On marriage and divorce.

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Ranjit ji. Jaya Prabhupada.

 

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There is a Bengali proverb, dekhe sekhe and tekhe sekhe (?).

> One who is intelligent, he can see what is happening, he becomes cautious.

> And one, when actually experienced, then he becomes cautious.

 

Bhakti charu swami clarifies.

 

The proverb goes like "dekhe sekha and thake sheka". The literal translation

will be "learn by seeing and learn after being cheated".

 

Your servant

 

Bhakti Charu Swami

 

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Comment 577 (37 lines) [W1]

Mahamantra ACBSP

06-Dec-98 20:08

Visvahetu (das) SS (PL)

Brahmacarya

Reference: Text COM:1543650 by Visvahetu (das) SS (PL)

On marriage and divorce.

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> Yogesvara: So these Italian women are complaining now that their husbands

> are abusing them, so why can they not get divorced?

>

> Prabhupada: Why do you marry?

>

> Yogesvara: Obviously, they wanted sex in the beginning, but they didn’t

> know it was going to be so much trouble.

>

> Prabhupada: That is our point. Then why do you marry? Just begin Krsna

> conscious, and you will find, without sex, you will be happy.

>

> Yogesvara: But what do we advise such women?

>

> Prabhupada: Whatever they, others women, they may take lesson from them

> that, “If these woman are suffering or these men are suffering, why should

> we marry?” There is a Bengali proverb, dekhe sekhe and tekhe sekhe (?).

> One who is intelligent, he can see what is happening, he becomes cautious.

> And one, when actually experienced, then he becomes cautious. Less

> intelligent. So if it is not good, why you are marrying? Why you are

> induced by sex life?

> Stop it by Krsna consciousness. If you devote yourself, the whole life, in

> Krsna consciousness you will not be agitated by any sex life. And that is

> yadävadhi mama cetaù kåñëa-padäravinde. If one is actually advanced in

> Krsna consciousness, he will deride, “Huh! Nonsense! What is this?” That

> is Krsna consciousness, advancement. The only remedy, prime remedy for all

> solution, is Krsna conscious. That we have to say. So answers are all

> right or not?

>

> Yogesvara: No, very nice. (laughter)

 

Bhakti charu swami clarifies.

 

The proverb goes like "dekhe sekha and thake sheka". The literal translation

will be "learn by seeing and

learn after being cheated".

 

Your servant

 

Bhakti Charu Swami

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