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> De: WWW: Payonidhi (Dasa) HKS (Boston MA - USA) <matsya (AT) com (DOT) org>

> A: COM: (Krsna) Katha <Katha (AT) com (DOT) bbt.se>

> Asunto: A friend in maya

> Fecha: Jueves 11 de Marzo de 1999 05:00

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> [Text 2150920 from COM]

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> How do you engage someone like that in the auspiscious activity

> of Krsna Katha?????

> YS

> Payonidhi das

 

Dear Payonidhi Prabhu:

Pamho, agtSP. Is very sad to hear about your friend. There are too

many devotees in the same situation, all over the world. It is a pitty. I heard

some times, that Srila Prabhupada preach that when the cow is thirsty we can

take her where the water is, but the cow itself must drink, in your case is

exactly the opositte. Your friend don't want to drink the water of the

knowledge, so what can you do? Just visit him and give him Prasadam, better

Maha-prasadam if you can get any. Then Lord Krsna will give the result. He is

the controller.

 

Hope this helps you

 

ys, Sridhari devi dasi

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Dear Mataji

PAMHO

AGTSP

He gets plently of Mahaprasadam,in the temple he works with, and He gets from

my Salagram Silas.Well just as Vidura never gave up on Dhrtarastha

so I can follow that example,and keep trying to help him.But it is

lamentalbel.

YS

Payonidhi das

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> I have a devotee friend that is deeply in maya, and I try to preach to him,

>but he seems so "thick skinned" that nothing gets to him, no matter how many

>sastric quotes I give him.The problem is he has become a grhamedhi,and he

>really fits the catagory of SB 7.5.30.

 

I know this is tough to watch, especially when it's a friend and when s/he

was previously living a more devotional life. It may be tempting to try to

convince through logic and reason, to provide quotes etc. However, chances

are he already knows those and that this knowledge is not what is lacking.

For whatever it's worth, my advice would simply be to make sure he also

(again) gets to experience the *sweetness* of Krsna Consciousness;

festivals, prasadam, kirtanas etc. He needs to again get a taste, so he'll

be *willing* to give up some of his habits that are incompatible with

spiritual life. I'd keep the preaching about sinful activities, hellish

consequences etc. to a minimum (I'm not saying you're doing that) and just

do everything I could to present the attractive part of spiritual life.

Seeing you blissfully serving in KC could also be a powerful motivator. If

he sees how happy you are in KC, he'll want to have what you have.

 

Just my 2 cents.

 

ys,

Madhusudani dasi

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Well the latest development is that after a discussion we had on wedensday, is

that he says he is aware that he is in maya and will work on himself to

improve.He wants to read Bhaktivikas Swamis Brahmacari book, and he hopes this

will motivate him to stop being so lusty.

YS

Payonidhi das

So today I am lending him that book.Lets see what happens

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