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Dear Ones,

 

I have been rejected many times in many different situations. All of

us have. We are rejected sometimes because of our religion, skin

color, politics, the points of view we hold, or even our names and

form, and how attractive we are or how young we are or how wise we

are, etc.

 

Most recently, I was rejected for having a id which the

moderator did not feel was appropriate to his list. So I am not able

to post on that particular list. In fact, HS is the only list in which

I have so far been allowed to post in.

 

When the moderator (who is a beautiful soul and a fair person)

informed me that I would be moderated and that if I wished to post I

should try to get a more ordinary ID, I had to thank him for his good

advice based on common sense. I blessed the moderator and accepted

his decision cheerfully.

 

I used to post as Maharishi Bingo Ram a few years ago. Now I have

shortened it to Maharishi Bingo. Probably it may be more acceptable to

some people if I change to just Bingo or just Ram. If you have

suggestions please let me know.

 

I have been rejected many times by many people in many situations.

Now, I have experienced rejection for having a bad fake name as

well. So now I know that among reasons for rejection, I can add having

a id which does not sit well with some list moderators.

 

Well, I am able to post on this list, so that's good at least.

 

As I meditated on rejection the following thoughts came to me.

 

I am I,

in this moment

where past and future merge.

The ancient one

beauty supreme

seen in the heart alone.

To know me is to love me.

 

Maharishi Bingo Ram

--

Love, serve, and be helpful, but without getting disgusted, tired,

pessimistic, and exhausted. Blessings dear souls, blessings!

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Well, seeing as how you seem to understand the 'common sense' implications of

a maharishibingo ID on a forum/Satsang which at least wishes to take it's

focus on Truth seriously, if not themselves, the actual source of the rejection

is clearly the one who chooses an image (ID) that is likely to be rejected.

 

You didn't state that you were struggling with this, so I won't assume you

are. It's just that, from one perspective, it seems an odd game to play: create

rejection, then question the appropriateness of one's own creation.

 

Phil

::::: Beating head against wall and meditating on lumpy heads ::::

 

 

 

 

 

In a message dated 11/12/2006 7:25:36 PM Eastern Standard Time,

maharishibingo writes:

Dear Ones,

 

I have been rejected many times in many different situations. All of

us have. We are rejected sometimes because of our religion, skin

color, politics, the points of view we hold, or even our names and

form, and how attractive we are or how young we are or how wise we

are, etc.

 

Most recently, I was rejected for having a id which the

moderator did not feel was appropriate to his list. So I am not able

to post on that particular list. In fact, HS is the only list in which

I have so far been allowed to post in.

 

When the moderator (who is a beautiful soul and a fair person)

informed me that I would be moderated and that if I wished to post I

should try to get a more ordinary ID, I had to thank him for his good

advice based on common sense. I blessed the moderator and accepted

his decision cheerfully.

 

I used to post as Maharishi Bingo Ram a few years ago. Now I have

shortened it to Maharishi Bingo. Probably it may be more acceptable to

some people if I change to just Bingo or just Ram. If you have

suggestions please let me know.

 

I have been rejected many times by many people in many situations.

Now, I have experienced rejection for having a bad fake name as

well. So now I know that among reasons for rejection, I can add having

a id which does not sit well with some list moderators.

 

Well, I am able to post on this list, so that's good at least.

 

As I meditated on rejection the following thoughts came to me.

 

I am I,

in this moment

where past and future merge.

The ancient one

beauty supreme

seen in the heart alone.

To know me is to love me.

 

Maharishi Bingo Ram

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, "Maharishi Bingo"

<maharishibingo wrote:

>

> Dear Ones,

>

> I have been rejected many times in many different situations. All of

> us have. We are rejected sometimes because of our religion, skin

> color, politics, the points of view we hold, or even our names and

> form, and how attractive we are or how young we are or how wise we

> are, etc.

>

> Most recently, I was rejected for having a id which the

> moderator did not feel was appropriate to his list. So I am not able

> to post on that particular list. In fact, HS is the only list in

which

> I have so far been allowed to post in.

>

> When the moderator (who is a beautiful soul and a fair person)

> informed me that I would be moderated and that if I wished to post I

> should try to get a more ordinary ID, I had to thank him for his

good

> advice based on common sense. I blessed the moderator and accepted

> his decision cheerfully.

>

> I used to post as Maharishi Bingo Ram a few years ago. Now I have

> shortened it to Maharishi Bingo. Probably it may be more acceptable

to

> some people if I change to just Bingo or just Ram. If you have

> suggestions please let me know.

 

 

 

 

 

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

why don't you post under your own, everyday

name, and simply be yourself? what are you trying

to hide? and from whom? isn't god ALL names and

all forms?

 

:) (another good theme for meditation...)

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

 

 

 

 

>

> I have been rejected many times by many people in many situations.

> Now, I have experienced rejection for having a bad fake name

as

> well. So now I know that among reasons for rejection, I can add

having

> a id which does not sit well with some list moderators.

>

> Well, I am able to post on this list, so that's good at least.

>

> As I meditated on rejection the following thoughts came to me.

>

> I am I,

> in this moment

> where past and future merge.

> The ancient one

> beauty supreme

> seen in the heart alone.

> To know me is to love me.

>

 

 

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

:) do you mean this "me":

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

 

 

> Maharishi Bingo Ram

 

 

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

?

 

and does this love depend on name and form?

 

 

BOOM!!!

yosy

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Dear One,

 

This is an excellent insight indeed! No I am not struggling with rejection

but do see your point. I do have a reason for going by Maharishi Bingo Ram.

Maharishi of course means "The Great Seer". The description fits me well.

Bingo refers to hitting the target. Ram, of course, is a very common Indian

name.

 

By the way, what you said below is very funny.

 

"Beating head against wall and meditating on lumpy heads"

 

Love and Blessings

Maharishi Bingo

 

 

On 11/12/06, souldreamone (AT) aol (DOT) com <souldreamone (AT) aol (DOT) com> wrote:

>

> Well, seeing as how you seem to understand the 'common sense'

> implications of a maharishibingo ID on a forum/Satsang which at least wishes

> to take it's focus on Truth seriously, if not themselves, the actual source

> of the rejection is clearly the one who chooses an image (ID) that is likely

> to be rejected.

>

> You didn't state that you were struggling with this, so I won't assume you

> are. It's just that, from one perspective, it seems an odd game to play:

> create rejection, then question the appropriateness of one's own creation.

>

> Phil

> ::::: Beating head against wall and meditating on lumpy heads ::::

>

>

>

>

>

> In a message dated 11/12/2006 7:25:36 PM Eastern Standard Time,

> maharishibingo writes:

>

> Dear Ones,

>

> I have been rejected many times in many different situations. All of

> us have. We are rejected sometimes because of our religion, skin

> color, politics, the points of view we hold, or even our names and

> form, and how attractive we are or how young we are or how wise we

> are, etc.

>

> Most recently, I was rejected for having a id which the

> moderator did not feel was appropriate to his list. So I am not able

> to post on that particular list. In fact, HS is the only list in which

> I have so far been allowed to post in.

>

> When the moderator (who is a beautiful soul and a fair person)

> informed me that I would be moderated and that if I wished to post I

> should try to get a more ordinary ID, I had to thank him for his good

> advice based on common sense. I blessed the moderator and accepted

> his decision cheerfully.

>

> I used to post as Maharishi Bingo Ram a few years ago. Now I have

> shortened it to Maharishi Bingo. Probably it may be more acceptable to

> some people if I change to just Bingo or just Ram. If you have

> suggestions please let me know.

>

> I have been rejected many times by many people in many situations.

> Now, I have experienced rejection for having a bad fake name as

> well. So now I know that among reasons for rejection, I can add having

> a id which does not sit well with some list moderators.

>

> Well, I am able to post on this list, so that's good at least.

>

> As I meditated on rejection the following thoughts came to me.

>

> I am I,

> in this moment

> where past and future merge.

> The ancient one

> beauty supreme

> seen in the heart alone.

> To know me is to love me.

>

> Maharishi Bingo Ram

>

>

>

 

 

 

--

Love, serve, and be helpful, but without getting disgusted, tired,

pessimistic, and exhausted. Blessings dear souls, blessings!

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Dear One,

 

These are all good questions. Long time ago, when I realized the divine

shining in my heart as myself, I had the great desire to share this beauty

with others. Due to the intensity of my love for love of the heart and

being, that is what I often spoke about and thought about. This attracted

many wonderful people. Whenever, I spoke of this, people responded towards

my form, which although quite ordinary, evidently appeared to them as divine

and sweet.

 

My self-realization was then young. I meditated on this phenomena of love

offerings to me. I saw that the teachings of the heart and pure being are

filtered through karmic personality of the students. It seemed to me that if

I accepted the love offerings, it would dilute the teachings. On the other

hand, staying silent and appearing to reject the love offerings would not be

a compassionate thing to do and may cause hurt feelings.

 

Therefore, I gave my blessings and disappeared. Due to my love, I

periodically reappear to give the pure and ancient teachings of the heart.

 

Love and Blessings

 

 

 

 

 

 

On 11/12/06, yosyx <yosyflug (AT) isdn (DOT) net.il> wrote:

>

>

> ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

> why don't you post under your own, everyday

> name, and simply be yourself? what are you trying

> to hide? and from whom? isn't god ALL names and

> all forms?

>

> :) (another good theme for meditation...)

> ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

>

>

--

Love, serve, and be helpful, but without getting disgusted, tired,

pessimistic, and exhausted. Blessings dear souls, blessings!

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, "Maharishi Bingo"

<maharishibingo wrote:

>

> Dear One,

>

> These are all good questions. Long time ago, when I realized the

divine

> shining in my heart as myself, I had the great desire to share this

beauty

> with others. Due to the intensity of my love for love of the heart

and

> being, that is what I often spoke about and thought about. This

attracted

> many wonderful people. Whenever, I spoke of this, people responded

towards

> my form, which although quite ordinary, evidently appeared to them

as divine

> and sweet.

>

> My self-realization was then young.

 

 

 

 

oh, i see. i thought that self-realization is

birthless, ageless and timeless...

 

 

 

 

I meditated on this phenomena of love

> offerings to me. I saw that the teachings of the heart and pure

being are

> filtered through karmic personality of the students. It seemed to

me that if

> I accepted the love offerings, it would dilute the teachings. On

the other

> hand, staying silent and appearing to reject the love offerings

would not be

> a compassionate thing to do and may cause hurt feelings.

>

> Therefore, I gave my blessings and disappeared.

 

 

 

:) wow! how considerate and compassionate of you! i am

impressed.

 

do you mean that you changed your locality, name and

appearance, or left the "material world" all together?

 

 

 

 

 

 

Due to my love, I

> periodically reappear to give the pure and ancient teachings of the

heart.

 

 

 

:) wow, wow, my impression grows! do you mean that

like krishna the avatar, you assume form in every age;

or do you mean that you simply return, without

disguise and under your old name and appearance, to

teach your blessed students?

 

and what do you do with your love in the meantime?

 

yosy

 

 

 

 

>

> Love and Blessings

>

>

>

>

>

>

> On 11/12/06, yosyx <yosyflug wrote:

> >

> >

> > ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

> > why don't you post under your own, everyday

> > name, and simply be yourself? what are you trying

> > to hide? and from whom? isn't god ALL names and

> > all forms?

> >

> > :) (another good theme for meditation...)

> > ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

> >

> >

> --

> Love, serve, and be helpful, but without getting disgusted, tired,

> pessimistic, and exhausted. Blessings dear souls, blessings!

>

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, "yosyx" <yosyflug wrote:

>

> , "Maharishi Bingo"

> <maharishibingo@> wrote:

> >

> > Dear One,

> >

> > These are all good questions. Long time ago, when I realized the

> divine

> > shining in my heart as myself, I had the great desire to share

this

> beauty

> > with others. Due to the intensity of my love for love of the

heart

> and

> > being, that is what I often spoke about and thought about. This

> attracted

> > many wonderful people. Whenever, I spoke of this, people

responded

> towards

> > my form, which although quite ordinary, evidently appeared to

them

> as divine

> > and sweet.

> >

> > My self-realization was then young.

>

>

>

>

> oh, i see. i thought that self-realization is

> birthless, ageless and timeless...

>

>

>

>

> I meditated on this phenomena of love

> > offerings to me. I saw that the teachings of the heart and pure

> being are

> > filtered through karmic personality of the students. It seemed to

> me that if

> > I accepted the love offerings, it would dilute the teachings. On

> the other

> > hand, staying silent and appearing to reject the love offerings

> would not be

> > a compassionate thing to do and may cause hurt feelings.

> >

> > Therefore, I gave my blessings and disappeared.

>

>

>

> :) wow! how considerate and compassionate of you! i am

> impressed.

>

> do you mean that you changed your locality, name and

> appearance, or left the "material world" all together?

>

>

>

>

>

>

> Due to my love, I

> > periodically reappear to give the pure and ancient teachings of

the

> heart.

>

>

>

> :) wow, wow, my impression grows! do you mean that

> like krishna the avatar, you assume form in every age;

> or do you mean that you simply return, without

> disguise and under your old name and appearance, to

> teach your blessed students?

>

> and what do you do with your love in the meantime?

>

> yosy

>

>

>

>

> >

> > Love and Blessings

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > On 11/12/06, yosyx <yosyflug@> wrote:

> > >

> > >

> > > ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

> > > why don't you post under your own, everyday

> > > name, and simply be yourself? what are you trying

> > > to hide? and from whom? isn't god ALL names and

> > > all forms?

> > >

> > > :) (another good theme for meditation...)

> > > ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

> > >

> > >

> > --

> > Love, serve, and be helpful, but without getting disgusted, tired,

> > pessimistic, and exhausted. Blessings dear souls, blessings!

> >

>

 

 

 

The Shining One

appears in countless ways

in the time that is referred to as

"Now',

in the story that is referred to as

"Mine",

in the unique apparel of the skin

"I" Am in.

 

the names, however, are changed to protect the innocent and those who

are quilty by association. ;-)

 

dum da dum da...LOL

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Rejection is a great thing. It allows one to stand outside the herd

and put things into perspective.

 

Bingo asks for name suggestions. You seem like the blissful sort. How

about Bingananda? Better yet, why not "The Performer Who Was Once

Known As Bingo"?

 

Anyway, maybe its time to stop thinking about yourself and name and

form. And if anyone gives you an offering, take it, give them thanks,

then pass it on to me. Problem solved.

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Dear One,

 

Do you see what I mean? It seems even simply reading my words on the

computer screen leaves you delirious with admiration and awe. Imagine the

blessed condition of those who actually hear the sound vibrations emanating

from lips.

 

You ask good questions but I have no good answers. I am a deep mystery; so

much so that I am even mysterious to myself. I can only be known in the

heart as being.

 

Love and Blessings

 

On 11/12/06, yosyx <yosyflug (AT) isdn (DOT) net.il> wrote:

>

>

> :) wow, wow, my impression grows! do you mean that

> like krishna the avatar, you assume form in every age;

> or do you mean that you simply return, without

> disguise and under your old name and appearance, to

> teach your blessed students?

>

> and what do you do with your love in the meantime?

>

> yosy

>

> >

> >

> >

>

 

--

Love, serve, and be helpful, but without getting disgusted, tired,

pessimistic, and exhausted. Blessings dear souls, blessings!

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Dear One,

 

Thank you for taking the time to make many good suggestions. I like your

offering of Bingananda a lot. Maharishi Bingananda has a good ring to it.

May I keep this in reserve please for the future?

 

A few years ago, my id was Maharishi Bingo Ram. However, due to

prolonged Samadhi states, I forgot the password. Therefore, I had to get a

new id. It took me many repeated attempts at figuring out how the

system works (my state of consciousness makes me unable to focus on

anything for a long time).

 

As far as your suggestion that I stop thinking about my name and form, it is

a very good one but not practical for me. All such efforts are not possible

for me. In my pure enlightened state of being, It does not matter to me if I

think about my name and form or some one else's name and form or go without

thinking all together. Its all the same.

 

Love and Blessings

 

 

 

On 11/13/06, Richard <richarkar > wrote:

>

> Rejection is a great thing. It allows one to stand outside the herd

> and put things into perspective.

>

> Bingo asks for name suggestions. You seem like the blissful sort. How

> about Bingananda? Better yet, why not "The Performer Who Was Once

> Known As Bingo"?

>

> Anyway, maybe its time to stop thinking about yourself and name and

> form. And if anyone gives you an offering, take it, give them thanks,

> then pass it on to me. Problem solved.

>

>

>

 

 

 

--

Love, serve, and be helpful, but without getting disgusted, tired,

pessimistic, and exhausted. Blessings dear souls, blessings!

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In a message dated 11/13/2006 9:06:22 A.M. Pacific Standard Time,

kailashana (AT) cox (DOT) net writes:

 

> >

> > On 11/12/06, yosyx <yosyflug@> wrote:

> > >

> > >

> > > ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

> > > why don't you post under your own, everyday

> > > name, and simply be yourself? what are you trying

> > > to hide? and from whom? isn't god ALL names and

> > > all forms?

> > >

> > > :) (another good theme for meditation...)

> > > ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

> > >

> > >

> > --

> > Love, serve, and be helpful, but without getting disgusted, tired,

> > pessimistic, and exhausted. Blessings dear souls, blessings!

> >

>

 

 

 

The Shining One

appears in countless ways

in the time that is referred to as

"Now',

in the story that is referred to as

"Mine",

in the unique apparel of the skin

"I" Am in.

 

the names, however, are changed to protect the innocent and those who

are quilty by association. ;-)

 

dum da dum da...LOL

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yeah, I've ended a few "associations" cause they made me feel

"quilty".......not a good feeling......kinda squishy and stuff. :)~

 

 

 

 

 

Phil

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, souldreamone wrote:

>

>

> In a message dated 11/13/2006 9:06:22 A.M. Pacific Standard Time,

> kailashana writes:

>

> > >

> > > On 11/12/06, yosyx <yosyflug@> wrote:

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

> > > > why don't you post under your own, everyday

> > > > name, and simply be yourself? what are you trying

> > > > to hide? and from whom? isn't god ALL names and

> > > > all forms?

> > > >

> > > > :) (another good theme for meditation...)

> > > > ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

> > > >

> > > >

> > > --

> > > Love, serve, and be helpful, but without getting disgusted,

tired,

> > > pessimistic, and exhausted. Blessings dear souls, blessings!

> > >

> >

>

>

>

> The Shining One

> appears in countless ways

> in the time that is referred to as

> "Now',

> in the story that is referred to as

> "Mine",

> in the unique apparel of the skin

> "I" Am in.

>

> the names, however, are changed to protect the innocent and those

who

> are quilty by association. ;-)

>

> dum da dum da...LOL

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> Yeah, I've ended a few "associations" cause they made me feel

> "quilty".......not a good feeling......kinda squishy and stuff. :)

~

>

>

>

>

>

> Phil

>

 

 

 

You have? For me it's the other way around. I seem to be the one

thrown out.

 

'Do what you must but never throw anyone out of your heart.

Paraphrased Ram Das.

 

Where could 'you' go????

 

Love,

Anna

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In a message dated 11/14/2006 12:52:28 P.M. Pacific Standard Time,

kailashana (AT) cox (DOT) net writes:

 

, souldreamone wrote:

>

>

> In a message dated 11/13/2006 9:06:22 A.M. Pacific Standard Time,

> kailashana writes:

>

> > >

> > > On 11/12/06, yosyx <yosyflug@> wrote:

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

> > > > why don't you post under your own, everyday

> > > > name, and simply be yourself? what are you trying

> > > > to hide? and from whom? isn't god ALL names and

> > > > all forms?

> > > >

> > > > :) (another good theme for meditation...)

> > > > ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

> > > >

> > > >

> > > --

> > > Love, serve, and be helpful, but without getting disgusted,

tired,

> > > pessimistic, and exhausted. Blessings dear souls, blessings!

> > >

> >

>

>

>

> The Shining One

> appears in countless ways

> in the time that is referred to as

> "Now',

> in the story that is referred to as

> "Mine",

> in the unique apparel of the skin

> "I" Am in.

>

> the names, however, are changed to protect the innocent and those

who

> are quilty by association. ;-)

>

> dum da dum da...LOL

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> Yeah, I've ended a few "associations" cause they made me feel

> "quilty".......not a good feeling......kinda squishy and stuff. :)

~

>

>

>

>

>

> Phil

>

 

 

 

You have? For me it's the other way around. I seem to be the one

thrown out.

 

'Do what you must but never throw anyone out of your heart.

Paraphrased Ram Das.

 

Where could 'you' go????

 

Love,

Anna

 

 

 

 

 

 

It was a joke.....I was......I meant.........Never mind. :(

 

Phil

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, souldreamone wrote:

>

>

> In a message dated 11/14/2006 12:52:28 P.M. Pacific Standard Time,

> kailashana writes:

>

> , souldreamone@ wrote:

> >

> >

> > In a message dated 11/13/2006 9:06:22 A.M. Pacific Standard

Time,

> > kailashana@ writes:

> >

> > > >

> > > > On 11/12/06, yosyx <yosyflug@> wrote:

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > > ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

> > > > > why don't you post under your own, everyday

> > > > > name, and simply be yourself? what are you trying

> > > > > to hide? and from whom? isn't god ALL names and

> > > > > all forms?

> > > > >

> > > > > :) (another good theme for meditation...)

> > > > > ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > --

> > > > Love, serve, and be helpful, but without getting disgusted,

> tired,

> > > > pessimistic, and exhausted. Blessings dear souls, blessings!

> > > >

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> > The Shining One

> > appears in countless ways

> > in the time that is referred to as

> > "Now',

> > in the story that is referred to as

> > "Mine",

> > in the unique apparel of the skin

> > "I" Am in.

> >

> > the names, however, are changed to protect the innocent and

those

> who

> > are quilty by association. ;-)

> >

> > dum da dum da...LOL

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > Yeah, I've ended a few "associations" cause they made me feel

> > "quilty".......not a good feeling......kinda squishy and

stuff. :)

> ~

> >

> >

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> > Phil

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> You have? For me it's the other way around. I seem to be the

one

> thrown out.

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> 'Do what you must but never throw anyone out of your heart.

> Paraphrased Ram Das.

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> Where could 'you' go????

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> Love,

> Anna

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> It was a joke.....I was......I meant.........Never mind. :(

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> Phil

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never mind the mind...;-)

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