bhagavatam will ensure removal of marital discord. > > 4) Meditating on Lord Ardha Naareeshwaraa (Lord Shiva's form in which > he has given away half of his body to Goddess Uma representing equal > rights given to the spouse!) and performing Pradosha worship is good > for family unity. > > Generally it is said " A family that prays together stays together". > So, couple should cultivate the habit of praying together for at least > 5 minutes to ensure that they remain united physically, mentally, and > spiritually united forever. In fact, this is the way in which ancient > sages lead their marital lives..... > > Blessed be. > > Pandit. R.DAKSHINAMOORTHI. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 23, 2006 Report Share Posted March 23, 2006 DEar Asavariji: You have picked up the right slokha. "Dhanu Paushpam...." is the 6th slokha which helps in reunion of separated couples. There is also a y yantra design associated with it which you may learn from mantrik experts in your area. If you cannot get the guidance regarding the yantra, you can do this......This is a common yantra to get Goddess' Grace. Draw a triangle with apex facing downwards and draw soola (trident symbol) in all the three corners of the triangle facing outside. Inscribe a circle within the triangle. Write the biijam "Hriim" within it. Put this Kolam in your pooja room everyday before the chant. It is good if you can draw it in turmeric paste or kumkum and use them for anoiting on your forehead everyday after the worship. I hope these pointers will be of help to you. Blessed be. Pandit. R.DAKSHINAMOORTHI. vedic astrology, "due0803" <due0803 wrote: > > Respected Sir, > > Thanks for the remedies you have given. I have one doubt, can you > please confirm if following is the 6th sloka from Soundarya Lahiri. > > Dhanun paushpam maurvi madhu-kara-mayi pancha visikha > Vasantaha samanto Malaya-marud ayodhana-rathah; > Tatha'py ekah sarvam Himagiri-suthe kam api kripaam > Apangat te labdhva jagadidam Anango vijayate > > Regards, > Asavari > > vedic astrology, "dakshinastrologer" > <dakshinastrologer@> wrote: > > > > Dear Shri. Maruthi: > > > > If remedies are performed before marriage, that is the best course > to > > avoid later marital discord.....That is why I gave many remedies > for > > unmarried individuals. After marriage, it is mainly a matter of > > adjustment between the partners..... Shaastraas have opined that > > husband and wife are united in sharing the karmic results though > they > > have different physical bodies! If both the partners behave > > responsibly realizing the sanctity of the institution of marriage, > > there will be effective resolution of marital discords. Absolute > > honesty (there should be absolutely no secrecy in ANY matter > between > > the spouses; even embarassing truths should be divulged without > > hesitation to a spouse in a diplomatic manner if necessary; > spouses > > should remain faithful to each other after marriage) and empathy > and a > > forgiving attitude (spouses should be willing to forgive ANYTHING > > between them; occasional slip-ups in life should not be treated > > seriously; matters prior to matrimony should not be taken > seriously > > after marriage) will definitely make any marriage successful. > But, > > the catch is, that both the partners should possess these > attitudes > > for a happy marriage. I have come across many instances where > inspite > > of the best efforts to adjust on the part of one spouse, the > > irresponsible and irreconciliatory approach of the other partner > has > > wrecked the marriage. No remedy can give a permanent solution to > such > > problems. Probably it is the karma of the good person who is > > suffering in such marriages to have married such an unworthy > spouse in > > the first place, and when the karma of the good person gets > > extinguished, probably the unworthy spouse is tempted to walk out > of > > the marriage......I have seen many such natives getting happily > > married to a second spouse who is suitable to them in all respects > > after a disastrous first marriage. I know there may be different > > opinions in this regard...Even I am against couples divorcing and > > getting separated and have effected reunion of many a couple. But > > there are some cases which are just impossible where counselling > the > > good person to continue in the marriage is against humane > > considerations. There are instances when due to our counselling > the > > already good person is still willing to adjust, but the unwilling > > spouse does not cooperate and go ahead with plans of divorce. In > > these cases, it is possible to get the errant spouse to come back > by > > mantrik remedies, but again the story repeats causing agony to the > > family concerned. So, in these cases, it is better to let > sleeping > > ghosts lie as they are instead of trying mantrik remedies to get > back > > the Devil (so to say)! > > > > However, there are instances where due to minor differences > between > > the partners that have been blown out of proportion due to > unwarranted > > involvement of the respective families, like-minded and loving > couples > > sometimes get seperated.....In these cases, remedies can > definitely > > bring back the happiness to the couple by effecting their reunion. > > > > The following are some very powerful remedies which have worked > for > > many natives: > > > > 1) Chanting of the 6th slokha of "Soundarya Lahiri" composed by > Aadi > > Shankaraachaarya for 21 days facing East (500 repititions) is a > very > > powerful remedy. Sugarcane should be offered as Naivedyam. > > > > 2) Recital of 36th sarga of Sundara Kaandam of Srimad Vaalmiiki > > Raamaayanam for 42 days continuously will be of help to remove > > difference of opinion between relatives (especially between > spouses). > > Jack fruit and Mango should be offered to the Lord as Naivedyam. > > > > 3) Reciting the Chapter depicting the story of princess Sukanya > in > > Devi Bhagavatam will ensure removal of marital discord. > > > > 4) Meditating on Lord Ardha Naareeshwaraa (Lord Shiva's form in > which > > he has given away half of his body to Goddess Uma representing > equal > > rights given to the spouse!) and performing Pradosha worship is > good > > for family unity. > > > > Generally it is said " A family that prays together stays > together". > > So, couple should cultivate the habit of praying together for at > least > > 5 minutes to ensure that they remain united physically, mentally, > and > > spiritually united forever. In fact, this is the way in which > ancient > > sages lead their marital lives..... > > > > Blessed be. > > > > Pandit. R.DAKSHINAMOORTHI. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 23, 2006 Report Share Posted March 23, 2006 Dear DakshinaMoorthyji namaste. in the remedies that you had suggested > > The following are some very powerful remedies which have worked for many natives: 1) Chanting of the 6th slokha of "Soundarya Lahiri" composed by Aadi Shankaraachaarya for 21 days facing East (500 repititions) is a very powerful remedy. Sugarcane should be offered as Naivedyam. 2) Recital of 36th sarga of Sundara Kaandam of Srimad Vaalmiiki Raamaayanam for 42 days continuously will be of help to remove difference of opinion between relatives (especially between spouses). Jack fruit and Mango should be offered to the Lord as Naivedyam. In the first one, you have 500 repititions. shouold it be done continously or can it be divided and done. Also, these remedies are for the married ppeople. what if the couple are unmarried. and there are chances of them not getting married. can these remedies be performed. And Also sir I would like to know the details of the navarathri pooja programme done by you. awaiting ur kind reply sir. dhanyavaad Aprameyaha dakshinastrologer <dakshinastrologer wrote: DEar Asavariji: You have picked up the right slokha. "Dhanu Paushpam...." is the 6th slokha which helps in reunion of separated couples. There is also a y yantra design associated with it which you may learn from mantrik experts in your area. If you cannot get the guidance regarding the yantra, you can do this......This is a common yantra to get Goddess' Grace. Draw a triangle with apex facing downwards and draw soola (trident symbol) in all the three corners of the triangle facing outside. Inscribe a circle within the triangle. Write the biijam "Hriim" within it. Put this Kolam in your pooja room everyday before the chant. It is good if you can draw it in turmeric paste or kumkum and use them for anoiting on your forehead everyday after the worship. I hope these pointers will be of help to you. Blessed be. Messenger with Voice. Make PC-to-Phone Calls to the US (and 30+ countries) for 2¢/min or less. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sangeethaeswarappa Posted January 14, 2011 Report Share Posted January 14, 2011 hi I am as well going through seperation and panditji I am trying to follow and do the poojas you have told me my date of birth is 31/12/1975 can you look into my situation and predict and tell me is there anyway to get back my husband i have a 5 year old son and in no case want the family to be broken, he walked out and applied for divorce but still i feel i should get my family united please help soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sangeethaeswarappa Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 HI Dasavartaji, I did read about the various poojas you have given in this thread for getting back seperated husband, which I plan to do as my hsuband is seperated from me and I am wanting to get back with him at any cost for the future of my son and for the betterment of my fmily. My date of birth is 31/12/1975, will you be able to help me is it possible forme to gethim back in my life or that will not happen at all. Also is there any specific puja that i need to perform the ways t =o do it as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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