To Rohini Ranjan (w/ regards to your answer) - Problems in married life

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> > Dear Rohini Ranjan

> >

> > Thanks so much for a detail analysis.

> > You are right at many things...I do feel that I am paying for old

> > karmic debts. I would like my marriage to work. It's my husband

> who

> > is filing for divorce. I have tried everything to talk to

him..but

> no

> > avail. I will see the 'mother' figure to get involved. I am not

> > sure if my husband s even ready to talk about this issue with any

> > one.

> > Please let me know if you have any advice. Or, if you can

predict

> > anything..(i want to prepare myself for the worst)

> > Thanks

> > Satinder

> >

> >

> >

> > -- In , "Rohiniranjan"

> > <jyotish_vani@> wrote:

> > >

> > > Though in some circles marriage is taken somewhat lightly and

> > > casually, marriage or comparable relationships according to

some

> > can

> > > just not happen willy nilly, even in the case of someone like

> > > Brittany Spears!

> > >

> > > Karmic bonds, writer K.N. Rao wrotes and old debts lead to

> creating

> > > relationships in this lifetime. The negative earlier

> relationships

> > > may manifest as difficult relationships in this lifetime, even

if

> > the

> > > relationship may be of a nature where one generally expects

love

> > and

> > > the best of support, such as in a marriage or equivalent

> > > relationship. There is nothing light and passing about any of

> these

> > > relationships and good or bad, easy or difficult, they last as

> long

> > > as it is needed for the karma to dissipate and the lesson to be

> > > learned!

> > >

> > > When saturn becomes the darakaraka and when it is neecha as in

> your

> > > case, even with cancellation of same, what gets cancelled is

the

> > non-

> > > jeeva attributes of saturn, but the jeeva attributes, spouse in

> > this

> > > case would be considered as an encumberance, in most ways other

> > than

> > > material gains and comfort which please tell me if your

marriage

> > has

> > > made it possible to bring to your life. That kalatrakaraka sits

> > right

> > > on the 8th and 7th pada in the house of gains, with moon the

lord

> > of

> > > nurturing and emotions in the 12th in exaltation and strength,

in

> > > exchange with the lord of 2nd makes one wonder how instrumental

> has

> > > been the matters of raising a family and independence an ISSUE

in

> > > this marriage that you write about. When mars assumes the role

of

> > > atmakaraka and enjoys the company of brilliant mercury, there

is

> > the

> > > tendency for emotions to be not utilized intelligently and

> > intellect

> > > being pushed a bit too harshly, abruptly and militantly!

> > >

> > > If there is a mother involved, particularly yours, then

hopefully

> > she

> > > will step in in a different way after March 2007. Marriage is

on

> > the

> > > rocks until then and is likely to not improve between now and

> then.

> > > There are too many stressors on the marriage and too

> many "outside"

> > > influences -- and not all good or well-intentioned.

> > >

> > > When saturn sits across from the big vacuum house that I call

the

> > > fifth (because it pushes one to draw energy through

imagination,

> > > through creativity and also through infatuations and day-

dreams)

> I

> > > like to caution such nativities. When it comes to decisions

that

> > > involve emotions and particularly when the situation is about

> > > loneliness, real or perceived, it is best to gather some well-

> > > intentioned beings, relatives or friends around and seek

counsel.

> > > When loving planets and strong ones are involved in this

> > > configuration, help arrives from strange quarters, from

> benevolent

> > > beings. However, when the saturn is not appeased or comfortable

> or

> > is

> > > neecha and in the star of ketu, such encounters and beings

cannot

> > be

> > > trusted too much. The strong involvement of the 4th house is

why

> I

> > > ask you to concentrate on seeking help from your mother or a

> mother

> > > figure. Saturn is in ketu's star and ketu is in the fourth

house

> > with

> > > its lord in lagna and in strength with a strong mars who is the

> > > dispositor of saturn.

> > >

> > > This chart speaks of counsel, counsel, counsel -- begin with

your

> > own

> > > mother, seek her help, then failing that seek the help of a

woman

> > > teacher, another mother figure that you trust (ketu generally

> > points

> > > towards an elder sister or maternal uncle's wife etc.).

> > >

> > > Why counsel and logic and communication, as opposed to some

> magical

> > > potion. Let us just say that a little messenger in your chart

> told

> > me!

> > >

> > > Incidentally, about kuja dosha. It is the other partner who

does

> > not

> > > have a kujadosha or does not have an alternative (saturn) to

> cancel

> > > kuja dosha that suffers! Since you are suffering in this case,

we

> > > cannot pin it on the kuja dosha which is not even unchecked!

For

> > > obvious reasons!

> > >

> > > Make the most of the best you can do to understand the

situation

> > and

> > > let the outcome evolve and not for whatever reason pre-

determine

> > the

> > > bottom line (I want a divorce and everything will fall in

place,

> or

> > > my second love will be all wonderful and everything will be

hunky

> > > dory) and then work your life around that improperly thought

> about

> > or

> > > imposed bottom line!

> > >

> > > I hope you get some meaningful pointers out of this message.

Good

> > > luck and do not take things lightly.

> > > think them through!

> > >

> > > RR

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > , "newzade1" <newzade1@>

> > > wrote:

> > > >

> > > > I would be greatly thankful if someone could anyone provide

> some

> > > > readings for me?

> > > > I am going through separation in my marriage. Will I gget

> > divorce?

> > > If

> > > > so, will

> > > > I remaary? and when?

> > > >

> > > > my TOB : 4:30 AM

> > > > gender: female

> > > > DOB- Jule 22, 1968

> > > > place of birth : New delhi

> > > >

> > > > Thanks

> > > >

> > >

> >

>