BOOK TITLE FOR HELPING STRONG WILLED CHILDREN

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Namaste

 

The book title from my post Wednesday evening is: "SETTING LIMITS

WITH YOUR STRONG WILLED CHILD", BY ROBERT J. MACKENZIE

 

I hope this book is helpful to all parents and their children. I have

to add that the use of mantras, pujas, and other spiritual activites

you engage in can greatly benefit all members in the family. Any

action which can lead to balance will benefit the family.

 

One time, when my son began to act unbalanced, Shree Maa suggested

that his Jyotish chart be completed. Once it was read, it showed that

certain plantary influences were out of balance. In order to bring

balance, it was suggested that certain mantras be used, along with a

fire ceremony, and balance would be restored. My wife and I took a

sankalpa, {made a committment}, and performed the tasks for his

benefit, and balance was restored. His behavoirs changed and he became

happier and more balanced.

 

Last week, Shree Maa said I need to become more balanced. The next

thing I know I am sitting in Swami's class of the Cosmic Puja. And

guess what? the entire puja is about becoming balanced, on every

level of life, with every impulse and manifestation of existance.

 

What a blessing. This is how things happen at the Devi Mandir. There

is a need, and God sends the impulse to fulfill the need. All you

have to do is be present and willing to do the work.

 

Balance is needed in every sphere of life. Especially while raising a

family and helping your children. Balance between Brahma-the creator,

Vishnu-the maintainer, and Shiva-lord of transformation, balance

between the 3 gunas - Rajas, Sattwa, and Tamas, balance between you

and the 9 planets, whatever action you perform, try to keep your

balance, and impart balance to your children. In fact, balance will

automatically be imparted onto your children when you are with them.

Whenever I felt balanced, my relations with my grandchildren were

smoother than when I was out of balance.

 

Shree Maa and Swami have given us many techniques to become balanced

in our lives. We just have to pick one and start practicing. If we

are uncertain where to begin, Maa always suggests worshipping Shiva.

As the Guru of all Gurus, and the lord of sankalpa, firm

determination, he will bring us the proper ways and means to solve our

problems and fulfill our desires. Swami said to me once, when you

call any God, all must come together. That is the arrangement.

 

So, pick up a sripture, get comfortably composed, put a picture of the

object of your worship on the table, light a candle and some incense,

and begin. Whether you read in English or Sanskrit, God is listening.

Read with pure devotion, offer a candle, and a glass of water, and a

flower to the picture of your Diety, and the universal language of

love and devotion will announce your pure intentions and God will come.

 

Jai Maa Jai Swami

 

love

 

Vishweshwar