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Dear Group,

I recently took my PhD qualifying exam and

everyone

on the committee agreed to pass me except my own advisor. She is requiring some

extra

work on my part. She has also very unfairly scored my performance very low. I

find it sadthat my own advisor is doing this. I am fearful about the future of

my PhD.

Please help

me.

A little about me in case it is needed: I am currently a PhD student and I am

doing research

in a biomedical

related field. Ever since 2000 I have I had a very

difficult time in my studies and have not studied

properly or received good results. I have had pretty

serious problems with authority figures and I suffer

from lack of self confidence. Often I find myself in

situations where I am being treated unfairly and taken

advantage of.

After much struggle I got this admission into the PhD program in April

2004. If you could offer me any advice, guidance or

suggestions on how I can make myself and more

stronger person and get through these times I would

really appreciate it. My advisor is also threatening to hinder my progress and I

am very

scared. A few people have actually suggested that I take legal action. But I

know they are

just angry with the way I am being treated.

Will I be able to get my PhD? If so when? My birth details are December

13, 1980 time 9:00am place Long Beach California USA.

 

Significant events: I am not married,I have a younger brother born Dec

8th, 1986

I Moved away

from home August 2002. Got admission into PhD in April 2004. Knee

surgery at 13

years

of age.

Thanks for all your help.

Sincerely,

Seema

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Seema,

 

Period after August 2007 is better for higher education related

matters. Next several months are not good for picking up fights or

getting involved in legal battles or confrontations with your teachers

(and equivalents).

 

You are being perceived by those in power as a person who is

'negative', does not work 'sharply' -- intelligently or hard and lacks

confidence. You are also perceived as someone who bad mouths others

and all of these impressions, rightly or wrongly have created

problems. Please see if there is anything you can do to reverse the

situation or to improve it at least. You should improve on your

networking skills a bit more. After Ph.D. will come job interviews and

references would be needed and if you do not make changes in how you

express yourself or are perceived by others, particularly in positions

of power, these issues and miseries will continue on and on.

 

Also check with your parents to get a better sense about your

birthtime. Could it be possible that you were born a few minutes after

9 AM?

 

RR

 

vedic astrology, "Seema" <seema1263 wrote:

>

> Dear Group,

> I recently took my PhD qualifying exam and

> everyone

> on the committee agreed to pass me except my own advisor. She is

requiring some

> extra

> work on my part. She has also very unfairly scored my performance

very low. I

> find it sadthat my own advisor is doing this. I am fearful about the

future of

> my PhD.

> Please help

> me.

> A little about me in case it is needed: I am currently a PhD student

and I am

> doing research

> in a biomedical

> related field. Ever since 2000 I have I had a very

> difficult time in my studies and have not studied

> properly or received good results. I have had pretty

> serious problems with authority figures and I suffer

> from lack of self confidence. Often I find myself in

> situations where I am being treated unfairly and taken

> advantage of.

> After much struggle I got this admission into the PhD program in April

> 2004. If you could offer me any advice, guidance or

> suggestions on how I can make myself and more

> stronger person and get through these times I would

> really appreciate it. My advisor is also threatening to hinder my

progress and I

> am very

> scared. A few people have actually suggested that I take legal

action. But I

> know they are

> just angry with the way I am being treated.

> Will I be able to get my PhD? If so when? My birth details are December

> 13, 1980 time 9:00am place Long Beach California USA.

>

> Significant events: I am not married,I have a younger brother born Dec

> 8th, 1986

> I Moved away

> from home August 2002. Got admission into PhD in April 2004. Knee

> surgery at 13

> years

> of age.

> Thanks for all your help.

> Sincerely,

> Seema

>

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