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> Dear Sri Visnupada,

>

> Please accept my humble obeisances.

>

> You wrote:

>

> >When the child feels unwanted and unprotected within ISKCON, he

> >rejects ISKCON and becomes a materialist of sorts.

>

> Is it also one of the reasons why grown up persons might bloop?

> (I'm not planning to do that), but it also gives me a lot of trouble

> when I feel unwanted, not loved, and unprotected. It happens to me

> time to time. Do I just have a childish mentality, or it is karma?

>

 

If the adult devotee had a normal childhood then he can engage in

devotional service without any mental problems, even if he is not

'loved' by others. After all, we are loved by Krsna and every sincere

devotee can feel that. If one is only interested in being loved by

devotees then that person will have many problems which may not be

overcome. But if we understand that we are always loved by Krsna and

that He is our real protector, then we will have no difficulties in

devotional life.

 

> One devotee told me that others cannot love me because I don't love

> myself, I don't except myself. Could you please explain this?

>

 

Ask that devotee what they meant. Everyone loves himself the most.

This is normal. If one has no real love for himself then he is

usually somewhat desperate in life.

 

> Your servant, Mangala dd

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