Discipleship, Hinduism, and Eating habits- to all family

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Namaste

 

Wednesday night, during Gita study at the Mandir, I asked Swami, to

discuss conflicts between a devotee and their family and loved ones.

His response was inspiring. I hope everyone can visit the web site,

www.shreemaa.org and listen to Chapter 16 of Gita study when it is

posted and archived Thursday.

 

Swami says all of us have experienced conflicts with loved ones

regarding our spiritual path. They don't understand and feel hurt or

angry that we don't do things the way want us to, or, the way that

they raised us to think.

Swami's formula for success: be strong, loving, compassionate, and

enter into their homes with love and joy and serve them. Demonstrate

your love for them, and thank them for their love and support for you.

Because, in our tradition, we greatly honor the sacrifices and

guidance that they have made for us. We would not be where we are if

it was not for their sacrifices and love.

 

So, do not cring and hide away in a corner, or, try to demonstrate

that your way is better than theirs. Just love them and show that

love in every way possible. Try to demonstrate to your parents that

you have imbibed the most important traits they taught you: to analyze

and make decisions for your highest good, and then, to stand by them.

To live the life that you have chosen, free from fear, strong,

courageous, loving, compassionate, and certain that this is the best

path for your life.

 

Also, stay true to yourself. Do not be confused or hurt or become

angry with them. Stay in your heart and love them. It is a sadhana

in itself.

 

Eventually they will relax and feel better. It may take a long time,

but there is no other way to accomplish this goal.

 

Please e mail me any questions on this topic and I will ask Swami for

help.

 

Jai Ma Jai Swami

 

love

 

vishweshwar