Guest guest Posted November 25, 1999 Report Share Posted November 25, 1999 > > > Good, that means we can understand from you that in general (as per Srila > Prabhupada's generalization and as opposed to the west) Indian men are > dutiful husbands who can serve as role models for their western > counterparts. And since Srila Prabhupada was talking about married couples > (not simply men), that Indian women may also serve as role models for their > western counterparts. Don't you agree? This is great! In the West, I am considered fallen if I visit a sex worker, but since it is a more common practice in India, it must be authorised! I can see why you like the place so much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 25, 1999 Report Share Posted November 25, 1999 > > > > > > Good, that means we can understand from you that in general (as per > > Srila Prabhupada's generalization and as opposed to the west) Indian men > > are dutiful husbands who can serve as role models for their western > > counterparts. And since Srila Prabhupada was talking about married > > couples (not simply men), that Indian women may also serve as role > > models for their western counterparts. Don't you agree? > > This is great! In the West, I am considered fallen if I visit a sex > worker, but since it is a more common practice in India, it must be > authorised! I can see why you like the place so much. KK... if you "like the place so much" as our sage has observed... why in the heck are you living in Baltimore! :-) To quote a "western song" written 30 years ago; "get back, get back..." :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 25, 1999 Report Share Posted November 25, 1999 >KK... if you "like the place so much" as our sage has observed... why in the >heck are you living in Baltimore! :-) > >To quote a "western song" written 30 years ago; "get back, get back..." :-) We're working on it, really. For artha and kama, the west is good, for dharma and moksha, India is good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 25, 1999 Report Share Posted November 25, 1999 On 25 Nov 1999, Christopher Shannon wrote: > >KK... if you "like the place so much" as our sage has observed... why in the heck are you living in Baltimore! :-) > > > >To quote a "western song" written 30 years ago; "get back, get back..." :-) > > We're working on it, really. For artha and kama, the west is good, for > dharma and moksha, India is good. Now don't that just take the cake! Here we got an Indian wannabe who appears to be addicted to living in the West simply for economic and sensual exploitation! Hows that for the ol' Vedic preaching spirit! And to think -- what would Mickey say about that? ys, Sthita .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 26, 1999 Report Share Posted November 26, 1999 >> counterparts. And since Srila Prabhupada was talking about married >> couples (not simply men), that Indian women may also serve as role models >> for their western counterparts. Don't you agree? > I don't. Western women have completely different cultural background and >demending from them to be like the women of indian cultural background >wouldn't work and it doesn't work. The purpose of the International Society >for Krishna Consciousness is to make people Krishna conscious and not a >hindu, or Indian. Things that work for hidnu women might not work for the >western women and vice versa. > It is interesting that you only commented on western women. Would you also say the same for western men? So far, I have not seen anyone deny that western men should adopt Indian customs that Srila Prabhupada said should be emulated. Why would you want to make an exception for western women, but not for western men? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 26, 1999 Report Share Posted November 26, 1999 > > > We're working on it, really. For artha and kama, the west is good, for > dharma and moksha, India is good. Why thank you. Maybe there is hope after all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 26, 1999 Report Share Posted November 26, 1999 > > It is interesting that you only commented on western women. Would you > also say the same for western men? So far, I have not seen anyone deny > that western men should adopt Indian customs that Srila Prabhupada said > should be emulated. Why would you want to make an exception for western > women, but not for western men? I am actually tired of this men and women business. It is neither men nor women fault that we have ended up in the society we have ended up in. If you look some hundred years back you will see that even in this very low West people were very religious. In every village there was a church, even in the very small ones, big joint families existed and all of that that still exists in India and you are proud about. Almost everybody was living of the land and family structure was very strong. It is interesting to see were did the family structure start to break. It started with the industrialisation, when people began to work in the factories. And since then, the more the society advences in the field of technology, the more the family structure breaks down. The reason for this is that demons are in charge of the whole Earth. They are systematically destroing the family structure and selfsufficient way of living. As long as people were living of the land, they were much more religios and more difficult to control. Everybody was praying to God for a good harvest and similar things. But today by the mercy of the tehnology people are ending up somewhere in some cubicles and their association are newspapers and TV. Once they move to the cities it is much easier to control them and exploit them. On every level there is propaganda to enjoy your senses and forget about God. And there is no way back, because demons made sure, by different laws, that it is not possible to live of the land anymore. Growing your own food is not considered farming and one has to pay big tax for having a land. That is one of the reasons why ISKCON is strugling with its farm-projects. The main reason why the family structure still exist in India is that 75% of the population is still living of the land. As long as that agricultural structure exist it is easy to maintain the family structure. But in the big cities advancement has taken place. Sex before a marriage is becoming common thing even in Indias big cities. I don't think that we have to wait long time to see that the family structure is breaking down even in India. So, the picture is much biger than just some women wanting to be independent. So long we are not able to be economically selfsufficient, we will have to play according to demoniac society rules. We will have to drink water with fluor which is so-called good for your teeth, but it actually makes your brain dull and makes you more receptive for control. We will have to drink recycled water with female and male hormons, so in the future would be almost impossible to recognize who is in a male and who in a female body. Instead of wasting our time on this useless discussions, like who beated whom and why, it is better if we all try to meditate how to make those varnasrama villages Srila Prabhupada wanted. If we want to have the family structure then we will have to make that kind of society were living in the families is normal way of living. That is agricultural structure were people are living of the land. Otherwise we will end up with the same procent of broken marriages and something like 25% of children having a chance to live together with both parents (or maybe even less). That's the reality of living in a demoniac society. Ys. Sraddha dd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 26, 1999 Report Share Posted November 26, 1999 On 26 Nov 1999, Sraddha dd wrote: [...] >Otherwise we will end up with the same procent of >broken marriages and something like 25% of children having a chance to >live together with both parents (or maybe even less). That's the reality >of living in a demoniac society. > Ys. Sraddha dd Nice points, Mataji. That was like a soothing Vaikuntha breeze for me. --gkdas Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 1999 Report Share Posted November 27, 1999 On 26 Nov 1999, Sraddha dd wrote: > > I am actually tired of this men and women business. Now that is truely a healthy by product of advancement in Krsna consciousness! Family life was troublesome no matter how it is approached -- I mean it would be difficult to claim that the Pandava's enjoyed a peaceful, happy family life, like that. To me this over-infatuation with India vs Non-India is a bit silly. No matter what culture you to, if your self-centered and immature, it just ain't gonna happen. ys, Sthita Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 1999 Report Share Posted November 27, 1999 On 26 Nov 1999, Sraddha dd wrote: > > I am actually tired of this men and women business. Now that is truely a healthy by product of advancement in Krsna consciousness! Family life was troublesome no matter how it is approached -- I mean it would be difficult to claim that the Pandava's enjoyed a peaceful, happy family life, like that. To me this over-infatuation with India vs Non-India is a bit silly. No matter what culture you to, if your self-centered and immature, it just ain't gonna happen. ys, Sthita Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 1999 Report Share Posted November 27, 1999 On 26 Nov 1999, Guru-Krsna das wrote: > On 26 Nov 1999, Sraddha dd wrote: > > [...] > > >Otherwise we will end up with the same procent of > >broken marriages and something like 25% of children having a chance to >live together with both parents (or maybe even less). That's the reality >of living in a demoniac society. > > Ys. Sraddha dd > > Nice points, Mataji. That was like a soothing Vaikuntha breeze for me. > > --gkdas I know I must be missing something really escoteric here, but I don't recall that I joined a spiritual institution with the aim of enjoying nuclear family life. I guess we generally find what we are looking for. .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 1999 Report Share Posted November 27, 1999 On 26 Nov 1999, Guru-Krsna das wrote: > On 26 Nov 1999, Sraddha dd wrote: > > [...] > > >Otherwise we will end up with the same procent of > >broken marriages and something like 25% of children having a chance to >live together with both parents (or maybe even less). That's the reality >of living in a demoniac society. > > Ys. Sraddha dd > > Nice points, Mataji. That was like a soothing Vaikuntha breeze for me. > > --gkdas I know I must be missing something really escoteric here, but I don't recall that I joined a spiritual institution with the aim of enjoying nuclear family life. I guess we generally find what we are looking for. .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 1999 Report Share Posted November 27, 1999 On 26 Nov 1999, Sthita-dhi-muni Dasa wrote: > On 26 Nov 1999, Guru-Krsna das wrote: > > Nice points, Mataji. That was like a soothing Vaikuntha breeze for me. > > > > --gkdas > I know I must be missing something really escoteric here, I think so. >but I don't recall that I joined a spiritual institution with the aim of >enjoying nuclear family life. That wasn't Mataji's thesis, either, was it? >I guess we generally find what we are looking for. Sometimes even when it's not there --gkd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 1999 Report Share Posted November 27, 1999 On 26 Nov 1999, Sthita-dhi-muni Dasa wrote: > On 26 Nov 1999, Guru-Krsna das wrote: > > Nice points, Mataji. That was like a soothing Vaikuntha breeze for me. > > > > --gkdas > I know I must be missing something really escoteric here, I think so. >but I don't recall that I joined a spiritual institution with the aim of >enjoying nuclear family life. That wasn't Mataji's thesis, either, was it? >I guess we generally find what we are looking for. Sometimes even when it's not there --gkd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 1999 Report Share Posted November 27, 1999 On 26 Nov 1999, Sthita-dhi-muni Dasa wrote: > > Nice points, Mataji. That was like a soothing Vaikuntha breeze for > >me. --gkdas > I know I must be missing something really escoteric here, Apparently so. >but I don't recall that I joined a spiritual institution with the aim of >enjoying nuclear family life. That wasn't her thesis, though, was it? >I guess we generally find what we are looking for. And sometimes we "find" what's not even there --gkd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 1999 Report Share Posted November 27, 1999 On 26 Nov 1999, Sthita-dhi-muni Dasa wrote: > > Nice points, Mataji. That was like a soothing Vaikuntha breeze for > >me. --gkdas > I know I must be missing something really escoteric here, Apparently so. >but I don't recall that I joined a spiritual institution with the aim of >enjoying nuclear family life. That wasn't her thesis, though, was it? >I guess we generally find what we are looking for. And sometimes we "find" what's not even there --gkd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 1999 Report Share Posted November 27, 1999 On 27 Nov 1999, Guru-Krsna das wrote: > > >but I don't recall that I joined a spiritual institution with the aim of enjoying nuclear family life. > > That wasn't her thesis, though, was it? > Probably not, but it almost appears as if there's a bit of preoccupation with certain parties playing a role so that we can have a family life that sends us BTG. Sure, that can help some, maybe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 1999 Report Share Posted November 27, 1999 On 27 Nov 1999, Guru-Krsna das wrote: > > >but I don't recall that I joined a spiritual institution with the aim of enjoying nuclear family life. > > That wasn't her thesis, though, was it? > Probably not, but it almost appears as if there's a bit of preoccupation with certain parties playing a role so that we can have a family life that sends us BTG. Sure, that can help some, maybe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 1999 Report Share Posted November 28, 1999 At 10:18 PM +0100 11/26/99, COM: Sraddha (dd) HKS (Gothenburg - S) wrote: > Instead of wasting our time on this useless discussions, like who beated >whom and why, it is better if we all try to meditate how to make those >varnasrama villages Srila Prabhupada wanted. If we want to have the family >structure then we will have to make that kind of society were living in the >families is normal way of living. That is agricultural structure were people >are living of the land. Otherwise we will end up with the same procent of >broken marriages and something like 25% of children having a chance to live >together with both parents (or maybe even less). That's the reality of >living in a demoniac society. > Ys. Sraddha dd Very good point! YS, Sita dd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 1999 Report Share Posted November 28, 1999 On 26 Nov 1999, Sthita-dhi-muni Dasa wrote: >>>Otherwise we will end up with the same procent of broken marriages and >>>something like 25% of children having a chance to live together with >>>both parents (or maybe even less). That's the reality of >>>living in a demoniac society. >>>Ys. Sraddha dd > > > > Nice points, Mataji. That was like a soothing Vaikuntha breeze for me. > > --gkdas > but I don't recall that I joined a spiritual institution with the aim > of enjoying nuclear family life. Nevertheless: "We should understand the necesssity for maintaining family life in human society and should thus abolish this artificial law known as divorce." (SB 4.23.25P) --gkd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 1999 Report Share Posted November 28, 1999 On 27 Nov 1999, Guru-Krsna das wrote: > > Nevertheless: > > "We should understand the necesssity for maintaining family life in human society and should thus abolish this artificial law known as divorce." (SB > 4.23.25P) > > --gkd Sounds like a good plan, as long as it is purused with a healthy perspective as to what our real goal is -- chant Hare Krsna and engage in devotional service. Seems all too often these short quotes are taken out of context with Srila Prabhupada's essential purpose as a representative of Lord Caitanya mission. ys, Sthita-dhi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 1999 Report Share Posted November 28, 1999 On 28 Nov 1999, Sthita-dhi-muni Dasa wrote: > On 27 Nov 1999, Guru-Krsna das wrote: > > > > Nevertheless: > > > > "We should understand the necesssity for maintaining family life in > >human society and should thus abolish this artificial law known as > >divorce." (SB 4.23.25P) > > > > --gkd > Sounds like a good plan, as long as it is purused with a healthy > perspective as to what our real goal is -- chant Hare Krsna and engage > in devotional service. Seems all too often these short quotes are taken > out of context with Srila Prabhupada's essential purpose as a > > >representative of Lord Caitanya mission. > > ys, > Sthita-dhi Indeed. And had I not been weary at the fag end of the day, I would have included the next and (last) sentence of that Purport: "The husband and wife should live in Krsna consciousness and follow in the fo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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