Stable Marriage or a Stepford Wife?

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Very nice, sober, intelligent text. No wonder you have such a qualified wife

in Ahladini Radha Devi --- you deserve her

 

Your servant

Braja Sevaki dd

>

> this is true.

>

> no point blaming women lib walas at this point although they are wrong in

> almost all their arguments (I am using the word "almost" just out of

> etiquette because I haven't heard all their arguments). the point is they

> are there due to no proper training by more intelligent class, i.e. men.

> and that also not all men but the intelligent class, i.e. the brahmanas

> who became corrupt as kaliyuga advanced.

>

> so although i don't agree at all with the so called women lib for all good

> reasons, i would again say that blaming them will not help but ony

> aggravate the situation and agitate their already weak minds. the

> question "who is more responsible for it, men or women?" is a question

> similar to asking how we came into the material world---- just get out of

> it first.

>

> that's why Srila Prabhupada emphasized on creating brahmanas rather than

> spending time in defeating women lib arguments. if we can show by our own

> example how to act as husbands and men then naturally the women / wives,

> being subordinate by nature, will follow.

>

> for a stable and Krishna conscious marriage, the husband has to take more

> responsibility for their spiritual advancement. if he ends up finding

> faults in his wife for being non-Krishna conscious, non-submissive, etc.

> then he is not very intelligent for having married such a wife. Better is

> he prepares himself first how to deal with a worst wife before dreaming of

> a vedic wife and marrying one imagining her to be fully vedic. After all

> we get what we deserve, so where is the question of blaming wives and

> hushands and divorce?

>

> the conclusion is, Krishna consciousness is the only and only solution to

> all our problems and it's essential to take it up 100% as taught by Srila

> Prabhupada without any so called modern and "thoughtful" introduction if

> we are looking forward to finding a permanent solution. If not, punah

> punah carvita carvananam...the doors to material world are open for those

> who want to get in, and for those who want to go back to Godhead, Srila

> Prabhupada has come to take them. Choice is ours.

>

> We have to keep in mind that Srila Prabhupad has given us the cream of all

> vedic scriptures.

>

> Hare Krishna.

>

> ys, bbd