Not My Mother

[Guest guest]

> There are definitely women that I show motherly respect to, but most of the

> rest I first look at as a potential sexual partner with the hope that a more

> meaningful and fulfilling relationship might develop. If I couldn't have

> enjoyable sex with a woman I wouldn't want her as a wife - I'm low, I know,

> but I'm not stupid.

 

Sigmund Freid would say that your controversial desires to

have sex with a woman and to see her as a mother in the same time

are caused by your inner desire of your subconsciousness to

have sex with your mother. ))

 

Franky saying, I have doubts that such deep psychoanalisis

will be beneficial for anyone - especially sex analisis.

If in result you'll find the truth, it will not change anything,

but more likely that you'll come to wrong conclusuions

and you'll be convinced in something wrong. Or you may stuck

with your analisis and analyse everything - beginning from

yourself and then everyone. You can come to your friend,

and think 'Hm, he cleaned his room pretty well, and put his dress

nicely. But why he puts it so nicely? He wants to look attractive

for opposite sex. He is definitely sexually unstable person'.

And your may look at some sannyasi, who smiles and makes

jokes with some child, and you can consider him pervert and

definitely fallen.

 

Janesvara Prabhu, I didn't mean by 'you' your side, I spoke in more

broader meaning. Anyway, psychoanalisis is a favorite game for

intravert persons and autics, and I think that you are mostly

an extravert.

 

> It (SEX)doesn't mean only gross sex but naturally includes

> the more emotional and "romantic" aspects of love between two people. Like

> sharing personal beliefs and goals.

 

So if share my personal believes and reveal my mind and

realizations to someone in same gender, you will consider

me as a gay? I had no idea about that. Now I have to watch out.

You just watched 'Basic Instinct' or what?

 

>Varnasrama-dharma allows, nay, welcomes, every human being to take even the

> tiniest step towards God, Krsna, and once that step is taken in humble

> earnestness Krsna grabs that soul and never lets him go. He is always with

> them in their hearts and directs them towards all things associated with Him

> over a gradual, but sure, period of advancement. Krsna, I think, is big

> believer in the story of the tortoise and the hare.

 

Great words! I remember when one young man said to mother Abygel,

that he doesn't beleive in God, she laughed and said

'It doesn't matter. HE believes in you'.

So let us hope that Krishna believes in us.

[Guest guest]

> There are definitely women that I show motherly respect to, but most of

> the rest I first look at as a potential sexual partner with the hope that

> a more meaningful and fulfilling relationship might develop

 

It just means you are honest. I have a strong feeling that a majority of men

are thinking the same, whether they admit it or not.

 

Men are watching women, women know this and try to look as good

as possible.

 

The problem is what to do with it. I think the Vedic model is to educate

the men, not to act on their lower impulses, or at least do it with style

according to certain rules.

The vedic model does not seem to be to make the women unattractive,

like in the arab countries.

 

As far as I understand, Srila Prabhupada's original idea was to give

each man one women as wife, and that he has to be satisfied with that,

everyone else were off limits.

In the vedic society there were prostitutes, which had as task to give men

sexual pleasures beyond that, for those who needed it.

 

ys Prisni

[Guest guest]

> There are definitely women that I show motherly respect to, but most of

> the rest I first look at as a potential sexual partner with the hope that

> a more meaningful and fulfilling relationship might develop

 

It just means you are honest. I have a strong feeling that a majority of men

are thinking the same, whether they admit it or not.

 

Men are watching women, women know this and try to look as good

as possible.

 

The problem is what to do with it. I think the Vedic model is to educate

the men, not to act on their lower impulses, or at least do it with style

according to certain rules.

The vedic model does not seem to be to make the women unattractive,

like in the arab countries.

 

As far as I understand, Srila Prabhupada's original idea was to give

each man one women as wife, and that he has to be satisfied with that,

everyone else were off limits.

In the vedic society there were prostitutes, which had as task to give men

sexual pleasures beyond that, for those who needed it.

 

ys Prisni