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>Here is a dilema: on the one hand, someone who steals anothers wife may be

>killed without incurring sinful reaction, and on the other hand, it is an

>offense to kill a devotee. What, according to guru-sadhu-shastra, should be

>the proper punishment for a devotee who steals another devotee's wife?

 

Before we answer that, here is another question: Is he a real "Vaishnav -

Devotee" if he has stolen the wife of another devotee? At least that act

is not the act of devotion to Krsna, so he was not acting as a Vaishnav.

If one does not act as a Vasihnav, is he to be treated as one for such an

offense?

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I am sending this again, because the first copy went out under my other

email address and many will wonder who it is?

 

>Here is a dilema: on the one hand, someone who steals anothers wife may be

>killed without incurring sinful reaction, and on the other hand, it is an

>offense to kill a devotee. What, according to guru-sadhu-shastra, should be

>the proper punishment for a devotee who steals another devotee's wife?

 

Before we answer that, here is another question: Is he a real "Vaishnav -

Devotee" if he has stolen the wife of another devotee? At least that act

is not the act of devotion to Krsna, so he was not acting as a Vaishnav.

If one does not act as a Vasihnav, is he to be treated as one for such an

offense?

 

ys ameyatma das

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> >Here is a dilema: on the one hand, someone who steals anothers wife may

> >be killed without incurring sinful reaction, and on the other hand, it is

> >an offense to kill a devotee. What, according to guru-sadhu-shastra,

> >should be the proper punishment for a devotee who steals another

> >devotee's wife?

>

> Before we answer that, here is another question: Is he a real "Vaishnav -

> Devotee" if he has stolen the wife of another devotee? At least that act

> is not the act of devotion to Krsna, so he was not acting as a Vaishnav.

> If one does not act as a Vasihnav, is he to be treated as one for such an

> offense?

 

Perhaps the incident of Ashvattama's killing the remaining sons of the

Pandavas is relevant.

 

To say that a brahmana is exempt from punishment for wrongdoing because of

his status and at the same time argue that if he did something wrong and

therefore should not be considered a brahmana (and can be punished) would

seem contradictory. How could a brahmana be exempt from punishment unless

he retains his status?

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Bhakta Tom wrote:

>Stealing means to took someone's wife by force,

>if the force has not been applied that the other party (the wife herself)

>was not inocent also.

 

This is good point. I do not have time to look up quotes, but in Manu

Samhita there is a section dealing with illicit sex. In the beginning of

the section Manu states that if a man has an affair with another man's

wife, the woman is to be ( "can" be ) taken to the city square and thrown

into a pack of wild hungry dogs, to be devoured alive. The man is to be

placed on red hot iron bars and singed to death. VERY HEAVY. But, then

after giving this extreme punishment it lists the punishment to be given to

each of the four varna classes, and even for the Sudra it does not list the

severity of the original punishment. For a brahman he is to be fined a

certain weight of gold, and if he refuses to pay, since a king cannot

forcibly take a brahman's property, it says that the king can force the

brahman to leave his kingdom, along with all his possessions and caste him

out of his kingdom as an unfit and undesirable person. Then, later, Manu

explains that a society is to be kept in check and forced to follow under

the laws of dharma out of the fear of punishment. Thus, Manu gives the

very heavy and severe punishment, it is there, so that it will strike fear

in the people to not break the laws of dharma. Today the modern laws have

no bite to enforce religous moral behavior, thus the whole world is now in

hell. But, a Vedic king will then consult with his brahman advisors and

they will see there are grades and levels of punishment. So, yes, if the

crime is sufficently gruesome, then the heaviest punishment is there, if it

warrants it. But, in general the lessor punishments would normally be

followed. Still, the fear of the worst thing must be be there. If you go

too far out of line, you know, if you steal some valuables you can loose

your hands, if you have an affair with another man's willing wife, there is

some heavy price to pay, and if you forcibly rape and brutally attack, then

you should be roasted on hot iron bars.

But, in ISKCON, what fear is there if one devotee has some affair with

another man's wife? No fear. He can still be a gurukula teacher or next

year he might become TP.

 

 

ys ameyatma das

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>...and what about viceversa, if a devotee woman "steals" another devotee`s

>husband, which happens also quite often, what should be than the "proper

>punishment"...? ;)

>ys,

>Harsi das

 

The odd thing about anyone stealing anyone's spouse is that it is the most

foolish thing to do. If a woman wants a man to stay with her, then why

take a man who is ready to give up his current wife? If he is able and

ready to give up his current wife and responsiblities to his current

children and family for her, then what is the guarantee he will not give

her up for another and another. Cheaters and the cheated, only. If the

man wants a woman to be faithful to him, why take a woman that is being

unfaithful to her first husband? Taking another person's spouse is the

height of Ignorance and stupidity.

 

 

ys ameyatma das

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> But, in ISKCON, what fear is there if one devotee has some affair with

> another man's wife? No fear. He can still be a gurukula teacher or next

> year he might become TP.

 

I dont think we can bring in roasting yet :-), but something should be done,

isnt it shameful that we have almost no form of social justice?

 

The Amish at least put people in coventry (dont speak to them) if they

transgress even simple rules. Cant we even do that? Its as if we have no

community at all.

 

Without proper varnasrama institutions, this will just go on.

 

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On 16 Jul 1999, Samba das wrote:

 

 

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> Without proper varnasrama institutions, this will just go on.

>

> YS

 

 

There was plenty of silly stuff going on dury the glory days of Vedic culture,

too. All you've got to do is read the SB to find out.

 

I'm not arguing agains VAD, just a simplistic idea of what it means to have to

live with human beings in the material world. Yes, there should be a fair and

consistently administered system of justice.

 

ys,

 

Sthita

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On 16 Jul 1999, Samba das wrote:

 

 

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> Without proper varnasrama institutions, this will just go on.

>

> YS

 

 

There was plenty of silly stuff going on dury the glory days of Vedic culture,

too. All you've got to do is read the SB to find out.

 

I'm not arguing agains VAD, just a simplistic idea of what it means to have to

live with human beings in the material world. Yes, there should be a fair and

consistently administered system of justice.

 

ys,

 

Sthita

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> > If we recall from Ramayana we can see that Sita didn't wanted to go with

> > Ravana and he kidnapped her, so the duty of a Husband (in this case

> > Ramacandra) was to kill Ravana.

>

> But at the same time, it is an offense to kill a devotee. In the

> Ramayana, the Lord could not punish the brahmana Sarvatha Siddha because

> although he committed an offense, brahmanas are exempt from punishment by

> the King (cf. Ramayana, Uttara-khanda).

 

 

Certainly extreme caution must be taken for any such considerations and ONLY

by recognized authorities, but at the same time as far as the principle is

concerned: "When they tried to disrobe Draupadi in the assembly, Bhisma and

Drona were silent, and for such negligence of duty they should be killed."

This is a guru and Maha-jana.

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