Guest guest Posted July 20, 2006 Report Share Posted July 20, 2006 Respected guides on this forum - I am very troubled and distressed. I am highly educated and a working woman with 2 children. Brought up in a respectable, religious and educated family with values. I myself am highy principled and a fair person. Unfortunately my husband dows not share my values. I have had a very rocky marriage and I have been going around wearing a "mask" in society of what a perfect life I have. I do not like to wash my (rather my husband's) dirty linen in public and for sake of children I am silently suffering. But looks like destiny has something else in store for me. Recently my husband went to the extreme and filed for divorce. I am very worried of what will happen to me and my children who are so small. I have not taken any action on the divorce yet because many astrologers said my Guru is changing in OCt and will give me good results. But honestly I am too tired of this farce of a marriage that I have, and wd happily end it but I'm worried abt my kids and my future. WIll I be able to survive and raise kids after divorce? Also I am currently in US and want to move back to India if the divorce goes through. I hate idea of parents living in same town in different houses (and maybe my husband might have a girlfriend or a new wife). I'd rather go to India since so many couples do that these days where husband stays in US and wife and kids go back for sake of children. Will that be good for me and kids ? Or shd I just beg and plead to take back divorce and continue in this marriage ? We have been living like roommates for past one and half years. Please guide me. I am so lost and troubled. God bless all of you for guiding a distressed mother. Mona. Details - 11th Oct 1971, Mumbai(India), 9:15 am. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2006 Report Share Posted July 20, 2006 ll HARE RAM ll Dear Mona ji, First of all please do not loss heart.I accept that your time is not running favourable / well but one must not leave hope up to the last moment. You are facing Saade- Saadi but this is a matter of great strange for me that some astrologers in take it quite lightly.Some say, we do not agree with the concept of Saade-Saati and others give some examples regarding persons getting rise in such period but according to my experience there are very much few who could get some rise during this period.In fact Saadi-Saadi gives the utmost important turn to life during his span.It may be better if mahadasa be strong or Saturn may has some good dots in Astakvarga otherwise it harms a lot and the native who had been faced it,can never foreget the said period & can explain better. So Mona ji Saade Saati plus Mercurey Mahadasa & Ketu Antar dasa gave you a tremendous problem.It is sure after Ketu antardasa that is going to be end on 11th of oct 2006 and after 27th of oct 2006 when Jupiter will enter in Scorpio sign that is your ascendant too,You will get some relief but besides waiting for such time please do some remedies.As- [1]Please wear yellow sapphire in gold on thursday as well as Pearl in Silver on Monday. [2]If possible plz throw a piece of Bronze in running water on Wednesday. [3]Pray to Lord Ganesha for removing such troubles and bad effect of Mercury and Ketu Mahadasa. [4]To recite "GOPAL SAHASRANAMA" OR "VISHNU SAHASRANAMA" on Wednesday and Friday will be quite beneficial surely. [5]Now the ultimate remedy,plz chant minimum 11 times the said chapaies of Shri Ramcharitmanas daily.As- "RAJIV NAYAN DHARE DHANU SAYAK,BHAGAT VIPATI BHANJAN SUKHDAYAK" "DIN DAYAL VIRAD SAMBHARI, HAREHU NAATH MAM SANKAT BHAARI." I sure mere Ram will remove your all troubles / problems soon but please do not be disheart and do the all remedies with full dedication and devotion. God bless Shashie Shekhar Mobile-09818310075 Delhi I am very troubled and distressed. I am highly educated and a working woman with 2 children. Brought up in a respectable, religious and educated family with values. I myself am highy principled and a fair person. Unfortunately my husband dows not share my values. I have had a very rocky marriage and I have been going around wearing a "mask" in society of what a perfect life I have. I do not like to wash my (rather my husband's) dirty linen in public and for sake of children I am silently suffering. But looks like destiny has something else in store for me. Recently my husband went to the extreme and filed for divorce. I am very worried of what will happen to me and my children who are so small. I have not taken any action on the divorce yet because many astrologers said my Guru is changing in OCt and will give me good results. But honestly I am too tired of this farce of a marriage that I have, and wd happily end it but I'm worried abt my kids and my future. WIll I be able to survive and raise kids after divorce? Also I am currently in US and want to move back to India if the divorce goes through. I hate idea of parents living in same town in different houses (and maybe my husband might have a girlfriend or a new wife). I'd rather go to India since so many couples do that these days where husband stays in US and wife and kids go back for sake of children. Will that be good for me and kids ? Or shd I just beg and plead to take back divorce and continue in this marriage ? We have been living like roommates for past one and half years. Please guide me. I am so lost and troubled. God bless all of you for guiding a distressed mother. Mona. Details - 11th Oct 1971, Mumbai(India), 9:15 am. || Om Tat Sat || Sarvam Sri Krishnaarpanamastu || Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2006 Report Share Posted July 21, 2006 ll HARE RAM ll Dear Mona ji, First of all please do not loss heart.I accept that your time is not running favourable / well but one must not leave hope up to the last moment. You are facing Saade- Saadi but this is a matter of great strange for me that some astrologers in take it quite lightly.Some say, we do not agree with the concept of Saade-Saati and others give some examples regarding persons getting rise in such period but according to my experience there are very much few who could get some rise during this period.In fact Saadi-Saadi gives the utmost important turn to life during his span.It may be better if mahadasa be strong or Saturn may has some good dots in Astakvarga otherwise it harms a lot and the native who had been faced it,can never foreget the said period & can explain better. So Mona ji Saade Saati plus Mercurey Mahadasa & Ketu Antar dasa gave you a tremendous problem.It is sure after Ketu antardasa that is going to be end on 11th of oct 2006 and after 27th of oct 2006 when Jupiter will enter in Scorpio sign that is your ascendant too,You will get some relief but besides waiting for such time please do some remedies.As- [1]Please wear yellow sapphire in gold on thursday as well as Pearl in Silver on Monday. [2]If possible plz throw a piece of Bronze in running water on Wednesday. [3]Pray to Lord Ganesha for removing such troubles and bad effect of Mercury and Ketu Mahadasa. [4]To recite "GOPAL SAHASRANAMA" OR "VISHNU SAHASRANAMA" on Wednesday and Friday will be quite beneficial surely. [5]Now the ultimate remedy,plz chant minimum 11 times the said chapaies of Shri Ramcharitmanas daily.As- "RAJIV NAYAN DHARE DHANU SAYAK,BHAGAT VIPATI BHANJAN SUKHDAYAK" "DIN DAYAL VIRAD SAMBHARI, HAREHU NAATH MAM SANKAT BHAARI." I sure mere Ram will remove your all troubles / problems soon but please do not be disheart and do the all remedies with full dedication and devotion. God bless Shashie Shekhar Mobile-09818310075 Delhi I am very troubled and distressed. I am highly educated and a working woman with 2 children. Brought up in a respectable, religious and educated family with values. I myself am highy principled and a fair person. Unfortunately my husband dows not share my values. I have had a very rocky marriage and I have been going around wearing a "mask" in society of what a perfect life I have. I do not like to wash my (rather my husband's) dirty linen in public and for sake of children I am silently suffering. But looks like destiny has something else in store for me. Recently my husband went to the extreme and filed for divorce. I am very worried of what will happen to me and my children who are so small. I have not taken any action on the divorce yet because many astrologers said my Guru is changing in OCt and will give me good results. But honestly I am too tired of this farce of a marriage that I have, and wd happily end it but I'm worried abt my kids and my future. WIll I be able to survive and raise kids after divorce? Also I am currently in US and want to move back to India if the divorce goes through. I hate idea of parents living in same town in different houses (and maybe my husband might have a girlfriend or a new wife). I'd rather go to India since so many couples do that these days where husband stays in US and wife and kids go back for sake of children. Will that be good for me and kids ? Or shd I just beg and plead to take back divorce and continue in this marriage ? We have been living like roommates for past one and half years. Please guide me. I am so lost and troubled. God bless all of you for guiding a distressed mother. Mona. Details - 11th Oct 1971, Mumbai(India), 9:15 am. || Om Tat Sat || Sarvam Sri Krishnaarpanamastu || Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2006 Report Share Posted July 21, 2006 Dear Mona ji, There is problem in your chart with 7th lord is in 12th house. Position of Saturn in 7th and retrogated. SAV point is 20 in 7th. UL is afflicted by moons node. All above are bad for marriage life. Aspect of Rahu is not good but Jup aspect from lagna is good. So the confusion will arise and there may fight, litigation but the jup will save you and there is possiblity of agreement on mutual consent. Ranjeev mona_khadilkar <mona_khadilkar > wrote: Respected guides on this forum - I am very troubled and distressed. I am highly educated and a working woman with 2 children. Brought up in a respectable, religious and educated family with values. I myself am highy principled and a fair person. Unfortunately my husband dows not share my values. I have had a very rocky marriage and I have been going around wearing a "mask" in society of what a perfect life I have. I do not like to wash my (rather my husband's) dirty linen in public and for sake of children I am silently suffering. But looks like destiny has something else in store for me. Recently my husband went to the extreme and filed for divorce. I am very worried of what will happen to me and my children who are so small. I have not taken any action on the divorce yet because many astrologers said my Guru is changing in OCt and will give me good results. But honestly I am too tired of this farce of a marriage that I have, and wd happily end it but I'm worried abt my kids and my future. WIll I be able to survive and raise kids after divorce? Also I am currently in US and want to move back to India if the divorce goes through. I hate idea of parents living in same town in different houses (and maybe my husband might have a girlfriend or a new wife). I'd rather go to India since so many couples do that these days where husband stays in US and wife and kids go back for sake of children. Will that be good for me and kids ? Or shd I just beg and plead to take back divorce and continue in this marriage ? We have been living like roommates for past one and half years. Please guide me. I am so lost and troubled. God bless all of you for guiding a distressed mother. Mona. Details - 11th Oct 1971, Mumbai(India), 9:15 am. Talk is cheap. Use Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. Great rates starting at 1¢/min. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2006 Report Share Posted July 21, 2006 ll HARE RAM ll Dear Mona ji, First of all please do not loss heart.I accept that your time is not running favourable / well but one must not leave hope up to the last moment. You are facing Saade- Saadi but this is a matter of great strange for me that some astrologers in take it quite lightly.Some say, we do not agree with the concept of Saade-Saati and others give some examples regarding persons getting rise in such period but according to my experience there are very much few who could get some rise during this period.In fact Saadi-Saadi gives the utmost important turn to life during his span.It may be better if mahadasa be strong or Saturn may has some good dots in Astakvarga otherwise it harms a lot and the native who had been faced it,can never foreget the said period & can explain better. So Mona ji Saade Saati plus Mercurey Mahadasa & Ketu Antar dasa gave you a tremendous problem.It is sure after Ketu antardasa that is going to be end on 11th of oct 2006 and after 27th of oct 2006 when Jupiter will enter in Scorpio sign that is your ascendant too,You will get some relief but besides waiting for such time please do some remedies.As- [1]Please wear yellow sapphire in gold on thursday as well as Pearl in Silver on Monday. [2]If possible plz throw a piece of Bronze in running water on Wednesday. [3]Pray to Lord Ganesha for removing such troubles and bad effect of Mercury and Ketu Mahadasa. [4]To recite "GOPAL SAHASRANAMA" OR "VISHNU SAHASRANAMA" on Wednesday and Friday will be quite beneficial surely. [5]Now the ultimate remedy,plz chant minimum 11 times the said chapaies of Shri Ramcharitmanas daily.As- "RAJIV NAYAN DHARE DHANU SAYAK,BHAGAT VIPATI BHANJAN SUKHDAYAK" "DIN DAYAL VIRAD SAMBHARI, HAREHU NAATH MAM SANKAT BHAARI." I sure mere Ram will remove your all troubles / problems soon but please do not be disheart and do the all remedies with full dedication and devotion. God bless Shashie Shekhar Mobile-09818310075 Delhi I am very troubled and distressed. I am highly educated and a working woman with 2 children. Brought up in a respectable, religious and educated family with values. I myself am highy principled and a fair person. Unfortunately my husband dows not share my values. I have had a very rocky marriage and I have been going around wearing a "mask" in society of what a perfect life I have. I do not like to wash my (rather my husband's) dirty linen in public and for sake of children I am silently suffering. But looks like destiny has something else in store for me. Recently my husband went to the extreme and filed for divorce. I am very worried of what will happen to me and my children who are so small. I have not taken any action on the divorce yet because many astrologers said my Guru is changing in OCt and will give me good results. But honestly I am too tired of this farce of a marriage that I have, and wd happily end it but I'm worried abt my kids and my future. WIll I be able to survive and raise kids after divorce? Also I am currently in US and want to move back to India if the divorce goes through. I hate idea of parents living in same town in different houses (and maybe my husband might have a girlfriend or a new wife). I'd rather go to India since so many couples do that these days where husband stays in US and wife and kids go back for sake of children. Will that be good for me and kids ? Or shd I just beg and plead to take back divorce and continue in this marriage ? We have been living like roommates for past one and half years. Please guide me. I am so lost and troubled. God bless all of you for guiding a distressed mother. Mona. Details - 11th Oct 1971, Mumbai(India), 9:15 am. || Om Tat Sat || Sarvam Sri Krishnaarpanamastu || Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2006 Report Share Posted July 21, 2006 Dear MONA, Wait till your sub-period of Ketu is over on15.10.2006. Second marriage or divorce is no solution in your case. YOU may contact me in November with the Birth details of your husband G.K.GOEL mona_khadilkar <mona_khadilkar > wrote: Respected guides on this forum - I am very troubled and distressed. I am highly educated and a working woman with 2 children. Brought up in a respectable, religious and educated family with values. I myself am highy principled and a fair person. Unfortunately my husband dows not share my values. I have had a very rocky marriage and I have been going around wearing a "mask" in society of what a perfect life I have. I do not like to wash my (rather my husband's) dirty linen in public and for sake of children I am silently suffering. But looks like destiny has something else in store for me. Recently my husband went to the extreme and filed for divorce. I am very worried of what will happen to me and my children who are so small. I have not taken any action on the divorce yet because many astrologers said my Guru is changing in OCt and will give me good results. But honestly I am too tired of this farce of a marriage that I have, and wd happily end it but I'm worried abt my kids and my future. WIll I be able to survive and raise kids after divorce? Also I am currently in US and want to move back to India if the divorce goes through. I hate idea of parents living in same town in different houses (and maybe my husband might have a girlfriend or a new wife). I'd rather go to India since so many couples do that these days where husband stays in US and wife and kids go back for sake of children. Will that be good for me and kids ? Or shd I just beg and plead to take back divorce and continue in this marriage ? We have been living like roommates for past one and half years. Please guide me. I am so lost and troubled. God bless all of you for guiding a distressed mother. Mona. Details - 11th Oct 1971, Mumbai(India), 9:15 am. Find out what India is talking about on Answers India. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2006 Report Share Posted July 23, 2006 ll HARE RAM ll Dear Mona ji, First of all please do not loss heart.I accept that your time is not running favourable / well but one must not leave hope up to the last moment. You are facing Saade- Saadi but this is a matter of great strange for me that some astrologers in take it quite lightly.Some say, we do not agree with the concept of Saade-Saati and others give some examples regarding persons getting rise in such period but according to my experience there are very much few who could get some rise during this period.In fact Saadi-Saadi gives the utmost important turn to life during his span.It may be better if mahadasa be strong or Saturn may has some good dots in Astakvarga otherwise it harms a lot and the native who had been faced it,can never foreget the said period & can explain better. So Mona ji Saade Saati plus Mercurey Mahadasa & Ketu Antar dasa gave you a tremendous problem.It is sure after Ketu antardasa that is going to be end on 11th of oct 2006 and after 27th of oct 2006 when Jupiter will enter in Scorpio sign that is your ascendant too,You will get some relief but besides waiting for such time please do some remedies.As- [1]Please wear yellow sapphire in gold on thursday as well as Pearl in Silver on Monday. [2]If possible plz throw a piece of Bronze in running water on Wednesday. [3]Pray to Lord Ganesha for removing such troubles and bad effect of Mercury and Ketu Mahadasa. [4]To recite "GOPAL SAHASRANAMA" OR "VISHNU SAHASRANAMA" on Wednesday and Friday will be quite beneficial surely. [5]Now the ultimate remedy,plz chant minimum 11 times the said chapaies of Shri Ramcharitmanas daily.As- "RAJIV NAYAN DHARE DHANU SAYAK,BHAGAT VIPATI BHANJAN SUKHDAYAK" "DIN DAYAL VIRAD SAMBHARI, HAREHU NAATH MAM SANKAT BHAARI." I sure mere Ram will remove your all troubles / problems soon but please do not be disheart and do the all remedies with full dedication and devotion. God bless Shashie Shekhar Mobile-09818310075 Delhi I am very troubled and distressed. I am highly educated and a working woman with 2 children. Brought up in a respectable, religious and educated family with values. I myself am highy principled and a fair person. Unfortunately my husband dows not share my values. I have had a very rocky marriage and I have been going around wearing a "mask" in society of what a perfect life I have. I do not like to wash my (rather my husband's) dirty linen in public and for sake of children I am silently suffering. But looks like destiny has something else in store for me. Recently my husband went to the extreme and filed for divorce. I am very worried of what will happen to me and my children who are so small. I have not taken any action on the divorce yet because many astrologers said my Guru is changing in OCt and will give me good results. But honestly I am too tired of this farce of a marriage that I have, and wd happily end it but I'm worried abt my kids and my future. WIll I be able to survive and raise kids after divorce? Also I am currently in US and want to move back to India if the divorce goes through. I hate idea of parents living in same town in different houses (and maybe my husband might have a girlfriend or a new wife). I'd rather go to India since so many couples do that these days where husband stays in US and wife and kids go back for sake of children. Will that be good for me and kids ? Or shd I just beg and plead to take back divorce and continue in this marriage ? We have been living like roommates for past one and half years. Please guide me. I am so lost and troubled. God bless all of you for guiding a distressed mother. Mona. Details - 11th Oct 1971, Mumbai(India), 9:15 am. || Om Tat Sat || Sarvam Sri Krishnaarpanamastu || Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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