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Although the dictionary meaning of the word fanatic is fine we don't want

to use that word for Prabhupada. It is a mind bite word. It brings to mind

those people and organizations that had mass suicides with thier leaders

organizing it, etc. etc.

 

I organized this conference in 1993 for the pupose of sharing knowledge of

a practical sort. Also it is very nice to share stories and feelings

pertaining to the service of cows and the land. Sometimes we get into

political issues concerning these subjects but we should keep that at a

minimum unless we have a plan how to change things. In other words I don't

want words or language being used that can be easily misinterpreted and

creates a "mind bite" and that eventually creates bickering amongst the

members of this conference. Don't we already have enough of that in ISKCON

and the rest of the devotee world? There are so many platforms where this

can go on, but not in the cow conference.

 

This conference was highly active since 1993 to about 2001. Then somone

came on the conference who spewed language like this. Eventually, since I

allowed him to go on, other devotees requested to get off the conference

because it had developed a lot of bickering. I finally took him off the

conference but it was too late. This is the first time there has been stong

activity in a long time and I don't want the same thing to happen and I

don't want to have to remove anyone. So. I am addressing the issue early

when it is not yet serious.

 

So rules for the conference for everyone:

1) Explain yourself clearly, try not to resort to mind bites that will most

often get an emotional response

2) Be sensitive that the members of this conference have viewpoints that

differ, often greatly. So when presenting something keep in mind that there

are those who will not agree intially. Think that if you present this

logically and in a passive voice, perhaps they will see the substantiailty

of your points instead of taking offense.

 

I have also been guilty of speaking "emotive" in the past and will also try

to do better. In an e-mail conference setting it can all be misinterpreted

and we need to be more careful.

 

Your servant,

Chayadevi

Visit us at: www.iscowp.org

 

 

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> billy bob buckwheat <d_4h (AT) hotmail (DOT) com>

> Cow (Protection and related issues) <Cow (AT) pamho (DOT) net>

> 12/29/2003 1:40:03 AM

> Re: Giving up on Commercial Milk saves cows?

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> > >Prabhupäda: So if there is more milk, you can sell more, get money.

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> >hmm. Srila Prabhupada was always perfectly logical and practical.

Although he

> >was the purest devotee on the planet and basically wrote the rules which

we

> >attampt to live by, he was in no way a fanatic. He was always practical.

>

> I'm sorry Gopal, but I felt Prabhupada as a fanatic..... and when I look

in my

> dictionary it says... (fanatic-- inspired by a deity : Marked by excessive

> enthusiasm and often intense uncritical devotion.) I don't think of

fanatic as

> something bad... As has some have made it.

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> >This is not that we endeavor to make so many pregnant cows and so much

milk

> >to sell, but if the cows are there and the milk is there, of course, we

can

> >sell it.

> >

>

> Exactly................

>

> Hare Krsna Gopal,....

>

> ys, Derek-

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While arguing and expressing a difference of opinion or understanding is

certainly healthy, I would not say that general bickering is. While it should

be

tolorated (or else we will all eventually be kicked out) It should not be

promoted.

 

The example, in the present context, is my use of the words "not a fanatic"

to descrive Srila Prabhupada. While I meant it in the general use of the word

(ie: uncompromising), Derek, argued back that his understanding of the word

"fanatic" (one of several varried deffinitions available in the dictionary) was

 

different. Thus in arguing about my use of a single word in my post, he and

perhaps others who were caught up in the resultent discussion (of which this is

 

also a continuation and has nothing to do with cows-the purpose of this

conference) missed my point.

 

That point being that Srila Prabhupada said different and sometimes

contridictory things (Never sell milk - Good, we are selling milk) according to

time,

place, and circumstance. Thus he was not "uncompromising."

 

So, although bickering (or discussion) can open eyes, unnecessary

nit-picking, bickering for the sake of bickering, or argument that is motivated

more by

compulsion to argue with others than to understand another's side or our own,

can also be the sand that blinds those eyes-distracting us from the other

persons underlying point.

 

Let's talk about cows now : )

 

--Gopal

 

In a message dated 1/1/2004 5:00:37 AM Central Standard Time,

Ekabuddh (AT) aol (DOT) com writes:

In a message dated 12/31/03 8:04:12 PM Eastern Standard Time,

d_4h (AT) hotmail (DOT) com writes:

 

 

> I think its quite healthy to bicker, ....and to avoid it is trying to draw

> a false reality around us... It sometimes brings forth the truth and also

> helps to grow... and mature from the experience...

 

d-4 has brought up a most excellent point. Based on the very true words he

puts forth above, I am not clear on why he would want to withdraw from the

conference?

obeisances ekaBuddhi

 

 

 

 

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<DIV>Let's talk about cows now : )</DIV>

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<DIV>--Gopal</DIV>

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